Joseph

Joseph

Many of you will remember the story of Joseph – that is Joseph with the coat of many colors. Or, Joseph and the Technicolor Dream Coat – if you saw the Broadway Musical. You may remember that he was betrayed by his brothers, and sold into slavery. Somehow he ascends to a place of great power in Egypt, and God uses him in this new place. Many years later, his brothers come to Egypt looking for food in the midst of a famine. Joseph confronts them. However, in spite of their betrayal, he forgives them.

I’ve looked at this story from several angles over the years, but as I reflect on it today, I think what strikes me most is Joseph’s statement to his brothers: “Even though you intended to harm me, God intended it for good…”

It’s a remarkable statement. It reminds me of the Apostle Paul’s statement, “All things work together for good for those who love God…”

Is it possible that God is at work in all things – even horrific things bringing about something good?

I think about some of my friends who lost their family business during the last big recession in 2008… It had been in their family for years. They had two kids still in high school at that time, and the loss was just devastating. They were worried about losing their home. They were worried about how they were going to make ends meet. I remember how heart-wrenching it was.

But looking back, God did move in their lives during that time. God did bring about something new. My friend tells me that this whole experience brought them together as a family. They bonded in ways they never could have imagined. And, they began to experience a whole new level of gratitude for the gifts they did have.

It wasn’t too long after that, that my friend enrolled in seminary. I went to his ordination service a few years ago, and today, he’s serving as a pastor. Their lives, out of this destruction, took a whole new direction.

I wonder if there have been events in your life that seemed so devastating in the moment, but that on looking back, you can see that something new; something good – maybe even something beautiful came out of it… Maybe not what you planned, not what you expected, but beautiful nonetheless.

Let us pray: We pray, gracious God, that even amid the devastating moments in our own lives, your Spirit would move anew. We ask for healing, redemption, and the ability to see light beyond the darkness. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Arm in Arm (He Cares for You)

Arm in Arm (He Cares for You)

Today’s message was written by Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Friend of Dial Hope, do you sometimes feel like your problems are so overwhelming that you can barely keep your head above water? In the Bible, God tells you to cast “all your care upon him,” knowing he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:7)

One of the most dramatic examples in the Bible of casting yourself upon God is Peter’s attempt to walk on water. It was liquid pavement beneath his feet. When Jesus bid Peter to come to him, Peter quickly stepped out of the boat, and, with his eyes on the Lord, he began to walk. But then he looked around at the heavy seas. Terrified, he began to sink. “Save me, Lord!” he shouted. Immediately, Jesus was beside Peter. And, arm in arm, they walked on the water to the boat. Like Peter, if you get your eyes off your source and onto your impossible situation, you’re sunk. But, if you keep your eyes on Jesus and walk arm in arm with him, you’ll be safe…because Jesus specializes in meeting human needs. Whatever is over your head in the way of problems is already under his feet. It’s in his control! Remember: “Cast all your anxiety, your care on him, because he cares for you.” (l Peter 5:7)

Let us pray: God of love, who came into the world clothed in our garment of flesh and who willingly gave yourself to the cross, clothe us in your Spirit that persons will recognize you in us and receive your great gift of unconditional love and amazing grace. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

We All Need a Little Light

We All Need a Little Light

There’s an old apocryphal story about a boy named John who entered his first science fair in second grade. His Mom had a green thumb, so they decided to experiment with the growth of plants. They took two small green plants and placed one on a sunny windowsill and the other in a cardboard box. After a couple of weeks, John noticed that the one on the windowsill had grown a couple of inches and had vibrant green leaves. The other in the box had actually grown a bit, but it had lost all of its green color, becoming almost white and its leaves were drooping. Thinking that the plant might die, John cut a hole in one side of the box. He set the box, with the plant inside, by the windowsill with the hole facing toward the incoming light. 

Of course, we can all imagine exactly what happened. Over the next couple of weeks, the plant began to grow out through the hole. A few weeks later, it even blossomed! 

The truth is, we all need light in our lives. 

Jesus once said, “I am the light of the world.”

It’s worth considering: where do you find Jesus’ light shining most brightly? Are there certain people who radiate that light? Is it through time volunteering, time at church, moments of quiet, or moments of action? It is worth paying attention to those spaces and people where Jesus’ light shines brightly. And may you carve out time to sit in that light so that you might grow and even blossom. 

Let us pray: Loving God, we thank you for the way your light shines even into the darkest times in our lives. We thank you for the people we know and love who reflect the light of Christ. It is in his name we pray. Amen.

Life Is a Gift

Life Is a Gift

As a pastor, I have the privilege of being with people at the end of their lives. This is always a reminder to me that life is short and that our time here is just a breath. Sometimes near the end of life, people will want to talk about what’s been most important in their lives. It’s interesting, I’ve never heard anyone say, “I wish I had spent more time at the office,” or, “I wish I had earned more money,” or, I wish we could have had that bigger house.” In the end, those things count for very little. 

