Looking Towards a New Future

Looking Towards a New Future

There is a funny story about a man who always brought donuts to work. Every day, he stopped at the store to pick up a dozen donuts. Every day was the same. Every day he would eat one or two on the way in and shared the rest with his co-workers. One day, after the first of the year, he told his colleagues he had sworn off donuts. “I’ve got to take better care of myself,” he said, “No more donuts.” The co-workers all gave him a hard time – “No way. You’ll give in. Just give it a week.”

Sure enough, for weeks on end, he arrived at work with no donuts. The co-workers were impressed. But, sure enough, one day he arrived with a box of half-eaten donuts. “What happened?,” asked his fellow office workers, “I thought you were done with donuts.” The man responded, “When I was driving to work today, I felt God say to me, today you deserve a donut. I wasn’t sure it was God but I thought I’d just drive by the donut shop, and if there happened to be a parking place right up front, I would know that was a sign from God that he wanted me to have a donut. Well wouldn’t you know it, the eighth time I circled the donut shop….”

Change is hard, isn’t it? We get set in our routines and habits. We get comfortable with our lives. But sometimes there are changes we need to make to better our lives. Sometimes there are changes or sacrifices we need to make for the sake of others.

Recognizing the need for change is the first step towards a new future. Tell others about the decided change – they can help with resolve. Keep the end result in mind. Then, commit to prayer and trust God to give you the strength.

Let us pray: Today Loving God, I pray for all of those who desire to make changes in their lives – big or small. If this desire is truly from you, give them a glimpse of a new future. Surround them with the right people. Grant them courage and strength to take the first steps. We ask in Jesus name. Amen.

Being Made Whole

Being Made Whole

In one of the Gospel stories, Jesus heals ten lepers; but only one returns to give thanks. It’s interesting, Jesus tells the man who turns back, “Your faith has saved you.” Another translation reads, “Your faith has made you whole.”

So, ten lepers were made clean, but one of them received something more.

A friend who is in recovery from narcotics, gave me some fresh insight into this passage. He said, “It’s one thing to be clean – clean from drugs, healed of a sickness, freed from anxiety or stress. All of those things Jesus can do. But what’s even more essential, is to allow God to make you whole.” The leper in the story does that by returning, recognizing the Higher Power, recognizing who it is who helped him get clean in the first place, and by giving thanks. Gratitude, faith and salvation are all tied up together in this story.

Today, may you remember the grace you’ve experienced in your life. May you return to the source and find a way to give thanks. And as you do, may you notice the grace of God making you whole.

Let us pray: God of Grace, thank you so much for children, laughter, smiles, hugs, for flowers and butterflies, for family and friends, for life and health, for sunny days, and for rain. Thank you for our church families, for grandmas and grandchildren, for goldfish, and for the ability to love. And God we could go on and on. Help us never, ever take these gifts for granted. You have given us so much. We receive and we receive, and we receive.

Remind us to appreciate, but not to stop there. Help us to allow our gratitude to be reflected in the way we live. As we have received, may we in turn give. For we pray in the name of the One who gave even his very life. Amen.

Night Goggles

Night Goggles

“Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.” – Joe

Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life” (John 8:12). We have all read about those astounding night goggles that help military personnel see in the dark. For instance, in a totally black room you can see other persons, pictures on the wall, other objects in the room. Something in those goggles picks up the unseen light in the room so you can see.

What a marvelous parable for the church. There is some light in all darkness. We are the power that is able to pick up the beacon of unseen Light and enable the world to behold it more clearly. We know and trust a God who calls us out of darkness into his marvelous Light. Space scientists have long posited a theory about black holes in space. Black holes are dark cavities in which there appears to be no light whatsoever. The theory says that the force of gravity is so powerful that even the photons of light collapse in upon themselves under the pull. All light is gone.

Epiphany is the season in which we boldly proclaim that the Light of Jesus Christ can outshine even the black holes of space! The darkness of hopelessness, grief, illness, pain and depression do not have the last word. The Light has come. The Light shines in the deepest darkness and the darkness cannot, will not overcome it. That is the TA-DA! of the gospel. We have been touched by the Light.

Let us pray: O Lord of our hearts and minds, we know you are always with us and you love us. Grant us the peace that comes from that reassurance that whether we walk through fields of flowers or stumble along the streets of sadness, we will walk beside you. Though Jesus Christ, the Light of the world. Amen.

