Getting Lost Is Not a Waste of Time

Getting Lost Is Not a Waste of Time

I recently heard about a Marine field exercise that took place at Camp Lejeune, N.C. A night patrol was making their way through some thick brush when halfway through, they realized they’d lost their map. The patrol navigator informed the rest of the squadron that the odds were 1 in 360 to make it back to their base of operations. One of the Marines asked, “How did you come up with that figure? One chance in 360?” “Well,” the navigator replied, “one of the degrees on the compass has to be right!” 

Obviously, those Marines were lost! Thankfully, it was only a training exercise, but they were lost, nonetheless. I think most of us have had those moments when we’ve felt lost and without direction.

There is a line in a popular song by Jack Johnson that resonates with me. He sings, “Getting lost is not a waste of time.”

No doubt feeling lost and without direction can be disconcerting. But, those moments are also heavy with potential. God is giving us the opportunity to look around and notice the blessings that surround us even now. We also are given a reason to reflect back on where we’ve been and to think again about where we thought we were headed. These “lost” moments are times to ask, “God where would you have me go? What is the next right step for me?”

I happen to believe that we worship a God who wastes nothing. God can use our past, and even our uncertain present to do new things in us and through us. May it be so.

Our prayer today comes from the Presbyterian Book of Common Worship. Let us pray:

Eternal God, you call us to ventures of which we cannot see the ending, by paths as yet untrodden, through perils unknown. Give us faith to go out with courage, not knowing where we go, but only that your hand is leading us and your love supporting us; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

All of Life is Sacred

All of Life is Sacred

I was reminded recently that even in the Garden of Eden – even in paradise – there was work. The book of Genesis tells us that, “The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to till it and keep it…” And, the way that heaven is described in the Bible, it appears that even beyond this life, complete retirement may never really happen. It seems as though there will always be some kind of work to be done.

Pulitzer prize-winning author, Pearl Buck once wrote, “To find joy in work is to discover the fountain of youth.” The monastic tradition teaches us to be mindful of God’s presence as we work, and that even the most menial task should be done with excellence – as though for God.

In God’s kingdom, the kind of work we do will be meaningful and filled with joy, because it will be done in partnership with God.

Whatever it is that you do day in, day out, whether you are paid or not, may you do it to the very best of your ability, and to God’s glory. May you ever be looking for ways to serve others through it. And, as you do, may you find deep joy and meaning in it.

Let us pray: Loving God, sometimes it feels as though our work is never done, the “To Do” list only seems to grow longer, and the tasks only multiply. We pray today that you would be present to us in the everyday moments – in the washing of dishes, answering emails, coping with employees or employers, and responding to needs of every sort. Infuse these moments with your grace. For we remember that when we work and live for you – all of life is sacred. Be especially with those who are struggling to find paid employment or meaningful work. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Why Do I Follow Christ?

Why Do I Follow Christ?

Yesterday I asked the question: Why did you begin following Jesus?

I remember when I was teaching high school, before going into the ministry. In fact, I was just kind of dipping my toes in the water of faith. I had been away from the church for years. I struck up a friendship with another teacher. He was a fellow surfer and had a pretty deep faith. I remember he often spent evenings and weekends mentoring youth – going to youth groups and soccer games and plays. And this was not because he got extra compensation – he didn’t.

I remember asking him why… Why do you do this? We were in our twenties. We could be surfing more. We could be fishing. We could be hanging out. And he said: You know these teenage years can be so difficult. And with all they are going through, I know it is hard for them to find a place to feel accepted just as they are. And if they don’t find it, they’ll keep looking – maybe they think they’ll find it with alcohol or drugs or the wrong crowd…And I believe God loves them and accepts – no strings attached.

I said, “I believe that too.”  

