The Power of Encouragement

The Power of Encouragement

Rev. John Braaten tells of Douglas Maurer, a teenager from Missouri diagnosed with leukemia. The prognosis was grim. Facing three years of chemo and side effects like hair loss and bloating, Douglas sank into depression.

His aunt ordered him flowers. But the real gift came not from her card, but from a second one:  “Douglas, I took this order from your aunt. I had leukemia when I was seven. I’m 22 now. Good luck. My heart goes out to you. — Laura Bradley”

Douglas lit up. 

It is amazing. Douglas was in a hospital that had the most up-to-date technological equipment available. He was being treated by doctors and nurses with years of medical training. But it was the sales clerk in a flower shop – a young woman – who by taking the time to care, and by being willing to listen to her own heart, gave Douglas the hope and will to carry on.

Perhaps God has carried you through an experience of brokenness, or failure, or illness in your life. Perhaps someone came along and said just the right thing or gently encouraged you at just the right time.  I wonder if you might be able to do the same for others.

Let us pray: Thank you, God, for those who came into our lives when we needed them most. May we carry that gift forward and be a source of hope for others. Amen.

Power Beyond Us

Power Beyond Us

There’s a story about a school in Washington State that faced a unique problem. Apparently, a number of 12-year-old girls were beginning to use lipstick and would apply it in the bathroom. After putting it on, they would press their lips to the mirror, leaving dozens of little lip prints. Every night, the maintenance man would clean the glass, but the next day the girls would inevitably do it again.

Finally, the principal decided something had to be done. She called all the girls to the bathroom and explained that they were causing a major problem for the custodian. To demonstrate how difficult it was to clean the mirrors, she asked him to show the girls. The custodian proceeded to take out a long-handled squeegee, dip it in the toilet, and clean the mirror with it. As you can imagine, ever since that day, there have been no lip prints on the mirror!

When we face situations that seem impossible, a little ingenuity and creativity can go a long way. God gave us intelligence, fortitude, and imagination—tools we can use to pull ourselves up out of desperate situations.

But we can only take that so far because sometimes we can’t. There are times when we realize how fragile life is when we realize we really don’t have as much control as we’d like to think. If you’ve ever lost someone close to you too young or faced the injustice of cancer, or if you remember what it felt like on 9/11/2001, then you know that there are situations in which no amount of creativity or ingenuity or self-will can save us. 

However, the good news of our faith is that there is a strength, a hope, and a power that is beyond us. We worship a God who makes a way through the wilderness, a God who rescues, a God who redeems, a God who brings life even out of death. 

I pray that when you find yourself in difficult—even heart-wrenching—situations, when your own creativity and strength are exhausted, you will draw upon the power and presence of the living God we know in Jesus.

Let us pray:  Giver of Hope, we thank you that we do not walk alone. We thank you that we don’t have to carry the weight of the world on our shoulders. We thank you that we can cast our cares on you and depend on you. We also thank you for those who walk beside us. We pray today for all who are desperately in need of your grace and presence. We pray in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Amen.

Seeds of Eternity

Seeds of Eternity

MaryAnn McKibben Dana writes about the L’Arche communities. L’Arche nurtures people with mental disabilities and their caregivers so that, together, they can live in dignity. Their founder once said, “This kind of community is only… created when its members accept that they are not going to achieve great things, that they are not going to be heroes.” He went on to say, “God put in a finite body the seeds of eternity, which are visible in small and daily gestures of love and forgiveness.”

The seeds of eternity are visible in small and daily gestures of love and forgiveness.

Mother Teresa once said, “We can do no great things, only small things with great love. It’s not how much you do, but how much love you put into doing it.”

Author Shane Claiborne lives in an intentional Christian community in inner-city Philadelphia, where they share much of their ministry with the urban poor and homeless. They often have people stop by their house to ask for help. As you can imagine, sometimes that gets old. So, they put a sign above the door that can be read only from the inside: “Today… small things with great love, or don’t answer the door.” 

Small things… with great love.

Let us pray:  Loving God, we remember that Jesus said the kingdom of God is like a mustard seed. It starts small and inconspicuous. It began in a manger, in an impoverished backwater of the Roman Empire, and it spreads through tiny seeds of compassion, healing, love, and hospitality. For those who have eyes to see, it is already here—happening quietly, behind the scenes. Give us eyes to notice, and a willing spirit to join in. Amen.

