Salt and Light

Salt and Light

A friend reminded me recently that even more important than “going to church,” is “being the church.” After all, Jesus said we are to be the “salt and light” of the world.

Theologian George McCleod once wrote: “I am for recovering the claim that Jesus was not crucified in a cathedral between two candles, but on a cross between two thieves, on the town garbage heap, at a place so cosmopolitan, they had to write his title in Hebrew, Latin, and Greek; at the kind of place where cynics talk smut, soldiers gamble and thieves curse; because that is where Christ died, and that is what Christ died about, and that is where church people ought to be, and what church people should be about.”

Salt and light not just in the church, but in the world.

As I read that, I thought about a group from our Presbytery that for a while started a theology discussion class that met in a bar. They called it “Theology on Tap.”

I also thought about my friend Robert McCary. Robert is the full-time youth director at Community Presbyterian Church out in Atlantic Beach. He spends at least a portion of his time each week out surfing at the break behind the church. He claims it is in his job description. When I used to work there, I learned pretty quickly that he knows every lifeguard. He knows most of the surfers in the water – young and old – many of whom do not go to his church or any church. And I have seen that often he’ll have people want to talk to him, to share their problems with him, even ask him for advice – not only because he is a leader in their community – but also because Robert has a reputation for being a good father; a good husband; and a man of deep faith. It is clear that he truly loves and cares for people.

I also thought about some in my congregation who have mentoring high school students who are homeless. And others who go out in the elementary schools to pack backpacks full of food; others still who visit the elderly, or who sing or play bells in nursing homes at Christmas. I could go on.

Today, I pray that you would reflect for just a few moments on the ways in which you, are the salt and light – not just in the church but out in the world.

Let us pray: Draw us closer to you, O God, that we would commit our very lives to walk in your ways; that our actions and our very lives would make a difference – that they would indeed bring light and hope; in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Holy Laughter

Holy Laughter

I once heard about the great boxer Mohammed Ali. Just before takeoff on an airline flight, the attendant reminded Ali to fasten his seatbelt. “Superman don’t need no seatbelt,” he replied. The attendant replied, ”Superman don’t need no airplane either.” Ali fastened his belt.

A little humor goes a long way!

Studies also show that bouts of laughter can boost the immune system, relax muscles, aid circulation, and protect against heart disease. Laughter can also lower anxiety, improve mood, foster resilience, and help us through stressful times. I’ve heard it said that laughter is a reset button for your soul. Ethel Barrymore said: “You grow up when you get your first good laugh… at yourself.”

Here’s something else. Good humor and faith are connected. Reinhold Niebuhr, one of the great theologians of the twentieth century, explained it like this:

“Humor is concerned with the immediate incongruities of life, and faith with the ultimate ones…. Laughter is our reaction to immediate incongruities and those which do not affect us essentially. Faith is the only possible response to the ultimate incongruities of existence which threaten the very meaning of life…. Humor is, in fact, a prelude to faith; and laughter is the beginning of prayer.”

When at a very old age, Sarah was told she would conceive and give birth to a child, she laughed. (Genesis 18) But there is more.

Rev. King Duncan once wrote: “Listen for the laughter that can be heard from the very moment of creation—from the first movement of the Spirit over the waters of the deep, the first burst of light, the first baby’s cry and God’s word that it is all good. Listen for the sounds of joy which overcome the shouts of fear. Listen for the echoes of hope which can be heard even in the face of discouragement and doubt and despair. Listen for the laughter of the Savior ringing from an empty tomb who says: ‘My joy will be in you and your joy will be full.’ Listen…”

I don’t know what struggles you may be facing; what burdens you might be carrying; what promises of God you might want to embrace – but for whatever reason cannot. But I do pray, that like Sarah, you could face them with laughter.

Let us pray: Holy God, Open our hearts to the joy that you’ve promised that even in the darkest of times we might laugh with people of faith across the ages. May we join our laughter with the laughter of death overcome by resurrection and new life. And as we do O God, may we recognize that even though the darkness still exists, it is shot through with light. And may that grace and laughter and joy inspire us anew. We ask in Jesus’s name. Amen.

