Rest Free in Grace

Rest Free in Grace

In his book, Will Daylight Come?, Richard Hoefler tells a story about a young boy who was visiting his grandparents. The boy was given a slingshot as a gift, and while he was out practicing in the woods he found he was having a terrible time hitting his target. As he came back to Grandma’s backyard, he noticed her pet duck. On an impulse, he took aim and let the rock fly. This time the rock hit right on target, and the duck fell dead. Of course, the boy panicked. He hid the dead duck in the woodpile, only to look up and see his sister Sally watching. Sally had seen it all, but she said nothing.  

After lunch that day, Grandma said, “Sally, let’s wash the dishes.” But Sally said, “Johnny told me he wanted to help in the kitchen today. Didn’t you, Johnny?” And she whispered to him, “Remember the duck!” So Johnny did the dishes. Later Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing. Grandma said, “I’m sorry, but I need Sally to help make supper.” Sally smiled and said, “That’s all taken care of. Johnny wants to do it.” Again she whispered, “Remember the duck.” Johnny stayed while Sally went fishing.  

After several days of Johnny doing both his chores and Sally’s, finally he couldn’t stand it. He confessed to Grandma that he’d killed the duck. “I know, Johnny,” she said, giving him a hug. “I was standing at the window and saw the whole thing. Because I love you, I forgave you. I just wondered how long you would let Sally make a slave of you.”

Now Sally sounds like she belongs in the mafia! But, there’s something true about this story. Sometimes we become a slave to our past, don’t we? We allow our guilt to stay with us – even to define us.

In the first letter of John, we read, “If we say that we are without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.” And then John adds this: “But if we confess our sin, God who is faithful and just will forgive us our sin and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Let us pray: We turn over to you today our past mistakes and failures. Help us to know your forgiveness, amend our ways, and to rest free in your grace. Amen.

Courage, Guidance, and Strength

Courage, Guidance, and Strength

In one of the Calvin and Hobbes comic strips, Calvin walked into the living room where his father was sitting in a chair reading. Calvin announces: “I’ve concluded that nothing bad that I do is my fault.” Dad’s curiosity is peaked, so Dad says, “Oh?”

Calvin continues: “Right! Being young and impressionable, I’m the helpless victim of countless bad influences! An unwholesome culture panders to my undeveloped values and pushes me to malfeasance. I take no responsibility for my behavior! I’m an innocent pawn! It’s society’s fault.” Dad is totally unimpressed and says, “Then you need to build more character. Go shovel the walk.” 

In the last scene, Calvin is shoveling snow and complains, “These discussions never go where they’re supposed to go.”

Like Calvin, when things fall apart, sometimes we are tempted to look for someone else to blame. I catch myself doing it all the time. It’s part of human nature – just look again at the story of Adam and Eve! However, as most of us have experienced, shifting the blame rarely solves anything. And at its worst, it keeps us from growing, adapting, or learning.

In his first letter to the Corinthians, the Apostle Paul wrote: “We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment…”

Instead of shifting blame, may you and I face our problems and trials head on, asking God for guidance, courage, and strength. 

Let us pray: Gracious God, we ask for an upwelling of hope that in the midst of life’s joys and troubles, we would know, without a doubt, that you are present, that you are with us, and that you are faithful. We turn over to you now any confusing or troubling issues that we face – and we ask for your mercy and for your guidance. Amen. 

The Linus Bent

The Linus Bent

There is a Charlie Brown comic strip in which Lucy and her brother Linus have just finished a chicken dinner and Lucy is explaining to Linus how to make a wish on the wishbone. “This is a wishbone, Linus,” she says. “We both make our wishes and then pull it apart. Whoever breaks off the biggest part gets his wish.”

Linus asks, “Do we wish out loud?” Lucy replies, “Of course, we wish out loud. If you don’t wish out loud the wish-answerer won’t know what to bring you.”

