Steady Supply of Laughter

Steady Supply of Laughter

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

In the novel about life in a mental hospital, entitled One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest, these words were uttered by Randall Patrick McMurphy: “That’s the first thing that got me thinking about this place, there wasn’t anybody laughing. I haven’t heard a real laugh since I came through that door……When you lose your laugh, you lose your footing. ” 

Because of the level of depression and pain in such institutions, a heavy dose of laughter is sorely needed. Through laughter, inner torments work themselves out. It is the medicine needed to revive a wracked heart or withering spirit. We need sure footing along life’s rugged paths. A steady supply of laughter gives us footing. For when I complain, scowl, or retaliate, I am caught in the clutches of cursedness. I am miles from blessing anything. When I laugh, life giggles and shakes in delight. 

We are reminded that the Gospel is not boring, it is not ho-hum, it is good news. Ta-Da! In Proverbs, we read, “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a downcast spirit dries up the bones.” (Proverbs 17:22) 

Let us pray: God of all precious things, who hears our pain even when tears block our words, create in us a heart of laughter and hope. May your Spirit still the anxiety of those who live with enormous pressure and stress. So bring us comfort where we need comfort, but where we need justice, let there be love. Lord, you have become an undeniable presence, a reliable friend, the one who walks in when the rest of the world walks away. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen. 

Cast Your Cares

Cast Your Cares

In a sermon on prayer, pastor Dan Ivins spoke about the fear that he sometimes felt at night as a child. He said that he used to wake up and hear a squeaky floor and he’d assume, “burglar.” Or, he’d feel the window rattle and think “tornado.” Whenever that happened, he would get up and run to his parent’s room. “I’d reach up and touch my Daddy’s hand and everything was all right,” he remarked. “I didn’t have to say anything or even wake him up. That touch—the assurance that Daddy was there was enough to allow me to go back to my room and go to sleep. That’s why we pray and don’t lose heart. That’s what prayer is—reaching out to touch God…”

We all have moments in our lives when we feel worried or fearful: What will the diagnosis be? Will my son be okay? What’s going to happen to Mom? How are we going to make ends meet? Will I always feel this bad? 

While there are no promises that prayer will solve our problems, prayer does put us in touch with a Higher Power. Prayer does open the lines of communication with God. And it is the experience of many, that the claim of the psalmist is true, “Cast your cares on the Lord, and God will sustain you.” (Psalm 55:22)

Let us pray: God of Grace, we ask for an upwelling of hope that in the midst of life’s joys and troubles, we would know, without a doubt, that you are present, that you are with us, and that you are faithful. We turn over to you now any confusing or troubling issues that we face – and we ask for your mercy and for your guidance. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Water for the Thirsty Soul

Water for the Thirsty Soul

The 23rd Psalm begins: The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul.

I love the imagery of still water. There is something peaceful about being near the water – whether river or lake or ocean or mountain stream. An elderly couple in our congregation used to talk about their home on Kentucky Lake in Tennessee – and how on calm, still days, the waters often took on the color of the sky.  

What is it about still water that is healing to the soul?

Of course, sheep need still water in order to drink. And so do we… literally and figuratively. 

In the Gospel of John, Jesus said to a thirsty woman by the well, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” (John 4:10) Of course, Jesus is speaking about water for the thirsty soul. 

In this fast-paced, ever changing world we live in, in these times of great political turmoil, I wonder where it is that you fill your cup when you find your soul dry… 

May you continue to turn to the Good Shepherd. Spend time in his presence. Ask him for the “Living Water.” And allow him to lead you to it. 

Let us pray: God of Grace, I pray today for those who are carrying heavy burdens, and whose souls feel parched. Meet each of us this day at the deepest point of our need. Fill us again with your living water. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Bold and Humble

Bold and Humble

In 1 Peter 4:6, we read, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble. Proverbs 16:5 puts it a little more strongly, “All those who are arrogant are an abomination to the Lord.” No doubt, when we Christians act arrogantly or judgmentally, we are missing the mark.

I love Carol Wimmer’s beautiful poem: “When I say I am a Christian.” Her poem is both bold in faith and humble before God. 

“When I say I am a Christian” reads like this:

“When I say, ‘I am a Christian,’ I’m not shouting, ‘I’ve been saved!’ I’m
 whispering, ‘I get lost!’ That’s why I chose this way.

 When I say ‘I am a Christian,’ I don’t speak with human pride. I’m
 confessing that I stumble – needing God to be my guide.

 When I say ‘I am a Christian,’ I’m not trying to be strong. I’m professing
 that I’m weak and pray for strength to carry on.

 When I say ‘I am a Christian,’ I’m not bragging of success. I’m admitting
 that I’ve failed and cannot ever pay the debt.

 When I say, ‘I am a Christian,’ I don’t think I know it all. I submit to
 my confusion asking humbly to be taught.

 When I say ‘I am a Christian,’ I’m not claiming to be perfect. My flaws
 are far too visible, but God believes I’m worth it.

