Trust

Trust

Let me say how grateful we are to those who make gifts that enable this ministry to touch so many. Your generous support is a real God-send.

In his book, Holy Sweat, Tim Hansel tells a story about a time he and his son Zac were out in the country climbing around on some cliffs. All of sudden, he said he heard a voice above him say, “Hey Dad! Catch me!” He turned around just in time to see his son joyfully jumping off a rock straight at him. Hansel said, “I became an instant circus act, catching him.” They both fell to the ground and after catching his breath he asked,
“Zac! Can you give me one good reason why you did that?” His son said calmly, “Sure… because you’re my dad.”

Zac could embrace the moment without fear or worry because he knew he could trust his father.

How often are we paralyzed by worry or fear? How often do we get stuck dwelling on the past or worrying about the future? How often do we miss the beauty and joy of the present moment because we fail to trust?

Paul wrote from jail, “Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made know to God. And the peace of God which passes all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds…”

Let us pray: God you are faithful. You are good. We’ve seen your hand at work time and again in our lives. But we admit that sometimes we can’t let go. Sometimes we get so overwhelmed with the problems at hand, that we miss the bigger picture. You are our Rock, and we turn to you now.

I pray today for those who are carrying burdens that feel beyond their ability to bear; for others who are under tremendous stress, and for those who are in truly dangerous situations. Lord, we pray for your deliverance, your mercy, and your grace. Be near to those who need you – even now. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Lord himself Will Be With You

The Lord himself Will Be With You

John Ortberg tells the story of a friend who made his first trip south of the Mason-Dixon Line from Chicago to Georgia. On his first morning in the South, he went into a restaurant to order breakfast, and it seemed that every dish included something called grits…which, as my Tennessee friends tell me, is exactly the way God intended it. Not being familiar with this southern delicacy, he asked the waitress, “Could you tell me, exactly what is a grit?” Looking down on him with a mixture of compassion and condescension, she said, “Sugar, you can’t get just one grit. They always come together.”

In the book of Kings, chapter 19, the prophet Elijah is running for his life. He lies down under a broom tree and he prays, “It is enough now, O Lord, take away my life…” When God responds, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” Elijah responds, “… the Israelites have forsaken your covenant, thrown down your altars, and killed your prophets with the sword. I alone am left…”

Elijah feels alone. Loneliness can be lethal.

Later, God shares with Elijah that there are 7,000 left – who are with him. There are others.

These past several weeks of social distancing has been extremely hard on many of us. I know some of you have felt very isolated and lonely. I hope that you have been able to stay in touch with friends and family by phone or other technology. My prayer is that you would feel their love and care for you – even across the distance.

In the book of Deuteronomy (31:8) it is written, “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”

Let us pray: Loving God, I pray today especially for those who are feeling isolated or alone. May they know your presence with them – even now. Help each of us indeed feel the love of those we love. In your time, bring us together again. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Hands

Hands

My friend Robert McCrary used to have a prayer attached to a bulletin board in his office titled “Hands.” The content speaks of transformation and grace. It moves from a preoccupation with the self to a love of others. The author is unknown, and today, we will make it our message and our prayer.

As we pray, begin with your hands clenched. Then, as the prayer instructs, slowly open them, and finally, if you are comfortable doing so, raise them.

Let us pray: I see, Lord, in my tightly clasped hands the representation of myself. I hold onto myself – my cares, possessions, pride. I shut you out – lest you change me. I shut out other people – lest they know me – lest they would hurt me. In fact, with these fists I could strike out against those who would threaten me. But I see in my whitened knuckles what this is doing to me. I am uptight, enslaved, imprisoned with myself. I am tired, tense, lonely, and am destroying myself.

And now in slowly opening my hands, I release myself to you, Lord. Take my guilt, cares, burdens, emptiness, and loneliness. My arms no longer hurt! My knuckles are no longer white! Thank you, Lord, for your release – for freedom – for peace. With open hands I can no longer shut you out – shut out other people – or strike out against those who would threaten me. Open hands are for helping. Fill them with your love. Show them what to do – how to serve.

Suddenly I am aware of the hurts and needs of other persons – of other situations. In my mind’s eye, I place them in these hands and lift them to you for your sustaining grace and healing love. I realize now, that I am no longer alone. Thank you, Lord, for your grace. Amen.

