Love God and Neighbor

Love God and Neighbor

In his book Sources of Strength, former President Jimmy Carter wrote about interviewing Eloy Cruz, a Cuban pastor, who had gained tremendous respect among poor immigrants from Puerto Rico. Carter asked him, “What is the secret to your success?” Pastor Cruz replied, “Señor Jimmy, we need to have only two loves for our lives, love for God, and love for the person who happens to be in front of us at any time.”

I love that! I have a friend whose spiritual disciple is to try to see the image of God in every person she meets: cashiers, waiters, teachers, strangers, etc. Think about how that would change our interactions, how we listen, how we speak.

Jesus said that the greatest commandment is to Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind. And, the second is like it, to love your neighbor as yourself. He went on to say that these two commandments are the sum of all the law and the prophets. 

Let us pray: Loving and Gracious God, help us to love you with all our heart. And help us to love whichever person happens to be standing in front of us at any point in time. 

Today we pray for people who serve us regularly, nurses, men and women in the military, firefighters, teachers, doctors, police officers, and other public servants. We also pray for those who serve behind the scenes, and for those we most often forget. May your blessing rain down on them, we ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Connections

Connections

Sometime back, I was listening to an interview with the author, educator, and entrepreneur Adam Robinson. He spoke about a startling discovery he had recently made. One day he typed into Google, “How can I learn…” just to see what would pop up – to see what people are looking for.

How can I learn…

You probably understand how with Google, suggestions will pop up as you type. And these suggestions are based on the most popular searches related to the words you enter…

So he found that if you type into Google, How can I learn…. the number one suggested query is: How can I learn English. That makes sense. Then, how can I learn Spanish; how can I learn to sing; how can I learn to code. But what was astonishing was that the fifth most popular search is: How can I learn… to love myself… This means that millions and millions and millions of people have been searching that query… millions and millions of people are wondering… am I worthy of being loved….

Robinson suggests that there is a loneliness epidemic in our country right now. And, social media is not helping that problem. In fact, it may very well be making it worse.

I don’t know. But I do know that there is a tremendous need for human connections. There is a tremendous need for people who are willing to reach out to others with love and hope and compassion.

I wonder if there are people you know – who need to know that someone loves them; that you love them… I wonder how you might be a beacon of hope and light for others around you.

Let us pray: God of Grace, I pray today, especially for those who are struggling with how to love themselves. Remind each and every one of us that you have created us in your own image, and may we know your deep and abiding love for us – even now Amen.

Invitations

Invitations

Yesterday, we reflected on this idea of standing at a crossroads or a threshold.

Poet and philosopher John O’Donahue writes about these pivotal moments. He put it this way: “…there are huge thresholds in every life… for instance… if you are in the middle of your life on a busy evening, with 50 things to do, and you get a phone call that somebody that you love is suddenly dying, it takes 10 seconds to communicate that information. But when you put the phone down, you are already standing in a different world, because suddenly, everything that seemed so important before is all gone, and now you are thinking of this. So the given world that we think is there, and the solid ground we are on is so tentative…”

“If you go back to the etymology of the word “threshold,” it’s a farming term. It comes from “threshing,” which is to separate the grain from the husk. So the threshold, in a way, is a place where you move into more critical and challenging and worthy fullness.”

If you think about it. There are many thresholds/crossroads in every life. You can think of graduations, births, and the loss of loved ones, even at the onset of illness or an accident. It could be reaching a major milestone, hitting rock bottom with addiction, or a transcendent moment… or a global pandemic.

These crossroads, these thresholds, are ever invitations to a new stage of the journey. They are invitations to look deeper at our lives, to reflect on our faith, to ask for help if we need it, to recall what is most important, to look for the light, and quite possibly to make a new beginning. They are ever invitations to heal and to grow and deepen.

As the prophet, Jeremiah said, “Stand at the crossroads and look, and ask for the ancient paths where the good way lies, and walk in it. And find rest for your souls.”

Let us pray: Gracious God, in the pivotal moments of life, grant us courage and strength, and hope. Help us to see, if nothing else, only the very next step along the path. Assure us with your presence. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Crossroads

Crossroads

Billy Graham used to tell a story of something that happened to him early in his ministry. He had just arrived in a small town, having been invited to preach at an evening revival service. Graham had a few letters to mail, so he asked a young boy if he could tell him the way to the post office. The boy gave him directions, he thank him and turned away. But then, on impulse, he turned back to the boy and said, “If you’ll come to church this evening, you can hear me telling everyone how to get to heaven.” “I don’t think I’ll be there,” said the boy. “You don’t even know the way to the post office!”

There are times along the journey of life when we do get lost. Or feel lost… And it’s in these moments that the groundwork of faith that we’ve set out makes a difference.