He said: Then we can’t just tell them. We have to show them… 

Yeah. I believe that too. Not just kids…

In the moment, it was enough of an answer to get me thinking: There’s something to this. Years later when I was in seminary, I worked one summer as a counselor to the homeless through a mission in inner-city Atlanta. One of the other councilors was a former addict himself. He had been on the street. And he would say, “It is only by the grace of God that I’m on this side of the desk… And I believe that if Jesus can rescue me, he can rescue anybody…”

He can rescue anybody… I believe that too. I’ve seen it.

And I remember many different people across the churches I’ve served over the years, not living perfect lives – but making attempts at compassion and grace, and forgiveness. Sometimes succeeding and sometimes failing. Sometimes supporting one another, sometimes not… but I’ve seen enough lives touched, enough hearts changed, enough past healed… And I’ve seen my own life deepen, and my own heart change… enough to believe this path with Christ is a gift.

Well, that just begins to touch on why I follow Christ. How about you? Why do you follow him?

Let us pray: Thank you, O God, for giving us glimpses of your hand at work through other people. Thank you for calling us to walk this path with Jesus – a path of grace, healing, compassion, and peace. Sustain us and bless us on this journey, so that we might be a blessing to you and to others. Amen. 

Why Did You Follow?

Why Did You Follow?

Over the years, people have often asked me: How did you know you were called into the ministry? 

I didn’t get a burning bush like Moses, or a heavenly vision like Isaiah. I didn’t hear the voice of the Lord booming down from heaven, “Whom shall I send?” I didn’t hear the words out loud. No. It was much more subtle. I knew I was called because I sensed something deep within – a tugging at my heart, a stirring of my soul.

But looking back, really, more important than any of that, I can see that this calling, was actually a calling that started years before. Before being called into the ordained full-time ministry, I was called first, like you, simply to follow Jesus. Which – even though I never thought about it this way – was no less a claim on my entire life.

Which is really interesting too in its own way. Because no one ever asked me how I knew I was called into the faith; how I knew I was called to follow Christ.

How did you know you were called to follow Christ?

I imagine some of you grew up in the church (like I did) and perhaps some of you felt a spark of faith from an early age (which I did not). I imagine for others of you there may have been a moment in time later in life, perhaps at the birth of a child, or the untimely death of a loved one, or perhaps a moment in worship or a moment in crisis, when you felt something deep inside you beginning to grow… A sense of more beyond. And I imagine for others of you, your sense of call to follow Christ came through the invitation of another person, (Come check out our church!), or through an act of compassion or beauty that you witnessed. 

I wonder how you knew you were called to follow Christ… 

But maybe an even more interesting question is why did you answer? And why have you continued to follow him? Today, I invite you to give these questions some thought. Perhaps take some time to journal your answers. And as you do, may your reflections become your prayer.

Let us pray: As we look back across the course of our lives, O God, we trust that you have been with us every step of the way. Give us eyes to see your hand at work. Remind us of the love, healing, peace, and transformation that we have experienced. And fill us anew with grace and hope. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

God Made Us Victors

God Made Us Victors

Today’s message was written by my friend Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

I remember an old story about a family that had twin boys. One son grew up and became an alcoholic. When someone asked him why, he said, “Because of my father.” The other son grew up and became a minister, and he dedicated his ministry to working with and helping alcoholics. When someone asked him why, he said, “Because of my father.” The two sons grew up in the same environment. One was trapped, shackled, paralyzed, and pulled down by his situation. The other turned to God and rose above it all. 

Sometimes we hear people say, “I’m doing the best I can under the circumstances.” Well, a friend of Dial Hope, we don’t have to live under the circumstances. By the grace of God, we can rise above them. We don’t need to remain victims. God can make us victors. We know that with the help of God, we can rise above our circumstances. The Apostle Paul said, “l can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13). 

Lord, thank you for keeping us moving and growing and alive, but Lord, life can seem so complicated. We pray that in dealing with all the complexities of life, you would help us to learn the steps and the timing that will make us your effective workers and lead us each to develop his or her own choreography. 

