Forgiveness Button

Forgiveness Button

Today’s message was written by the founder of Dial Hope, the Rev. Roger Kunkel

Friend of Dial Hope, I have a small calculator on my desk which I use to figure out my finances and store personal data for ready reference. It’s amazing how much information can be typed into the memory factors of this mechanical brain. On the left side of the keyboard is a powerful button. It is called the clear button. When I make a mistake, a touch of the clear button and it is eliminated immediately. Each time I use this calculator I am reminded of how much it’s like the brain. It has the capacity to store good and bad memories. How often I wish I had a clear button to press to immediately correct my mistakes, or that I had the capacity to bring up old memories that disturb me and have them taken away, never to be thought about again. Then, as I contemplate how wonderful that would be, I am reminded how the Lord has built into us a “clear” button. It’s called forgiveness. When we accept his forgiveness, we can forgive ourselves, and then, out of the assurance of that grace, forgive others. Today, friend of Dial Hope, press the forgiveness button – now! 

Let us pray: Into the clutter of our everyday lives, O Lord, you come with your heavenly order: into the weakness, you come with your strength; into the sin, you come with your holiness. Give us the grace to receive you now, to open the doors of our beings and invite you in, not just over the threshold but into the innermost parts, the upper rooms and lower rooms, the nooks and crannies, and closets. Dwell in us, O Lord, that we may glow this day with your light and pulsate with your presence. Help us to make this day a masterpiece as we rejoice in hope, in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

They Care that You Care

They Care that You Care

Today, I am deeply grateful for those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. So many people benefit from your giving!

In his day, the famous actor Paul Newman founded many charities, including the Hole in the Wall Gang Camp for children battling cancer, AIDS, or blood diseases. One afternoon, he and his wife, Joanne, stopped by the center to have lunch with the kids. A counselor at a nearby table, suspecting the young patients wouldn’t know Newman was a famous movie star, explained, “That’s the man who made this camp possible. Maybe you’ve seen his picture on his salad dressing bottle?” The children were quiet. Blank stares. So the counselor continued, “Well, you’ve probably seen his face on his lemonade carton.” An eight-year-old girl perked up. “How long was he missing?”

The story made me smile. The truth is, children don’t care if you are rich and famous. They only care that you care. When it comes right down to it, it is the same for all of us, isn’t it? The people who are most important in our lives are the ones who care.

Today, let us give thanks to God for those in our lives who care for us, for those who have encouraged us, supported us, helped us, and loved us. And, may we ever be ready to share that same love, encouragement, and support with others.

Let us pray: Loving God, we pray with the words of the apostle Paul, “Blessed are you God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, Father of all mercies and God of all consolation.” Thank you for your mercy and grace, for your love and care, and for friends and strangers who have been instruments of your care for us. Give us open hearts and open hands that we might also be a blessing to them, to you, and to this world you so love. Amen.

Agents of Hope

Agents of Hope

Pastor James DeLoach tells a story about an old photo that made a tremendous impression on him. It was a picture of a burned-out mountain shack. All that remained was the chimney, the charred debris of what had been that family’s sole possession. In the foreground stood an older grandfatherly-looking man dressed only in his underclothes. Next to him was a small boy clutching a pair of patched overalls. It was evident that the child was crying. Beneath the picture were the words which the artist felt the old man was speaking to the boy. They were simple words, “Hush child, God ain’t dead!”

The pastor wrote, “That vivid picture of that burned-out mountain shack, that old man, the weeping child, and those words, “God ain’t dead” keep returning to my mind. Instead of it being a reminder of the despair of life, it has come to be a reminder of hope. I need reminders that there is hope in the world. In the midst of all of life’s troubles and failures, I need mental pictures to remind me that all is not lost as long as God is alive.”

I think we all need reminders that there is hope in this world. Yet, I would take this pastor’s reflections a step further. Whether it is an act of generosity, a simple smile, or a kind word at the right time, I believe God often uses us to be that hope for each other and for the world.

Let us pray: Yours is the earth and all that is in it; the world and those who live in it. We thank you, gracious God, for the gift of a smile, for the laughter of a child, for the touch of a friend. We thank you for the reminders of life, great and small; and for the wonderful joy that comes from sharing. Give us the courage and strength that we need to reach out to others that our lives might be a catalyst of hope, through Jesus Christ. Amen. 

Love without Limits

Love without Limits

In 2 Corinthians the Apostle Paul writes, “For the love of Christ urges us on.” He was writing about his ministry. He was trying to express why he was out there starting churches, sharing the gospel, nurturing new believers. It’s interesting because this wasn’t even his full-time job. Paul was a tent-maker, and his ministry was all on top of his day job. But he gave it all he had. Think about how often he faced hardships, persecution, shipwreck, and imprisonment. And if you ever wonder why, here it is. Paul claims that the love of Christ urged him on. 