Lucy begins the wishing: “Let’s see now! I wish for a new doll, a new bicycle, four new sweaters, some new saddle shoes, a wrist watch, and about one hundred dollars.” Linus then gets his turn: “I wish for long life for all my friends. I wish for peace in the world. I wish for great advancement in the fields of science and medicine and…” But by this time Lucy is throwing away the unbroken wishbone in disgust, saying, “You seem to have a knack for spoiling everything.”

I have to imagine that most of us have both a little bit of Lucy and Linus within us. I call them the Lucy bent and the Linus bent. The Lucy bent is our selfish side, and it comes naturally to most of us. The Linus bent, however, is more human and humane. It takes a little more practice to live out of this side of ourselves. But, when we are able to get our minds off of ourselves, when we wish better for others and work for better for others, we find ourselves more joyful and more at peace.

The apostle Paul once wrote, “Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others. Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus… “

Let us pray: Loving God, we want to live out of a sense of contentment with who we are and with what we have. Grant us your grace. Help us to find ways to nourish and feed the “Linus” side of our personalities – to love and care for others. We ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Breath Prayers

Breath Prayers

You may remember the story about a mom making pancakes for her two sons, ages 4 and 6. The boys begin to argue over who would get the first pancake. Their mother saw an opportunity for a little life lesson. “If Jesus were sitting here, he would say, “Let my brother have the first pancake, I can wait. So, the older brother turned to the younger brother and said, “OK Ryan, you be Jesus!”

Isn’t that just the way it is? On Sunday, when we’re at church and we’re inspired and all together, it’s one thing. But when we’re back out in the world, amid the pressure of work and schools, and troubled relationships, human nature takes over. It becomes much harder to embrace this beautiful way of life that God has offered us.

In her book Soul Feast, Marjory Thompson writes about an ancient practice called 

“Breath Prayer.” This is a very simple prayer of few words that can be prayed regularly throughout the day. When faced with the challenges of everyday life, it can help recenter and restore balance. In the Hebrew and Greek languages, the words breath and Spirit are the same word. If you practice this often enough, it becomes almost as second nature as breathing, inviting the Spirit to fill you with each breath. 

Here are some examples:

Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on me.
Lord, grant me your peace.
Teach me patience, Gracious God.
Give me strength, O Christ.
Come, Lord Jesus! 

You can write your own, or use a verse of scripture in the same way. The idea is that as your prayer is repeated over time, you become more and more aware that God’s peace, strength, and presence are as near to you as your next breath. 

Let us pray: Holy God, In the midst of days that are busy and yet sometimes lonely, we ask you to meet us. Meet us in quiet moments and in stressful situations, in doctor’s offices and in school, in board rooms and workstations, in traffic, and in outings with friends. Be here with us – even now. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Thin Places

Thin Places

While on my sabbatical last summer, my daughters and I had the opportunity to surf in the North Sea off the rugged coastline of Scotland. The water was emerald green, the sheer rocky cliffs dropped directly into the water, and pasture land rolled right up to the shore. The waves were powerful and well formed – near perfect for surfing.

The location, Farr Bay, felt like a “thin place”, a place where the veil between heaven and earth was at its thinnest. We could sense the presence of God.

John Philip Newell writes about early Celtic Christianity: “The shoreline, that liminal space between land and sea, between known and unknown, the soil of our habitation and the waters of life’s origins, was (seen as) a portal that opened to the union of the temporal and the eternal, the seen and the unseen.”

For some of you, it is the shoreline, whether river, lake, stream, or ocean, that is for you a thin place. For others of you, it may be the mountains, or open ocean, or the vast plains. For others still, it is the quiet of a sanctuary or early morning in the garden. Wherever it may be for you, I hope you find yourself there often.

Let us pray: We thank you, O God, for making your presence known to us in various times and places throughout life. Through these glimpses, may we gain strength and courage for the journey. Amen.

Friendship

Friendship

One of the deepest longings of the human soul is the longing to be seen, and to be loved, and to be accepted. Aristotle said that if you could have all the goods the world could give you, but had to have them without friendship, you’d chose not to have the goods. 

There would be no question.

And yet, it’s not easy, is it? 

