Something to Offer

Something to Offer

Yesterday, I told a story about Mother Teresa. Today I share with you a story of a saint closer to home.

One freezing cold January morning, I was helping out in a homeless shelter with a young student named Chris. Chris was taking coffee outside to fill the cups of those who were waiting. An hour or so into it, he came back inside without his shoes on. Everybody was asking him, “So where are your shoes, Chris?” Chris answered, “There is an elderly man outside on this freezing cold January morning who didn’t have any shoes. He asked whether the shelter had any in size 11, but they don’t. Well, I wear size 11, and I got to thinking about all the pairs I have at home in my closet. So, I just took off my shoes and gave them to him.”

At first, we all thought Chris was nuts! He would have to go home in the cold, barefoot. However, on reflection, his act was inspiring. His personal faith compelled him to care, to give, and not to judge.

We can’t all be Mother Teresa, and we can’t all give the shoes off our feet. But, if we stop and think about it, each and every one of us can show compassion and grace to those in need. Each and every one of us does have something to offer.

Let us pray: Help us to see the need around us, O God. And, give us the courage and creativity to meet that need – if not in the moment, at least in reflection. Compassionate God, it is truly amazing when we consider how generosity changes the world around us, and how it changes the world within us. It is inspiring to see! Help us today to move from self-centered thoughts to self-giving actions. As we do, may we discover deeper joy and meaning, and hope; through Jesus Christ. Amen.

The Beauty in Self-giving Love

The Beauty in Self-giving Love

I once heard from a guy talking about an internship he had in India where he served alongside Mother Teresa. He said that one day in worship he found himself staring at Mother Teresa’s feet. They were just gnarly – deformed. After the service, a local man came up to him and said, “I see you staring at the Mother’s feet. Do you know why they are like that? They are like that because whenever a box of shoes is donated and shipped over from the States, the Mother goes through the box and picks out the worst pair she can find. She takes those for herself.

It is clear that Mother Teresa had a servant’s heart. She gave sacrificially, beyond what most of us could imagine doing ourselves.

The Apostle Paul wrote, “Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus… who… by taking the very nature of a servant… he humbled himself…” Jesus himself said, “Whatever you have done to the least of these who are my brothers and sisters, you have done it to me.”

We can’t all be Mother Teresa, but we can learn something from her example. There is great beauty in self-giving love.

Our prayer today was written by Nobel Peace Prize recipient Dag Hammarskjold. Let us pray: Great and good God, give us pure hearts that we may see you, humble hearts that we may hear you, hearts of love that we may serve you, hearts of faith that we may live in you, reverent hearts that we may worship you, here and in the world out there, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Living Fully Here and Now

Living Fully Here and Now

Years ago, my Grandfather preached what I think was an Easter sermon, which he wrote as though a letter to his family on the event of his death. He was very pointed. He wanted his memorial service in the church not in a funeral home. He also said he wanted a simple casket, the cheapest one possible, and no gravestone or maker. No flowers. “Don’t waste your money on it!”, he said. My family adhered to some of that – but he does have a marker out in our church’s memorial garden.

What I appreciated about his message, is the willingness to think through it, to plan. Too many times I’ve had families after the death of a loved one, trying to figure out what their father or mother wanted – memorial service or otherwise. He also lifted up the hope we have in Christ of life eternal – life beyond death.

We don’t like to think about death. There is no doubt that we live in a culture that glorifies youth and that encourages us to deny it or defy it, to do whatever it takes to look younger than we are. We spend 100 billion dollars a year spent on anti-aging products. We also live in a time when our healthcare system is hyper-focused on prolonging life at all costs, forgoing almost any conversation considering quality of life. This is why Hospice has been such a gift.

I know we don’t like to think about death. But Jesus spoke often of his own death and ours, and the gospels certainly don’t shy away from it, as if to push us to come to grips with it.

Now having said all of that, I’ve known way too many people who get old before their time. And I never fail to be inspired by someone in their later years who has a youthful heart. Jesus himself – in his teachings and ministry focused extensively on life here and now – which raises the question: Is there something about awareness of the end that adds depth and vitality to life now?

As I mentioned yesterday, I know for me, when I remember that one day I will be here no longer, that reflection makes me love more fiercely, appreciate more deeply the people around me, and feel more fully the beauty of life here and now.

Let us pray: Life is such a precious gift, O God. Help us to appreciate not only the beauty of creation but also the beauty of relationships. Help us to cherish each moment with a friend, each hug from a family member, and each conversation with a loved one. And, above us, remind us again and again that in life and in death we belong to you; through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Sacred, Ancient, and Deep

Sacred, Ancient, and Deep

On her work car, my wife Robbie has a bumper sticker that reads, “I brake for old graveyards.” And indeed she does. She loves old graveyards and it is one aspect of her work in the field of archeology. And so over the years, I’ve tagged along from time to time.

We visited the grave of Zora Neil Hurston while in Stewart Florida. We’ve taken our girls to see the stark contrast between Evergreen and a neighboring old African American cemetery in West Augustine (side by side and vastly different). We’ve walked the cemetery grounds all over Scotland and France, looking at dates. And sometimes when I’m out there, I feel like I’m standing on the edge of somewhere sacred, ancient, and deep.

