Growing From Mistakes

Over the years I have kept much of the feedback I have received as a pastor – both good and bad. I do glance back over it from time to time. I look at the positive correspondence when I need a lift, when I need to be reminded of why I do what I do. The negative stuff reminds me to be humble, and that there is always room for improvement. Sometimes in seeing my failures, I can also see how they contributed to my growth.

As a pastor, I’ve noticed that some people have a hard time with criticism – even constructive feedback. Don’t get me wrong, it’s never pleasant at first. And, it’s true that some people are just bitter and angry and take that out on others. It is also true that people can be mistaken, they can get it wrong. But sometimes, if we sit with the feedback long enough, there is something to learn – some kernel of truth that can help us grow.

I pray that when you receive criticism, you would hang on to it a while. Give it a second thought, and try to see what is at the heart of it. Then, if there is nothing to it, lift up in prayer the person who shared it with you, and then let it go. But, if there is something to learn, give thanks.

Let us pray: Loving God, it is hard to look at our own mistakes and failures. It is hard to acknowledge that we are not perfect. We remember today that we are human and that there is always room to grow and learn. We ask for both insight and grace, and we thank you that in spite of our flaws and imperfections, you love us still. What a gift! Amen.