No Easy Path

No Easy Path

In Everybody’s Normal Until You Get to Know Them, John Ortberg describes porcupines.  He makes the point that porcupines have around 30,000 quills attached to their bodies. Each quill can be driven into an enemy, and the enemy’s body heat will cause the microscopic barb to expand and become more firmly embedded. The wounds can fester. The more dangerous wounds, affecting vital organs, can be fatal.

“The porcupine is not generally regarded as a lovable animal,” Ortberg writes. “As a general rule, porcupines have two methods for handling relationships: withdrawal and attack. They either head for a tree or stick out their quills. They are generally solitary animals.”

People can be a little like porcupines, can’t we?

Even in close relationships, we sometimes hurt others—retreating or lashing out.

In his letter to the Philippians, the Apostle Paul asks this early church to consider what following Jesus might look like. He writes: 

“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves. Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others. Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus…”

This is no easy path. But imagine how our relationships would flourish if we were able to follow it even a little more often.

Let us pray:  Gracious God, help us shed our quills. Teach us to love with humility and compassion. Shape us into the likeness of your Son, in whose name we pray. Amen.

The Middles

The Middles

Every summer, our youth spend a week up in the mountains of Montreat, North Carolina – at a conference geared just for them. Every year the worship is incredible. Friendships are built. Relationships are deepened. The energy is tremendous. They are quite literally having a mountain top experience. At these high points in life, we often do sense God’s presence. 

You probably have had moments in life like that – maybe on a spiritual retreat, or at the birth of a baby, or at a Christmas concert, or in a breathtaking corner of creation. However, the truth is, so much of life is not lived there. We come down from those highs, we go back to school, back to work. There are dishes to do, laundry to fold, problems to deal with… Life is lived in the middles where God’s presence is often not so evident.  

But God does meet us there as well. It is not always in a blaze of fire, or at a spiritual high. Sometimes God meets us in the quiet moments of prayer or silence, sometimes in conversation with others, or in simple acts of hospitality.

I pray today that in the middles of life, our hearts would ever be attuned. Especially in the less obvious moments, may we be open to the in-breaking of God’s Spirit. 

Let us pray: In our everyday life, O God, give us eyes perceptive enough to sense your presence. Infuse us with your grace, joy, and hope – even when we least expect it. Draw us now closer to you. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Assurance of Help

Assurance of Help

Todays message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Psalm 121 is one of my favorites. “l will lift up mine eyes unto the hills from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord who made heaven and earth.” In THE MESSAGE, Eugene Peterson translates Psalm 121 this way: “l look up to the mountains. Does my strength come from the mountains? No, my strength comes from God, who made heaven and earth, and mountains.” 

The young boy sat in the waiting lounge of the airport. When the flight was called the boy was ushered on first. When I boarded the plane I was pleased to discover that he had the seat next to mine. He was polite in his greeting and then went on coloring one of those coloring books airlines provide for child passengers. Humming happily, he didn’t seem to have a care in the world. During the flight, we ran into some turbulence that bounced the jetliner around like a kite in the wind. A woman seated across the aisle from the young man became very frightened. When she spoke to the boy, her voice was agitated. “Little boy, aren’t you scared?” “No, Ma’am,” he replied, briefly looking up from his coloring book. “My dad’s the pilot.” I leaned back in my seat and thought about this little boy who trusted his dad. Did I trust God that way to get me through the storms of life? Yes, and I silently thanked him. He’ll get you through today and onto his plan for you. Trust him. Trust his plan for your life. E. Stanley Jones reminds us, “l don’t know what the future holds, but I know who holds the future.” Friend of Dial Hope, that is the good news for today. TA-DA! 

Let us pray: God of love, help us to say with the Psalmist, “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” In times of need, you are always there. Thank you. We love you. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Trust… with All Your Heart

Trust… with All Your Heart

Several years ago, I was struck by a poster hanging in one of the children’s Sunday school rooms at the church where I was serving. On the poster, there was a picture of a white water raft full of people racing down the face of an enormous waterfall. You can see the look of intensity on the faces of the rafters. They have their paddles raised out of the water and have clearly given up on trying to guide or control the situation. 

The caption reads, “Trust in the Lord with all Your Heart.” Proverbs 3:5

Now, I love white water rafting, and part of me would love to be there in that raft with the adrenaline flowing. But my initial thought was: Is it fair to put ourselves in situations that are dangerous and in places that God did not intend for us to be, and then cry out, “God help me?”  

On second thought though, sometimes in life, we do find ourselves in difficult, confusing, scary circumstances – with white water raging all around us. We all have moments when all of a sudden we realize that there is nothing we can do to guide or control the situation. And, whether we’ve brought it on ourselves or not, we simply have to surrender and trust that we are in God’s hands.   

