The One Gift We Can all Offer

The One Gift We Can all Offer

Several years ago, back when I was doing some continuing education up in Atlanta, I ran into an old friend who had been the chaplain at Columbia when I was in seminary. She was there in the hospital the day my daughter Marley was born, and it was so good to see her.

When I ran into her she was retired, and I asked her what she was doing these days. And she said, “You know Joe. I’m 72 years old. I don’t have any mountains to climb. I’m thinking a lot less these days about doing, and I’m focusing a lot more on being. I want to be centered. I want to be grounded. I want to be generous and kind. I want to be at peace in my soul. I want to be present to my children and grandchildren. I’m working on being.”

How do you do that?

“Well, I sit in Jesus’ presence and let him work on me.”

It reminded me of something John O’Donohue said quoting the 14th-century Christian mystic, Meister Eckhart, “So many people come to me asking how I should pray, how I should think, what I should do; and the whole time, they neglect the most important question, which is, how should I be?

O’Donohue later went on to reflect on Eckhard’s teachings: “There is a place in the soul that neither time nor space nor no created thing can touch. There is a place within you where you have never been wounded, where there is still a sureness in you, where there’s a seamlessness in you, where there is a confidence and tranquility in you. And I think the intention of prayer… is now and again to visit that inner kind of sanctuary.”

We are at a time when there is an immense need in our nation, in our neighborhoods, our communities, and in our families. And sometimes it feels overwhelming. What do we do?

But I’m more and more aware that the one gift we all can offer if we are willing to go deeper, is the gift of our inner peace and well-being, the groundedness which is the well-spring of the compassion, generosity, and grace which the world so desperately needs. Your peace and well-being are a gift – not only to you – but to the world.

May we turn to Jesus. And let Him work on us.

Let us pray: We pause even for a moment in your presence right now, O God, asking for your healing, life-giving Spirit to fill us and renew us. Help us carve out time and space to meet with you so that we might be people of compassion and centers of peace. Amen.

Centering Prayer

Centering Prayer

There is a passage early on in the Gospel of Mark when Simon’s mother-in-law is sick with a fever. Jesus takes her by the hand and lifts her up, and she’s made well. And suddenly, that quick, Mark tells us that the entire town was at their doorstep – the sick, the hurting, the possessed. And you can imagine Jesus going from person to person. The overwhelming need. The overwhelming desperation: Can you heal my daughter? My husband, he’s been suffering… My son…

Reading this you might wonder how does Jesus keep going? The need is never-ending. But then, Mark gives us a glimpse, “In the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up and went out to a deserted place…and there he prayed.”

I want to get practical for just a minute here. Prayer in theory is one thing. Prayer out of desperation is one thing. But the question is: How do you make prayer a guiding / shaping force in your life?

You know, we usually think about prayer as a conversation – and often a pretty one-sided conversation. And so often for me, it becomes a litany: God, I need help. I need this, I need that. Jim needs healing…

And prayer is that. But it is not only that. Prayer is also communion – that is: simply sitting in God’s presence – being aware of God’s presence – giving attention to him. It is a kind of offering that brings us into a direct experience of something bigger than ourselves.

If you’ve never tried this kind of prayer before, I invite you to try it this week. Find a quiet place where you can give your undivided time and attention to Christ. Close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths. Slowly become aware of God’s presence around you and in you. Focus on your breath and the life-giving, healing Spirit of God that is all around us. When your mind drifts, gently let go of the thoughts, offer them to God, and come back to that breath. Alternatively, you might focus on a short passage of scripture, and when your mind drifts, return to the scripture. You may do this 1,000 times, and that’s ok. Trust that God is meeting you in this time. Perhaps set a timer for two minutes… working your way up to five minutes… then maybe up to 20 minutes.

Marjory Thompson says that when “we… simply become quiet before God, the Spirit is free to work its healing mysteries in us: releasing us from bondage, energizing new patterns of life, restoring our soul…”

Let us pray: Gracious God, we want to be the kind of people who are centered, non-anxious, and hopeful. We want to be at peace with ourselves and at peace with others. Help us make time for you. Meet us in this offering this week; through Christ, our Savior. Amen.