Let us pray: Loving God, 
Help us to know when to embrace and when to let go; 
When to lean, when to stand alone; 
When to rest and when to dance; 
When to sit back and when to take a chance; 
When to follow and when to lead; 
When to doubt and when to believe; 
When to push and when to pull; 
When to take charge, when to flow; 
When to reflect and when to react; 
When to think and when to act. 
Thank you, Lord. 

Thank you, Lord, thank you so much for the gift of this day. Help us to make it a masterpiece. Now let love and hope break out like an epidemic. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

A Centered Life

A Centered Life

A word of thanks is extended to all who so graciously support the Dial Hope ministry. Hope happens because of you.

When my daughter Marly was a child, I remember one Saturday night she had a friend stay for a sleepover. They got along great and had a great time. The next morning we brought her to church with us. Her family didn’t go to church, so we knew this was a somewhat new experience. Later that afternoon we overheard Marley asking her friend, “So, did you like church?” “No,” She said. “Well, I guess there were some fun parts. Do you go every Sunday?” Marley said, “Yes.” Her friend shot back, “Well, while you’re at church, I’m out playing!”  

When I heard that I thought: Oh, poor Marley. She’s way too young to understand the other side of that; we want her life to be grounded in deeper meaning and heart. We want her life to have a center and a focus. It’s not that play isn’t important – it is very important. Just like work is important, and family time is important. But if all of that is not grounded in something deeper – in Someone deeper, then where is she ultimately going to put her faith? In what is she going to hope?

I want her life, and mine to have a center and a focus, and a deep sense of faith. My pastor’s heart wants that for you as well. May all that we are and all that we do, be grounded in the One who came so that we might have life and have it to the fullest.

Our prayer this morning was written by classical scholar and priest Desiderius Erasmus sometime around 1500 ad. Let us pray:

O Lord, Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth, and the Life;
Do not let us stray from you, the Way, nor to distrust you, the Truth, nor to rest in anything other than you, the Life. Amen. 

Do You Want to Be Made Well?

Do You Want to Be Made Well?

In the Gospel of John Jesus asks a man who is clearly suffering, “Do you want to be made well?” (John 5:2-6). At first, it seems like a silly question. If you were sick, of course, you would want to be made well. Who wouldn’t? But the truth is sometimes we get used to being the way that we are. We get used to our habits, our routines, and our lives, even when these habits, routines, and lives aren’t as healthy as they could be. And sometimes change appears to be more difficult than coping with the illness itself. 

Sometimes we need to let Jesus ask us this question, “Do you want to be made well?” 

 Now it is true that sometimes our answer to that question may be a resounding yes, and yet we still do not get the physical healing that we long for. It is also true that we may be willing to change or do whatever it takes, and the healing still doesn’t come. Even the Apostle Paul does not get the healing that he seeks (See 2 Corinthians 12:5-9).  

However, it’s still a good question – especially as it relates to our spiritual lives. Are we willing to let go of past hurts, grudges, and wrongs to offer forgiveness? Are we willing to do the hard work of changing unhealthy habits or routines? Are we willing to ask for the help we may need? Sometimes the healing we seek is within our reach. 

May you be open to Jesus’ question. And, more importantly, may you be open to the change he may desire to bring. And in doing so, I pray that you would find your soul being made well. 

Let us pray: Loving God, we want to be made well. We need your healing and your grace even now. Grant us the serenity to accept what we cannot change. Grant us the courage to change what we can. And grant us the wisdom to know the difference. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

In Life and in Death

In Life and in Death

When the 19th-century Spanish general Ramon Narvaez was on his deathbed, he was visited by a priest. After a few moments of small talk, the priest inquired about the condition of the officer’s soul, “General, have you forgiven your enemies?” “I have no need to forgive them,” Narvaez replied weekly, “I’ve had them all shot!”

Dramatic deathbed conversions are actually a rarity. A person who has spent a lifetime avoiding or even opposing the idea of God does not usually change his or her mind near the end of life.