The poet and philosopher John O’Donohue claims, “There is a natural hunger in the spirit to be loved and to be as you are without being judged. (But) We offer each other these spaces less and less (these days)…” And we don’t take time for it. He claims, “We’ve become post-graduates in the art of acquaintances but paupers in the art of friendship…”

In John’s gospel, Jesus says to his disciples, “I no longer call you servants but friends….” and then he adds, “Love one another as have loved you.”

We do know that in the Bible, it is precisely in the midst of loneliness, in times of illness, and in times of suffering that Jesus shows up.

I imagine, at least in part, that Jesus is inviting us to show up in the same way that he shows up. I imagine, at least in part, he is inviting us to make sure that no one has no one. 

As we walk this journey of life, there is no way around it, we all will face times of loneliness, times of suffering, and times of illness. And so I pray today for each of you:

May God bring into your life at least one faithful friend.  
May you be a friend to the friendless. 
May you treasure the friends you have. 
May you be good to them and may you be there for them.
May they bring you all the blessings, challenges, truth, and light that you need for 
your journey. 
And may you rest securely in the knowledge and love of Christ, who has called 
you friend. 

Let us pray: God of Love, in Jesus Christ you walked among us – flesh and blood. You ate with sinners, you touched the lonely and the sick, you laughed and cried and suffered alongside us. We thank you for your incarnate love. We also thank you today for the people that you have brought into our lives – for neighbors, friends, family, our church family, and for others who walk the journey with us, and for the way that their presence makes the journey richer.

We remember that you created us to be in relationship with others. So we pray today especially for those who feel lonely, and for others who are most often forgotten. May they know your presence and love even now. Grant us your grace, your patience, your forgiveness, and your love so that we might be better friends to those we love – and better able to reach out to those who need us most. In Christ’s name. Amen.

Crown of God’s Creation

Crown of God’s Creation

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

One of the greatest truths of the Bible is … We – you and I – are made in the image of God. Talk about a miracle! God made cats and dogs, hummingbirds, red cardinals, squirrels, elephants, giraffes, pelicans, dolphins, and the duck-billed platypus. God made the trees, the flowers, and skies. God made all of it and said, “That’s good! Now, that’s good!” And to cap it all off, God said, “Now, for the masterpiece: I am going to create something like myself!” And God made you! You see, it is a sin for us to say, “Well, I’m only human.” If you want to see one of God’s miracles, don’t gather pine cones, don’t look at the Milky Way, don’t capture a squirrel, and don’t find a picture of a trout stream, just look at the person next to you. There is God’s miracle! There is the crown of God’s creation! 

Let us pray: Creator God, we marvel at your small wonders and your overarching grandeur. We crouch down to examine a centipede and we stand on a mountaintop to try to take in the Milky Way. We listen to the tiny cry of a newborn kitten and we cringe in the face of the roar of the thunderstorm. We are small indeed in the scheme of the universe, but we are grateful that you have made us in your image. When we are weary, give us energy. When we are sad, give us comfort. For all those who are suffering loss, who wonder what will happen next, we pray that you will walk before them and enable us to be companions along the way. Now “raise us up on eagle’s wings, bear us on the breath of dawn, make us to shine like the sun, and hold us in the palm of your hand.” (On Eagles Wings, based on Psalm 91). We ask this in Jesus’ name, the friend of all. Amen. 

First, the Big Rocks

First, the Big Rocks

A business professor told her class that she was going to give a quiz on the subject of time management. She pulled out a one-gallon, wide-mouthed Mason jar and set it on a table. Then she carefully placed about a dozen golfball-sized rocks into the jar. When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, she asked, “Is this jar full?” 

 Everyone responded, “Yes.” 

 The professor replied, “Really?” as she reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. She dumped some gravel in and shook the jar, causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the spaces between the big rocks. Then she smiled and asked the group once more, “Is the jar full?” 

 By this time the class was onto her. “Probably not,” one of them answered. 

 “Good!” she replied as she reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. She started dumping in the sand which slowly sifted into all the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Then, the question came, “Is this jar full?” 