 When I say, ‘I am a Christian,’ I still feel the sting of pain. I have my
 share of heartache which is why I seek His name.

 When I say, ‘I am a Christian,’ I do not wish to judge. I have no
 authority – I only know I’m loved.”

Let us pray: God of Grace, we thank you for the poets and prophets of the world, people who so beautifully articulate the faith. We do thank you for your grace, mercy, and love. Help us always to try to live justly, love kindness, and walk humbly before you. Amen.

Finding the Balance

Finding the Balance

One evening on the beach I noticed beautiful sea shells scattered everywhere. These shells were not just the usual mix we find in northeast Florida. No. These were truly unique, and I picked up all kinds of sea treasures.

For the next several weeks, every time I went for a walk on the beach I found myself with my head down, gazing across the sand, searching for more perfect shells. And, I did in fact find more. But one morning as I strolled along the beach searching for shells, I looked up and noticed the ocean was a clear blue-green and the sky a brilliant blue. There was a light breeze, and the day was gorgeous. All of a sudden I realized I had been so captivated by my search for sea shells that I almost missed the bigger picture.

Our life of faith can be just like this. There are times when our heads must be down – bowed in prayer. We all need renewal and strength for the journey. And there are rich treasures to be found in times of prayer and meditation. But if we keep our heads down too long, we might miss the bigger picture. We might fail to notice the beauty and good of God’s creation all around us. And, we might miss opportunities to serve others and to grow.

The next time I go to the beach, I plan to walk part of the way with my head bowed in focused attention. And I will walk the rest of the way with my eyes looking out and my heart wide open.

Let us pray: Loving God, help us to find a balance in life. Help us to carve out time for prayer, time to renew and replenish the soul. But please Lord, don’t let us get stuck there. Give us eyes to see the world around us – the tremendous beauty and the need. As we have received so may we give. Amen.

Never Told the Half of It

Never Told the Half of It

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Reflecting on God’s love and grace, Rev. James Moore once wrote about the great explorer, Marco Polo. When Polo came back to Venice from his travels in Cathay, he attempted to describe the incredible wonders he had seen there. People didn’t believe him. Indeed, for the rest of his life (and even on his death bed) they tried to get him to confess that he had lied and exaggerated about the wonders he had described. His last answer was: “I never told the half of it!”

Moore wrote that sometimes people tease him personally, for speaking so frequently about God’s love and grace. When they do, he reflects back on Marco Polo, “I have never told the half of it!”

Friend of Dial Hope, today, I invite you to think back about your own life. Where have you experienced mercy and grace? How has God touched your life? Where have you seen God’s hand at work? I’d be willing to bet, you haven’t told the half of it either!

Let us pray: Loving God, we praise you for you are a God of Grace, a God of Love and Mercy. We thank you for your forgiveness and for the way you offer us clean starts and new beginnings. We pray today for those who do not know your unconditional love and grace; for those who feel trapped by cords of sin or despair or by a haunting past. Break into their lives anew this day. Wash over each of us once again with your grace. Help us hear and believe and respond to your good news – that you make all things new – even us. Amen.

Reframing the Question

Reframing the Question

In the book of Acts, there is a story about Peter meeting with Cornelius, a Gentile outsider. Which in and of itself is strange enough. Peter, even though he was a follower of Jesus, culturally, he had been taught all his life that some parts of God’s creation were not good enough for him. He had been taught all his life that Gentiles – folks who were not of his ethnicity – that were not of his nationality – were unclean. They were seen as outsiders – outside the bounds even of God’s grace. On top of that Cornelius was a military commander in the army that was occupying and oppressing Israel.

And yet, here in this story, we find Peter in his living room!

You see Peter had just had a vision. And in that vision, God changed his heart. God said to Peter, don’t you dare call anything I’ve made, ‘unclean.’ What’s so interesting is that until that moment, Peter thought that the message of Christ was only for Israel. Until that moment, Peter thought he knew exactly who was to be in and who was to be out; who was to be welcome and who was not. All his life he had been taught to have nothing to do with these kinds of people. Until that moment, one of the key leaders of the early church thought the gospel was only for his kind of people.

“Now,” Peter says, “Now, I truly understand that God shows no partiality…” (Acts 10:34)

Even more interesting, when Peter speaks about it, he can’t help but reference Easter: In explaining, he says: God raised this Jesus on the third day… As if to say: Only something that powerful could change my heart and mind. Only something that powerful could break down the walls that divide us… Only something that powerful…

Sometimes we might get caught up in the intellectual question of Easter: How did God raise this Jesus from the dead? But perhaps this scripture from Acts invites us to reframe the questions. Perhaps we could ask:

Is it possible that something so extraordinary happened on that first Easter morning that there is hope for new beginnings and new life? Is it possible that old prejudices can be broken? Is it possible that old wounds can be healed? That scales can fall from eyes? that hearts can open, that minds can change? Is there hope for our greatly divided nation? Is there hope for me?