Setting Ourselves Free

Setting Ourselves Free

Sometime back in West Memphis, Arkansas, three young men were charged with murder. When they made it to court, the father of one of the victims suddenly rushed at the young men screaming, “I’ll chase you all the way to hell.” One writer observed, “I understand the father’s fierce anger, but there is something almost prophetic about his words. If we allow our hatred for those who have wronged us to go unchecked, it will eventually destroy us. We will follow our bitterness ‘all the way to hell.'”

When, Peter asked Jesus, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him? Up to seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.…”

In truth, forgiveness is less about the other person and more about us. I don’t know about you, but I don’t want what someone else did to me to control me. I don’t want hatred and rage to own me. When we forgive others, more than anything else we set ourselves free.

Let us pray: God of grace, we praise you for your unconditional love and forgiveness of us. I pray today especially for those who are struggling to forgive others. Empower them to walk away from the situation if need be, but then to let go, to forgive and to move on. Today, may your Spirit rest on each of us, granting us your peace. Amen.

The Light Shines in the Darkness…

The Light Shines in the Darkness…

I recently read about a missionary named Jeffery Ginn and his family who were serving in Cali, Colombia. One morning Jeffrey entered his office to find that a map of the world that he had taped to the wall had fallen during the night. A corner of the map had remained taped to the wall as the rest fell. Jeffrey took the torn piece from the wall and knelt to repair the map. At that moment his three-year-old daughter came in. She sat down on the floor and watched her father intently. Jeffrey’s wife, noticing that their daughter had grown quiet, called, “Anna, what are you doing?” Their daughter replied, matter-of-factly, “We’re fixin’ the world, Mama! We’re fixin’ the world!”

That’s why Jesus came into the world. To fix it; to save it; to put it back together; and to call out followers who would join him in that mission.

So often when we look at the world around us there is great pain and suffering, greed and selfishness. But at the same time, if we look closely, we will notice there is also great beauty, healing and hope. If we look closely, we will notice people giving very generously; retired grandfathers tutoring inner city kids; moms banging nails for Habitat; neighbors watching children for single mothers; young folks advocating for peace and justice. Our list could go on and on.

The Gospel of John reassures us, “The light shines in the darkness and the darkness did not overcome it.”

May God give us eyes to see, and hearts to respond.

Let us pray: Give us eyes to see your light, O God, that we would abound in hope. And grant us hearts to feel your love, that that gift would be ours to share. Amen.

Three Wishes

Three Wishes

Some years ago, a ten-year old boy named Johnny was sitting alone on a park bench one afternoon. It was a beautiful spring day and Johnny was watching some other kids play baseball. An older man happened by, saw Johnny sitting there, and sat down beside him. They entered into conversation. They talked about the gorgeous weather, sports, their families. Finally, the older man said, “Johnny, I want to ask you a question. If you had three wishes, what would you wish for?” Johnny thought for a moment and then said, “First, I would wish for peace and happiness in the world. Second, I would wish everybody would join a church. And third, I would wish that my best friend Billy, who is blind, would be able to see. That’s what I would wish for.”

The older man seemed amazed by little Johnny’s answer, and with a look of perplexity he said goodbye and walked away. Johnny didn’t understand why the man was confused by the answer. He sat there for a moment, and then picked up his crutches and hobbled home! Now you know where Johnny got that gracious, loving spirit, don’t you? He got it from Jesus. He got it from the one who went to the cross for you and me. On the cross, God showed us how much he loved us and how much he wants us to love one another. Faith, hope, love – that’s what the cross is about. Whether you are receiving chemotherapy, radiation, facing the loss of a loved one, whether you are calling from Baghdad, whether you are depressed and lonely, whether you are a teenager or a child, remember – God loves you! And you are blessed to be a blessing to others.

Let us pray: Loving God, who has given us a mentor and example of living in Jesus, we pray that you will give us the courage and will to see more clearly, love more dearly, and follow more nearly the Christ, day by day. Today, may we reflect the image and spirit Jesus who was called “The one for others” because he sought to serve rather than be served. Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Job of Building Bridges

The Job of Building Bridges

There is a story about two unmarried sisters who had such a bitter fight that they stopped speaking to each other. Unable or unwilling to leave their small home, they continued to use the same rooms and sleep in the same bedroom. A chalk line divided the sleeping area into two halves. In fact, the chalk line divided rooms so that both sisters could come and go and get her own meals without trespassing on their sister’s space. In the black of night, each could hear the breathing and snoring of the other. For years they coexisted in silence. Neither was willing to take the first step to reconciliation.