Small Things with Great Love

Small Things with Great Love

Today is the second day of the giving challenge put together by the Patterson Foundation of Sarasota. If you able to give, until noon today – every gift to Dial Hope up to $100 is matched by their foundation. Go to our website – www.dialhope.org to find out more.

Mother Theresa offers us that brilliant glimpse of hope that lies in little things. She once wrote, “We can do no great things, only small things with great love. It’s not how much you do but how much love you put into doing it.”

Author Shane Claiborne lives in an intentional Christian community in inner city Philadelphia, where they share a lot of ministry with the urban poor and homeless. They often have people stop by their house to ask for help. So, they put this sign above their door that can be read only from the inside. It reads, “Today… Small things with great love, or don’t answer the door”.

He makes a great point that our great ideas and visions for the world mean nothing, if we can treat others with love and respect.

There was an article in the Charlotte Observer sometime back titled, When It Comes to Relationships, Maybe We Should Sweat the Small Stuff. It made the point that actually, it is our small actions that make or break a relationship. It is the simple acts of kindness, a touch, a hug, the right words at the right time, finding time for conversation, these simple acts can either build a solid relationship – or when lacking, completely undermine it. The small things matter because they compound.

Today, may you and I remember that our small actions, filled with love, make all the difference.

Let us pray: Sometimes, O God, we get overwhelmed with the need we see all around us. Sometimes it feels as though our everyday efforts matter for very little. Remind us again that our ministry for you is never done in vain, and that our small acts of love have long lasting impact. Help us to be your light, your hope for the world even in the details of life. Use our words, our attitudes and small acts of kindness to your glory. We pray in the name of the One who is love. Amen.

Smile!

Smile!

Today is the giving challenge put together by the Patterson Foundation of Sarasota. If you able to give, starting at noon today – every gift to Dial Hope up to $100 is matched by their foundation. Go to our website – www.dialhope.org to find out more.

I recently listened to a TED talk given by Ron Gutman who is the founder and CEO of Health Tap. Ron reviewed a host of studies about smiling and shared some amazing findings.

Did you know that even when you are not feeling happy to begin with, a simple smile will make you feel better. In fact, brain imaging studies have found that one smile gives us the equivalent boost as 2,000 bars of chocolate! And one smile also gives us the same boost as we’d feel if we received a gift of $25,000 cash!

Studies have also found that smiling can also make you healthier. Smiling reduces the level of stress inducing hormones and increases the number of mood enhancing ones. It also has been proven to lower blood pressure. A recent study out of Penn State found that smiling makes us look good in the eyes of others – not only more likable and courteous – but also more competent. On top of all that, smiling is contagious. It is very difficult to frown when looking at a smiling face!

Mother Teresa once said, “I will never understand all the good that a simple smile can accomplish.”

Smile!

Let us pray: We thank you, Gracious God, for a built in health enhancer, mood lifter and attitude adjuster. Help us remember to make full use of our ability to smile. We smile even now as we remember your blessing in our lives, through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Hearts of Grace and Mercy

Hearts of Grace and Mercy

Pastor Bill Bouknight tells the story of a prominent minister who was holding a weekend seminar at Lake Junaluska, North Carolina. He kept noticing a man in the front row nodding off, and this aggravated him. He wondered why the man didn’t stay home if he couldn’t stay awake? During the lunch break, a woman approached the speaker and said, “Sir, let me apologize for my husband’s drowsiness. He is undergoing chemotherapy. The doctors have given him a medication to control the side-effects, but it makes him very sleepy. I tried to persuade him to stay home today, but he said, “I must go as long as I’m able. I never know when I will no longer be able to gather with God’s people.” In the blink of an eye, that speaker’s attitude toward the drowsy man was totally transformed.

So often we don’t know what other’s are going through. To have empathy for someone,
is to try to see the world through their lens. It’s often very hard for us to do.

I don’t know about you, but there have definitely been moments in my life when I wished others knew what I was going through. In those moments, I try to remember God knows…. But I also hope for understanding and grace from those around me.

When we know what it is like to need understanding and grace, it opens us up to the possibility of sharing these same gifts with others.

Let us pray: Loving God, help us not to be too quick to judge, but instead to seek understanding. Give us hearts of grace and mercy that we might be more like you. We pray in Jesus name.

God’s Resources

God’s Resources

Friend of Dial Hope, how are you dealing with worry? Worry is a major contributor to physical illness. But we must not confuse worry with concern. We should be concerned about the conditions of the world, the plight of the poor, the diseased, and the abuse of children. We should be concerned about our own health. Worry on the other hand is destructive. God’s resources are at our own disposal, and God is anxious to help.

