Where is God?

Where is God?

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

You know, when trouble comes into our lives or when tragedy strikes, we ask, “Where is God?” And the answer is – God is in the same place he was when his son was on the cross. God does not abandon us; God is with us every step of the way. He is with us even closer than our hands and feet. And as we keep moving forward, living one day at a time, trusting in God, and doing the best we can, he moves with us; he brings us through the valley. In the fiftieth chapter of Genesis, this is what Joseph referred to when he said to his brothers, “You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good.” (Genesis 50:20) What had happened was bad, but God brought good out of those terrible events. That is the good news of our faith. God is with us, and nothing, not even death, can separate us from Him. “Lo, I am with you always,” – this is God’s most significant promise, and when we claim that promise, it changes our lives. Now make this day a masterpiece for you are blessed to be a blessing to others.

Let us pray: God of all time, come into our lives and make us whole. As you entered time in Jesus the Christ, be born in us today and lead us to the light of your love. Be with all those in need of warmth and life and hope. Be with those who grieve. Be with those who are sick. Be with those who are afraid, that they may find themselves held in your strong arms. Lead us to your light, for we pray in the name of the light of the world, Jesus Christ. Amen.

Returning Love for Hate

Returning Love for Hate

I have heard that former Boston Red Sox Hall-of-Fame third baseman Wade Boggs hated Yankee Stadium, not because of the Yankees; but because of one particular Yankee fan. There was a man who had a box seat close to the field, and whenever the Red Sox were in town, he would shout obscenities and insults at Boggs. It’s hard to imagine one fan getting under the skin of a seasoned player, but this guy sure had a way of doing it!

One day as Boggs was warming up, the fan launched into his usual tirade. When he’d had enough, Boggs walked directly over to him and said, ‘Hey fella, are you the guy who’s always yelling at me? The man replied, ‘Yeah, it’s me. What are you going to do about it?’ Wade took a new baseball out of his pocket, autographed it, tossed it to the man, and went back to the field to his pre-game routine. Consequently, the man never yelled at Boggs again. In fact, he became one of Wade’s biggest fans at Yankee Stadium.

I love that story. It reminds me that when we respond to hatred with love, that love changes things. It may or may not actually change the other person, but it certainly changes us.

Let us pray: God of new beginnings, we pray today for those who might call themselves our enemies. We lift them up to your love and care. Open our hearts to them. We do ask you to rescue us from any abusive situations, but if it is safe, open our eyes to see ways in which we might show them love and kindness. As we share in your will, may we experience again your renewing grace. Amen.

Uncontainable

Uncontainable

A pastor was trying to explain to a Sunday school class that God is all around us. “God is everywhere!,” said the pastor. “Everywhere?” asked one little boy. “Everywhere!” answered the pastor.

The boy went home and told his mother, “God is everywhere! The pastor said so.” “Yes, I know,” replied the mother. The little boy continued, ”You mean he is even in the cupboard?” “Yes,” said the mother. “In the refrigerator, even when we close the door and the light goes out?” “Yes,” said the mother. “Even in the sugar bowl?” the boy asked as he took the lid off. “Yes,” said the mother, “even in the sugar bowl.” The boy slammed the lid down and said, “Now I’ve got him.”

The story is funny. And, it captures the truth that God is bigger than even we can ever imagine.

In the book of 1 Kings (chapter 8) at the dedication of the first temple, the author tells us that the glory of the Lord filled the temple so that the priests could not stand to minister… At that time, Solomon prayed, “Even heaven and the highest heaven cannot contain you – much less this house that I have built!”

There is a recognition very early on in our faith that God is at work beyond the walls of the sanctuary – beyond our denominations – beyond our understanding, beyond our grasp. You cannot contain the God we worship. God is bigger than we can ever begin to imagine.

Sometimes I want to have all the answers. I want to know why people see the world differently than I do. I want to know why there is poverty and violence. I want to know why people I love suffer. I want to know how and when God will answer my prayers.

Being human, we have to ask the questions. We have to seek to understand. But, being human also means that there may be things that we will never understand. And so here and now, with great humility, we have to trust. We have to trust that God is as good as Jesus told us that he is – merciful, forgiving, loving – with grace extending far beyond our wildest imaginations.

Let us pray: Almighty God, you are holy and majestic. We thank you for your unstoppable, uncontainable love – that reaches out and embraces even us. With all of our strength, in all of our weakness, with all of our faith, and in all of our doubt, help us to respond to you. Amen.

Jesus’ Question for You

Jesus’ Question for You

I once saw a collection of questions to be used for spiritual direction. They were all questions that Jesus asked people in the gospels. Like any good teacher, Jesus employed good questions as teaching tools.

The idea is this: Take just one question and live with it for a few days. Think about it. Meditate on it. Perhaps even journal about it. Most importantly let it read your heart and enrich your life.

I want to leave you with just a few of the questions Jesus asked. I invite you to choose one. Hold on to it for a few days, and through it, allow God to speak into your life.

