Gone Fishing

Gone Fishing

In the Gospel of Mark, as Jesus is just beginning his ministry, we find him walking along the shore of the sea of Galilee. He comes across some fishermen, everyday kind of people, and he says to them, “Follow me, and I will make you fish for people.” Crazy as it sounds, these men, James and John, Simon Peter and Andrew, drop everything and they follow him. 

Now I love fishing, but on the surface, this whole idea of fishing for people sounds kind of scary, at best. Does Jesus want us to trick people, trap or net or hook people, try to get them in our little boat, and make them think like us? Actually, no.

It’s interesting when you look at the Hebrew scriptures, our Old Testament, a lot of the images of hooks and nets and fishing are images of judgment. People are trapped and caught in their own way of bad living. However, Jesus turns this around. People caught in his fishing activity are actually loved and not judged – they are healed and saved and not destroyed.

Jesus calls us to fish for people: to love people, to show mercy to people, to help heal them and forgive them. When we answer his call, we help spread a wider net of God’s love. May you find a way to answer his call and fish for people Jesus’s way, today.

Let us pray: Gracious God, Your calling on our life is deep. We know that in following you, we find life in abundance. Help us today to answer your call once again. Help us to intentionally show your love, your forgiveness, your mercy, and grace. May we be instruments of your saving love. As you work through us, may you also work in us. We ask in Jesus Christ. Amen.

Naming the Demons

Naming the Demons

Yesterday, we reflected on expressing our anger our grief, and our questions to God. Faith that is able to do so, is often profound. It is also biblical. 

What happens if we bury our anger or grief? They have a way of reemerging, don’t they? Often in really unhealthy ways. Even by taking out on others…

Sometimes we’ll meet someone with a chip on their shoulder, or a boiling rage right under the surface… and it seems they are not even sure what they’re really angry about. And it comes in inappropriate situations. Way out of proportion. Or, it can be more like a constant silent seething.

The Desert Fathers have an interesting take on this. They said that you have to name the demons as they appear. If you name them, they lose some of their power over you. But to do that, you have to be aware enough to recognize them at the moment. “Okay, that’s anger I’m feeling. That’s jealousy, that’s resentment. That’s fear. I see you. I feel you in there.”

The wisdom of the Desert Fathers is that you don’t want to do battle with them. And you don’t want to repress them. You want to acknowledge them. And if you name them, and you allow them room, they won’t stay long. They will visit, but not stay.

Now I’m reluctant to call our emotions demons – but in my own experience, there is something to this. And I invite you this week to give it a try. Name the emotions as they arise. Acknowledge them to yourself and to God. Trust that they will run their course and that eventually, God’s peace will return to your heart. 

Let us pray: Loving God, help us see and name all that arises within us. In the seeing and in the naming, may there be the seeds of healing. We love you, Lord, and we trust you with our whole selves. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Questioning God

Questioning God

Many years ago, in a past church I served, a couple showed up one morning who I had never met. They stayed to talk to me after worship, and I could tell they were not in a good state of mind. They were clearly anguished, and it looked as though they hadn’t slept in days. They asked me if I would come by to visit them that afternoon, and I did. 

When I sat down in their living room, they told me their son had been killed in a motorcycle accident four days earlier. And they were just feeling this tremendous anger at God…And then, this tremendous guilt at feeling that anger. This caldron of feelings. And they said I know we’re not supposed to be angry at God… 

I said, God’s big enough to handle it.  

If you’ve ever been angry with God or questioned God, actually you are in good company. We read about it in the Bible. We see it in the prophet Jeremiah. We see it throughout the Psalms. And, on the cross, Jesus prayed from Psalm 22, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Mark 15:34).

Which is interesting… Have you ever been to a church where it is not okay?

Before becoming a pastor I remember being at a church where I was made to feel I was in danger of the fires of hell, simply because I had serious questions in a Sunday morning class. The implication was, if I would just get my relationship with Jesus right, I wouldn’t have those questions. That goes along with the sister belief that if you just get your relationship with Jesus right, you’ll always be happy.

It’s just not true.

In fact, on the other side of this, many great theologians claim that this kind of struggle, struggle with doubt, with a sense of absence of God, or anger at God, this kind of struggle can very well be a sign of authentic growth, and a point of decisive development in faith… And if we take it seriously, we don’t return to where we once were. We don’t return with a naive understanding. No, we deepen

My prayer for you today is that you would come to a place where you feel open enough to express your lament, your doubt, your questions, and even your anger to God. May you trust that this kind of faith is a biblical faith. God is big enough to handle it. And in doing so, may you find your relationship with God deepen and grace resound. 

