Sacrificial Love

Sacrificial Love

In a Peanuts cartoon, Charlie Brown and Linus are standing next to each other, staring at a star-filled sky. “Would you like to see a falling star?” Charlie Brown asks Linus.

“Sure…” Linus responds. “Then again, I don’t know,” he adds, after some thought. “I’d hate to have it fall just on my account.”

In the book Parables of Peanuts, Robert Short uses this cartoon to make the point that a star did fall on our account. God came down to us as Jesus, and he went to the cross. There he defeated the powers of evil and even death. And, he showed us the depths of his love for us.

I pray today, no matter where you are on the journey of life that, you would know in the very deepest part of your being, God’s love for you.

Let us pray: You are holy and majestic, O God. You hold the world in the palms of your hand, and you hold us. We thank you for coming to us in Jesus. We thank you for your sacrificial love and amazing grace. And on this Veteran’s Day, we give thanks for those people who have served us sacrificially. Show us how we might be a blessing to them this day. Amen.

The Gift of Forgiveness

The Gift of Forgiveness

I was talking to my friend Rusty some time back and he was telling me about how they had a guest pastor come to speak at his church. This pastor shared that when he was three years old, his dad left home and he didn’t see him again for something like thirty years. When he finally saw his father, his father wanted a relationship. The pastor realized that he had been carrying all this deep anger and resentment for thirty-something years. It felt like the weight of the world. 

Maybe you know what that’s like – to carry that hurt and anger around. Maybe someone you loved or trusted hurt you or disappointed you. On one level or another, we all know what it’s like not to want to forgive. We all know what it’s like to want to get revenge – to get even. So many of us carry so much around.

The guest pastor at my friend’s church said he forgave his father, but only by the strength God gave him. He went on to say that as hard as it was, it turned out to be one of the best things he had ever done.

If you think about it, the real point of forgiveness isn’t other people, is it? It is about us. It is about all the hurt and pain and anger and bitterness that we carry around with us, stuff that eats us up inside. I don’t want what someone else did to me to control my life. I want to be free. I want to be alive. I want to be healthy. Sometimes we just think that by holding onto all that – we’re showing them! But really, who are we hurting? 

At the very heart of the gospel is forgiveness. That’s what the cross is about. That’s how God has dealt with us. And the truth is when we set other people free – we are really setting ourselves free. 

Let us pray: Merciful God, We have heard the Good News that in Jesus Christ we are forgiven. While sometimes we accept this forgiveness, other times we do not. Sometimes we are able to forgive others, but sometimes we hold fast to old grudges, hurts, and fears. Sometimes we feel unable to forgive – even ourselves.

Have mercy on us, O God. Help us today to let go… Help us to accept that we are accepted, and to forgive as we are forgiven; that new beginnings may be ours through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Love that Will Not Let Us Go

Love that Will Not Let Us Go

Today’s message was written by my friend Roger Kunkel.

I love the month of November. It is the month of Thanksgiving. It is a month filled with unlimited possibilities. When is the last time your possibilities gave you goose pimples?

Today I want you to focus on this verse from 1 Corinthians 13:8, “Love never fails.”

The seeking love of God often comes in unexpected places and in unlikely ways. When one is young, it is easy to fall in love and easy to fall out of love. Young love is tender and fragile. The first love may be followed by another as one grows tired of the first romance or finds another face that is prettier. How different is the love of God! God never grows tired, never leaves one for another, never forsakes because he has been forsaken. Hosea discovered this unrelenting love of God. This is the story the Bible tells and retells – the story of a love that will not let God’s people go. Francis Thompson speaks of him as “The Hound of Heaven” that pursues and continues to pursue. George Matheson wrote of it, and we sing of it as, “O Love that Wilt Not Let Me Go.”

Which one of us does not know something personally of this love? Which of us has done enough to deserve such a love? Yet we feel the warm love of our Lord breaking anew into our lives in some unexpected moment. More clearly still we see the love of God when we look at the cross. In the agony of death – isn’t that an unexpected place to find God’s love? This is love that never fails, the seeking love of God.

Let us pray: Loving God, your message is not sent in secret code, but in the plainest and simplest of words. It is a love letter to us. Help us to treasure it always, to live in love, and always to expect further messages. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Unconditional Love

Unconditional Love

In one of his sermons, Rev. King Duncan tells the story of a child psychologist and a boy who was brought in to see him. The boy had been labeled “incorrigible.” He was moody, and at first, wouldn’t even talk to the psychologist. His own father said, “This is the only child I’ve ever seen who doesn’t have a single likable trait, not a single one.” 

Being wise, the psychologist realized this was his starting point. He started looking for some one thing he could approve and found several. The boy liked to carve and he did it well. At home, he had carved up the furniture and been punished for it. The psychologist bought him a carving set, a set of carving knives, and some soft wood. He also didn’t hold back his approval. “You know, Jimmy,” he said, “you can carve out things better than anybody I ever knew.” 

