What Does it Mean to Be Great?

What Does it Mean to Be Great?

In the Gospel of Mark, chapter 10, when two of the disciples, James and Johns asked for positions of power and prestige, Jesus replied

“You know that among the Gentiles those whom they recognize as their rulers lord it over them… But it is not so among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wishes to be first among you must be slave of all. For the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life…”

Pastor and author F.B. Meyer once wrote, “I used to think that God’s gifts were on shelves one above the other; and that the taller we grew in Christian character, the easier we could reach them. I now find that God’s gifts are on shelves one beneath the other. It is not a question of growing taller but of stooping lower; that we have to go down before we can go up!”

In your own life, I pray that you would find that when you stoop down to serve others, God’s greatest blessings are there awaiting.

Let us pray: Jesus Redeemer, on this Good Friday, we remember that you gave even your very life to show us the depths of your love for us. Grant us the courage and the will to walk in your ways and to give deeply of ourselves. As we do so, may we experience your healing, grace-filled love. Amen.

Remembering

Remembering

At First Presbyterian Church in Sarasota, Florida, on occasion, we would celebrate a Passover Seder. My friend Cy Wofsy, who was Jewish, helped me lead our congregation in this event. On the night that Jesus was betrayed, the last supper he celebrated with his disciples was in fact, the Passover Seder. Cy helped us make deep connections between the Passover event in the book of Exodus and our regular celebration of communion.

There are too many connections to detail here, but it may be worth some reading on your own. One of the most powerful connections, however, is the command to remember. In both events, the people are encouraged to regularly enact a ritual that will help them remember God’s saving grace.

This is a reminder to me that especially in the most difficult moments in life, it is crucial to recall how God has carried us through in the past. It is important to tell the stories, to sing the songs, and to say the prayers so that we don’t ever forget and in forgetting lose hope.

Let us pray: Holy God, on this Maundy Thursday, the very day Jesus sat at the table with his disciples, we remember that he was for us, the Passover lamb – sacrificed for our salvation. We remember that Christ is with us in our own suffering; that he has carried us through difficult times in the past, and that his grace and power will be sufficient for us today. For all of these things, and for all your blessings, we give you all thanks and praise. Amen.

Bowing the Heart

Bowing the Heart

A story is told that Neil Marten, a member of the British Parliament, was once giving a group of his constituents a guided tour of the Houses of Parliament. During the course of the visit, the group happened to run across Lord Hailsham, then serving as chancellor, wearing all the regalia of his office. At a distance, Hailsham recognized Marten among the group and cried, “Neil!” Not daring to question or disobey the “command,” the entire group of visitors promptly fell to their knees!

Can you imagine? I’ve never been in a situation when I’ve had to kneel before another person. However, there is something about that level of humility and respect that resonates – especially when I think about kneeling in the presence of God.

In the Bible, people pray to God while standing, sitting, kneeling, or even laying face down on the ground. I’ve been known to pray laying on the floor, flat on my back. Our posture says a lot about what is in our hearts. It also has the ability to put us in a certain frame of mind.

Today, while praying, I invite you to try a different posture – something other than what you are accustomed to. No matter how it looks, the most important part is to bow your heart in humility and awe before the Creator of Lord of all that is.

Let us pray: You are the Alpha and Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End. You are worthy to receive glory, honor, and power. And so we come before you – on the very knees of our hearts – praising you with our entire being. Today, we thank you for the gift of life and the wonder of living. We thank you for a path to walk, for companions along life’s journey, and for your guiding redeeming love. Fill us again with your grace and joy – that these gifts would be ours to share. Amen.

The Next Epic Journey

The Next Epic Journey

Yesterday we reflected on the concept of pilgrimage. Which makes me think about the various journeys we take across a lifetime. Pilgrimages of faith, and growth, of raising children and changing jobs. Some of these journeys are physical, some mental or spiritual… some all three.

Sometimes, we think about calling as simply a vocation, which in one sense can be. But over the course of a lifetime, there are many callings, many journeys, many pilgrimages on which to embark – some of which we choose, and some of which almost seem to choose us.

I know some of you have undergone epic journeys in your lifetime – journeys of faith, of immigration to a new country, or of freedom from addiction. There have been journeys to faraway places, and journeys to the depths of your own soul.

And I imagine some of you may even be wondering how many more journeys do I have left… Does God have something yet for me?

I think about a man I knew who retired from a career with the military in his early 50s. He then went back to school and earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Fine Arts. He became quite a well-known painter. In his 70s he was commissioned to paint some larger murals in the city in which he lived. When I knew him, he was in his eighties, attending our weekly Sunday night Spanish Speaking Bible Study, seeking not only to grow in his faith but also to fine-tune his newly acquired Spanish language skills. So inspiring! You’re never too old to grow, he would say.

The book of Hebrews (chapter 11) tells us, By faith, Abraham obeyed when he was called. Remember, he was in his 80’s when he and Sara first left home. And he set out, not knowing exactly where he was going — only that God was nudging him, prompting him, calling him.