On the other hand, I have witnessed the serenity and peace of faithful people near the end of their lives more times than I can count. It is beautiful to see the quiet trust of someone who knows they belong to God – in life and in death.  

The Apostle Paul wrote (Romans 8:38), “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, not things to come… nor anything else in all of creation will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

I pray today that you would know the depths of God’s love for you – a love that endures through eternity. May that love empower you to live, trusting in the way of Christ now and forever.

Let us pray: We come before you with open hearts today. Some of us are full of joy, some of us are depressed and hurting, some of us are celebrating, and some of us feel so far from you. But we all have this in common – we need your love and grace to fall afresh on us today. Indeed, our hearts are restless, until they rest in you. So, I pray that you would rest your Spirit on each one of us – even now. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

In the Middle of it All!

In the Middle of it All!

Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

There’s a story of two cowboys out on the range caring for a large herd of buffalo. One of the cowboys says to the other, “These buffalo are the dirtiest, smelliest, ugliest creatures on the face of the earth.” Hearing this conversation, one nearby buffalo turns to another and says, “I thought out here we weren’t supposed to hear a discouraging word!”

Encouragement is the specialty of the people of God… that is what we do best. And, we take our cue from Paul who said, “Therefore let us encourage one another and build up each other…” (1 Thessalonians 5:11). In other words, each of us is of incredible worth to God. Every life is precious. 

A father and his daughter were on a cruise ship together after the untimely death of their wife and mother. As they stood on the deck of the ship one day, the little girl looked at her father and asked, “Daddy, does God love us as much as Mommy did?” The father thought for a moment and then said, “Honey, God’s love reaches farther than you can see in that direction.” He pointed to the far horizon. Then, pointing in the opposite direction, he added, “And God’s love reaches farther than you can see in this other direction.” He pointed up toward the sky. “God’s love is higher than the sky.” Finally, he pointed down over the rail of the ship. “God’s love is deeper than the ocean.” “Oh, and just think Daddy,” the daughter replied, “We’re here in the middle of it all!”

So it is. We are surrounded, loved, and treasured by God. Our lives are precious to God in every way. Friend of Dial Hope, spread encouragement, spread the Good News, the TA-DA! of the Gospel, and make today a masterpiece.

Loving God, we are awakened from our slumber to the promise of a new day; a day of breathing and walking, a day of laughter and joy. For this is the day that you have made! Help us today to spread encouragement, to put on the clothes of compassion, the garments of grace and hope and gentleness. We come to you because you have come to us. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Counter Intuitive

Counter Intuitive

I was listing recently to a podcast interview with Dr. Richard Davidson, a neuroscientist from the University of Wisconsin. He spoke about a study on happiness where one group of people were given $100 and told they could go out and spend it on something nice for themselves. Another group was also given $100 and told they had to either give it away or spend it on someone else. At the end of the day, they gathered the participants back and asked them a series of questions. I’m sure you can guess the results. The people who gave away the money or who spent it on others were way above and beyond happier than those who spent it on themselves. In fact, it wasn’t even close.

It’s counterintuitive. But I think this is why people so often come back from mission trips or from giving out food to the hungry, or from building Habitat homes and say things like, “I got way more out of that than I gave to it!” It is why people who give generously feel so good when they write a check. And it is why when we know we’ve made a difference in somebody else’s life – when we’ve given everything we have to something significant – something we believe in, we experience deep joy. 

Like many of you, and like many before me, I too have found that when I make it all about me, which I do all too often, my life is small and skewed. But when I open my heart and hands, to him and to others, my life is never so abundant…

Jesus once said, “For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it…” (Mark 8:34-37)

Let us pray: Generous God, You give extravagantly, and we thank you for the abundant blessings that fill our lives. Thank you also for creating us in your image. Help us to ever be looking for ways to give to others as you have given to us; in Jesus’ name. Amen.