The psychologist soon found other things he could approve of, and one day Jimmy surprised everyone by cleaning up his own room without being asked. When the psychologist asked him why he did it, Jimmy answered, “I thought you would like that.” 

Duncan made the astute point that: “Acceptance changes lives. You and I have seen it happen in other situations with adults as well as young people. This is the strength of groups like Alcoholics Anonymous and other support groups. When people feel accepted, they find the power to change”.

This was a huge piece of Jesus’ ministry. He accepted people just as they were and he changed their lives. He still accepts and loves people just as they are – people like you and people like me. And, he calls us to love and accept others. By doing so, we too change lives.

Let us pray: Gracious God, thank you for your unconditional love and grace. We pray today for those who are feeling down or discouraged, tired or depressed, marginalized or labeled. We lift up our sisters and brothers who struggle with self-image or self-confidence. We pray for all those who serve you but who are wondering whether they can summon any more strength or energy to get through this next day. Remind each of us again today that we are your children – accepted, forgiven, and loved; through Jesus Christ. Amen.

A Second Innocence

A Second Innocence

The poet and philosopher John O’Donohue really gets at this for me when he writes about what he calls a second innocence. This innocence is different from the first innocence we have as children. That innocence is based on naive trust.

 The second innocence can be developed only later in life when you lived deeply. Only after you’ve experienced the underside of life. You know its incredible capacity to disappoint and sometimes destroy. Yet, in spite of that, somehow you are still able to maintain a deeper sense of hope – and even joy. That is the second kind of innocence our faith can help us develop. 

O’Donohue writes this, “It is lovely to meet an old person whose face is deeply lined, a face that has been deeply inhabited, to look into the eyes and find light there. That light is not inexperienced but rather innocent in its trust in the good and the true and the beautiful. Such a gaze from an old face is a kind of blessing. 

When I read this, I couldn’t help but think about my friend Jim Campbell, who died earlier this year. I always thought of him as the mayor of his retirement community. We went to lunch once a month for years, and he always had a big smile and a great sense of humor. He was very generous, and ever-joking – gently poking fun. After lunch, we would visit people in the skilled nursing area, and Jim always wanted to offer the prayer. Unless he told you, you’d never know that Jim had outlived his wife, and had buried three of his four children as adults. They died in separate but tragic events over the course of many years. 

The thing about Jim, this man had been on a path of faith all his life. Over the years he had repeatedly put into practice the core tenants of the Christian tradition: trust, generosity, hope, forgiveness… He saw the worst of what life can do. And yet… there was a profound faith, a light, and a hope that tragedy could not touch.  

I’ve been in the ministry long enough to know that this doesn’t just happen. It takes a lifetime of practice.

Let us pray: Be near to those who need you near this day, O God. Help us to engage our faith now. Deepen our ability to forgive, to trust, and to give, even when every fiber of our being resists. Create in us a “second innocence,” that we might experience your peace, and be instruments of that peace, through Christ our Lord. Amen. 

What I Gave I Have

What I Gave I Have

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Listen to this profound epitaph found on an English gravestone: “What I kept, I lost. What I spent, I had. What I gave, I have.” 

Friend of Dial Hope, as you well know, the art of keeping isn’t all bad. There will always be secrets to keep, treasures to store, memories to hold tightly. But some of us keep compulsively; we keep, keep, keep. We are hoarders. Although we keep actual objects, we lose the joy of possession. In spending, we no longer withhold or hide something. 

This epitaph closes by reminding us that when we leave life, we only have what we gave and shared in love and trust. And this is one of life’s most difficult lessons to learn. Yet learn it you must, if you want a full life. When our lives come to the end, we will realize that we are the sum of our gifts – gifts of joy, gifts of time, gifts of dissent, gifts of comfort – all our gifts. We are not the sum of our possessions. We are not the sum of our accomplishments. We are finally the sum of our gifts. The persons I most respect are givers and not takers. Let’s hear it for generosity and gratitude. 

Let us pray: Extravagant God, you have given the ultimate gift, the gift of your Son, Jesus Christ. We thank you for the gift of friendship with Jesus. Now help us to embrace each day as a gift, something sacred and special; a day to play with children, visit an older person, hug a friend; a day to do something generous and kind. Surprise us now with your joy and grace in unexpected places. Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. 

A Doorway for Grace

A Doorway for Grace

John R. Brokhoff tells a story about the great pianist, Paderewski. Apparently, Paderewski had a friend whose little girl was preparing for a piano recital. Out of respect for his friend, he accepted an invitation to the little girl’s recital. However, when the day came and she saw the famous pianist in the audience, she got stage fright, forgot her piece, and broke down in tears. 