Notice, it is not the fear of punishment that urged him on. It is not guilt that urged him on. It is not because he thought no one else will do it that urged him on. He was simply compelled by love. He had experienced this tremendous love in his own life, and he wanted to share it.

Today, I pray that you would know the depths of God’s love for you in Jesus. And I pray that love would be the driving force in your life – not guilt, not anger, not self-serving ambition or pride. Doing the right things for the wrong reasons is not healthy and often misses the mark anyway. Instead, may you allow Christ’s sacrificial love to sink in deep. Accept that love and thrive on it! 

Let us pray: This is a day that you have made, O God, we rejoice and are glad in it! We praise you for your love that knows no limits; a love that goes to the cross and transcends even the grave. We praise you for your Son Jesus who offers us life abundant and eternal. Help us to let go of anything that might be keeping us from grasping that love. Draw us into your presence, that we might know you and serve you with all that we are and all that we have. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Story of My Life

The Story of My Life

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Today I want to focus on this passage from Galatians 2:20: “It is no longer I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me.”

Helen Keller dedicated one of her books: “To Anne Sullivan, whose love is the story of my life.” How many of us would say that of someone who made the greatest difference in life for us? Someone’s love is the story of every life that finds itself in the way God intended that it should. How many might say the same of Jesus Christ! His love is the story of their lives. No day passes that they do not give thanks for him who loved them and gave himself for them. Christ’s love is the story of the best we have ever been or done.

Let us pray. Compassionate God, thank you for your unconditional love through the gift of your son, Jesus, who has made all the difference. Help us today to make a difference by leaving heart prints of love, gentle kindness, and hope. Touch us. Heal us. Transform our sadness, our grief into joy. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

One Small Act of Love

One Small Act of Love

In the Gospel of Mark (4:26-34), Jesus tells the crowds that the kingdom of God is like a seed scattered on the ground. And it grows on its own. In fact, it is like a tiny Mustard seed, tiny but once started, it has a way of taking over everything else. It’s like Kudzu, small – but it is unstoppable.

What’s clear in this series of parables is that the results are beyond our control. If a seed grows at all, it grows on its own timetable, you can’t force it. Sometimes people will respond, sometimes they won’t. Sometimes we’ll see the fruit of our work – but sometimes we won’t. But like the sower, our job is to keep sowing. Keep throwing those seeds out, and trusting that God is at work even in the little things… because you never know.

I was recently reading about a food drive in a school in rural Appalachia. A volunteer was sorting through the donated food, separating beans from powdered milk, and canned vegetables from canned meats. When he reached into a box filled with various cans, he pulled out a little brown paper sack. Out of the paper bag fell a peanut butter sandwich, an apple, and a cookie, items that were not on the suggested list. Crayoned in large letters was a little girl’s name, “Christy: Room 104.” Apparently, while at school, Christie felt moved to give up her lunch for someone who was truly hungry.

And you can just imagine! When the story got out about Christie’s contribution, donations to that food drive skyrocketed! One small act of love by a child inspired countless others…

Archbishop and 20th Century Martyr Oscar Romero once wrote: 

This is what we are about:
We plant seeds that one day will grow.
We water seeds already planted, knowing that they hold future promise.
We lay foundations that will need further development.
We provide yeast that produces effects beyond our capabilities.
We cannot do everything and
there is a sense of liberation in realizing that.
This enables us to do something and to do it very well.
It may be incomplete,
but it is a beginning, a step along the way,
an opportunity for God’s grace to enter and do the rest.

Loving God, we don’t often see the results of our small actions. But we pray today that you would take whatever it is that have to offer. Bless and multiply every dollar given, every hour volunteered, every sacrifice made. May these be seeds of your eternal kingdom. In Christ’s name. Amen.

Stand, Look, Ask… and Walk

Stand, Look, Ask… and Walk

Last week we reflected on this passage by the prophet Jeremiah, “Stand at the crossroads and look, and ask for the ancient paths, where the good way lies, and walk in it. And find rest for your souls.” (6:16)

So there is a call to reflection: stand, look and ask…. And then action: walk… and find.

Reflection. And, action. Because a deeper faith, an inner reserve, the peace and light that we crave and that the world craves… It’s not just handed to us, is it? It requires something of us…

What does it require of us?

It requires us to take the journey of faith…to walk the path. It requires us to ask the tough questions, engage in the spiritual practices, see what works and what doesn’t, to have a critical conversation with our traditions.

