As I Have Loved You

As I Have Loved You

Today’s Message was written by friend Chaplain Bob Griffiths.

Way back on May 18, we marked Jesus’ ascension into heaven. This is celebrated 40 days after his resurrection from the dead, But we are still charged to live out his final commandment to us: “I give you a new commandment: to love one another, just as I loved you so that you would also love one another, That is how all will know you are my students: if you have love amongst yourselves.” (Andy Gaus translation) And how will people know that? Because they will be living it – displaying that love. As St. Francis famously said, “Preach the Gospel at all times; use words if necessary.” Actions indeed speak louder than words!

In these days of instant everything, from oatmeal to telephone calls to social media postings, everything MUST be accomplished as quickly as possible. Let’s remember that it’s far more challenging to live out Jesus’ final commandment and demonstrate love than to have a knee-jerk reaction/response to whatever happens to me. Shoot at cars and people who pull into my driveway in error? Interrupt a school board meeting by shouting back in response to a comment I disagree with? The list grows daily.

I have a neighbor who is at the opposite end of the political belief spectrum from me. And they, and I, treat each other with respect and kindness. And why not? They are kind and caring people! I have never heard them say an unkind word about anybody. It’s always a pleasure to see them and to express ourselves with friendliness, love, and concern.

So how am I doing today with living out Jesus’ final commandment to us, his students, and followers? Or to Buddha’s clearly expressed comments about how to live our lives? Or any other major ethical/faith-based teachings? Because nothing is just about me – it’s about us, and how I treat another child of God.

Let us pray: God of Grace, we recall your love for us, and your forgiveness and grace.

And we remember that you have called us to a better path. Draw near to us, as we hand over to you any resentment, anger, or hatred we may be feeling. Empower us to let go. And as we do, may your healing Spirit move deep within us. To help those in need of a friendly word and perhaps a hug, Grant this, we pray, so that we may pay forward Christ’s never-ending love for us. Amen.

Some only God Can Remove

Some only God Can Remove

Pastor and author Max Lucado tells about his childhood days of playing football out in the West Texas fields. The fields where he and his friends played were full of grass burrs that stung horribly. Sometimes, after a big tackle, a player would have a leg or arm full of them. Apparently, it was so bad that the game would come to a halt while the affected player pulled out each of the burrs. Some players wanted to keep on playing in spite of the burrs, but it was usually too painful. Lucado says that he himself trusted no one but his father to pull out the burrs. So when it happened to him, he would leave the game, run home, and get his father to gently pull out each sticker. Only then would he’d return to the field ready to play.

Drawing on his story, Lucado makes the point that as we grow older there are burrs that only our Heavenly Father can remove. Many of us carry with us painful events of the past. Others of us bear burdens to deep to name. 

While I am aware that there is no quick and easy answer to the pain we carry, a simple acknowledgment can be a first step. Today, I invite you to lay before God whatever it is that is on your heart. Ask God to remove the burden, heartache, the worry, the pain. Ask God for clarity to see if there are steps you need to take – perhaps to make amends, change directions or simply let go. And then, trust that in time, God will begin to heal all that we bring.

Let us pray: Gracious God, you know where we hurt. You know how it is that we suffer. You know our hearts. Today we name those broken places to you. We ask for your healing grace to begin to work in us even now. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Beyond Measure

Beyond Measure

There are two young fish swimming along. An older fish, swimming in the other direction, nods at them and says, “Morning, boys. How’s the water?” The two young fish swim on, and then eventually one of them looks over at the other and asks, “What the hell is water?”

Sometimes it’s hard to see what’s already right in front of us.

I remember when I graduated from high school and went away to college. By way of full confession, was not the most responsible or respectful adolescent. (Sorry Mom!) When I was that age, I couldn’t wait to get out of the house. But then, after moving out into the dorms, it really was only a matter of weeks before reality set in, and I realized how good I had had it. 

At home, I realized, I didn’t have to go to the laundry mat every week – or alternatively, search for my cleanest dirty shirt to wear to class. At home, I didn’t have a roommate who never slept and who was a total party animal. At home, I didn’t have to share a bathroom with five other guys, none of whom, including myself liked to clean very much. At home, I didn’t have to go to the grocery. No. Somehow at home, all of the ingredients and all of the food I loved, magically appeared every week… 

Just a little bit of space and a little bit of perspective allowed me to see what I couldn’t see, to appreciate what I couldn’t appreciate.  

For all of us, at every age, sometimes it is hard to see the reality of blessing and beauty and grace, even when we are swimming in it.  

Today I invite you to pause, and in spite of any difficulties you may be facing, take stock of all the blessings surrounding you. Make a list. Focus for a few seconds on each item, and notice how a little perspective can make a huge difference.

Let us pray: Loving God, you have blessed us beyond measure. Open our eyes to see and hearts to respond. Amen.