 “No!” the class shouted. 

 Once again she replied, “Good!” She then grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim. 

Finally, she looked up at the class and asked, “What is the point of this illustration?” 

 One student raised his hand and said, “The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard, you can always fit some more things into it!” 

 “No,” the speaker replied, “that’s not the point. The truth this illustration teaches is this: If you don’t put the big rocks in first, you’ll never get them in at all.

So true. 

The story raises the following questions: What are the big rocks in your life? Where does the development of the soul and life of faith fit in for you?  

When we get those answers straight, everything else has a way of falling into place.

Let us pray: God of grace, our days are often busy and filled with a furry of activity. Sometimes it feels as though we are just moving mindlessly through life, and as though we are not living deeply. Help us to set meaningful priorities and to put you heart and center. I pray today, especially for those who feel as though they have the weight of the world on their shoulders. Meet each of us this day at the deepest point of our need, and grant us your peace. Amen.

The Gift of Tears

The Gift of Tears

In my Dial Hope message yesterday, I shared a story about how a young man who was addicted to drugs had a turning point when he found himself weeping on the street. 

Tears are often turning points.

If you do a word study, you will find that the Bible is actually full of tears. Abraham wept. Hagar wept. Joseph, Hannah, Jonathan and King David, Elijah, Jeremiah all wept. The people of Israel sat down and wept when in Babylon they remembered Zion. Peter and John both wept. Mary and Martha wept, and Jesus wept. Paul wept and was wept over, and he challenged Christians to “weep with those who weep.” 

That word is used 122 times in the Bible! Not to mention how many other times throughout the scriptures people cry out to God. Tears are not only a critical part of life, they are also a critical part of faith.

Great American writer Frederick Buechner once made the claim that tears are essential guides. He wrote, “Whenever you find tears in your eyes, it is well to pay the closest attention. They are not only telling you something about the secret of who you are, but more often than not, God is speaking to you through them of the mystery of where you have come from, and is summoning you to where, if your soul is to be saved, you should go next.”

May you come to see whether you find yourself weeping for yourselves or for others, our tears are a gift. But we don’t grieve as those who are without hope. We weep as those who trust that our tears are seeds of hope. And we weep as those who know the God who brings life out of death, and who has promised to make all things new. 

Let us pray: God of grace, may the tears we shed truly be seeds of hope. May our hearts be open through them to your healing grace and to your gentle nudging. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Jesus Loves You

Jesus Loves You

My friend Amy Camp shared a story with me about a friend she met while traveling in South Africa. He was in the AA recovery movement, and he shared his story with her. He said he moved to New York City as a young man and, even though he came from a good family back home, he somehow got addicted to crack cocaine. He was actually living in a crack house. He wasn’t sleeping and had become extremely paranoid. And one day he found himself on the sidewalk – just weeping. 

Amy said that he is a big guy, and looks kind of tough, so it was hard to imagine this big tough guy on the street crying. But, he told Amy, “There I was standing on the street weeping, and a little African American boy came up to me and ask me what was wrong. I was sobbing and shaking and I said, ‘Nobody loves me. Nobody loves me. Nobody loves me.’ The boy looked at me and said, ‘Jesus loves you.’ And it just hit me in a powerful, moving way.” 

I don’t know whether he remembered that children’s song from his childhood, but somehow Amy’s friend and boy both started singing the song, “Jesus loves me, this I know.” He went on to tell Amy, “That moment on the street changed my life. I realized that I wanted more than ever to get sober, and I so called my brother in Johannesburg. And my brother sent me a ticket home.”

The compassion of a small boy who responded to the tears he witnessed, was the beginning of a new life for that young man.  

I pray today that in a similar way, you and I would be tuned in to the pain of others. May God give us a spirit of compassion, and simple words that heal.

Let us pray: We thank you, O God, for sending the right people into our lives at the right times. May you use us in a similar way for others. Tune our hearts to the needs of others, and grant us a willing spirit to respond. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.