Heart of Gratitude

Heart of Gratitude

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

It is no secret that I have a passion for encouraging people to base their life on gratitude. Paul put it like this, “Give thanks in all circumstances.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18a).

Let me point out that Paul didn’t say to give thanks “for” all circumstances. Obviously, we don’t give thanks for cancer or heart attacks, arthritis or blindness, Alzheimer’s, or terrorist attacks. But we can give thanks “in” all circumstances because God is with us, come what may. And when we realize that and embrace that and reach out to God in faith, he will give us strength and see us through. We can count on that. And that is cause for great thanksgiving.

There is an old legend that tells about a man who came one day to the barn where Satan stores the seeds that he scatters across the earth. The man noticed that the two most abundant seeds in the barn were the seeds of bitterness and discouragement. He asked Satan about those seeds. “Oh, yes,” came the reply, “bitterness and discouragement; they are, without question, my most effective seeds. Why, these seeds will grow almost anywhere.”

Then, with a solemn look on his face, Satan said, “However, there is one place where the seeds of bitterness and discouragement will not grow.” “Oh?” said the man, “and where is that?” Satan answered, “They will not grow in a heart of gratitude.”

Let us pray: God of love, we come to you with hearts full of love, souls full of trust, and minds full of thanksgiving. Your lovingkindness is as far-reaching as the stars, your care for us as deep as the sea. Help us to turn with childlike trust. Open our eyes to the wonders of Your Word and send us on our way with hope and courage. Watch over those traveling. Teach us that we never journey beyond your loving care. Through the amazing grace of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Clothe Yourself in Humility

Clothe Yourself in Humility

Today, I am deeply grateful for those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. Hope reaches others because of you. Thank you!

There is a story about a woman who had been trying for years to persuade her egotistical boyfriend to change his ways. He seemed obsessed with himself, talking only about himself. He rarely listened to anyone else’s point of view. In his mind, the world centered around him.

One day on a date, they came across one of those fortune-telling scales. He stepped on and dropped a coin in the slot. Out came the fortune-telling card which read: “You are a born leader, with superior intelligence, quick wit, and a charming manner. You have a magnetic personality and are attractive to the opposite sex.”

“Read that!,” he said to his girlfriend with a hint of gloating. She read it and then as she turned the card over she replied, “Yes. Honey. And it has your weight wrong too!”

The truth is, a little humility can go a long way in our relationships. It’s important to realize that we don’t always have all the answers and that we are not always right. (Even though we might think we are!).

James reminds us:

Be quick to listen. Slow to speak.
– James 1:19

In his first letter, Peter writes:

And all of you must clothe yourselves with humility in your dealings with one another, for God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”
Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, so that he may exalt you in due time.
– 1 Peter 5:5-6

Let us pray: Loving God, we all want healthy relationships – relationships that flourish and give life. And we know that for relationships to flourish they cannot be one-sided. Help us to clothe ourselves in humility and to truly listen to others. Grant us caring and open hearts. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen

Even Through the Valley

Even Through the Valley

Years ago, I was in a Sunday school class discussing the topic of fear. My friend Adam, who is a Naval Helicopter Pilot, shared about a recent deployment. He told the class that night missions, particularly those when there is no moon to see by, can be scary. They take off and land from the deck of an aircraft carrier that is rolling beneath open ocean waves. In fact, Adam doesn’t like to fly with other pilots who don’t have some measure of fear. All senses are required for this type of operation, and any measure of arrogance can cost you your life.

I remember that deployment was particularly tough as his wife was home pregnant with their first child. Adam shared with us in the hours leading up to a night flight, he found that he needed to turn to God. He had to trust. He found himself praying, again and again, his favorite Psalm, 139.

O Lord, you have searched me and known me. You know when I sit down and when I rise up… Where can I go from your spirit? Or where can I flee from your presence? If I ascend to heaven, you are there; if I make my bed in Sheol, you are there. If I take the wings of the morning and settle at the farthest limits of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me fast. If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me, and the light around me become night, ‘ even the darkness is not dark to you; the night is as bright as the day, for darkness is as light to you…”

There are moments in each of our lives when there is nowhere else to turn. In such a time as that, I pray that you would have the faith to trust that you rest in God’s hands. And, may God grant you the strength and courage needed to face any hour.