What I do hear are things like: “I wish I’d spent more time at home.” “I wish I had told her I loved her.” “I’m so thankful I had those last six months with him – what a gift!” “I’m so thankful I finally worked things out with my son.”  

I have to believe that’s why the psalmist prayed, “Lord, teach me to number my days…” (Psalm 90:12) Because when I remember that I have a limited time on this earth and that I – like everything else – will one day be here no more, it definitely raises some deep questions: If my life ended tomorrow, would my wife know how much I love her? Would my children? What would people say about what kind of person I am, today? Am I building the kind of life that makes a difference?

Today may we pray with the Psalmist, “Lord, teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” (Psalm 90:12)

Let us pray: Lord, you have been our dwelling place throughout all generations. Before the mountains were born or you brought forth the whole world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God. We remember today that we are here only for a brief moment. Empower us, Loving God, to make the most of each moment of every day, to be present, to love deeply, and to live closely with you. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Finding Purpose

Finding Purpose

In his book, Deep-Rooted in Christ, Joshua Kang wrote, “The abundant life comes when we live a life of mission; a life that serves others has meaning and purpose.” Kang further encourages us to reflect on our lives and to evaluate them based not based on their length, or by how face-paced they are, but by their content.

Even secular philosophers like Will Durant remind us that to give life meaning, one must have a purpose larger than oneself. 

There is something about reaching out to help others that gives meaning and significance to our own life. There is something about caring for others that brings healing to our souls. That’s part of how God created us. In the words of Genesis, we have been blessed to be a blessing to others!

Our prayer today comes out of the Presbyterian Common Book of Worship. Let us pray: Everlasting God, in whom we live and move and have our being: You have made us for yourself so that our hearts are restless until they rest in you. Give us purity of heart and strength of purpose that no selfish passion may hinder us from knowing your will, no weakness keep us from doing it; that in your light we may see light clearly, and in your service find perfect freedom; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Outshining the Darkness

Outshining the Darkness

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

In John 1:5 we read, “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not over it.”

Friend of Dial Hope, many of you are groping in darkness right now. Separation and divorce come, but they always seem to happen to someone else, never to us. We have desperate times with our children (including adult children) that seem to last for weeks or months or years. Some of you are grieving over the death of a family member and you find it especially difficult at this time of year. And life is plunged into darkness. The good news of the gospel is that the light of Jesus outshines all darkness. So, we need to get in touch with the Light.

I love the story of a small church in a rural area that met for worship in a basement, where the room allowed for little natural light. It was often dark and murky when the people gathered. The pastor of this little congregation decided it would be nice to buy a chandelier for the room. He announced his hope to the congregation and called a special meeting for a vote. When the congregation came together, he told them he desired their vote on whether to spend money for a new chandelier for the worship space and asked if there was any discussion on the matter. One old guy stood up and said, “Yes indeed! I want to discuss it. I am against this purchase for three reasons. First, no one knows how to spell the thing; so we couldn’t possibly order it. Second, even if we did get one, no one knows how to play it. And last, what we really need around here is more light!”

Darkness comes. It creeps into life. But the Light of Jesus Christ outshines the darkness.

Let us pray: O God of all precious things, who hears our pain even when tears block our words, create in us a heart of laughter and hope. May your Spirit comfort those who are having a tough time right now. Surprise us with your grace and light in unexpected places. Through Jesus Christ, the Light of the world. Amen.

Perfection Is Not an Option

Perfection Is Not an Option

Yesterday I reflected on the letter of 1 John (1:8-9) we read, “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.” In other words, be careful not to deny your own need for God’s grace. Because what happens when we deny our need?

One: If you think you have to be perfect, there is a temptation to role play: to act like everything is going fine even when it’s not. If you have to act like everything is perfect, then the first things to go out the window are honesty and vulnerability. These are the very things that make human relationships possible. 

Second, It is very difficult to have grace and compassion for others if we don’t recognize our own need for God’s grace and compassion. There is a real temptation to judge others. There is a real temptation to decide who’s in, and who’s out, who’s acceptable, and who’s unacceptable, and who is worthy of God’s grace. Who is unworthy?

Yesterday, I quoted Eugene Peterson’s book, The Way of Jesus. Peterson goes on to write, “Perfectionism: a (terrible) deviation from the way… of Jesus. It is unlikely that it will plunge us headlong into damnation, but it certainly makes us most undesirable company with others on the… way… (Any) attempt to impose perfection on either oneself or another, whether parent on child, pastor on congregation, CEO on a company, teacher on student, husband on wife, wife on husband is decidedly not the way of Jesus.” 

Finally, he writes this: “…perfection is not an option but a seduction…”

Sometimes we get this idea of the “perfect church” in our minds: just the right mix of ages; perfect music; perfect pastor; everyone gets along. When I was preparing to take my first call, I was looking for the perfect church, and my friend Rusty said, “Hey Joe if you find it, you better not go there because sure as you show up – you’ll ruin it for all those other perfect people!” He was right!

There’s no such thing as a perfect church, just as there’s no such thing as a perfect family. This is the case simply because there’s no such thing as a perfect person.