I don’t know what you may be facing in life. But I pray today that in whatever circumstance surround you, however, they came about, that you would know in the deepest part of your being, that you can place your trust in the Lord. 

Let us pray: Loving God, You are our shepherd, we shall not want. Help us to trust you. You lead us beside still waters, so give us hearts that can be lead. You restore our souls. And, we thank you that beyond the danger, beyond the troubled waters, you bring healing.  We pray especially today for people who are in dangerous situations and others who feel they are beyond their ability to cope. We ask for your protection, your strength, and your guidance. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

A Beautiful Witness

A Beautiful Witness

Back in 2015, our hearts were broken when we heard the news about our sisters and brothers in Christ whose lives were taken while they were in prayer at Emmanuel AME Church in Charleston, South Carolina. It was a cowardly act of violence against innocent people—and an act born out of racial hatred.

Yet what amazed me was the response from that congregation. Their witness to the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ was truly inspiring.

Nadine Collier, daughter of 70-year-old victim Ethel Lance, said to the killer, “You took something very precious away from me. I will never talk to her again. I will never be able to hold her again. But I forgive you. And have mercy on your soul.”

Bethane Middleton-Brown, sister of another victim, said, “I acknowledge that I am very angry, but [my sister] taught me that we are the family that love built. We have no room for hating.”

That kind of love and forgiveness—as hard as it is to offer—diffuses hatred. It stops it in its tracks. It allows the family and friends to grieve with dignity and peace.

Jesus taught his followers to pray, “Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us.”

Let us pray:  God of hope, we don’t understand how or why something like this would happen, or why violence like this continues to happen. Why the hatred? We continue to pray for the families and friends of those who have lost their lives to senseless gun violence. Even as our hearts break with them, we pray for our country. We ask for wisdom and unity among our leaders to help solve this ongoing crisis. And we ask that your Spirit would be at work to heal and make us whole again. Amen.

Remade

Remade

Today, I am deeply grateful for those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. So many people benefit from your giving!

M.H. Schubert shares the story of a group of fishermen in the Scottish Highlands who regularly gathered for tea and discussed the day’s catch. As the waitress brought a cup of tea to the table, one of the men accidentally knocked it out of her hand. It splashed against the wall, leaving an ugly stain. Noticing what had happened, one of the other guests took out a crayon and began sketching around the stain. Unbelievably, a beautiful piece of art emerged—a picture of a stag with magnificent antlers. The artist, as it turns out, was Sir Edwin Landseer, one of England’s most well-respected painters.

Schubert made the point that if an artist can transform an unsightly stain into a beautiful masterpiece, think about what God can do with our past mistakes and failures.

It is true. We worship a God who wastes nothing.

Sometimes we despair over our past. Sometimes we can’t let go of mistakes we’ve made or events that happened to us. Sometimes it might feel as though we have wasted months or years. Or we find ourselves in a situation that seems meaningless.

But if we are open to it—if we’re willing to learn from it, to grow from it (sometimes making amends, sometimes letting go of anger or bitterness or blame, sometimes simply letting go and trusting)—God will pick up the broken pieces and use this experience, this brokenness, in unexpected and sometimes even beautiful ways.

Let us pray: Loving and gracious God, take our mistakes and our failures of the past. As we lay them down before you, we ask you to heal us, strengthen us, and refashion us more and more into your image. Amen.

You Are Somebody!

You Are Somebody!

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

To the multitude thronging Jesus, the woman who touched His clothes was a nobody. But to Jesus, she was a person—someone of value. He stopped, looked around, and said, “Somebody has touched me.” Christ individualized the woman’s touch and brought healing to her body.

This is not just a Bible story—something that happened 2,000 years ago. God’s Word is in the now. It is as fresh and up-to-date as the newspaper. Jesus is as real now as He was then. God looks upon you and your needs with the most personal concern, recognizing you as His creation.

God never made anybody to be a nobody. He made everybody to be a somebody. It is humankind who depersonalizes you—who looks upon you as a cog in a machine, a number, a part of the great mass of humanity. Jesus knows what you are going through, and He cares. You too can reach out with your faith and receive a great touch of new life into your being. To God, you are a unique and special individual of value. You are somebody. You are a child of God. And remember: God loves you. God loves you.

Let us pray:  God of grace and glory, we acknowledge that no one is an island unto themselves. We are our brothers’ and sisters’ keepers. As a human family, we are interrelated. Sometimes we forget that Christ died for each of us—and that all His children are of infinite worth. Thank you, Lord, for your wrap-around love. In Jesus’ name. Amen.