People Change People

People Change People

A member of my church Sharon Hartsell has been involved in a mentoring program for students in our county who are classified as homeless. A few years back, Sharon was telling me that her student invited her to a “Character Counts” banquet. In our county, it is quite an achievement and honor for a student to earn this award – any student really, but much more so for someone who lives under tremendous uncertainty and stress. Sharon had been working with this student for almost a year at that point.

At the banquet, each student was allowed to bring someone up onto the stage with them and say a few words. When they arrived, they noticed that all the other students had parents or grandparents with them.  

Sharon’s student invited her to come up with her, and she said to the audience, “I didn’t have a mom or a dad to bring up here with me, so I invited my mentor, Ms. Sharon. And, she really is my mentor… and I’m glad she is here.”

As they were walking off the stage, the Superintendent of the schools, leaned over and said to Sharon, “We save one at a time.” 

We save one at a time. 

This reminds me of something that my friend Rev. Bob Gamble says. He says that people change people. Yes, education is important – but it takes a teacher. Yes, faith is important, but it takes someone to share that faith and someone to nurture that faith. It is ever people who change people. 

I wonder whose lives you are impacting… I wonder whose life God may be calling you to touch.  

Let us pray: God of Grace, thank you for sending Jesus to touch and change our lives. May our relationships with other people bring grace and peace to them; and to us. Amen. 

Aisle, Altar, Him

Aisle, Altar, Him

Today’s message was written by the founder of Dial Hope, the Rev. Roger Kunkel

Have you heard the story about the bride who was extremely nervous on her wedding day? She confided to the minister that she was not sure she could make it down the long aisle without shaking or crying. So the minister, a seasoned veteran of weddings, gave her a bit of advice: “When you begin your walk,” he said, “just remember this three-point formula: First, look straight down the aisle; second when you get about half-way look straight up at the altar; and third when you get near the front of the church, look straight at your groom. First, the aisle, then the altar, then him. I think this will help relieve your nervousness.” 

The trembling bride agreed to try his advice. And it worked beautifully. She walked with a radiant glow on her face and poise and confidence in her step, with no sign of nervousness. However, there was one small problem. Imagine the surprise of the congregation as they heard her rhythmically repeating three words over and over as she performed her bridal walk: “Aisle, altar, him. Aisle, altar, him.” 

“Aisle, altar, him!” Well, the truth is, most brides don’t have a lot of luck in altering their husbands. But the good news of the Christian faith is that God can alter us! God can change us. God can redeem us. God can turn our lives around. As a matter of fact, the change God can bring in our hearts is so amazing that when Jesus talked about it and described it, he used dramatic language. He talked about “new birth” about “new life,” about “new beginnings,” about being born again.” He said, “Unless you are born again you cannot see the kingdom of God.” (John 3:3) Friend of Dial Hope, this is the good news, the TA-DA! for today. Believe it and claim it!

Let us pray: God of love, How great Thou art! We thank you for the good news that we can grow and change; we can rise to higher plains of personal living; there is hope in the midst of our despair; there is joy in spite of sadness. Now fill us with the radiance of this day so that your love may stream in and through us, bringing light and life to a world that often walks in shadows and death. Through the risen Christ, we pray. Amen. 

Created for Community

Created for Community

John Ortberg tells the story of a friend who made his first trip south of the Mason-Dixon Line from Chicago to Georgia. On that first morning, he went into a restaurant to order breakfast. It seemed that every dish included something called grits. Not being familiar with this southern delicacy, he asked the waitress, “Could you tell me, exactly what is a grit?” Looking down on him with a mixture of compassion and condescension, she said, “Sugar, you can’t get just one grit. They always come together.”

In the book of Kings, chapter 19, the prophet Elijah is running for his life. He lies down under a broom tree and he prays, “It is enough now, O Lord, take away my life…” When God responds, “What are you doing here, Elijah?,” Elijah responds, “… the Israelites have forsaken your covenant, thrown down your altars, and killed your prophets with the sword. I alone am left…”

Elijah feels alone. So much so that he despairs of life itself. 

Later, God shares with Elijah that there are 7,000 left – who are with him. There are others.

In the book of Genesis, near the very beginning of the Bible, God said, “It is not good for man to be alone.” God created us to be in relationship with others. God created us for community. 