Where is God?

Where is God?

You know, when trouble comes into our lives or when tragedy strikes, we ask, “Where is God?” And the answer is – God is in the same place he was when his son was on the cross. God does not abandon us; God is with us every step of the way. He is with us even closer than our hands and feet. And as we keep moving forward, living one day at a time, trusting in God, and doing the best we can, he moves with us; he brings us through the valley.

In the fiftieth chapter of Genesis, this is what Joseph referred to when he said to his brothers, “You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good.” (Genesis 50:20) What had happened was bad, but God brought good out of those terrible events. That is the good news of our faith. God is with us, and nothing, not even death, can separate us from Him. “Lo, I am with you always,” – this is God’s most significant promise, and when we claim that promise, it changes our lives. Now make this day a masterpiece for you are blessed to be a blessing to others.

Let us pray: God of all time, come into our lives and make us whole. As you entered time in Jesus the Christ, be born in us today and lead us to the light of your love. Be with all those in need of warmth and life and hope. Be with those who grieve. Be with those who are sick. Be with those who are afraid, that they may find themselves held in your strong arms. Lead us to your light, for we pray in the name of the light of the world, Jesus Christ. Amen.

Fulfilling the Law of Christ

Fulfilling the Law of Christ

Andrew Davison once wrote about visiting Dr. Albert Schweitzer at his mission hospital in Lambarene on the banks of the Ogowe River. There was one occasion that really stood out for Davidson.

One morning just before noon, a group of visitors and Dr. Schweitzer were climbing a hill as the sun was beating down on them. All of a sudden, the 85-year-old Schweitzer, left the group. He crossed the incline and approached a local African woman who was struggling to carry a huge bundle of wood. Davidson said that he watched with both admiration and concern as this elderly man took the whole load of wood and carried it up the hill for this very relieved woman.

When the visitors reached the top, one of them asked Dr. Schweitzer why he would ever do such a thing in that heat – at his age. Albert Schweitzer said simply, “No one should ever have to carry a burden like that alone.”

My prayer for you is that you would not ever have to bear a heavy burden alone. May God grant you the courage to ask for help when you need it. And, may God surround you with good people – people who will listen to you and pray for you and help you when you need it most.

In a similar vein, while we may not be able to physically bear other people’s burdens like Dr. Schweitzer, we all can stay attuned to other people’s struggles and needs. Even if we can’t assist physically, we certainly can help them get the help they need.

The apostle Paul wrote to the church in Galatia, “Bear one another’s burdens and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.

Let us pray: We thank you, Loving God, that you are ever present – that your love and grace surround us at every moment. We also thank you for the people in our lives who make a difference. For those who serve us and for those who love us and for those who pray for us, we give you thanks. Empower us to reach out to others, to listen, to help, to serve, and to show our love – in your name – following in the footsteps of your Son Jesus; in whose name we pray. Amen.

Relentless Love

Relentless Love

There is a Peanuts comic in which Lucy comes up to Charlie Brown and says, “I love you.” This is so out of character for Lucy that Charlie Brown replies, “No, you don’t.” Lucy repeats herself this time a little louder, “Yes I do, I really love you.” But Charley Brown has been rejected so many times he responds again and again, “It can’t be true.” In the last slide, Lucy has reached the limit of her patience and she screams, “HEY STUPID, I LOVE YOU!”

Sometimes I wonder if that’s what God has to do with us!

It is true that some people have a hard time believing that they are loved. For various reasons, they have a hard time feeling accepted, chosen, and valued.

In the Gospel of Luke, Jesus tells a series of parables: about a lost coin, a lost sheep, and finally about a prodigal son. These stories illustrate the lengths God will go to seek us, find us, and bless us with grace and love. Even when we are stubborn or hard-headed, God’s love is relentless.

Let us pray: We come before you with open hearts today. Some of us are full of joy, some of us are depressed and hurting, some of us are celebrating, and some of us feel so far from you. But we all have this in common – we need your love to fall afresh on us today. I pray that you would rest your Spirit on each one of us – open us again to your amazing grace. Amen.