At the close of the concert, Paderewski said nothing to her but went up and tenderly kissed her on the forehead and left. 

Brokhoff made the point that if that little girl had not made the mistake and failed, she would not have received a kiss of love and understanding from the master pianist.”

It is the experience of many, that it is in moments of failure and struggle that God’s mercy and grace are most palpable. In fact, I’ve heard it said that some Native Americans have a tradition of leaving a blemish in the corner of a blanket they are weaving – because they believe that is where the Spirit will enter.

I wonder how your personal blemishes, failures, and shortcomings might be a portal for God’s grace, mercy, and love. 

In the Message version of the Gospel of Luke, Jesus says, “You are Blessed when you’ve lost it all. The Kingdom of God is there for the finding!”

Let us pray: We thank you, Loving God, for your unconditional love and forgiveness. Today we pray that in a mighty way, you would use our past mistakes and failures to come into our lives anew. Restore us, and set us on a new path. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

All God’s Children

All God’s Children

Today, I want to offer something a little different. As I have over the past two days, I want to share with you a guided meditation as our message and prayer. (Tomorrow we’ll return to our more regular style messages.) When you have the time, I would encourage you to put all three of these messages together, to make one complete prayer.

Today we are going to take this one step further.

I invite you to read this slowly. Close your eye’s as you are able and take the prayer into your heart. Begin by taking a couple of deep breaths. Breath in God’s Spirit, breathe out. Breath in God’s Spirit. Breath out…

The Apostle Paul once wrote to his young friend and colleague Timothy (chapter 2, verse 1): “I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for everyone…”

For everyone. 

I invite you today to get more than one person in your mind’s eye. Imagine people across the globe… people with no power, perhaps living in the streets, in refugee camps, those in prisons… (pause a few moments) And gather with them people with vast power… who may or may not care… Gather with them, people that you love, your family and friends, and with them people no one loves… 

And we pray for all God’s children. 

Gracious God, just as I wish to be protected, so do they wish to be protected. Just as I wish to be happy, so do they wish to be happy… Just as I wish to be healthy, so do they wish to be healthy… Just as I wish to have peace, so do they wish to have peace.

May all these, your children, O God, be safe… May they be happy… May they be healthy… May they be filled with peace… (speak to them directly) May you be safe… May you be happy… May you be healthy… May you be filled with peace…

We offer you these our prayers today, in all humility and hope, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Learn to Let Go

Learn to Let Go

Today, I want to offer something a little different. Just as I did yesterday, I want to offer you a guided meditation as our message and prayer. 

Yesterday we prayed for a loved one and for ourselves. Today, we remember that Jesus told us to pray for those who persecute us and to love our enemies (Matthew 6..)… That’s not easy. But when we hold hatred, bitterness, or resentment in our hearts, it is detrimental to our own health, well-being and even salvation. We need to learn to let go. 

I invite you to read this slowly. Close your eye’s as you are able and take the prayer into your heart. Begin by taking a couple of deep breaths. Breath in God’s Spirit, breathe out. Breath in God’s Spirit. Breath out…

Today, I invite you to imagine someone in your mind’s eye with whom you’ve had disagreements or someone you dislike. Maybe it is a political leader who is contrary to everything you stand for… This could also be someone who may have hurt you. But just pick one person and get them in your mind’s eye. And offer this prayer, for them… 

May God protect you… May God give you happiness… May God give you health… May God give you peace… (pause a moment and continue to hold them in your mind’s eye. Call them by name.) May you be protected… May you be happy… May you be healthy… May you live with ease… 

We offer you these our prayers today, in all humility and hope, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

A New Way of Praying

A New Way of Praying

Today, I want to offer something a little different. I want to offer you a guided meditation as our message and prayer. I invite you to read this slowly. Close your eye’s as you are able and take the prayer into your heart. Begin by taking a couple of deep breaths. Breath in God’s Spirit, breathe out. Breath in God’s Spirit. Breath out…

I invite you now to picture in your mind’s eye, someone you love. This could be someone you know who needs healing, someone who is troubled, or someone who is carrying a lot on their plate… Get them in your mind’s eye, and ask: May God protect you… May God give fill you with joy… May God give you health… May God give you peace… Continue to hold them in your mind. (You might even call them by name.) May you be protected… May you be happy… May you be healthy… May you live with ease…

Now, this might be a little bit harder. I invite you to shift your focus for just a moment and offer these same prayers, these blessings, not to others, but to yourself. Say to yourself (and you might even call yourself by name): May God protect you… May God give you joy… May God give you health…. May God give you peace… (pause a moment or two) May I be protected… May I be joyful… May I be healthy…. May I live with ease…May I be protected… May I be joyful… May I be healthy…. May I live with ease…

We offer you these our prayers today, in all humility and hope, in Jesus’ name. Amen.