All of this raises the question: what epic journey, what pilgrimage is God leading you to next?

May your hearts and minds ever be open.

Let us pray as we prayed yesterday: We thank you O God, for your calling on our lives. Grant us dreams and longings that are in harmony with your dreams and longings for us. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Pilgrimage

Pilgrimage

In preparing for my Sabbatical this summer, I’ve been thinking a lot about the Christian concept of pilgrimage.

I read this book several years ago called, The Way Is Made by Walking. This was written by a guy who walked the entire El Camino de Santiago – an ancient, but also very current pilgrimage in northern Spain. It ends in the cathedral of Saint James.

Another author, John Philip Newell, writes about an altogether different type of pilgrimage, the ancient Celtic practice of peregrination – which is simply a pilgrimage taken without knowing for sure the final destination. You just set out!

He writes, “(Peregrination) often involved setting sail from one’s homeland as a pilgrim, from what was known and comfortable to what was unknown and challenging. (It) was sometimes described as ‘seeking the place of one’s resurrection,’ leaving the familiar in order to experience new birth, dying to the boundaries and security of home to be alive to what one had never imagined before.”

Of course, a pilgrimage does not always involve a physical journey, does it? It has long been a metaphor for the journey of faith. Have you ever had the sense that God might be calling you to undergo a pilgrimage of some sort?

Perhaps you are being called to go to a deeper place within your faith. Or perhaps, you’re being called to heal or to transform what has hardened or been wounded within you. Or it could be a calling to engage the world creatively in some new way… to grow or to serve or to give to meet the needs that God has placed on your heart.

And maybe that is sparked by hearing somebody else’s story. Maybe it is being moved by something we’ve heard or seen. Or you may have a calling arise out of a deep sense of loss and felt a need to respond – a moment when you think: Somebody should do something about this… Or, I have to do something to make sense of this or to redeem this.

My prayer for each of you, whatever stage of life you are in, is that you would ever be open to God’s calling. May you ever be open to whatever pilgrimage of body, mind, or soul God may lead you on next.

Let us pray: We thank you O God, for your calling on our lives. May our dreams and longings ever be in tune with yours. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Light of Jesus

The Light of Jesus

Today’s message was written by my friend Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Keith Miller tells a wonderful story about a busy executive in an eastern city who was rushing to catch a commuter train one morning. The executive had an important meeting at the office, and he needed to make this train in order to get there on time. Just as he was about to board the train, he accidentally bumped into a little boy who was carrying a boxed jigsaw puzzle. The box went flying, and the pieces scattered everywhere. What should he do? Should he stop and help the little boy pick up the pieces? Or, should he get on the train? He couldn’t do both; there was not enough time! If he stopped to help, he would miss the train and be late. What should he do? What would you have done? Well, the man stopped and helped the boy pick up the puzzle as the train pulled out. The little boy watched him closely with a kind of awe. The little boy said, “Mister, you missed your train.” “I know,” the man said. “Will you be late to work?’ the boy asked. “Yes, but it was more important that I stop and help you.” Then the little boy said, “Mister, can I ask you a question?” “Yes, of course.” “Mister, are you Jesus?”

Keith Miller wrote, “And for the moment, the man realized that – on that platform – he had been.” The little boy saw the light of Jesus in that man’s act of Christ-like love.

Friend of Dial Hope, during these difficult days, how is it with you? Can people see in you Christ’s spirit of forgiveness? And can people see in you Christ’s love?

Let us pray: Creator God, you are eagle, you are a dove, you are color and sound, you are wind and fire. How great Thou art! Your world is indeed full of pain as well as joy. Be especially with those who can’t sleep, with those who are fearful, who have little hope. Spread your love like a well-worn and beloved jacket over those who need comfort and love. For we pray in the name of the Prince of Peace, our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

Daylight on the Other Side

Daylight on the Other Side

So it is told that many years ago, Pierre Trudeau, the Canadian prime minister, gave a speech in which he shared with the nation that due to budget shortfalls, the government would have to reduce financial assistance programs. “If there is any relief,” he said, “it will be narrowly directed to those in dire straits.” On hearing Trudeau’s speech, the residents of New Dundee, Ontario, assembled and promptly changed the name of their town to Dire Straits. The town’s mayor explained, “If we are not in Dire Straits, I don’t know who is!”

While I cannot verify the story, many of us experience times in our lives when we feel just like that – like we are in dire straits! No doubt that life is challenging. We experience much loss, change, and heartache.

Though it is tough to remember in the midst of hardship, difficult times come, but they also go. My prayer for you today is that whenever you find yourself in crisis mode, you would remember that there will be daylight on the other side. You don’t need to set up camp in the darkness. You don’t need to change your name to “Dire Straights.” Instead, hold onto hope. There is ever the potential to come out on the other side stronger, more loving, more faithful, more compassionate. While you won’t emerge unchanged, you will get through it. God is with you.

