Where Jesus Finds Us

When I was in my early twenties, I had very little interest in the church. I was skeptical, a little cynical, and not particularly looking for anything it might offer.

Then a small Methodist congregation on the Outer Banks of North Carolina reached out to me with an unexpected gift of hospitality. No strings attached. No pressure to attend their services. Just: we want to help. It's what we do.

I was skeptical. But I was also curious. And over time I started showing up. And over time I began to see the church for what it actually was — not what I had imagined it to be.

I began to notice people living beautiful lives. Not perfect lives — but lives marked by genuine attempts at compassion, grace, and forgiveness. And as I watched them, I began to make connections I had never made before. I thought of my grandfather — his deep sense of peace, his tremendous love of life despite not having a lot of 

money. I thought of my friend Billy Rutledge, a high school teacher who spent his evenings and weekends mentoring young people — going to their soccer games, their plays, their youth groups — not for extra compensation, but because he felt he had something to offer.

Looking back now, I know what I was seeing. That is Jesus at work in ordinary people. That is what the living water looks like when it flows through a human life.

In John's gospel, Jesus tells a Samaritan woman — an outsider, someone his culture had written off entirely — "If you knew the gift of God... you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water." (John 4:10) He meets her exactly where she is. No prerequisites. No cleaned-up life required. Just an invitation to something deeper.

I wonder where Jesus has met you along the way. Often it happens at turning points — moments of loss, of transition, of unexpected openness. And more often than not, he arrives through another person. Someone who simply showed up. Someone who offered what they had.

Who has been that person for you? And who might be waiting for you to be that person for them?

Prayer: Loving God, we thank you that you meet us where we are — not where we think we should be. We thank you for the people you have placed along our path who have carried your grace without even knowing it. Open our eyes to see where you are at work around us. And make us willing to be that presence for someone else. We ask in Jesus' name. Amen.

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