Let us pray: We thank you, Loving God that you have promised to be with us – even through the valley of the shadow of death. We thank you for women and men, like Adam, who risk their lives for the protection of others. We entrust them to your care and ask you to watch over them, and their families. We long with them for the day when wars will cease and your peace will reign. Reign now in hearts, that amid our fears and struggles your peace would settle in us – and work through us. Amen.

Landmarks

Landmarks

During World War II when allied armies marched into Germany on their way to Berlin, retreating German soldiers would switch road signs and destroy landmarks in an effort to confuse their enemy. To an extent, it worked. I understand that many a G.I. followed a false marker only to end up in the wrong place.

I remember when Hurricane Andrew hit south Florida, I was out of the country on a surf trip in Costa Rica. When we flew back into Miami, there were no street signs, no stop lights – nothing. It took us forever to find the interstate! I’m told that even people who lived there all their lives had trouble finding their way around. Buildings, homes, and bridges were gone. All the landmarks that helped them get their bearings had been washed away.

Today, we live in a day and age of monumental change. Just think about what’s happening in technology. And on top of that, our cultural values and norms have also shifted tremendously. Sometimes it is hard for us to get our bearings.

We need landmarks. We need reliable signposts. And I hope you have some by which to steer in your own life.

In my tradition, we hold that worship, scripture, and a community of faith can all help us navigate the complexity of life. The truth is, there are signposts are all around us. Some of them were handed down to us, others we must seek out.

My prayer is that you would make full use of the signposts around you. May you return again and again to the ones that become significant to you. And as you do, may you find yourself rooted in a tried and true path.

Let us pray: God of Hope, I pray especially today for those who feel lost or lonely in life. I ask for them, the right people to surround them. I ask for healing and grace. And for all of us, may we continue to turn to and trust the landmarks that have guided people of faith from generation to generation. Amen.

May We See Deeper

May We See Deeper

I was out surfing alone sometime back and another surfer paddled out next to me. It was a beautiful day, but this surfer was full of complaints. He was angry that someone told him the waves were perfect and they were not. His language was rough and his demeanor ugly. I found myself thinking: Look, you are not at work. You are not in the hospital. The water is warm and clear and beautiful. The waves are not perfect – but not bad for Florida. The sun is out and the pelicans are soaring. I didn’t want anything to do with this guy, so I turned and paddled down the beach to get away from him.

But later, I reflected on the situation, and it dawned on me that I had no idea what this other surfer might have been going through in his own life. Maybe he had just argued with his wife, or son. Maybe he was worried about money. Maybe he didn’t even have a job to go to. And as I reflected, my heart softened, and I prayed for him.

How often do we judge other people without really knowing what they may be dealing with?

I hope I am never as ungrateful and negative as this fellow surfer was on that morning. But I also hope, no one judges me based on one chance meeting. We all have our moments, don’t we?

Jesus said, “Do not judge unless you want to be judged. The measure you give is the measure you get.”

May God give us eyes to see beyond the surface – to see his image in each and every person we meet.

Let us pray: You have called us to be salt and light; to set an example of your love and grace. As we go through life, O God, we sometimes meet people who rub us the wrong way. Sometimes we see things in people that we don’t like in ourselves. Whenever possible, Lord, help us to be kind and gracious.

Merciful God, we can’t pretend to know what others are going through. We pray today for people who are carrying heavy, heavy burdens at this time. We lift up you those who are so stressed and worried that gratitude is almost out of reach. We pray that your Spirit would rest on them, and give them your peace. May your Spirit rest on us too – that we might be instruments of your peace. Amen.