Loving Compassion

Loving Compassion

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A great British preacher of a generation ago told the story of a young servant girl who had no formal education yet was deeply spiritual. She had a strong sense of compassion, a concern for people. When this minister visited her one day and asked how she spent her days, she said, “My work is very demanding, and I don’t get much time off, so I can’t serve the church as much as I would like. But I have come up with a plan that lets me do what I can,” “What is that?” asked the minister. She replied, “Well, I always take the daily paper to bed with me at night.” He was puzzled. “Tell me about that. I don’t understand.” “Well,” she said, “l read the page with the birth notices, and I pray for the babies that have been born; then I read the marriages, and I pray that they may be happy and true, and next I read the deaths, and I pray that God’s comfort may come to those sorrowing homes.” 

That young girl was not far from the Kingdom. Why? Because she had discovered the spirit of loving compassion. Loving compassion, Jesus called it the most significant sign of discipleship. In John’s Gospel, he said it like this: “l give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples” (John 13:34-35). As deftly as a magnetic needle points to the north, so the heart of Jesus immediately zeroed in on the neediest person in the crowd. 

The poet put it this way: 
Love in your heart isn’t put there to stay; 
Love isn’t love till you give it away. 

Let us pray: God of love, you who have the whole world in your hands, we claim to be one nation, under you, and that you are the One in whom we trust. We are aware that you have called us to love you and one another, and we pray that you will remind us anew that love, to be love, must be expressed in action. Give us hearts of loving compassion. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

People on His Mind

People on His Mind

Many years ago now, I heard a pastor reflecting on Jesus’ love for people. He said, “You know how Ray Charles had Georgia on his mind? Always singing about Georgia. Couldn’t get it off his heart. Well, just like Ray Charles had Georgia on his mind, Jesus had people on his mind, people on his heart.”

It’s true. His whole life, his whole ministry was given to loving people – to serving them, healing, teaching, eating with them, offering hope and forgiveness and peace, and ultimately even dying for them. It’s beautiful. Even the grave couldn’t stop his love for people. It continues today. And it extends even now – to you and me. 

Let us pray: Loving God, thank you for loving us unconditionally. Give us today, hearts to love you, minds to know you, and wills to follow you. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Accessing the Source

Accessing the Source

Desmond Tutu once described a light bulb that shone brightly and proudly. “[It] began to strut about arrogantly, quite unmindful of how . . . it could shine so brilliantly, thinking that it was all due to its own merit and skill.” One day the light bulb was taken out of the socket and placed on a table. “Try as hard as it could, the light bulb could bring forth no light and brilliance. . . . It had never known that its light came from the power station and that it had been connected to the dynamo by little wires and flexes that lay hidden and unseen and totally unsung.”

It is true that sometimes we forget that the gifts we have in life come from a powerful Source – God himself. It is also true that sometimes we forget that when we tap into that Source, through prayer or worship, we have access to amazing power and courage, and strength. God’s Spirit in our hearts gives us the power to forgive, the power to serve, the power to sacrifice, and to love even the unlovable.

I don’t know about you, but I want to stay close to that Source and tap into God’s peace and power.

Our prayer today comes from the Presbyterian Book of Common Worship. Let us pray:

Come, O Holy Spirit.
Come as Holy Fire and burn in us,
come as Holy Wind and cleanse us within,
come as Holy Light and lead us in the darkness,
come as Holy Truth and dispel our ignorance,
come as Holy Power and enable our weakness,
come as Holy Life and dwell in us.
Convict us, convert us, consecrate us,
until we are set free from the service of ourselves,
to be your servants to the world. Amen.

Put Your Elevator on the Outside

Put Your Elevator on the Outside

Today’s message was written by my friend Roger Kunkel.

There is a true story about a San Francisco hotel that had only one elevator. Soon that elevator couldn’t handle the traffic. When the management began planning for the installation of a new elevator, they realized this would require cutting holes in every floor and making a real mess. “You’ll have to close the hotel for a while,” said the janitor, who had overheard their planning. “Well, we’ll just have to close it then,” replied the engineer. “We can’t survive without another elevator.” The janitor thought for a moment and said, “Do you know what I would do?” “What?” the architect responded rather arrogantly. The janitor replied, “I’d put the elevator on the outside.” The engineer and architect looked at each other and smiled. For the first time in the history of architecture, an elevator was put on the outside of a building. Now, many modern buildings have elevators on the outside.

The greatest need in most complex problems is the need for vision – the ability to see things from a new perspective. Friend of Dial Hope, if you are facing an absolutely unsolvable problem, is there some way to put your elevator on the outside?

Let us pray: Loving God, many people hearing this message or reading this message are finding it difficult to survive the problems they face. Help all of us to experience the grace of your unconditional love and the support of one another. Forgive us for marching to the beat of drummers other than you. Give us vision to put our elevators on the outside. Overwhelmed by our blessings, enable us to make this day a masterpiece… filled with joy, hope, and possibilities that give us goosebumps. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

A Glimpse of the Mystery

A Glimpse of the Mystery

The last couple of days, I’ve reflected on Jesus’ statement, “I am the gate…” Now, that can sound exclusive. And I know that statement has tripped people up over the years. But to me, Jesus is a great gift. Because without this gift, what do we really know about God?