My prayer today is that you would come to see the people around you as a gift. May you cherish them and share your life deeply. 

Let us pray: Loving God, I pray today, especially for those who are feeling isolated or alone. May they know your presence with them – even now. Help each of us indeed feel the love of those we love. In your time, bring us together again. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Sheep Know His Voice

The Sheep Know His Voice

Over the past couple of days, we’ve reflected on Jesus as the Good Shepherd (John 10), and his challenging statement, “I have other sheep that do not belong to this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd.” I continue those reflections today. 

Who are Jesus’ other sheep?

I remember years ago worshiping at an Evangelical Church in Mexico right on the border. The service must have lasted two and a half hours. You could see the desperation and the faith in people’s eyes as they sang songs of praise, and pleaded for mercy in prayer… 

Whenever I think about the crisis on the border, even today, I can’t help but remember them…

And then, I think about the Christians I knew in Jamaica. And I think about how the churches of Jamaica and the Caiman Islands came together and created these ministries of compassion that made such an impact – feeding the hungry, and caring for orphans.  

Who are Jesus’ other sheep?

I think again about the conservative Southern Baptists and the ultra-liberal More Light churches. I think about Christians who love Trump and Christians who love Biden. I think about Catholics and Eastern Orthodox and Lutherans and Methodists… 

He calls the sheep by name and they know his voice… We know his voice…

 What’s he saying to us? What is he saying to me?

Is he saying: Expand the walls of your heart… Expand the boundaries of your prayers… expand the bounds of your compassion. Is he saying: Just as I need a shepherd, so do they need a shepherd? Just as I need to be led, so do they need to be led? Just as I find myself in dark valleys and face enemies and get lost in the wilderness, so it is with them? Just as I belong to you, O Christ, so do they.

Let us pray: We remember today, O God, that we have deep ties and even a spiritual kinship with people across the globe… With all the forces that would seek to divide, we ask for your healing grace. Begin with us; through Jesus, our Good Shepherd. Amen.

Global Sheep

Global Sheep

Yesterday, we reflected on Jesus as the Good Shepherd (John 10), and his challenging statement, “I have other sheep that do not belong to this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd.”

Who are the other sheep?

On one level, Jesus words are a deep challenge to all denominationalism. On another level, I think about Christians around the globe.

When I was in Sarasota, every year we sent mission teams to Nicaragua. One year we helped rebuild houses destroyed by a hurricane. Other times, we worked with a local community group with farming, or whatever they needed.

The coolest part about this was that we would stay in people’s homes. We’d live with them for the entire week. These homes were pretty basic – dirt floors, often, no glass windows, no a/c, no indoor plumbing. Cooking was often done over a wood-burning stove outside. The people were very poor. And yet they were extremely hard-working, and very generous. There was a tremendous sense of hospitality and welcome.

But I think what surprised us the most, was that these folks were all people of deep faith. They trusted God’s providence from one day to the next… They had to…

I think what surprised us, was that initially, we thought we were somehow bringing the gospel to them… But actually, through our time together, it was our own faith that grew…

And then I think about a missionary our church supports in Indonesia, Farsiana, and another one, Bob Gamble in Ukraine. I wonder also about churches in China and in Afghanistan and churches in Kenya and Korea. I can only imagine their respective churches and styles of worship. I have to believe they would be very different. It is truly amazing to think that we all share that same compelling faith that touches hearts and lives.

Let us pray: We remember today, O God, that we have deep ties and even a spiritual kinship with people across the globe… With all the forces that would seek to divide, we ask for your healing grace. Begin with us; through Jesus, our Good Shepherd. Amen.

Other Sheep

Other Sheep

Yesterday, we reflected on Jesus as the Good Shepherd (John, chapter 10). I find a lot of comfort in that passage. But I also find there is a measure of challenge. In verse 16, Jesus adds: I have other sheep that do not belong to this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd. 

And herein lies the challenge… Who are the other sheep?

Well, it would be very easy and comfortable, for me to think the other sheep are the other Presbyterian (USA) Churches… 

I think about an encounter I had with a young Pentecostal pastor years ago. I was on a plane coming back from Atlanta, and he sat next to me. At that time, we were about the same age and had kids about the same age as mine. We were both pastors in Jacksonville. We shared a lot of commonalities – and really, we could have been friends. 

