The Gift Freedom

The Gift of Freedom

The Apostle Paul once wrote, “For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for self-indulgence, but through love become servants to one another. For the whole law is summed up in a single commandment, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” (Galatians 5:13-14)

Today all across America we are going to the polls to vote. I hope you have voted or will vote today. It is a beautiful thing to live in a country where we have the freedom to vote for our leaders. Please don’t take that freedom for granted. 

My friend Roger Kunkel used to encourage us to ask ourselves, “If everyone were the same kind of citizen I am, what kind of country would we live in?” 

May we be the kind of citizens who use our freedom to make this country and this world a better place. In spite of our political differences help us to listen deeply to one another. Where we disagree with one another – may we do so in a spirit of love.

Let us pray: Most Gracious God, we come before you today with deep gratitude. We thank you that we live in a country where we are free to worship you, free to love and serve others, free to live and work where we please. We thank you also that you have set us free to live by your grace. Help us to use our freedom to join your kingdom work of spreading love, mercy, forgiveness, hope and justice. 

We pray today, especially for the next president of the United States. Whoever that may be, we humbly ask your divine blessing on him or her. Give them your wisdom, and fill them with your Spirit. Use this person, and us as a nation, as an instrument of your peace, mercy, and love. In Christ’ name we pray. Amen.

Living Sacrifice

Living Sacrifice

St. Paul writes to the church in Rome: “I appeal to you therefore, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.” (Romans 12:1)

Sacrifice is not a concept we like to talk about much these days. Even though our country was built on it; even though our faith is centered on the cross which embodies it (literally) and demands it. 

In this day and age, it seems personal freedom is valued about above all else. It becomes so quickly all about me, my needs, my rights…  Just as an example –  when a close family member shared that he wanted to be a part of a clinical trial for a vaccine – my initial thought was: Wait – that’s way too risky for you… Let someone else do that! 

What we so often lose sight of, is that it is precisely in the sacrifice that true community is made possible. It is precisely in the sacrifice – whether it is the surrender of our own ego and pride (which is hard enough!) or the setting aside of our rights for the sake of others – or the giving of more that we can afford, that deeper peace and meaning are found. And, it is precisely in our sacrifice that Christ’s body is made tangible in the world.

I know I’ve shared this with you many times, but one of my favorite writings is from St. Teresa of Avila. She put it this way: 

Christ has no body but yours,
No hands, no feet on earth but yours,
Yours are the eyes with which He looks (with)
Compassion on this world,
Yours are the feet with which He walks to do good,
Yours are the hands, with which He blesses all the world.
Yours are the hands, yours are the feet,
Yours are the eyes, you are Christ’s body.

Not just in a building, but out there in the world.

Let us pray: Gracious God, in Christ we see your sacrificial love for us. Help us give to others as we have received from you. We ask in Jesus name. Amen.

What I Gave I Have

What I Gave I Have

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Listen to this profound epitaph found on an English gravestone: “What I kept, I lost. What I spent, I had. What I gave, I have.” 

Friend of Dial Hope, as you well know, the art of keeping isn’t all bad. There will always be secrets to keep, treasures to store, and memories to hold tightly. But some of us keep compulsively; we keep, keep, keep. We are hoarders. Although we keep actual objects, we lose the joy of possession. In spending, we no longer withhold or hide something. 

This epitaph closes by reminding us that when we leave life, we only have what we gave and shared in love and trust. And this is one of life’s most difficult lessons to learn. Yet learn it you must, if you want a full life. When our lives come to the end, we will realize that we are the sum of our gifts – gifts of joy, gifts of time, gifts of dissent, gifts of comfort – all our gifts. We are not the sum of our possessions. We are not the sum of our accomplishments. We are finally the sum of our gifts. The persons I most respect are givers and not takers. Let’s hear it for generosity and gratitude. 

Let us pray: Extravagant God, you have given the ultimate gift, the gift of your Son, Jesus Christ. We thank you for the gift of friendship with Jesus. Now help us to embrace each day as a gift, something sacred and special; a day to play with children, visit an older person, hug a friend; a day to do something generous and kind. Surprise us now with your joy and grace in unexpected places. Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. 

Even in the Midst of the Storm…

Even in the Midst of the Storm…

Several years ago now, I remember helping some friends clean up after Hurricane Irma swept through North East Florida. It was heartbreaking to go back into the same homes that had been flooded by Hurricane Matthew just the year before. We removed wet drywall and soggy insulation, carried out appliances that had been floating, and collected personal items destroyed by the water.  The same neighborhoods once again looked like war zones, and the exhaustion was easily read on my friend’s faces.