Let us pray: Loving God, we claim the promise of the prophet Isaiah – that you will make a way in the wilderness. I pray especially today for those who are in the midst of difficult times – for those who feel as though they are hanging on by the last thread of hope. Give them eyes to see beyond the darkness. Grant them an overwhelming sense of your presence and peace, and carry them through. Amen.

Liquid Prayers

Liquid Prayers

Today I would like to say a special word of thanks to those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. Your gifts make this ministry possible!

Last month, I shared a quote by pastor Leonard Sweet. Let’s revisit that from another angle today.

In one of his sermons, Sweet shared from an ancient Jewish commentary on the book of Genesis. This commentary or “midrash” states that when Adam and Eve were expelled from Eden, God bestowed one more gift on the condemned couple. God gave Adam and Eve the gift of tears — so that “when grief overtakes you, and your heartaches beyond enduring, and great anguish grips your soul, then there will fall from your eyes this tiny tear. And your burden will grow lighter.”

The midrash continues, suggesting that when Adam’s and Eve’s first tears landed on the earth, the first “garden” outside of Eden sprang forth. The tears of anguish and abandonment became tears of new life and new hope.

Sweet went on to make the claim that “tears are liquid prayers.” He wrote:

“Water keeps our souls clean. That’s baptism. But the waterworks we have operating for us internally are called “tears.” Our tears rain down and flush out our guilt. Our tears rain down and release our fears. Our tears rain down and renew our souls.”

It is so true, isn’t it? When you weep over personal anguish or over the anguish of the world around you – or when you weep with those who weep, may you count your tears as prayers. May you remember that they draw you closer to God and bring healing to your soul.

Let us pray: Loving and gracious God, we thank you today for the ability to feel heartache and pain – for, without that, we would lack the motivation to make meaningful changes. We thank you also for the gift of tears – for a means of cleansing the soul. Grant that our tears of anguish and abandonment would indeed become tears of new life and hope. Amen.

The Privilege of Connection

The Privilege of Connection

Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross tells a story about a woman she encountered while writing her groundbreaking book, On Death and Dying. Part of Dr. Kubler-Ross’ research involved interviewing dying patients in the hospital, trying to find out how they felt and what they thought as they faced death. As she went from room to room in the hospital, she began to notice a remarkable pattern. Sometimes she would go into a dying person’s room and the person would be calm, at peace, and tranquil. Almost invariably, she learned that that patient’s room had been cleaned by a certain hospital orderly.

One day, Dr. Kubler-Ross happened to run into this orderly in the hospital corridor. The doctor asked her, “What are you doing with my patients?” The orderly thought she was being reprimanded and responded, “I’m not doing anything with your patients.” “No, no. It’s a good thing,” corrected Kubler-Ross. “After you go into their rooms, they seem at peace. What are you doing with my patients?”

“I just talk to them,” the orderly said. “You know, I’ve had two babies of my own die on my lap. But God never abandoned me. I tell them that. I tell them that they aren’t alone, that God is with them, and that they don’t have to be afraid.”

It never ceases to amaze me how powerful real conversations can be. When we are open enough to listen (really listen) to the pain of others, and when we are able to share our own sense of brokenness, deep connections are made. We feel less alone. And often we are infused with a sense of hope.

Let us pray: Gracious God, we remember today what a privilege it is to be invited into both the brokenness and grace of other’s lives. We also remember that out of the ashes of despair can rise the seeds of hope, new life, and new possibilities. Meet each of us now in this moment and fill us with your peace. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Your Labor in the Lord Is not in Vain

Your Labor in the Lord Is not in Vain

There is a Calvin and Hobbes comic strip that depicts the two of them marching into the family living room early one morning. His mother is seated there in her favorite chair, sipping her morning coffee. She looks up at young Calvin, amused and amazed at how he is dressed. Calvin’s head is encased in a large space helmet. A cape is draped around his neck, falling across his shoulders, and is dragging on the floor. One hand is holding a flashlight and the other a baseball bat.

“What’s up today?” asks his mom. “Nothing, so far,” answers Calvin. “So far?” she questions.

“Well, you never know,” Calvin says, “Something could happen today.” As he marches off, he adds, “And if anything does, by golly, I’m going to be ready for it!”

In the last slide, Calvin’s mom exclaims, “I need a suit like that!”

So often, when we look at the world around us, we notice war and greed, and heartache, and we feel overwhelmed. We feel as though there is more need than we can ever meet. Even children notice it and want to respond.

The truth is we can’t do it all. We can’t meet all the needs in the world – no matter what kind of suit we put on each morning. But, we can each do our part. We can make a difference large or small. When we give our time, our energy, our money, our intelligence, our resources to serve others, even in small ways, we make the world a better place.

Paul wrote to the church in Corinth, “Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.”

Let us pray: Loving God, grant us faith even the size of a mustard seed that we would not ever lose hope. Instill in us a strong desire to join you in your healing, redeeming work. But, remind us that it is your work and that you are ever making all things new – even us. Amen.