Let us pray: Loving God, we don’t understand why there are pain and suffering in the world. We’re human, flesh and blood. We cry out to you. We long for you. And we trust you. Heal us and redeem us we pray. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Seeking Mystery

Seeking Mystery

Earlier this month, I reflected on a book I read titled: Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life, by Dacher Keltner.

Based on the research, Keltner makes this astounding claim: It is hard to imagine a single thing you can do that is better for your body and mind than finding awe outdoors. Doing so leads to the reduced likelihood of cardiovascular disease, respiratory disease, diabetes, depression, anxiety, and cancer. It reduces asthma in children. It leads to a reduction in everyday aches and pains, allergies, vertigo, and eczema. These benefits of being in nature have been observed across the life span, ranging from newborns to the very elderly. 

Amazing! 

There is a marvelous story out of the Jewish Hasidic tradition about the child of a rabbi who used to wander in the woods. At first, his father let him go, but over time he became worried. One day, he took his boy aside and said, “You know, I have noticed that each day you walk into the woods. Why do you go out there?” The boy said to his father, “I go there to be with God.” “That is a beautiful thing,” the father replied gently. “I am glad you are searching for God. But, my child, don’t you know that God is the same everywhere?” “Yes,” the boy answered, “but I’m not.”

Let us pray: This is a day that you have made, O God, and we rejoice and are glad in it. Meet us today in our wandering and in our wondering. Meet us in our suffering and in our joy. Meet us in the beauty of your creation, and in the gift of friendship. Open our hearts, so that as we seek you, we would know your love. In Christ’s name. Amen.

To Care or Not to Care

To Care or Not to Care

Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

There is only one thing more costly than caring and that is not caring. It must break God’s heart when we are calloused, unfeeling, selfish, and uncaring. How do you treat other people? In the parable of the Good Samaritan, found in the 10th chapter in the gospel of Luke, the Samaritan is called good because he cared enough to do something good for someone in need. I have a physician friend who advises his patients to treat every person they meet each day, as if he or she were the most important person in the world. I like that! But, friend of Dial Hope, the Christian faith takes it a step further, a giant step further. We are urged to relate to every single person we meet as if that person were Christ in disguise. Wow! Try that for one day; it will change your life forever. 

Let us pray: The world must have begun in silence, so God then moved to a crescendo of joyful music with a heavenly symphony crashing in rhythmic applause. Let there be light where there is shadow and joy where there is pain or depression. The blooming flowers, the gentle breezes remind us of hope for the renewing of our lives. Help us to think kindly of one another, to speak gently, to be creative listeners, and to behave with compassion. Transform our hum-drum lives into TA-DA! moments fueled by perpetual gratitude. Keep us laughing and caring because they are neglected on our agenda. Through the amazing grace of Jesus. Amen. 

Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak

Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak

There is a story about a Canadian man who left in the dead of winter for a vacation in Florida. His wife was on a business trip and planned to meet up with him the following day. When he reached his hotel, he sent his wife a quick email. Unfortunately, in typing in her address, he missed one letter and his note was misdirected. Instead of reaching his wife, it went to an elderly preacher’s wife, whose husband had passed away only the day before. 

When the grieving widow checked her email, she let out a scream and fell to the floor in a faint. At the sound, her family rushed into the room and saw this note on the screen: “Dearest Wife, Just got checked in. Everything is prepared for your arrival tomorrow. P.S. Sure is hot down here!”

Communication mix-ups can be disastrous! The right message given to the wrong person or given at the wrong time can cause serious misunderstandings. Email and text messages can be the worst – because they can be sent so rapidly without thought. Also, when we cannot see or hear the emotion behind the words, it is easy to misinterpret. 

Whether it is a phone call, letter, email, text, direct message, or face-to-face communication, the Bible has good advice. James wrote: Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger. Paul encourages, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”

I’ve certainly found, a thoughtful pause before I communicate, is never a bad idea. When upset or angry, the more time the better. In whatever fashion they come – may our words truly give grace to those who hear.

Let us pray: God our savior, Hope of the ends of the earth and the farthest seas, you have blessed us so richly. I pray today, that you would use us to bless others – even with our words. May we always be open to your calling, and to your sending. Help us to love as we are loved, and to forgive as we have been forgiven, and to serve as we have been served – in Jesus Christ. Amen.

Even When….

Even When….

One of the most powerful small group meetings I’ve ever attended was one in which we shared about how we each came to faith. As people spoke, you could feel the emotion in the room. Some folks had really dramatic turning points in their lives. Others had been in the church all their lives. But everyone had a story. And as people told their stories there were tears and laughter. I could sense God’s presence.  