Then one night one sister got up to go to the bathroom and fell, breaking her hip. The other sister heard the fall and scream and woke up. She jumped out of bed crossed the chalk line and came to her sister’s side. After a few typical sister jabs at why she would do such a foolish thing as trip on her own feet, the sister held her foe until the paramedics came and carried her to the hospital. In those moments of darkness, the truth and power of love revealed itself.

The late Supreme Court Justice Thurgood Marshall once told this story with these words. “The legal system can force open doors, and sometimes even knock down walls, but it cannot build bridges. That job belongs to you and me.”

Let us pray: Gracious God, we thank you for your unconditional love and forgiveness of us. Help us to share those same gifts with the people around us – friends, family, neighbors. May we be the first to build bridges – the first offer forgiveness, and the first to seek reconciliation – for we remember that life is short, and we don’t have forever. We ask all of this in the name of Christ. Amen.

Life Is a Gift

Life Is a Gift

As a pastor I have the privilege of being with people at the end of their lives. This is always a reminder to me that life is short and that our time here is just a breath. Sometimes near the end of life, people will want to talk about what’s been most important in their lives. It’s interesting, I’ve never heard anyone say, “I wish I had spent more time at the office,” or, “I wish I had earned more money,” or, “I wish we could have had that bigger house.”” In the end, those things count for very little.

What I do hear are things like: “I wish I’d spent more time at home.” “I wish I had told her I loved her.” “I’m so thankful I had those last six months with him – what a gift!” “I’m so thankful I finally worked things out with my son.”

I have to believe that’s why the Psalmist prayed, “Lord, teach me to number my days…” Because when I remember that I have a limited time on this earth and that I – like everything else – will one day be here no more, it definitely raises some deep questions: If my life ended tomorrow, would my wife know how much I love her? Would my children? What would people say about what kind of person I am, today? Am I building the kind of life that makes a difference?

Today may we pray with the Psalmist, “Lord, teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” (Psalm 90:12)

Let us pray: Lord, you have been our dwelling place throughout all generations. Before the mountains were born or you brought forth the whole world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God. We remember today that we are here only for a brief moment. Empower us, Loving God, to make the most of each moment of every day, to be present, to love deeply and to live closely with you. We ask in Jesus name. Amen.

Finding Peace

Finding Peace

I was talking to some of my friends not long ago about how busy we are these days and we got onto the subject of multi-tasking. The conversation turned to some of the things they see their kids do: things like scrolling through Instagram while they’re watching tv and messaging a group of friends all at the same time. Then we got to talking about some of things we see adults doing – like driving down the road while shaving. One of my friends said he actually saw someone driving down the road, eating a bowl of cereal on his way to work – cereal bowl balanced on the steering wheel!

How productive do we actually need to be?

C.S. Lewis wrote, “The future is something which every one of us reaches at the same rate of 60 minutes an hour.” It doesn’t matter who you are, or what you do. We have a choice. We can continue to try and balance more and more – and find ourselves racing through life, or we can work on our ability to say “no.”

Many people today feel distant from God – spiritually dry. But, when our hands are so full and our minds so preoccupied, is it any wonder?

May you pause today and consider: What truly gives your life meaning and joy? What might you let go of, to get more meaning and joy?

Let us pray: God here we are – your children – your family. We know that you have given us a path that leads to peace and wholeness. Sometimes it feels like we are stumbling in the dark looking for that path. Sometimes we’re too distracted to care. Lord, we love you. We need your grace in our lives… So, we ask you to help us set priorities that reflect our deepest need. Give us new energy, new passion, new faithfulness – that our lives would be whole and open to you. We ask in Jesus name. Amen.

Remember

Remember

In the gospel of Luke, when the women come to the empty tomb, an angel meets them and tells them, “He is not here. He has risen! Remember what he told you….” Remember.

Here they were at early dawn, these faithful women. All of their hopes and dreams seemed to have been dashed with the death of Jesus. Everything they knew to be true and right with the world had been crushed, and the angel says, “Remember…”

It’s amazing how often this command appears in scripture. Often when God’s people are at a point of crisis, they are told to remember: remember the covenant, remember God’s love, remember who you are, remember where you’ve been, remember how God has acted to save you in the past.

I think that’s because if we stop remembering, we may forget that there is hope.

Today, on this new year’s day, I invite you to remember… Remember where you have seen God’s hand at work in the past. Remember when you experienced grace and love. Remember those times God carried you or rescued you. Remember…

Let us pray: Loving God, you have carried us through the storm before, you made a way through the wilderness, you have been there when we have needed you most. As we sit on the edge of this new year, remind us of those times, that we might trust you more fully, even now; through Jesus Christ. Amen.