I don’t know where you are in your journey of faith. But perhaps the question for all of us is not so much an intellectual question: How do I get my mind around the empty tomb and the body coming back to life, but it is more of a faith question – How am I going to live my life in response?

Let us pray: We are grateful O God, that the Risen Christ is at work even now, to heal, to mend, to make whole, and even to bring life out of death. Raise again the dead places in our lives, in our hearts, and in our world. We trust in you, who have promised to make all things new. Amen.

Aisle, Altar, Him

Aisle, Altar, Him

Today’s message was written by the founder of Dial Hope, the Rev. Roger Kunkel

Have you heard the story about the bride who was extremely nervous on her wedding day? She confided to the minister that she was not sure she could make it down the long aisle without shaking or crying. So the minister, a seasoned veteran of weddings, gave her a bit of advice: “When you begin your walk,” he said, “just remember this three-point formula: First, look straight down the aisle; second when you get about half-way look straight up at the altar; and third when you get near the front of the church, look straight at your groom. First, the aisle, then the altar, then him. I think this will help relieve your nervousness.”

The trembling bride agreed to try his advice. And it worked beautifully. She walked with a radiant glow on her face and poise and confidence in her step, with no sign of nervousness. However, there was one small problem. Imagine the surprise of the congregation as they heard her rhythmically repeating three words over and over as she performed her bridal walk: “Aisle, altar, him. Aisle, altar, him.”

“Aisle, altar, him!” Well, the truth is, most brides don’t have a lot of luck in altering their husbands. But the good news of the Christian faith is that God can alter us! God can change us. God can redeem us. God can turn our lives around. As a matter of fact, the change God can bring in our hearts is so amazing that when Jesus talked about it and described it, he used dramatic language. He talked about “new birth” about “new life,” about “new beginnings,” about being born again.” He said, “Unless you are born again you cannot see the kingdom of God.” (John 3:3) Friend of Dial Hope, this is the good news, the TA-DA! for today. Believe it and claim it!

Let us pray: God of love, How great Thou art! We thank you for the good news that we can grow and change; we can rise to higher plains of personal living; there is hope in the midst of our despair; there is joy in spite of sadness. Now fill us with the radiance of this day so that your love may stream in and through us, bringing light and life to a world that often walks in shadows and death. Through the risen Christ, we pray. Amen.

Glimpse of the Kingdom

Glimpse of the Kingdom

Many years ago, Rev. Jack Meadows told a wonderful story of an incident that occurred during the Special Olympics. Here’s what happened. Nine children lined up for the 100-yard dash. When the gun sounded, the children were off to the races. Only a few yards into it, one of the children fell and began to cry. Immediately, all of the other eight children stopped running, turned around, and came to the aid of their fallen friend. A young girl with Down’s Syndrome leaned down, kissed him, and brushed him off. The other children then lifted him off the ground. They joined arms, as they ran over the finish line together. The audience rose to their feet in applause. There was not one, but nine winners that day!

Meadows wrote, “For a fleeting moment these children showed us what the Kingdom of God is like. They challenged the world’s concept that first place is everything. The world says defeating, even destroying, one’s competitor is the way to go.” Instead, these young folks demonstrated love, unity, and grace. Their actions brought beauty into the world. And, they witness to a better way of living.

Let us pray: We thank you, Holy God, for the desire to achieve and succeed that you have built within us. But we admit that sometimes this drive causes us to lose sight of the bigger picture. We thank you today for the witness of your children during a Special Olympics. May we follow their example with our charity, grace, and compassion. Amen.

The Way of Love

The Way of Love

The Gospel of Luke gives us a picture of Jesus on the cross. The religious leaders scoffed: “He saved others; let him save himself if he is the Messiah of God!” One of the soldiers called out: “If you are the King of the Jews, save yourself!” And later, one of the criminals derides him, “Are you not the Messiah? Save yourself and us!”

The irony is that by accepting the way of the cross – saving is exactly what he is doing.

Imagine, just for a minute, if Jesus had come differently. What if Jesus had come with an army and marched on Jerusalem? What if he had come in and cleaned house and crushed the Romans? If what we claim about Jesus is true – that he is Son of the Almighty God – Creator of all that is – there’s no doubt he could have done it. Can you imagine? Dad, how about a lightning bolt?

But what would that have said about God? If violence and sheer force were the ways of the Lord, what would that mean for us? If Jesus had taught that vengeance and domination are the way to make the world a better place, how would we live? How would the early Christian way of life be any different from the ways of the Roman Empire – which ruled by force? How would Jesus as savior and king have been any different than Caesar as savior and king?

What we see instead, is a vastly different picture. Jesus shows us that the way of God is forgiveness; the way of God is humility; the way of God is the way of love. I don’t know about you, but I am grateful God approaches us in this manner.

Let us pray for the grace to follow Jesus as he leads us in this way.

Let us pray: Almighty God, we thank you that your power and might move in the ways of love. Grant us open minds and teachable hearts; in Jesus’ name. Amen.