And yet at the same time it was moving to me to see neighbors coming together. Church groups offering to cut down limbs and help carry heavy items. Strangers handing out water and food. Others stopping by to lend a hand. It just reminded me that even in the midst of devastation and suffering we can find beauty, strength and goodness.  

We saw much of the same thing in the early stages of the pandemic – neighbors looking out for neighbors… Churches looking out for strangers… 

I know this has been happening all over the Southeast as folks try to recover from hurricanes Helene and Milton.

And it gives me great hope.

One of my favorite Psalms is Psalm 46. In that Psalm we read:

God is our refuge and strength,
a very present help in trouble.

Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change,
though the mountains shake in the heart of the sea;

Let us pray: We thank you, O God, that even in the midst of the storm, we can see your love at work. We pray today for all of those affected by the recent hurricanes. We lift up to you those who have lost friends and loved ones; and who are trying to put their lives back together. Be near to all who are suffering and hurting today.  We ask all of this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Let the Light Shine Through

Let the Light Shine Through

There is a story about a young boy who attended church with his grandfather on Sunday. The church had beautiful stained-glass windows, and Grandpa told his grandson that the windows contained pictures of Saint Matthew, Saint Mark, Saint Luke, Saint John, and Saint Paul, along with many other saints.

When they got home, the boy told Mom and Dad all about it. Dad, curious about what his son had learned, asked, “What is a saint?” The boy thought for a minute And then replied, “A saint is a somebody the light shines through.”

You know, that really is a great definition of a saint: somebody who the light shines through.  And it raises the question: who are your saints? Who are the people in your life who have let – or who still do let the light of God shine through them for you to see?

And, maybe more importantly, who in your life might look to you as a saint? Is God’s light shining through you – for others?

Let us pray: We thank you, O God, for the people in our lives who show us your love, mercy and grace. May we – in our own lives – allow your light to shine through us – that we would be a blessing to others and to you. Amen.

Where the Light Shines Through

Where the Light Shines Through

I was recently reading something about Dr. Rachel Naomi Remen related to using the technique of art therapy for people who have experienced great loss. Apparently, she spent some time helping a twenty-four-year-old young man who had to have one of his legs amputated to stop the spread of bone cancer. This young man was angry and bitter. For a long time, he couldn’t seem to look beyond his disability. 

Eventually, Dr. Remen was able to help him come to grips with his emotions and to let go of his disappointment. As he recovered, she also encouraged him to reach out and help others – to turn from an inward self-centered focus – to an outward focus. He began to visit others with physical disabilities and to share his own story with them. 

One day this young man visited a young woman who had just been operated on for breast cancer. She was suffering from deep depression. Her room was silent, except for some music playing by her bed. He couldn’t seem to get through to her in his usual manner, so he tried something different. He suddenly took off his artificial leg and began dancing around the room on his one good leg. The woman began laughing. She said, “Ok if you can dance, I can sing.”  And she did. 

About a year after the young man’s turnaround, he sat down with Dr. Remen to wrap up his therapy. At one point, they looked over the artwork and discussed how his views of life had changed. One picture expressed it beautifully. The young man, when asked to draw a picture of his body, had at first drawn a vase with an ugly, jagged crack running down the middle. This crack represented all the anger, and bitterness he felt after he lost his leg. He had seen himself as broken and therefore useless.

 But now as the young man looked at the picture, he knew it no longer represented how he felt. He took a yellow crayon and drew vibrant yellow streamers pouring from the crack in the vase. Then he explained, “You see here, where it is broken, this is where the light shines through.” 

Friend of Dial Hope, I don’t know all of the brokenness and hurt that you may be feeling today. But I do know this: that every one of you has been through difficult moments in life.  You have felt this brokenness. 

The promise of the gospel, however, is that we worship a God who brings light out of darkness; and hope out of despair. And so often what we find is that when we turn back to help others, it is precisely through our own past heartache and brokenness and even failures that God’s light shines the brightest. 

Let us pray: God of Grace, help us to trust you with our needs. And empower us to help others. As we have been blessed, so may we be a blessing. In Christ’s name. Amen.

Changes Along the Journey

Changes Along the Journey

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Lilian Carter, the mother of Jimmy Carter once said, “Every time I think I’m getting old, and gradually going to the grave, something else happens.” 

It is so true – life is filled with delightful detours, if we are looking for them. Some changes of pace just happen to us; others we create along the way.  In either case, the lives of alert, awake, flexible humans display creative change. As someone noted, “Happiness is the art of making a bouquet of flowers right around you.”