Jesus asked:

Why are you afraid, you of little faith?
Why were you searching for me?
How many loaves do you have?
Do you have eyes and fail to see? Do you have ears, and fail to hear?
Do you believe that I am able to do this?
Do you love me?
Who do you say that I am?

Let us pray: Gracious God, today we pray for your guidance and direction. As we focus on just one of Jesus’ questions, open us to his wisdom. Comfort us where we need to be comforted. Challenge us where we need to be challenged. Then, draw us closer to you, through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Renewing of Our Minds

Renewing of Our Minds

Yesterday, we reflected on Paul’s encouragement to the Romans (12:2): “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds…:

How do we do that?

Well, a few thoughts. Many years ago now, a good friend suggested I find a good counselor and get into therapy. It was a huge blessing! I has made a huge difference for me personally. Highly recommended.

Of course, I’m also a big proponent of prayer, meditation, and journaling. I believe it is very important to take a little bit of time each day to sit in God’s healing presence, to pay attention to all that is stirring inside, and to hand that back over to God in prayer.

Jack Kornfield talks about how the great Vietnamese zen master Thich Hat Han put it this way: He said, “In the heart and mind, there are all kinds of seeds. There are seeds of joy and love of connection, seeds of creativity, peace and well-being, seeds of caring, of strength. But there’s also a whole set of seeds of fear and anxiety of anger or rage, greed or grasping, and so forth. How you live depends on which seeds you water. If you water and tend those healthy seeds, those are what will grow in you. And those become who you are in your response to the world.”

But it doesn’t happen by accident. We all have our history, our sufferings, and our struggles. At the same time, we all have gifts, blessings, and capabilities.

Paul seems to be saying, that if we want to change the world for the better, which with God’s help, we can, it starts with these inner capacities.

He begins with the statement: “I appeal to you therefore, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice…”(12:1)

Richard Foster once said, “The problem with a living sacrifice is that it always wants to get off the altar!”

May you and I stay on the altar. May we tend to our inner worlds. May we water the seeds of generosity, compassion and, hope. And may our whole lives, body, mind, and soul, be an offering of thanksgiving, gratitude for Christ’s love and generosity to us.

Let us pray: We give you our hearts, our minds, our hands, O God. Help us to love others as Jesus has loved us, to care for others as Jesus has cared for us, and to forgive others, as Jesus has forgiven us. We ask in his name. Amen.

Do Not Conform

Do Not Conform

Yesterday, I shared a passage from the book of Romans, chapter 12, “I appeal to you brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice…” Paul continues, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”

It’s interesting: the offering of our bodies begins with our minds… our interior world…

It’s as if to say, Jesus has called us to this beautiful way of life, a transformed way of life, a way of life that leads to healing, peace, and wholeness. It is a way of life that makes an impact on the world around us. But in order to make an impact in that outer world, we have to start in this inner world…

Do not conform, but be transformed…

What does that look like?

Maybe, at least in part, conforming to this age is taking on the fears and anxieties and grasping of this world around us.

I was listening to a podcast the other day, and this meditation teacher was talking about a friend who had gone through a pretty terrible divorce. He said the guy his friend had married was a successful type-A lawyer, and he was trying to keep all the money and also get custody of the children. He was also telling stories about her as a bad mother, while he was the one who had had a series of affairs. She said, “At some point, I came to where I could see a clear fork in the road, how I would deal with this. If I turned to the one direction, there was bitterness, smallness, and anger. To the other, was openness, forgiveness, and largeness.”

She had been praying and meditating, and she said, “I’ve come to a revelation. I will not take on that anger. I will not take on that smallness. And I will not bequeath a legacy of bitterness to my children.”

Often in life, we have choices about what we take in, what we take on, and what we absorb. There is a lot of anger, anxiety, and grasping in the world around us. There is a lot of hate.

Paul says do not be conformed.

I like the way Michael Singer puts it, “The world is sick and neurotic, but it doesn’t mean you have to be.”

With all the pain and suffering in the world around us, sometimes it feels overwhelming. But the one gift we can offer is our own sense of inner peace and well-being. May you and I ever work on ourselves. And, may we ever be open to the renewal and transformation of our inner worlds.

Let us pray: We give you our hearts, our minds, our hands, O God. Help us to love others as Jesus has loved us, to care for others as Jesus has cared for us, and to forgive others, as Jesus has forgiven us. We ask in his name. Amen.

Living Sacrifice

Living Sacrifice

In his letter to the Romans, chapter 12, the Apostle Paul writes, “I appeal to you… brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice…”

In Paul’s day, most religions including Judaism would offer burnt animal sacrifices: goats, birds, bulls. From a clergy standpoint, I am so glad they don’t do that anymore!

However, it was an act of worship. The animals given were not to be hunted – not found lame, but to come from a person’s own possessions. The offering had to be valuable to them. They were sometimes given as an atonement for sin, but other times they were offered simply as an act of gratitude.