A Humble and Contrite Heart

A Humble and Contrite Heart

In ancient times, providing a burnt offering was a very normal way to worship God. In fact, it was a requirement. So it is interesting that Psalm 51 offers this prayer, “For you take no delight in sacrifice. If I were to give a burnt offering you would not be pleased.” But then, the prayer continues, “The sacrifice acceptable to God is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God you will not despise.”

The spirit and the heart are metaphors for our inner world. Sometimes this inner world becomes hard with pride and the illusion of self-sufficiency. A broken spirit and a contrite heart are the effects of the realization that I’m not perfect. I’m human. I’m flesh and blood. I’ve made mistakes and I want to change. We may pray: God, I need you. I need your grace and your mercy and your help.

The point is, before anything else, God wants our hearts. And, it is only when we are able to come before the Lord with that openness, that humility, that desire to surrender to God’s will – that our worship, our good works, and our offerings make sense.

Rudyard Kipling wrote, ”When the tumult and shouting dies, the captains and the kings depart: Still stands Thine ancient sacrifice, ‘A humble and contrite heart.’ Lord God of Hosts, be with us yet, lest we forget… lest we forget.”

Our prayer is taken from Psalm 51. Let us pray: Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Restore me again to the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit. Through Jesus Christ. Amen.

A Heart of Gratitude

A Heart of Gratitude

Rev. Keith Wagner once wrote about an old legend: A man stumbled upon a great red barn after wandering for days through a forest in the dark. He was seeking refuge from the howling winds of a storm. As he entered the barn, his eyes grew accustomed to the dark. To his astonishment, he discovered that this was the barn where the devil kept his storehouse of seeds. These were the seeds that were to be sown in the hearts of humans. The man became curious and lit a match. He began exploring the bins of seeds all around him. He couldn’t help but notice that the great majority of them were labeled, “Seeds of Discouragement.”

About that time one of Satan’s helpers arrived to pick up a load of seeds. The man asked, “Why the abundance of discouragement seeds?” The helper laughed and replied, “Because they are so effective and they take root so quickly.” “Do they grow everywhere?” the man asked. Satan’s helper became very sullen and glared at the man. “No,” He responded. “They seem to have a hard time growing in the heart of a person who is grateful.”

There is no doubt that seeds of discouragement are indeed everywhere. But it also seems to be true that when we reflect even for a short while on our blessings, it is hard to feel discouraged for long.

Today, I call to mind those whom I love and hold dear. I hear the songs of the birds and I feel the cool morning breeze. I remember the smile of a friend, the laughter of my children, and the promises of our faith. And I feel deep gratitude.

The 14th Century Christian Mystic, Meister Eckhart once wrote, “If the only prayer you ever say is ‘thank you,’ that will suffice.”

Our prayer today was written by Ambrose of Milan – sometime in the late fourth century. Let us pray: O Lord God, you are medicine for me when I am sick. You are my strength when I need help. You are life itself when I fear death. you are the way when I long for heaven. You are light when all is dark. You are my food when I need nourishment! Thank you! Amen.

Praying Together

Praying Together

Yesterday, I reflected on the beauty of community as part of why I follow Christ. I continue that theme today.

A few weeks back, someone said to me: Praying alone is good, but praying together is powerful. This made me think about how on September 11, 2001, our church held a prayer vigil that evening. I remember we sang together the Kyrie – Lord have mercy… Christ have mercy… Lord have mercy upon us… One of the most ancient Christian hymns, and I couldn’t even sing it. I had a lump in my throat and tears streaming down my face. But the community sang it for me.

You may have had moments like that when you’ve come in to worship on a Sunday morning perhaps after the loss of a loved one, or after a bad diagnosis, or at some other terrible moment, and you can’t sing and you can’t pray… but the prayers and hymns of a hundred others surround you… the community prays it for you… the community sings it for you.

Is there another public place where it is okay to cry? For that matter, is there another public place where we come together across the political spectrum to work for the common good?

And no, it’s not always easy. And yet…

When else in life, do we stop to re-focuses our lives? When else are we able to honestly name the reality of the world around us – yes, there is a lot of brokenness, a lot of hurt and pain and hunger – yet still say, we are here to worship because we don’t believe that suffering has the last word. We’re here to serve our community together because we don’t believe that brokenness has the last word… There is a far greater power at work – who has called us.