Silent Prayer

Silent Prayer

There’s a story about a father and son who went to lunch together one day. When the waiter brought the food, the father said, “Son, we’ll just have a silent prayer.” Dad got through praying first and waited for the boy to finish his prayer. His son sat with his head bowed for an unusually long time, and when he finally looked up, his father asked him, “What in the world were you praying about all that time?” With the innocence and honesty of a child, he replied, “How do I know? It was a silent prayer.”

The truth is, sometimes, silent prayers are the best ones.

I once heard a pastor ask the question: Have you spent the same amount of time worrying and talking about your difficult, confusing situations as you have spent in silence listening to what God might have to say?

A friend once told me his spiritual disciple is to turn off the radio when he’s in the car alone. Another friend with small children shared that she would climb into the closet to hide the first thing in the morning so she could have 10 minutes of prayer. However it looks for you, I hope you can find a few minutes each day to sit and listen.

In Habakkuk, we read, “…the Lord is in his holy temple; let all the earth keep silence before him!”

Luke tells us in chapter 5: But now more than ever the word about Jesus spread abroad; many crowds would gather to hear him and to be cured of their diseases. But he would withdraw to deserted places and pray. (Luke 5:15-16)

Let us pray: Grant us your grace and strength, O God, that we would be able to carve some quiet into our lives. In that space, heal us, guide us, lead us, and grant us the fullness of your peace. Amen.

So We do not Lose Heart

So We do not Lose Heart

In 2 Corinthians, chapter 4, Paul writes, “We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed… So we do not lose heart.” And then he makes this amazing statement, “Even though our outer nature is wasting away, our inner nature is being renewed day by day…”

For Paul, his faith made a difference in how he lived, and in how he faced the challenges of life. I know you’ve seen this in people. Maybe you’ve experienced it yourself.

I remember when I was a young pastor, just getting my feet wet. Our Children’s Ministry Director came to me and shared that a relatively young member of our congregation, (in his early 50’s) had been recently diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor. She said, “You really need to go see him.”

I went, but I was nervous. I wasn’t sure what to say. However, when I arrived, much to my surprise, he was in good spirits. He laughed easily. His wife even joked, “I don’t know what’s gotten into him these last few months.” He replied, “Well when you know your time is short, you realize how precious it is…” I didn’t say this, but I’ve known plenty of people who wouldn’t take it so well. I’ve certainly known plenty of people who have instead grown bitter and cynical…

When we held hands to pray before I left, I could feel his inner strength. He was confident that death would not have the last word… And he knew that in the time he had left, he still had something to offer.

His faith was a witness to me. The visit was a sermon I needed to hear. And so that sermon and that witness today becomes my prayer.

Will you pray with me? Gracious God, I pray today for all of those who are listening or reading this message. I pray that whatever challenges they might be facing in life right now, that they would not lose heart. Strengthen and renew our inner spirits day by day. Grant us your courage, presence, and peace. We ask in Christ’s name. Amen.

I Need You!

I Need You!

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

One of the greatest compliments a person can give is to say, “l need you!” The words melt our hearts and impel us to want to help. We all need to feel needed. A crucial part of friendship is to be able to admit our inadequacies and say to others, “l need you!” We can be sure that if we can’t say that to others, they will probably never say it to us.

Actually, confession of our needs is an expression of healthy self-esteem. We value ourselves enough to believe that we are worthy of another’s care. Those who cannot express their needs usually end up unable to help others. Sadly, a man I knew committed suicide; he did not share his needs. What a loss! We were created for fellowship with God. There will be restlessness, an emptiness within us, until we rest in Him and allow Him to fill the God-shaped vacuum.

Let us pray: Loving God, without you, we are truly scared stiff of making mistakes, of being ridiculed or rejected or missing out in our always fumbling uncertainties. So today we pray that your Spirit will hover over us to enable us to separate the light from the darkness. Encourage us to keep getting up and going on no matter how many times we have tripped up and fallen down crying. So move in among us that we may grow in your Spirit and live with passion in this amazing life. How wonderful are your ways, O Lord, how marvelous are your gifts of grace. Straighten the backbone of our beliefs and deepen our commitments to your way so that the roots of faith will reach the center of our hearts. God, we need you. In Jesus’ name. Amen.