When I was right out of college, I took a job teaching high school Spanish on the outer banks of North Carolina and actually stayed for a while in a small travel trailer parked behind a Methodist church in their old graveyard. I remember the pastor saying, the day I moved in, “Hey, at least you’ll have quiet neighbors!” At that stage in my life, old graveyards felt creepy…

Little did I know!

I can remember also a time in my early thirties, standing by the bedside of a parishioner just at that moment of death. You could almost sense his spirit leaving the body. It was a holy moment. And again I felt I was on the brink of somewhere ancient and deep…

I know we don’t like to think about death. However, many of the great faith traditions, including Christianity encourage some measure of contemplation on the end of life. I know for me when I remember that one day I will be here no longer, that reflection makes me love more fiercely, appreciate more deeply the people around me, and feel more fully the beauty of life here and now.

The psalmist prays, “Teach us to count our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” (Psalm 90:12) Teach us to count our days that we may gain perspective. Teach us to count our days and remember what is truly most important in our lives. Teach us to count our days that might put our trust again in the One to whom we belong.

Let us pray: Eternal God, we thank you for the gift of life and for the beauty of living. We thank you for family and friends who make life rich. Today, we remember how uncertain and fragile it all is, and we rest our hope in you. Today we recall that in life and in death we belong to you, and our hearts are grateful; through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Christian Gumption

Christian Gumption

Today’s message was written by the founder of Dial Hope, the Rev. Roger Kunkel

One of my favorite movies is “Forest Gump” which came to the theaters over 10 years ago. It literally took America by storm! Do you remember these Forest Gump sayings: “Stupid is as stupid does,” and “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get.” If you’ll pardon the pun, I want to suggest that we need more Christian Gumption. The word Christian means Christlike, and the word gumption means boldness, courage, wisdom, resourcefulness, strength. Forest Gump has a simple faith in which he lives boldly. He lives life unselfishly. He loves people unconditionally. He trusts God unreservedly. That basic outline is not only a summation of Forrest Gump’s life, it also is a pretty good synopsis of the teachings of Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount.

When Jesus says things, such as “Be humble-minded,” “Be obedient,” “Be merciful,” “Be pure in heart,” Be peacemakers,” “Be the salt of the earth and light of the world,” “Turn the other cheek,” “Go the second mile,” “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” he means “Have Christian Gumption.” Be bold and confident and courageous and strong. Live boldly in the spirit of Christ and trust God to bring it outright. In other words, live life unselfishly! Love people unconditionally! Trust God unreservedly! Trust God.

Let us pray: Loving God of song and saga, of earth and history, we thank you for the rich heritage of our nation; for pilgrim’s feet and patriot’s dream; for fruited plain and purple mountains majesty, for universities and churches; for Indian and Scottish and Irish and Italian and Chinese and Puerto Rican and Slavic and Greek; for Protestant and Catholic and Jew, and Mormon, Amish, Mennonite, and Muslim. We pray for the dedication to keep the dream alive, the dream to deepen the sense of communication among races and individuals. Let the spirit of Christ unite our hearts and minds that we may praise you forever. Transform our attitudes, so that we live in excitement and expectation. Teach us to stand on tiptoe, listening for your voice and looking for the evidence of your presence, yes, even in our pain, our hurt, our illness. Anoint every listener with unexpected grace, especially those struggling to be whole. Bless us now so we may be a blessing to others, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Role Models

Role Models

Pastor Jerry Steen tells a story about when he first started out in the ministry. He had to have a second job mixing feed for farm animals to supplement his income. Steen relates that each day when he came home from work, his two boys would look at him, smile, and would say, “Boy, dad, you sure are dusty!” He would reply, “Yes, I sure am dusty.” Then he’d go and get cleaned up.

He didn’t think too much of this until one day he was washing his car and saw his oldest son picking up the gravel and stones from the driveway and rubbing them into his pants. He asked his son, “What are you doing?” The boy replied, “I want to be dusty like you Dad!”

Steen’s story reminds me that we are all following someone. We learn from our parents, our family, our friends, and the people we admire. We pick up a lot – even unconsciously.

Today, it may be worth reflecting on who you look up to as a role model. Who do you truly admire? What are some of the traits you see in them that you would like to emulate? Likewise, it may also be worth reflecting on who it is that is looking up to you. What are some character traits you would like to pass along?

Late in his life, after he had matured deeply in the faith, the apostle Paul wrote to the church in Philippi, “Keep on doing the things that you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, and the God of peace will be with you.”

Let us pray: God of Grace, draw us near to people who make this world a better place – people who reflect your love, kindness, and peace. May we learn from them, so that we too grow more and more into your likeness. Amen.