The prophet Jeremiah once wrote, “Stand at the crossroads and look, and ask for the ancient paths, where the good way lies, and walk in it. And find find rest for your souls.”

Most scholars believe that Jeremiah was referring to the ancient paths of the Torah, the central scriptures of his day. There was a deep belief that God had laid out a way of life that would lead to wholeness, and peace, not just for the individual soul, but also for the soul of the community…

The poet and philosopher John O’Donahue put it this way, “I’ve always thought that tradition is to the community what memory is to the individual. And if you lose your memory, and you wake up in the morning, you don’t know where you are, who you are, what ground you’re standing on. And if you lose your tradition, it’s the same thing.”

When you find yourself in those crossroads moments, may you return to a well-worn path on which others have long tread. May there be for you companions and guides along the journey. And may God grant wholeness and peace and rest for your soul.

Let us pray: There are indeed times when we feel lost, O God. Other times when we face stark choices. We thank you for those who have gone before us in the faith, whose very lives point us to a path. Heal us with your presence, and walk with us along the way. Amen.

RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS

RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS

Today’s message was written by the founder of Dial Hope, the Rev. Roger Kunkel

A doctor devoted as much of his spare time as he could to a charity clinic. One day an elderly gentleman was ushered into the physician’s private offices downtown.

“Remember me, Doctor?’ the man asked. “You treated me over at the charity clinic. I’ve come into some money lately, and I can afford to pay for the service of a doctor now.” “But what made you come to me?’ the physician wanted to know. “I wasn’t the only doctor who treated you at the clinic.” “I know,” the old man said quietly, “But you were the only one who helped me with my coat.”

Christianity is not an explanation but a demonstration of God’s love and kindness living in the human heart. You don’t have to give away great sums of money to show your concern. You don’t have to be eloquent to tell someone you care. Caring is making room in your heart for an individual and their problem. Sometimes simply being available, giving a friendly touch, a smile, a hug, or just listening, is caring.

May God be with you every moment of this day.

Let us pray: Loving God, with each new day your promise of hope is restored, in every sunrise we see your face; in every sunset, we rest in your arms. Each day is like the first day you created with the same invitation – for us to live in your image, to work creatively, to practice random acts of kindness. Sprinkle us with your love so our mustard-seed faith will grow like large elms whose leafy arms stretch to the heavens, and arch in prayer. Give us the faith of the rising sun, the trust of trees, and the hope that springs eternal from constant prayer. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Therefore We Will Not Fear

Therefore We Will Not Fear

There is a story dating back many years now, about a young girl who was taking her first overnight train ride with her parents. That night, the girl was a little anxious. Her mother placed her on the upper bunk of the sleeper, and while tucking her in, told her that up there, she would be nearer to God and that God would watch over her.

As the quiet of night set in, the girl became afraid and called softly, “Mommy, are you there?” “Yes dear,” came the response. A little later, in a louder voice, the child called, “Daddy, are you there, too?” “Yes dear,” was the reply. After this had been repeated several times one of the passengers sharing their sleeper car finally lost his patience and shouted loudly, “Yes, we’re all here, your father, your mother, your brother, and all your aunts and cousins; now settle down and go to sleep!”

There was a moment of silence and then, in hushed tones, a little voice asked, “Mommy, was that God?”

Most of us have experienced moments in life when we have needed to be assured of God’s presence with us. We’ve all had moments when we have feared the unknown: the diagnosis, the market, the housing situation, the future for our children. Most certainly in the midst of events like this seemly never-ending pandemic, we’ve needed to be reminded that God is sovereign.

Palm 46 is one of my favorites. There we read:

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, though the mountains shake in the heart of the sea… God is in the midst of the city, it shall not be moved; God will help it when the morning dawns… The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge.

Our prayer today has also been handed down to us across the centuries. It was written by Saint Augustine in the early 400s. Let us pray: O loving God, to turn away from you is to fall, to turn toward you is to rise, and to stand before you is to abide forever. Grant us, dear God, in all our duties your help; in all our uncertainties your guidance; in all our dangers your protection; and in all our sorrows your peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Rejoice with Great Joy!

Rejoice with Great Joy!

The book of Nehemiah describes the rebuilding of the wall around Jerusalem after its citizens had returned from many years of exile. At its completion, there was great celebration. The scripture reads, “They offered great sacrifices that day and rejoiced, for God had made them rejoice with great joy; the women and children also rejoiced. The joy of Jerusalem was heard far away.”

The Spiritual Formation Bible offers supplemental quotes and even activities designed to help one grow in the faith. I’ve been using this Bible for morning devotions for some time now, and recently I came across an exercise based on that Nehemiah passage that I’d like to share.