I have a friend, who years ago was suffering from a pretty serious injury. And it affected almost every aspect of his life – including his job. He was in pain a good bit of the time. Physically and mentally, it was brutal. And I remember one day he said, you know Joe. I think God is punishing me for a mistake I made years ago… All I could say is that is not the God I know in Jesus.

There was a family in another church I served who lost a child. One of their neighbors, thankfully nobody from our church, but someone they knew, said to them, “I guess God needed another little angel for his choir.” The wife responded, “Well, why didn’t God take your little angel?” That’s a fair question because that’s not what God does. Again, that’s not the God we know in Jesus. 

Sometimes when people say to me, I don’t believe in God, I’ll ask them: tell me about this God you don’t believe in. And often, I hear about a punishing god, a tyrant god, a god who sits in the heavens – distant and removed – and who keeps score. Sometimes I hear about a god who only loves those who vote for one particular political party, or a god who hates Muslims or gays, or a prosperity god – like you often hear on tv. 

All I can say is I don’t believe in that god either. 

I believe in the God we know in Jesus: a God who so loves the world that he would step down into in flesh and blood; a God who would suffer as we suffer, to know heartbreak and betrayal as we know it. 

At the very center of our faith, we believe that Jesus shows us the heart of God. He shows us that God is forgiving. God is compassionate, God is like a loving father who runs to welcome the prodigal home.

If you want to know God, if you want to have even a glimpse of this Mystery that leads to green pasture and abundant life, Jesus says, I am the Gate. I am the opening. I am the way.

Let us pray: Again today, we thank you loving God, for the gift of Jesus. May we ever follow him and find we are drawing closer to you. Amen. 

Where the Gate Leads

Where the Gate Leads

Yesterday, I shared with you all that in John’s Gospel, Jesus says, “I am the Gate…” When Jesus made this statement, he was talking to the Pharisees, the religious leaders of the day. He had just healed a man who was born blind, and the Pharisees were angry about this. They were angry because he healed on the Sabbath, and by doing so, he broke one of the ten commandments. 

On top of that, in those days it was widely believed that blindness – or any kind of illness really – was a punishment from God. Jesus disabuses them of this notion. So, the Pharisees question the man who was healed. They question his parents. They question Jesus. 

These religious leaders clearly cared more about being right than they did about being loving. And you get the sense that Jesus was pretty angry about it. He called them thieves and bandits. He was angry at their hard hearts. They were so legalistic about the Bible that they were keeping people out, turning people away from the mystery beyond.

When Jesus talks about the gate, he was saying, the Pharisee’s teaching is not the way. Their legalism is not the way. They are not the way to deeper mystery and truth. I am the way… I am the opening.

To me, this statement is really good news. If Jesus is the gate to lead us to a clearer understanding of who God is, then we can be sure that God cares about those who suffer, those who feel left out or lost or cast away. We can be sure that God is merciful, loving, and full of grace. And we can be sure that each and every life is valuable. 

To me, that is a Gate worthy to enter. 

Let us pray: We thank you, Loving God for coming to us in Jesus, to live as we live, to suffer as we suffer, to fully know human life. We thank you for the way in which his life and teachings, death and resurrection point to you. Grant us open hearts and willing spirits that we might ever approach you through this gate. Amen. 

Beyond the Gate

Beyond the Gate

In the Gospel of John, Jesus says, “I am the gate.” I used to think of a gate as something exclusive, as a way of keeping people out. And it can be. But my wife Robbie reminded me that a gate is also an opening – often an opening to something that is otherwise hard to access. 

In that sense, when I think about gates, I can’t help but think about this past summer when I was on sabbatical in Scotland. Those of you who have been to Scotland know that there are more sheep than people. They are everywhere! And of course, sheep need pasture. And so in Scotland, we drove through pastures. We hiked through pastures. We went for our morning runs through pastures. 

What is really nice is that Scotland has a “Right to Roam” law. This means that people are always permitted to hike through pasture land. And if you like surfing, which I do, access to many of the surf spots in Scotland, involves hiking through pastures. Because of the “Right to Roam” law, the gates (which are necessary to protect the sheep) are always unlocked. 

When looking for waves, the other side of the gate, was often at first a little bit of a mystery… What’s over there? I’ll never forget one day, coming through the gate, up over the hill only to see the breathtaking sight of a beautiful clean, clear green-blue wave peeling perfectly across a rock reef. Sheer cliffs drop into the sea on one side. Sheep were grazing on the other. Treasure behind the gate!

When I think about gates, I also think about our home in Saint Augustine. Just a couple of blocks away is a small back gate leading into Anastasia State Park. This park too is a treasure. Hiking trails, kayaking, fishing, miles of undeveloped beach. Another small gate to a whole other world…

Jesus says, “I am the Gate…” I am the opening.

Perhaps you are wondering: What mystery lies beyond this gate? I do know this. His statement is ever an invitation. The Gate is always unlocked.

Let us pray: Loving God, when we contemplate Jesus, we see compassion, mercy, grace upon grace. We see your heart. We thank you for his invitation. Grant us open hearts to explore what lies beyond. Amen.