New Life

New Life

Some time ago, I listened to an interview with, a Benedictine monk, David Steindle Rast. He was talking about anxiety – which so many of us have been feeling these days.

He said, “We have to acknowledge our anxiety, but we must not fear. (And) There is a great difference. See, anxiety… or being anxious — this word comes from a root that means ‘narrowness’ and ‘choking.’ The original anxiety is our birth anxiety. We all come into this world through this very uncomfortable process of being born… It’s really a life-and-death struggle for both the mother and the child…”

He went on to say that if we let go of the fear, “…the worst anxieties and the worst tight spots in our life, often, years later, when you look back at them, reveal themselves as the beginning of something completely new, a completely new life.”

I was listening to this and it made me think about some of my friends who lost their family business during the last big recession in 2008. It had been in their family for years. They had two kids still in high school at that time, and the loss was just devastating. They were worried about losing their house – how they were going to make ends meet. Talk about anxiety!

But God did move in their lives during that time. God did bring about something new. My buddy tells me that this whole experience brought them together as a family – bonded in ways they never could have imagined. They began to experience a whole new level of gratitude for the gifts they did have. It wasn’t too long after that, that my friend enrolled in seminary. I went to his ordination service two years ago, and today he’s serving a Presbyterian church up in Jacksonville.

If we think about it, we’ve all seen times when pain and suffering, confusion and anxiety give way to new life…

All of this makes me wonder about all that we are going through right now…in our world, in our church… Are these yet birth pangs… I don’t believe that God brought this on, but could it be that through this, God is at work even now to bring about something new…

Let us pray: Gracious God, today I pray that you would help us to let go of fear and instead look for the potential. May we trust that you are at work – even now – even through all of this, to make all things new. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Being Yourself

Being Yourself

Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Martin Buber wrote, “Before his death, Rabbi Zusya said, ‘In the coming world, they will not ask me, “Why were you not Moses?” They will ask me, “Why were you not Zusya?”’

Friend of Dial Hope, one of your main goals while on earth is to become who you really are… to acknowledge it and celebrate it. You are not Florence Nightingale, Mother Teresa, Tiger Woods, Lance Armstrong. You are you! So don’t waste time being anybody else but yourself. That will be enough of a challenge to consume your time and effort.

There is an Ashleigh Brilliant cartoon that reads, “I may not be totally perfect, but parts of me are excellent.” I contend that each of you has many excellent parts to your being, more than you might even recognize thus far on your journey. Different parts in each of you, but excellent ones for sure. Seek out your special identity. Then salute it, nourish it, fulfill it! And, remember, God doesn’t make no junk! God loves you.

Let us pray: God of love, be with those hurting this day. Be with those who are struggling with their identity, and who cannot find the confidence to take a step toward you. Be with those who are afraid. When life looks grim, paint our souls with color. When life looks hopeless, rain down newness of life so that we can stand up and walk… redeemed by your son Jesus Christ. For it is in his name that we pray. Amen.

What Would You Ask?

What Would You Ask?

Many years ago, as a part of a small group exercise, we were invited to read the story of Zacchaeus. If you remember, Jesus invites himself to Zaccheaus’ house for dinner. We were then asked to imagine, What if Jesus invited himself to your house for dinner tonight? How would you feel? Would you have any reservations? How would you respond?

Oh, we had a great conversation around that. Some of us said we would want to have our house perfectly clean – everything just right! Some of us said we would want to invite friends and neighbors. We talked about having a long leisurely conversation.

Others of us said we would want to ask him, perhaps beg him for help – to heal what is broken in us… to ask for forgiveness, mercy, mercy for ourselves, mercy for our nation and for our world.

I have to wonder if you were to see Jesus right now, what would you bring to him? What would you ask him? What needs would you lay before him?

Why don’t we take a moment, and lay all of this before him right now.
Will you pray with me?

Lord Jesus Christ, we can see you even now, in our mind’s eye, with your arms open wide… In this next moment of silence, we ask you to hear the needs that weigh on our hearts… Amen.

To Care or Not to Care

To Care or Not to Care

Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

There is only one thing more costly than caring and that is not caring. It must break God’s heart when we are calloused, unfeeling, selfish, and uncaring. How do you treat other people? In the parable of the Good Samaritan, found in the 10th chapter in the gospel of Luke, the Samaritan is called good because he cared enough to do something good for someone in need. I have a physician friend who advises his patients to treat every person they meet each day, as if he or she were the most important person in the world. I like that! But, friend of Dial Hope, the Christian faith takes it a step further, a giant step further. We are urged to relate to every single person we meet as if that person were Christ in disguise. Wow! Try that for one day; it will change your life forever.

Let us pray: The world must have begun in silence, so God then moved to a crescendo of joyful music with a heavenly symphony crashing in rhythmic applause. Let there be light where there is shadow and joy where there is pain or depression. The blooming flowers, the gentle breezes remind us of hope for the renewing of our lives. Help us to think kindly of one another, to speak gently, to be creative listeners, and to behave with compassion. Transform our hum-drum lives into TA-DA! moments fueled by perpetual gratitude. Keep us laughing and caring because they are neglected on our agenda. Through the amazing grace of Jesus. Amen.