But as the flight went on, it became clear that because I didn’t speak in tongues, I was somehow lesser – maybe not really Christian in his eyes… And I left feeling a little hurt – put off…  

Am I the other sheep? He might not think so… Are Pentecostals the other sheep?

On one level, Jesus’ words are a a deep challenge to all denominationalism: “There will be one flock, one shepherd.”

I think about Jesus, gathering his flock. Bringing in those who see, hear, and believe in him… I think about how in the Bible, Jesus brings in the outcasts of his day… sinners, lepers, Samaritans, tax collectors… He had this concern for the individual welfare of each and every sheep. He knows each one by name… And he gathers them in… And he’s gathered us in…

I think about the conservative Southern Baptists and the ultra-liberal More Light churches. I think about Christians who love Trump and Christians who love Biden. I think about Catholics and Eastern Orthodox and Lutherans and Methodists… 

He calls the sheep by name and they know his voice…  

We know his voice…

What’s he saying to us? What is he saying to me?

Let us pray: We remember today, O God, that we have deep ties and even a spiritual kinship with people across the globe… With all the forces that would seek to divide, we ask for your healing grace. Begin with us; through Jesus, our Good Shepherd. Amen.

The Good Shepherd

The Good Shepherd

Psalm 23 is much loved. The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul.

Powerful imagery isn’t it? Even though the realities of shepherding and sheep are far removed from our suburban setting, it still resonates.

In the Gospel of John (chapter 10), Jesus said, “I am the Good Shepherd. The shepherd calls the sheep by name and leads them out… He goes ahead of them, and the sheep follow him because they know his voice.”

He calls the sheep by name and they know his voice… 

There is an intimacy to that. 

I’ve never been to the Middle East, but I understand that outside of the fertile valleys, there is a lot of desolate rocky land. In the Bible, that desolate, rocky, dry land is referred to as the wilderness or the desert. And so you can imagine shepherds leading the sheep across the wasteland to find the green pastures for food, and still waters for drink. And I think about all the dangers along the way: wild animals, thieves, injuries. On top of that, sheep are notoriously dumb… and are prone to wander off. They clearly need a shepherd!

I don’t know about you, but I sometimes find myself in the wilderness… Sometimes I’m there like the stupid sheep because I’ve wandered off in the wrong direction…. I find myself confused or lost. Made a bad choice. Made a bad turn.

And other times I’m there in that wilderness by no fault of my own… As life unfolds, we don’t have to travel very far to learn that much of it is completely out of our control.

One of the things I really appreciate about these passages of scripture is that they don’t deny reality. Yes, the Lord is our shepherd. But that doesn’t mean that we won’t still have to travel through dark valleys, face enemies, or find ourselves in the wilderness.

But it does mean that we do not face them alone…

Let us pray: Jesus, you are indeed the Good Shepherd. And you have laid down your life for us. We praise you. Lead us, and guide us, we pray, as we seek to follow you all of our days. Amen.

Birth of New Life

Birth of New Life

I remember the day when my daughter Marley was born. She’s 22 now, but I’ll never forget being in the delivery room that morning. At the last minute, they discovered she was in breach and they had to do a cesarean section. It was pretty scary. I got to go back into the operating room, but I couldn’t see what was going on. But I remember at some point the doctor said, “Do you have a name for the baby?” And I said, “Yes. If it’s a girl, her name is Marley.” The doctor said, “Say hello to baby Marley.” At that moment, just as he held her up, she cried, “Waaah…” It was this moment of sheer awe.

If you’ve ever been in the room when a new life enters it as a baby, it’s powerful.. And if you had the wherewithal to contemplate it, the wonder… the potential… what will this child be like? What will she do? What will she become? It’s all there before you – new… possible…

Yesterday was Pentecost, and in many churches, we read the story from the book of Acts, chapter 2. We hold up as the story of the birth of the church. Like all births, it was messy, risky, and maybe even a little nerve-wracking. Chaotic might be a good word.

You may remember the story. The disciples gathered in the upper room. And just as Jesus promised, his Spirit comes upon them in a mighty way. Acts tells us: “…suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. Divided tongues, as of fire appeared among them…” 

Somehow in the midst of all this, the disciples are given the ability to speak other languages. And they begin doing what the church will do – They begin telling the story of what they’ve seen and experienced – God’s moving in their lives.  