I’ll never forget one of my friends telling me about how he had grown up as a believer – but walked away from his faith in high school. One night he was at a party and on the way home he had a terrible car wreck. He said, when he woke up, the car was upside down, and the only thing he could feel was God holding him tight.

Another couple shared how it was only by the grace of God their marriage was saved. Others spoke about God meeting them through difficult times of divorce or illness. I found myself thinking, there is so much hope rooted in these stories. And, there were so many points of connection, where people could relate with each other on a much deeper level. It also struck me that our stories not only provide hope for others – they are also a powerful reminder of the bigger picture in our own lives – a reminder of who’s really in charge.

Today, I invite you to remember your own story. Reflect on this sentence and try to finish it. God, you were with me, even when… God, you were with me even when…

Let us pray: Remind us again of your saving grace. Open our eyes to see your hand at work in our lives and then open our lips so that our voices may sing your praise. Amen.

Persevere

Persevere

The very first flight to cross the continental United States was achieved by a man named Cal Rodgers in 1911. Mr. Rodgers flew from New York City to Long Beach California in an early Wright flyer airplane. While his total flight time was only 3 days, 10 hours, and 14 minutes, the entire journey took him 84 days. Weather and mechanical failures brought him crashing to the ground more than 30 times! When he finally arrived at his destination, the only original parts left on the plane were the oil pan and rear rudder.

What amazing commitment and perseverance! Can you imagine? After the first crash, I would have been tempted to bail on the whole project. But this story just reminds me that some of the most significant accomplishments in life happen only through persistence and deep faithfulness.

Over and over, our scriptures tell us that God is faithful. In the book of Lamentations, during one of the most trying times in the life of Israel, we read this promise:

The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases. His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness.

May we draw courage and strength from this promise, so that we too might hold fast, stay committed, and persevere through trying times.

Let us pray: Loving God, we are reminded today that weathering rough patches and committing ourselves to see things through enable beautiful things to happen. We thank you for your faithfulness and commitment to us. Grant us your courage and grace so that we may be faithful even as you are faithful. Amen.

Time

Time

Henry Van Dyke once wrote: Time is too slow for those who wait… too swift for those who fear… too long for those who grieve… too short for those who rejoice… But for those who love time is eternity.

Jesus often taught his disciples to be prepared; to be awake and expectant. It’s as if Jesus were reminding us that we stand on the edge of eternity. How we live now and how we love right now is significant.

We all have choices to make about what we’re going to do with the gift of the time we are given; We all have to decide what gets priority in our lives. What kind of people do we want to ultimately become? 

But, we don’t have forever, do we?

My friend, Roger Kunkel, used to love to tell the story about a time he went to buy a tree at a nursery up in Wisconsin. There was a sign that read: the best time to buy a tree was twenty years ago. And he thought: Thanks a lot! But there was a second sign that read: The second best time to plant a tree is today. Today! Today! Right now. 

Are there actions that you need to take care of today? Are there people you need to reach out to today? Are there things that you need to set right today? 

May you and I make the most of every second of every day; may we live in such a way that prepares us to see and experience God in the world and to share in his healing, redeeming work.

Let us pray: Gracious God, help us indeed to make the most of the time we have been given. As we do, may we find deeper meaning, peace, and hope. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Dinner with Jesus

Dinner with Jesus

Some time ago, in our Wednesday evening small groups, We reflected on this passage where Jesus invites himself to Zacchaeus’s house for dinner. One of our discussion questions asked, What if Jesus invited himself to your house for dinner tonight? What would be your feelings? Your reservations? Your response?

We had a great conversation! Some of us said we would want to have our house perfectly clean – everything just right! Some of us said we would want to invite friends and neighbors. We talked about having a long leisurely conversation. Some of us said we would want to ask him, perhaps begging him, for help – to heal what is broken in us… to ask for forgiveness, mercy, and mercy for our nation in the world.

In reflecting on this passage, I also have to wonder what effect would he have on me in that type of setting. I wonder how my heart might open in new ways. The deeper gratitude I might feel. Even without ever meeting him in person like this, I think about the effect he’s already had on my life… And maybe you can think about the effect he’s had on yours. There’s always room to grow, isn’t there?

Today I leave you with the question we were asked: If Jesus invited himself to your house for dinner tonight, what would be your feelings? Your reservations? Your response? 

Let us pray: We remember, Lord Jesus, that you said, “Behold I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.” (Revelation 3:20). Today, we open that door. Enter again into our homes, into our families, and into our lives. We lay all that we have before you now. Amen.