Therefore We Will Not Fear…

Therefore We Will Not Fear…

There is an old story about two young boys whose mother asked them to chase a chicken snake out of the henhouse. They looked everywhere for that snake, but couldn’t find it. The more they looked, the more afraid they got. When they finally found it, they nearly killed each other running out of the chicken house.

“Don’t you know a chicken snake won’t hurt you?” their mother asked. “Yes, ma’am,” one of the boys answered, “but there are some things that will scare you so bad you’ll hurt yourself.”

Most of us have been there at some time in our lives.
When we act out of fear, we are much more likely to make hasty or even bad decisions. On other occasions, fear can be crippling. It can lead to intense worry, anxiety, and even inaction.

Maybe that is why the most frequent command in the Bible is, “Fear not.”

Fear Not!

Psalm 46 is one of my favorites: God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble, Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, though the mountains shake in the heart of the sea…

Let us pray: Dear God, when change threatens to overwhelm us, when our world feels as though it is coming apart when anxiety begins to rise up within us and we find ourselves worried about our families, our communities, or our health help us not to fear, but to trust. Remind us that ultimately we rest in your hands. Today we claim the promise of the scriptures, that you are gracious and merciful and abounding in steadfast love. Amen.

You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

In the book of Kings chapter 19, there is a story about the prophet Elijah. Elijah is running for his life. He lies down under a broom tree and he prays, “It is enough now, O Lord, I don’t want to live…” When God responds, “What are you doing here, Elijah?,” Elijah answers, “… the Israelites have forsaken your covenant, thrown down your altars, and killed your prophets with the sword. I alone am left…”

Elijah feels like he is alone in his ministry. Elijah feels alone in his life. He feels so alone that he doesn’t want to go on living.

As a pastor, it is a real privilege to be invited into people’s lives. I hear beautiful stories, and I hear about great tragedy. When people who have been going through hell, come to talk with me, often I’ll ask: Who do you have supporting you? Who else can you talk to about this?

We all need other people.

God goes on to tell Elijah that actually, there are 7,000 others who have not bowed the knee to Baal. God is telling him, you are not alone. You are not alone… There are others who are in this with you.

Some of the most powerful words we can hear are… I’m with you. I am here for you. However, at the same time, some of the toughest words for us to say are “I need you,” or “I need help.”

We don’t like the idea of dependence. But God created us in such a way that we need each other. It is difficult to walk the journey alone.

I know it is not easy to risk giving of ourselves and allowing ourselves to be vulnerable. I know relationships can be messy. We fall short, and sometimes we hurt each other. Relationships take forgiveness. They take patience and prayer. And they take love.
But what a blessing to know that we don’t have to go it alone. And what a blessing to discover that when it comes to forgiveness, patience, prayer, and love – it is in giving that most fully receive.

Let us pray: Loving God, grant us your grace and courage, that we might discover or strengthen the relationships that are already in our midst. Help us to give fully of ourselves so that we would be catalysis of your love. Amen.

The Foundation

The Foundation

Today, I am deeply grateful for those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. Hope reaches others because of you. Thank you!

In one of his commentaries on Romans, pastor, and scholar Eugene Peterson writes about the way Paul opens this letter. In verse 8, he begins, “First, I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you…”

Peterson makes the following observations:

“Paul, mature in all matters of spiritual formation, begins, as life itself begins, with gratitude for lives placed in his care. Life in itself – sheer, raw, unadorned life – is a pure gift. Spontaneous, grateful thanksgiving establishes the working conditions for all growth and development in Christ.”

I love that! “Spontaneous, grateful thanksgiving…”

If you paused and reflected for a moment right now, I wonder what spontaneous thanksgiving would arise in you. I don’t know about you, but too often in life, I get caught up in the worries and demands of the day, and I fail to reflect on all of my blessings. Yet, I believe that Peterson has it right – our gratitude lays the foundation for a life of deep and meaningful faith.

Today may you and I make a point of allowing our gratitude to flow. And may we share it with those whose lives depend on our love and care.

Let us pray: This is a day that you have made, O God, and we rejoice and are glad in it! In the moment of silence that follows, hear us as we offer our silent prayers of gratitude…. You have blessed us so richly, Lord. Thank you! Amen.

Every One of Us a Fathomless Mystery

Every One of Us a Fathomless Mystery

The great writer and theologian Reinhold Niebuhr contended, that perhaps more evil comes into this world from premature judgments about others than from anything else.

That’s a strong statement. But if you think about it, there is a lot of truth in it.

So often, we think we know who a person is, or what their motives are, or how they will act, simply by how they look or where they come from…or from what they do for a living… or how they vote.