Throughout his letters, Paul makes it clear: Jesus is now the atonement for sin. We don’t have to make that type of offering anymore, for by grace we have been saved. That’s done. However, there still is a kind of offering that is due. Out of deep gratitude for all that God has already done, present your body, your whole self, all that you have, all that you are, as a living sacrifice…

What does that mean? Well, over the next few chapters Paul spells that out very concretely. I’ll share just a few lines with you, beginning in verse 10:

Love one another…Rejoice in hope; be patient in affliction; persevere in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the saints; offer hospitality to strangers….Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another; do not be arrogant, but associate with the lowly… Do not repay anyone evil for evil…

He goes on from there. Not that easy.

Richard Foster once said, “The problem with a living sacrifice is that it always wants to get off the altar!”

May you and I stay on the altar. May our whole lives, the way that we live, the way we speak, the way we treat others, may we be an offering of thanksgiving, gratitude for Christ’s love and generosity to us.

Let us pray: We give you our hearts, our minds, our hands, O God. Help us to love others as Jesus has loved us, to care for others as Jesus has cared for us, and to forgive others, as Jesus has forgiven us. We ask in his name. Amen.

Crown of God’s Creation

Crown of God’s Creation

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

One of the greatest truths of the Bible is … We – you and I – are made in the image of God. Talk about a miracle! God made cats and dogs, hummingbirds, red cardinals, squirrels, elephants, giraffes, pelicans, dolphins, and the duck-billed platypus. God made the trees, the flowers, and skies. God made all of it and said, “That’s good! Now, that’s good!” And to cap it all off, God said, “Now, for the masterpiece: I am going to create something like myself!” And God made you! You see, it is a sin for us to say, “Well, I’m only human.” If you want to see one of God’s miracles, don’t gather pine cones, don’t look at the Milky Way, don’t capture a squirrel, and don’t find a picture of a trout stream, just look at the person next to you. There is God’s miracle! There is the crown of God’s creation!

Let us pray: Creator God, we marvel at your small wonders and your overarching grandeur. We crouch down to examine a centipede and we stand on a mountaintop to try to take in the Milky Way. We listen to the tiny cry of a newborn kitten and we cringe in the face of the roar of the thunderstorm. We are small indeed in the scheme of the universe, but we are grateful that you have made us in your image. When we are weary, give us energy. When we are sad, give us comfort. For all those who are suffering loss, who wonder what will happen next, we pray that you will walk before them and enable us to be companions along the way. Now “raise us up on eagle’s wings, bear us on the breath of dawn, make us to shine like the sun, and hold us in the palm of your hand.” (On Eagles Wings, based on Psalm 91). We ask this in Jesus’ name, the friend of all. Amen.

Whole

Whole

Today, I am deeply grateful for those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. So many people benefit from your giving!

Francis de Sales was one of the most revered saints of French history. Back in his day, there was a bishop who planned to write a biography of de Sales. In preparation, the bishop planned an extended visit. Wanting to know what this man was really like, he went so far as to drill a hole in the wall so he could spy on his conduct. What he discovered was that de Sales was the same in private as in public. He was a man of integrity.

I once heard the scholar Martin Marty talk about why he liked a friend so much. He said, “Her inside matches her outside.” It makes me smile to think about his statement.

I have to believe that’s something worth striving for.

Let us pray: Loving God, you know our hearts. You know we want to live lives that are more integrated, more whole, more in tune with you. Give us eyes to see where we come up short, but give us grace so we don’t get stuck in despair. And then, give us the will and the help we need to refine, readjust, and renew our lives; through Jesus Christ. Amen.

The Gift of Wonder

The Gift of Wonder

In an old Peanuts comic, Snoopy’s brother Spike who lives in the desert, is sitting with his back against a cactus. He’s writing a letter, “At night the sun goes down, and the stars come out; and then in the morning the sun comes up again. It’s so exciting to live in the desert.”

I love Spike’s sense of wonder and awe at the natural world. In our fast-paced world, filled with technological wonders, sometimes we take for granted the beauty that surrounds us on every side. Sunrises and sunsets, beautiful cloud formations, and star clusters abound. But often, we fail to notice – much less be amazed.

In his book, This Sunrise of Wonder, Michael Mayne writes this to his grandchildren: “If I could have waved a fairy grandfather’s wand at your birth and wished upon you just one gift it would not have been beauty or riches or a long life: It would have been the gift of wonder.” (Michael Mayne, This Sunrise of Wonder, p. 11)

Today I invite you to recover your sense of wonder. Try to get outside even if it is for a brief moment. If you can’t get outside, perhaps you could sit near a window. Breathe the fresh air. Smell the rain, or relish the sunshine. If you can’t get outside, perhaps you can sit near a window. Watch the clouds drift across the sky. Remember the words of the psalmist:

O Lord, our Sovereign, how majestic is your name in all the earth!… When I look at your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon, and the stars that you have established; what are human beings that you are mindful of them, mortals that you care for them?

Let us pray: Open our spirits again, O God, that we might be moved and awestruck by your creation, by the beauty of music and art, and by the love of friends and family.

Through this beauty, draw us closer to you. We give you all thanks and praise this day. Amen.