At a time when loneliness and social isolation are described as an epidemic, at a time when our nation is so divided, at a time when change is happening so rapidly when the social and moral fabric feels as though it is fraying, I know I can’t navigate it alone. I need Christ… And I need the church.

That’s part of why I follow Christ. How about you?

Let us pray: Loving God, I thank you for my family of faith, for a community of people to walk alongside me on this journey of life. I thank you for the way in which they love me and challenge me, and pray for me. What a gift! May you continue to meet with us as we meet with you. In Christ’s name. Amen.

The Gift of Community

The Gift of Community

A few weeks back, I raised the question: Why do you believe? If you were to make a case, even a “self-interested” case, for following Jesus, what would you say?

When I truly reflect on it, almost nowhere else have I experienced God’s movement in such a powerful way as I have in the community into which Christ calls us. It has been integral to my faith – watching hearts and lives change as people come together to worship and to make an impact on those who are most in need.

I think about working side-by-side with fellow church members on Habitat for Humanity projects. I can picture impoverished children opening the Angel Tree gifts at Christmas, Easter baskets, and the backpacks full of food that we buy and put tougher. I think about quilts full of prayers given to those who have been sick or in the hospital… And I think about the hospitality in the bountiful receptions our deacons put together for families after a memorial service.

When I think about the impact Christ has had on my life, no doubt the community aspect has been one of the most profound. In my teenage years and early 20’s, I resisted and really steered clear of the church. I said things like: I believe in God, but I don’t believe in an institution. (You’ve never heard that before, have you? So original.) And on Sunday mornings, I would have much rather been on the beach surfing, or on the water fishing.

But now, when I look back on how my life has been shaped, and when I think about the people (and not just the saints – but even the most difficult people) how they have enriched my life, how they have loved me through some of the most heart-wrenching moments of my life, and how they have challenged me to practice what I preach and taught me what it means to be generous, and forgiving, and how to overcome great obstacles and preserver, I can’t believe that I might have gone through this life and missed this gift!

When I think about why I follow Christ, I am grateful for the family of faith.

Let us pray: Today, O God, I am deeply grateful for a community of people to walk with me along this journey of life. I thank you for meeting us as we join our lives together in your name. May you continue to bless us that we would in turn bless others. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Stop the World

Stop the World

Today’s message was written by my friend Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

In the Broadway musical, “STOP THE WORLD, I WANT TO GET OFF,” actor Anthony Newley sang a powerful song: “Once in a Lifetime.” It contains these poignant words: “This is my moment… I’m gonna do great things.”

Sadly, we must confess that we know the empty feeling of “missing our moment,” letting the moment pass. All of us, because of fear or timidity, or insecurity, have let special opportunities, special moments slip by us. Psychologists tell us that if we do not act every time we have this kind of feeling, we are less likely to act later when other such moments present themselves. Each time we fail to act, we become more hardened, more desensitized, more emotionally paralyzed. We trick ourselves by substituting emotion for action, by thinking that just because we felt it, it has been cared for.

How many letters never have been written?
How many phone calls have never been made?
How many compliments have been left unsaid?
How many “I’m sorrys” remain unspoken?
How many “Thank yous” have never been said?
How many “I love yous” are still unexpressed?
How many commitments are still not made?
because we missed our moment!

If there is an emptiness, a void, a vacuum, a hunger in your life, remember: Jesus offers you life. Don’t miss this moment! If there’s any kindness or love you can show, show it now. Seize the moment! Live today fully and make it a masterpiece!

Let us pray: God of love, we know you are always with us and you love us. How patiently you tutor us! Straighten the backbone of our beliefs, strengthen our resolve, move us to action, so that the roots of faith will reach the center of our hearts. Grant us peace that comes from your love…that whether we walk through fields of flowers or stumble along streets of sadness, we will walk beside you. Be close today to those who are experiencing grief or loneliness. Surround the men and women serving our country in Iraq and Afghanistan with your wraparound love. In Jesus’ name. Amen.