We also are quick to judge other people’s actions without having any idea, what their world is like. We so quickly size people up. We stereotype them. We become judgmental. And we make assumptions about them:

If you come from this country, then you must be like this, this and this…

If you are the kind of person who voted for Trump then you must also be like this, this, and this….If you are the kind of person who voted for Biden then you must also be like this, this, and this…

But the truth is much more complex than that.

Each and every one of us is a fathomless mystery. We carry within us not only a spark of the divine – we also carry within us unique backgrounds, history, experiences, and family dynamics – all of which shape what we believe, who we are, and how we see the world. None of us fit squarely within any label, or any box, or any stereotype.

And when we size up or judge others, or make assumptions, we so quickly miss the richness and depth of what they have to offer…

The philosopher John O’Donohue claims there is a hunger in everyone’s spirit to be seen, to be loved, to be accepted as you are, without being judged.

How true is that!

Let us pray: God of grace, at this time when the social fabric of our nation is torn and quickly fraying, at this time when so many are lonely, starved for connection, hungry to be known, empower us to be the kind of people, who are curious about others, quick to listen, slow to judge. We look to Jesus, who shows us the way. Amen.

The Art of Seeing Others

The Art of Seeing Others

Yesterday we reflected on the story in the Gospel of Mark where Jesus returns to his hometown. Things did not go so well. The town’s people say, “Is this not the carpenter?” And Mark tells us, he could do no deed of power there.

True, learning carpentry did not normally prepare someone to be such a wise man. Typically, rabbis would have received an entirely different education.

It seems as though the townspeople, not only see him as he once was, but also based on his trade, they have put him in a box, and given him a label.

Is this not the carpenter?

Have you ever had someone do that to you?

I remember a number of years ago now when I first met my neighbor Barbara at a neighborhood party, she asked me what I did for work. When I said, I’m a pastor, she scowled at me and said, “You have no right to tell me what to do with my body!”

I said, “Barbara, I have no interest in telling you what to do with your body.”

You know what she was doing. She had totally put me in a box. She was making the assumption that all Christians come down in the exact same place on a very complex moral and political question…

I don’t know about you, I do not like being put in a box!

But then again, I think about how often I do this to others. How often we all do: He’s a Trumper. She’s woke. Boomer. Old white guy. Socialist.

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Leo Tolstoy once wrote, “One of the commonest and most generally accepted delusions is that every man can be qualified in some particular way…”

On the other side of this, the author Zadie Smith said that when she was growing up, she would try to imagine what it would be like to live in the homes of her friends. She wrote, “I would rarely enter a friend’s home without wondering what it might be like to never leave. That is, what it would be like to be Polish or Ghanaian, or Irish or Bengali, to be richer or poorer, to say these prayers or hold these politics… Above all, I wondered what it would be like to believe the sorts of things I didn’t believe.”

What a beautiful way to train your imagination in the art of seeing others.

Let us pray: God of grace, at this time when the social fabric of our nation is torn, at this time when so many are lonely, starved for connection, hungry to be known, empower us to be the kind of people, who are curious about others, quick to listen, slow to judge. We look to Jesus, who shows us the way. Amen.

Is This Not the Carpenter?

Is This Not the Carpenter?

In Mark chapter 6, we find that Jesus has come back to his hometown of Nazareth.
And I kind of wonder what that would be like. Here’s a guy who had grown up there. It was a small town, and people knew him as a child. They probably watched him as he apprenticed in his father’s shop, and most likely had benefited from his work as he applied the trade himself.

But when he comes home, instead of going back into the shop, Mark tells us that he goes into the synagogue and begins to teach. This was not the role the town’s people were accustomed to seeing him in, and they seemed to be taken aback. They say, “Is this not the carpenter?”

Mark then tells us “he could do no deed of power there…”

Is this not the carpenter?

I don’t know if you have ever had that kind of experience, where when you return home after a long period of time, people still seem to see you in the way you were years ago. Perhaps even they still seem to see you as a child, and maybe even treat you that way.

I know with my own daughters, when they come home from college I so easily revert to viewing them as they were in High School. But when I pay attention even for a few moments, I am amazed at how much they have changed and grown.

Sometimes we see people only as they are on the surface, or only as we once knew them, without taking the time to get to know them in a deeper way. When we do this, when we size up or judge others, or make assumptions, we so quickly miss the richness and depth of what they have to offer…

Think about it. What if the town’s people, had truly listened to Jesus? What if they had made the effort to get to know him in a new way, on a deeper level? What if they had given him a chance to reveal all it was that God wanted to reveal through him?

What blessings might they have encountered? What healing might have taken place? What transformation and growth might they have experienced?

What wisdom, what connections, what blessings are we missing when we judge too quickly, or when we think we know someone before we really do?

Let us pray: God of grace, at this time when the social fabric of our nation is torn and quickly fraying, at this time when so many are lonely, starved for connection, hungry to be known, empower us to be the kind of people, who are curious about others, quick to listen, slow to judge. We look to Jesus, who shows us the way. Amen.