Remember these words of scripture:

Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. (Philippians 4:6)

I will never leave you or forsake you. (Hebrews 13:15)

Cast all of your anxiety on God, because God cares for you. (I Peter 5:7)

My grace is sufficient for you. (II Corinthians 12:9)
We know that all things work together for good for those who love God. (Romans 8:28)

The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. (Hebrews 13:6)

Friend of Dial Hope, when you and God are working together, you can live without worry!

Let us pray: God of gentle dreams and awesome space, cultivate in our hearts a faith that is tall and sure. Create in us a spirit that overcomes hopelessness. No mind is without doubt or worry and we would not ask for that. May we believe enough in your Spirit of Grace to risk the hurt of love in order to find the joy of love. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Today Is a Gift

Today Is a Gift

There is an old family Circus comic that depicted the little boy sharing with his sister, “Yesterday is the past, tomorrow is the future, but today is a gift. That’s why they call it the present.”

Today is a present. Today we have 24 un-used, brand-new hours to love deeply, to serve others, to show gratitude, to notice God, and to live life to it’s fullest.

Maybe you have made mistakes in the past. Or, maybe you are worried sick about the future. But in this moment, there is good and beauty all around you. There are all sorts of possibilities. Breath deeply and seize the moment. God is with you.

Let us pray: O God you are the hope of ages past, and our hope for years to come, from generation to generation you are faithful, and we praise you. Today, open our eyes to the beauty of the present moment. Free us from anxiety and regret, and enable us to live here and now. Fill us with your joy and your peace; through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Joy in Serving Others

Joy in Serving Others

Many years ago now, I remember reading an article in our local newspaper about a woman Barbara Gilbert. At that time, Barbara was a single mom, part-time college student, and a waitress. She worked two part time jobs just to pay rent. At some point, Barbara learned about people down in Jamaica who have almost nothing – who are living in shacks. She also learned that for about $2,000 you could build a pretty decent 12’ by 12’ home down there, and for another $500, you could furnish it. So Barbara decided she was going to do it. Her kids of course, thought their mom was crazy, and they scolded her, “Mom, you’re poor yourself.” But she did it. She saved $200 a month until she had the money. She gave somebody else – somebody she’s never even met the gift of a home.

Her story inspires me! So often I get caught up in my own problems and issues that I can’t even begin to think about others who have so much less. I so often forget that in moving beyond myself, in reaching out to help others, there is great joy, healing and redemption. I believe that’s what Jesus meant when he said, “…those who want to find their lives must lose them.”

Let us pray: God of mercy, we don’t have to look far to see tremendous need in the world around us. And, we don’t have to look far to see how much we have to give. You have blessed us richly. We thank you for Barbara and others who inspire us by their actions. May their deep joy in giving bring you glory and praise. And may there example stir our souls and move us to serve. Amen.

The Only Way to Survive

The Only Way to Survive

In his book, Finding God in the Dark, David Walls writes about Lloyd John Ogilvie, and the struggles he had in his first year as the US Senate Chaplain. In the previous year, his wife had undergone five major surgeries, radiation treatment and chemotherapy. Several key staff teammates moved on to other assignments, which added pressure and uncertainty to Ogilvie’s work. Problems which he could have tackled with gusto under normal circumstances seemed to loom in all directions. Discouragement lurked around every corner. Prayer was no longer a contemplative luxury, but the only way to survive. Wall’s quotes Ogilvie:

My own intercessions were multiplied by the prayers of others. Friendships were deepened as I was forced to allow people to assure me with words I had preached for years. No day went by without a conversation, letter or phone call giving me love and hope. The greatest discovery is that I can have joy when I don’t feel like it.”

Ogilvie’s story is a reminder to me that when we find ourselves in the storms of life, God is still present. It also reminds me that a deep prayer life and an ability to turn to others for help, go a long way toward making the pain bearable. Through prayer and through the care of others, may God’s peace and joy be with you – even in the midst of life’s most pressing times.

Let us pray: Loving God, today we thank you for friends; for all those people who are willing to pray for us, to care for us, and to share in our joy and our struggles. What a blessing it is to offer that kind of friendship and to receive it. We pray today that you would grant us the courage to ask for help when we need it, the grace to accept that help, and the faith to entrust ourselves to their care and to yours. We pray in Jesus name. Amen.