We hold this story up as the birth of the church. It’s really the birth of a movement. It is a movement of people called to follow in Jesus’ footsteps – feeding the hungry, caring for the sick and the suffering… teaching grace, mercy, love… 

And if you think about it, in that moment, if the disciples had the wherewithal to contemplate it, the wonder… the potential… what will this church be like? What will she do? What will she become? It’s all there before you – new… possible… Alive with the fiery energy of the Spirit…

At this chaotic time in history, the question becomes: Can I trust that the same Spirit who gave birth to the stars and love and fellowship, the same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead, the same Spirit who blew life into the early church on that first Pentecost, can that same Spirit birth something new in me, in my family, in my church, and in the world?

Let us pray: Holy God, help us to look for your Spirit at work in the world, to let go of fear, and to trust. Help us to trust that the fiery energy of your Spirit is still alive and at work, even now, making all things new. Amen.

Christian Gumption

Christian Gumption

Today’s message was written by the founder of Dial Hope, the Rev. Roger Kunkel

One of my favorite movies is “Forest Gump” which came to the theaters over 10 years ago. It literally took America by storm! Do you remember these Forest Gump sayings: “Stupid is as stupid does,” and “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get.” If you’ll pardon the pun, I want to suggest that we need more Christian Gumption. The word Christian means Christlike, and the word gumption means boldness, courage, wisdom, resourcefulness, strength. Forest Gump has a simple faith in which he lives boldly. He lives life unselfishly. He loves people unconditionally. He trusts God unreservedly. That basic outline is not only a summation of Forrest Gump’s life, it also is a pretty good synopsis of the teachings of Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount. 

When Jesus says things, such as “Be humble-minded,” “Be obedient,” “Be merciful,” “Be pure in heart,” Be peacemakers,” “Be the salt of the earth and light of the world,” “Turn the other cheek,” “Go the second mile,” “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” he means “Have Christian Gumption.” Be bold and confident and courageous and strong. Live boldly in the spirit of Christ and trust God to bring it outright. In other words, live life unselfishly! Love people unconditionally! Trust God unreservedly! Trust God.  

Let us pray: Loving God of song and saga, of earth and history, we thank you for the rich heritage of our nation; for pilgrim’s feet and patriot’s dream; for fruited plain and purple mountains majesty, for universities and churches; for Indian and Scottish and Irish and Italian and Chinese and Puerto Rican and Slavic and Greek; for Protestant and Catholic and Jew, and Mormon, Amish, Mennonite, and Muslim. We pray for the dedication to keep the dream alive, the dream to deepen the sense of communication among races and individuals. Let the spirit of Christ unite our hearts and minds that we may praise you forever. Transform our attitudes, so that we live in excitement and expectation. Teach us to stand on tiptoe, listening for your voice and looking for the evidence of your presence, yes, even in our pain, our hurt, our illness. Anoint every listener with unexpected grace, especially those struggling to be whole. Bless us now so we may be a blessing to others, in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Look Deeper

Look Deeper

There is a line in Paul’s second letter to the Church in Corinth (verse 16) that continues to challenge me. He wrote, “From now on, therefore, we regard no one from a human point of view…” In the previous verse, Paul tells us that Christ died for everyone. Not just people who think like us, vote like us, or who raise their children like us. Not just people of our generation or social status. Paul says Christ died for all – therefore we regard no one – no one – from a human point of view. 

That means that we don’t just see them as they appear on the surface. We have to look deeper. We don’t just see their faults. We don’t just see their issues. We don’t just see them according to what they can do for us. We look at other people as sacred beings that Christ died for. 

A friend shared with me once that one of her spiritual disciplines is to try and see the image of God in every single person she meets. Think about how that might change your interaction with people around you. What if we tried to remember that they are people who are struggling just like us, and Christ died for them – just like Christ died for you?

I have to believe that when we look for that image of God in others, that image shines brighter in us.

Our prayer today was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope. Let us pray: Loving God, who changes rivers in their course and alters the paths of the stars, infuse us and flood us today with joy and hope. Let the radiant power of your Holy Spirit destroy any negativity or cynicism in us and fill us with positive feelings of love and affirmation. Help us to say yes to the things that are good, and no to the things that devalue life. Mold us more in the image of Christ that we may hear you say, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.