Let us pray: “I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills from whence cometh my help. My help comes from the Lord who made heaven and earth.” God of love, we know in our bones that you are there, even when our bones are aching from loneliness or disease. We know in our minds that you are the center of our lives, even when our heads hurt from trying to figure out what to do next. We know in our hearts that you are love, even when we feel that love has vanished from our lives. We know in our souls that you have made us and shaped us for a reason, even when our inner core feels empty and devoid of purpose. Lord, spread your mantle of comfort and grace over those who are hurting this day. Fill our hearts now with contagious enthusiasm, joy, and hope as we partner with you to make this day a masterpiece. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Created to Be Free

Created to Be Free

I heard a story recently about Nelson Mandela. Apparently, there was a time when he met with former President Bill Clinton. Clinton asked him a rather pointed question: “When you were released from prison, Mr. Mandela, I woke my daughter at three o’clock in the morning. I wanted her to see this historic event. As you marched from the cellblock across the yard to the gate of the prison, the camera focused in on your face. I have never seen such anger, and even hatred in any man as was expressed on your face at that time. That’s not the Nelson Mandela I know today. What was that about?”

Mandela answered, “I regret that the cameras caught my anger. As I walked across the courtyard that day I thought to myself, ‘They’ve taken everything from you that matters. Your cause is dead. Your family is gone. Your friends have been killed. Now they’re releasing you, but there’s nothing left for you out there.’ And I hated them for what they had taken from me. Then, I sensed an inner voice saying to me, ‘Nelson! For twenty-seven years you were their prisoner, but you were always a free man! Don’t allow them to make you into a free man, only to turn you into their prisoner!’”

We can never be free as long as we carry around hate. We can never be free as long as we carry around bitterness. And we can never be free as long we hold on to old grudges, hurts, and wrongs.  God didn’t create us to carry that stuff around. God created us to be free. 

In a very real sense, forgiveness isn’t just about other people – it’s about us. 

Let us pray: Loving God, may your Spirit fall gently upon us and empower us to forgive and let go, so that our souls may be set free. Amen. 

In the Very Pouring Out

In the Very Pouring Out

One of my pastor friends has a pretty powerful call story. There was a time late in his college life when he struggled profoundly with the meaninglessness of life. It got to the point that he began to despair of life itself. He was not a Christian at this time.

Then one Sunday morning, somehow, someway, God led him to get out of bed and drag himself into a church. But what is really significant, is that when God touched his heart again, it was not at a point in the service where he felt like he was being fed – but where he felt like he was being challenged. It actually happened during the singing of an old African American Spiritual – the choir and the congregation were all singing – I’m gonna live so God can use me – anywhere Lord, anytime… I’m gonna live so God can use me…

It was not that God was just saying, Ok son, I’m going to heal you. I’m going to make you whole. I’m going to provide for you or protect you. No. No. There was far more. God spoke to his heart and said,  I’m calling you to give your life away – to pour out your life for others… And in that very act of pouring out, you are going to find deep meaning and hope.

It’s a little bit counterintuitive, isn’t it? But my friend will tell you that he has found, as many others have, that it is true. In giving we receive.

Maybe that’s what Jesus meant when he said, “For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it..” (Matthew 16:25)

Let us pray: God of Hope, meet us again this day at the deepest point of our need. Fill us with your Spirit and empower us to pour our lives out for others in need. And as we do, may we find your healing grace. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Letter of Thanks

Letter of Thanks

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Today I want to suggest an exciting idea – I want you to try giving yourself away. 

I once knew a man who suffered a nervous breakdown, during which he sat for months in gloom and mental darkness. One day I suggested he try to turn off his dark, depressing thoughts by practicing thanksgiving. I said, “Start thinking of people who greatly helped you in your life.”

So, he wrote an elderly school teacher, Miss Elaine Smith, who had been a positive influence on his life. A reply came, written in the shaky handwriting of an aged lady. “Dear Willy,” she wrote, “When I read your letter I was blinded by tears, for I remember you as a boy, and as I think of you now I see you as a little fellow in my class. You have warmed my old heart. I taught school for fifty years. Yours is the first letter of thanks I ever received from a student, and I shall cherish it until I die.” 

Friend of Dial Hope, writing a letter of thanks – a project like that – may involve taking a little time – but it’s an opportunity to give a little of yourself, and really that’s the best you can give. Strangely, when you give yourself, you find yourself. 

Let us pray: God of hope, we come to you when our hope is vanquished, and our faith is small. We come to you when the promise of the “good life” has been found lacking, when clothes and cuisine, cars, and cappuccinos become insufficient nourishment for the hunger of the human spirit. We come to you because we have nowhere else to go. O God, save us from ourselves; from self-indulgence, and self-idolization. Heal us from the sickness of the body but even more from the sickness of the soul. May we get caught up in the current of your compassion, the flood of your forgiveness and so lose ourselves in the wide ocean of your love. In the name of the risen Christ. Amen.