Healing and Redeeming the World

Healing and Redeeming the World

There is an old story about a man who was stopped by St. Peter at the Pearly Gates. Peter said, “Not so fast, my friend. We’ve got a new policy now. You have to tell us that you’ve done a very good deed.” The man replied, “I have done a good deed. I once saw a gang of skinhead bikers picking on a little old lady. I went up to their leader and told him he ought to pick on someone his own size. I punched him in the stomach and then kicked over his Harley.” St. Peter was impressed, “That is a good deed. When did you do this?” The man replied, “Oh, about three minutes ago.”

It is true that sometimes our good deeds don’t pay! Sometimes it feels as though they aren’t appreciated, or that they don’t really make a difference.

There is a line of theology that teaches that by doing good deeds and by being generous, we share in God’s work of healing and redeeming the world around us. I like that thought. I like the idea of working alongside God for a better world.

Sometimes our best efforts are met with resistance or frustration. However, I have to trust that they do matter. I have to trust that they do add up. And I have to trust that ultimately, they do make a difference.

Let us pray: Today, loving God, we ask you to speak deep into our lives. Help us to know beyond any doubt that you are with us, that you know us, that you care. Empower us again to share in your loving redemptive power. We pray for your kingdom to come on earth, and in our lives, as it is in heaven, even now. Amen.

The Race That Is Set Before Us

The Race That Is Set Before Us

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Some time ago, I heard about a woman named Georgene Johnson who ran a marathon by accident. At the starting line, she lined up with the wrong group. Her plan was to run the 10K – not the marathon. But as it turned out, she left the gate with the wrong group.

It was not until the four-mile mark that she realized her mistake, and at that point, she decided to just keep going. She ended up finishing the race in four hours and four minutes. Later she explained, “I thought to myself: This isn’t the race I trained for. This isn’t the race I entered. But, for better or worse, this is the race I’m in.”

Maybe there have been times in your life when you have felt like that. I’m not exactly doing what I planned to be doing. I’m not exactly where I thought I’d be at this point in my life. But here I am – for better or worse – this is the race I’m in.

From time to time, we all find ourselves in situations that are difficult, challenging, and even heart-wrenching, whether it is battling an illness, taking care of an aging parent, working through a difficult relationship, or some other struggle. The challenge for all of us is to preserver. The challenge is not to give in to bitterness, cynicism, or negativity.

The book of Hebrews (12:1) encourages us:

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight and the sin that clings so closely. and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us…”

Let us pray: Along this journey of life, O God, we find there are twists and turns, detours and dead ends. The path does not always unfold the way we’d hoped and planned, but we do thank you for traveling with us. Today, we ask you to continue to strengthen us with hope and courage, and companionship along the way. Even amid the struggles may we experience your joy. Amen.

Will You Listen?

Will You Listen?

Today’s message was written by my friend Roger Kunkel.

Some time ago, someone placed this ad in a Kansas newspaper. “I will listen to you talk for 30 minutes without comment for $5. We smile at that, maybe laugh. It sounds like a stunt, a hoax. But the person putting the ad in the paper was serious. Did anybody call? You be they did! It wasn’t long before this individual was receiving 10 to 20 calls a day.

The pain of loneliness was so sharp that some were willing to try anything for a half-hour of companionship. The truth is that every one of us encounters some person, probably daily, who would be willing to pay someone to listen. The tragedy is, we are not sensitive enough to identify them, or we don’t care enough to respond. Will you start looking for those people, and will you listen to them?

Isaiah said: “Those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:31).

Let us pray: Loving God, walk with us this day, and by your grace enable us to see possibilities rather than problems, windows of opportunity rather than closed doors, persons rather than things, and life rather than mere existence. Thank you, God, for being our Creator, our Guide, and our Friend. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Either Way

Either Way

Kathleen Chesto once wrote about an event that happened in her family. One day her five-year-old child came up to her in the kitchen and asked, “Mom, is God a grown-up or a parent?” Mom was a little puzzled by the question. “I’m not sure what you mean,” she said. “Is there a difference between a grown-up and a parent?” “Oh yes,” her five-year-old answered quickly. “Grown-ups love you when you are good, but parents love you no matter what.”

It is true. Most parents love their children unconditionally.

I saw a church advertisement in the newspaper one year around Christmas time that read something like this: “It makes a difference to Santa whether you’ve been naughty or nice, Jesus however, loves you either way.”

That is also true. Our faith teaches us that there is nothing we can do to earn God’s love. It is freely given, not dependent on how smart we are, how good we are, or what we have achieved or not achieved in life.

The Apostle Paul put it this way, “ For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God— not the result of works…” (Ephesians 2:8-9)

There are so few places in life where we experience unconditional love, forgiveness, and acceptance that it’s almost hard to believe. But it is the central promise of the Gospel. That’s good news to me. I hope it is for you as well.

Our prayer today was written by Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope. Let us pray: Loving God, who changes rivers in their course and alters the paths of stars, infuse us, and flood us today with joy and hope. Let the radiant power of your Holy Spirit destroy any negativity or cynicism in us, and fill us with feelings of love and affirmation. Help us to say yes to the things that are good, and no to the things that devalue life. Mold us more in the image of Christ, for it is in his name we pray. Amen.