May you and I, as we strive to follow Jesus, as we strive to get it right, as we strive to do the right things and say the right things, may we never lose sight of his grace. There is grace enough for you and for me. May we share that grace with a world desperately in need. 

Let us pray: Wash over us again with your grace, O God. Help us to accept and love ourselves and others as you love us; through Jesus our savior. Amen. 

We’re in it Together

We’re in it Together

In the letter of 1 John (1:8-9) we read, “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.” 

Scholars tell us that within John’s church, there was a group of well-meaning Christians who had been trying to improve the church, and out of frustration, had broken away. It is widely believed that this group was influenced by a kind of teaching known as Gnosticism. This is from the Greek word to know – like in the sense I know and you don’t! At the heart of this teaching was the belief that if they tried hard enough, a person could attain perfect spirituality. Through serious and intense study or discipline, a person could become so spiritual that he or she would be above and beyond sin. They could somehow reach perfection.  

Now maybe you’ve met people of faith like that – who think they have all the answers. Like somehow they are Christians and you are not.

I sat on a plane one time with a young Pentecostal brother who was studying to be a pastor. When he found out I was a Presbyterian Minister, tried to convert me. He honestly believed that he attained something that made his faith superior. And he shared with me that if I only would pray hard enough and believe hard enough, I too, like him, would receive the gift of tongues. It was clear that in his view there was a level of faith I hadn’t strived hard enough to reach.

I thought about that young man. He had a young family. We both lived in Jacksonville at that time. We could have been friends. We could have shared some ministry. But he had a litmus test that destroyed that possibility.

Eugene Peterson, in his book, The Way of Jesus, gets at this. He writes: “Perfectionism is a disorder that occurs frequently in the Christian community. It is a way of… dividing up the church and putting each of us in our place: mere believers and serious disciples; water-baptized and Spirit-baptized; lukewarm and on-fire; the rigorist and the relaxed.” 

The argument goes like this…: “If we take this life with unrelenting seriousness we can actually live a perfect life in Christ. When that happens rigorist condescension turns into polite (but not always polite) contempt of (others).”

For John, a true test of Christianity is fellowship and love for each other. And he gently reminds us that we like everyone else – are saved not by our own efforts – but only by the blood of Christ. (1John 2:1-2).  

Thanks be to God.

Let us pray: Wash over us again with your grace, O God. Help us to accept and love ourselves and others as you love us; through Jesus our savior. Amen. 

Holy Ground – Beethoven’s Piano

Holy Ground – Beethoven’s Piano

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A young woman stood before Beethoven’s piano in a Vienna museum. Presently she struck a few discordant notes. “I suppose,” she said to an attendant, “that many noted musicians have inspected this instrument.” “Oh, yes,” replied the man. “Recently Paderewski was here.” “Paderewski!” exclaimed the visitor. “Certainly, he must have played something wonderful.” “On the contrary, he did not feel worthy to touch it.” 

Friend of Dial Hope, wherever you are, this very moment – in a hospital bed, driving to work, your home, your place of business, a payphone, a helicopter over Iraq – you are on holy ground. It is holy because God is with you! Whether your heart is smiling or sad, whether you are lonely or afraid, whether you are hurting, whether you are celebrating – God is as close to you as breathing, nearer than hands or feet. Remember, God loves you just the way you are, but God refuses to leave you there. God wants you to have a heart like his. God wants you to be just like Jesus. Let today be a day filled with joy, hope, and contagious enthusiasm. 

Let us pray: God of love, we await the miracle of your grace in this time of prayer. Change the chemistry of our doubts and discouragements into a willingness to live the venture of faith. Give us the spontaneous emotion of a child of faith. In the name of the risen Christ. Amen. 

The Job of Building Bridges

The Job of Building Bridges

There is a story about two widowed sisters who lived together later in life. At one point they had such a bitter fight, they stopped speaking to each other. Unable or unwilling to leave their small home, they continued to sleep in the same bedroom. Things were so bad that they drew a chalk line dividing every room so that they each could come and go without trespassing on the other sister’s space. For years they coexisted in silence. Neither was willing to take the first step to reconciliation.

Then one night one sister got up to go to the bathroom and fell, breaking her hip. The other sister heard the fall and scream and woke up. She jumped out of bed crossed the chalk line and came to her sister’s side. After a typical jab asking why she would do such a foolish thing as trip on her own feet, one sister held the other until the paramedics came and carried her to the hospital. In those moments of darkness, the truth and power of love revealed itself. 

The late Supreme Court Justice Thurgood Marshall once told this story, ending it with these words. “The legal system can force open doors, and sometimes even knock down walls, but it cannot build bridges. That job belongs to you and me.”

Let us pray: Gracious God, we thank you for your unconditional love and forgiveness of us. Help us to share those same gifts with the people around us – friends, family members, and neighbors. May we be the first to build bridges – the first to offer forgiveness, and the first to seek reconciliation – for we remember that life is short and we don’t have forever. We ask in the name of Christ. Amen.