Grab a pen and paper and then set a timer for two minutes. During that time, write down all the ways that God has given you joy. How many joys can you list? Jot down whatever comes to mind – small and great things, those that seem really important, and those that may seem insignificant. If you draw a blank, think about different aspects of your life – past, present, family, friends, work, faith community, God’s creation, etc. When the time is up, go back and reread your list. Then give thanks to God.

May you find this exercise to be as uplifting as I did. It gave me perspective, and I found my spirit soaring.

Let us pray: God of Hope, you have filled our lives with blessing. Help us call to mind today all that brings life and joy. For all this, we give you thanks. Amen.

With Humility Comes Wisdom

With Humility Comes Wisdom

There’s an old story about a young minister who shared with his congregation that he was leaving the church for another call. As he was standing outside greeting folks on his final Sunday, one of the elderly women gave him a hug and with eyes full of tears, she lamented, “Oh pastor, I’m so sorry you’ve decided to leave. Things will never be the same.”

The young man was flattered. Trying to comfort her, he took her hands in his and replied, “Bless you, but I am sure that God will send you a new pastor even better than I.” She choked back a sob and was heard to say, “That’s what they all say. But they keep getting worse and worse.”

I love that story. We all need a little dose of humility from time to time. Mainly because pride can have such a destructive effect on our relationships. Think about it. When I have to be right all the time; when it is my way or the highway; when I refuse to even listen to others because obviously, I’m right! That attitude is not only off-putting, it is self-isolating. On the other side of this, a little humility opens our minds. It allows us to truly hear from others, and it can do wonders for our relationships.

Proverbs 11:2 reads, “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.”

Let us pray: God of Grace, I pray especially for those who are hurting deeply today; and for others who are carrying heavy burdens. Wash over each of us with your grace and grant us your strength. Help us ever approach the complexity and mystery of life with humility and with trust in you. In Christ’s name. Amen.

In the Presence of Beauty

In the Presence of Beauty

Yesterday we reflected on moments of awe and wonder. I learned recently that the Greek root for the word “beauty” is related to the word for “calling.” The words are “kalon” and “kalein.”

The Christian poet and philosopher, John O’Donahue makes the claim that in the presence of beauty, in the presence of awe and wonder, and kindness and goodness, it’s not a neutral thing, but it’s actually calling you – calling something out of you…

And again, it could be that you are being called to go to a deeper place within your faith. Or perhaps, you’re being called to heal or to transfigure what has hardened or got wounded within you. Or it could be a calling to engage the world creatively in some new way… to grow or to serve or to give to meet the needs that God has placed on your heart.

Today, I pray that when you find yourself in the presence of beauty, or whenever you experience a moment of transcendence, awe or wonder, may your heart be open. And may the still small voice of God begin its quiet work within you.

Let us pray: Loving God, we pray again that you would open us to your healing, transforming grace. May your Spirit touch our spirits. And may we ever be channels of the blessings we’ve received. Amen.

Moments of Awe and Wonder

Moments of Awe and Wonder

Modern-day Stoic philosopher Ryan Holiday writes about moments of awe and wonder, “These beautiful moments are available us whenever we want them. All we have to do is open our souls to them.”

“The soft paw prints of a cat on the dusty trunk of a car. The hot steam pouring from the street vents on a city morning. The smell of asphalt just as the rain begins to fall. The sound of a pen signing a contract, binding two parties together… a basket full of vegetables from the garden… A floor filled with a child’s toys, arranged in the chaos of exhausted enjoyment…”

Can you see it? Do you get the idea?

Holiday goes writes, “Don’t let the beauty of life escape you. See the world as the temple that it is. Let every experience be church-like. Marvel at the fact that any of this exists – that you exist… we can stop and bathe in the beauty that surrounds us, always.”

I think for myself: In the midst of the early days of the Pandemic, (when everything was so uncertain,) I remember feeling an upwelling of hope and even deeper meaning in seeing small gestures of kindness between neighbors, hearing the cheering on the news for nurses on their change of shifts, driving to work and seeing the resilience of life in a weed breaking forth from the concrete sidewalk; sitting here, staring up at the cross, and contemplating even for a moment the beauty of a life given in love.

Thomas Aquinas called this the study of wonder. In noticing, we become alive…

Recent psychology and neurology have actually shown that science bears this out. Moments of awe and wonder indeed can give us a sense of well-being, inner-groundedness, perspective, and peace.

Today, I invite you to open your eyes and notice anew with wonder the world around you. Make your own list. And as you do, may your spirit soar and your heart give thanks.

Let us pray: Gracious God, You have filled this world with beauty and grace, kindness and love. Grant us open eyes and open hearts. In Christ’s name. Amen.