I know some of you practice meditation. I love the analogy used by Thich Nhat Hanh who makes the analogy: it’s like a glass of apple juice – real apple juice freshly squeezed with pulp in it. When you pour it, it’s all murky. But if you pour the glass and set it on the counter for 20 minutes, the pulp settles to the bottom and it becomes clear. And that’s what happens to your mind when you sit for 20 minutes. You get this clarity. You begin to see what’s going on inside…

Another way of looking at it might be like this: Imagine the surface of the ocean is all restless, with waves crashing, and then you slip down deep below the surface, where it’s still and peaceful…

But meditation is not for everyone. I know some of you journal. Others of you set aside time every day for prayer… For others, it is critical study of the scriptures. And maybe for others of you, it’s intentionally watching the twilight come over the river each evening. And for others of you, it’s more hands-on. It’s in the very midst of helping others, that God’s presence becomes real.

We are at a time when there is just incredible division in our culture. We are at a time when there is an immense need in our neighborhoods, our communities, in our families. There is so much need right here in this room. And sometimes it feels overwhelming. But I’m more and more aware that the one gift we all can offer if we are willing to go deeper, to walk the ancient paths, is the gift of our inner peace and wellbeing, the groundedness which is the well-spring of compassion and generosity and grace which the world so desperately needs.

Let us pray: Loving God, we know that we can’t give what we don’t first have. Help us to draw deep from the great wells of refreshment and healing that our tradition offers. Fill us with your light. Heal us and renew us that we might be channels of your peace. Amen.

Gratitude Needs to Be an Attitude

Gratitude Needs to Be an Attitude

Today’s message was written by the founder of Dial Hope, the Rev. Roger Kunkel

One of my favorite subjects is gratitude. Henry David Thoreau wrote, “I am grateful for what I am and have. My thanksgiving is perpetual.” Friends of Dial Hope, most of us specialize in periodic outbursts of gratitude. Rather than a continuous condition or a state of being, thanksgiving becomes an event, a time, a day, in particular, the fourth Thursday of every November. But gratitude needs to be an attitude, a perpetual one. 

To keep myself in a thankful condition, I do the following: I launch my attitude of gratitude when I awaken. In the silence of my heart, I say, “Thank you, God, for a night of rest and for the gift of a new day. I am thankful, I am thankful. I am thankful, and I will live this day in gratitude, from start to finish, come what may. Lord, what are you up to today? I want to be a part of it. Now I ask that you bless me so I may be a blessing to others.” 

The crucial thing is to get yourself prepared for yet another day of thankfulness. Crashes, victories, and boredom will come and go. Our attitude of gratitude endures. With perpetual thanksgiving, I remain.  

Let us pray: Loving God, who broods over us at night like a mother bird over her nest and rises upon us in the morning like the sun that warms the earth, we lift our hearts to you in praise and thanksgiving. You have richly blessed each of us. Thank you for your love and extravagance. This day, may we be beautifully extravagant in our generosity, gratitude, and kindness toward others. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Love Thy Enemies

Love Thy Enemies

A number of years ago now, there was an article in the newspaper about the burial of one of the Boston Marathon’s terrorists. Apparently, authorities had an extremely difficult time finding a location to bury this man. No one would accept the body. A woman named Martha Mullen heard about the dilemma and worked hard to find a burial plot for this man. When she was asked why she would ever do something so kind for this horrible person, her reply was simple: “Jesus told us to love our enemies.”

What a beautiful witness to Jesus’ teaching. 

Jesus did not teach us to join or condone our enemy’s actions. No. But he did say we are to love them. Hate has a way of making the world a little uglier, and it corrodes the soul. But love… love reflects the beauty and nature of Almighty God. 

At the very heart and center of the Gospel are God’s love and forgiveness. When our hearts are open enough to receive and share these gifts, we can be sure we are near to the heart of God. 

Let us pray: Loving God, it is so very difficult to love our enemies. We don’t want to condone terrible acts of violence and hate. But we also know how our own hatred only hardens the soul and darkens the world. Open us again to your undeserved grace, forgiveness, and love. May we recognize these gifts that you have so graciously given to us, and may they be ours to share with this world that is so desperately in need. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Old Camel Knees

Old Camel Knees

According to early church tradition, the apostle James earned the nickname, “Old Camel Knees.” Apparently, this was due to thick callouses that formed on his knees from years and years of prayer. 

The letter of James in the New Testament is often categorized as Wisdom Literature. In his commentary on this letter in The Message, scholar and pastor Eugene Peterson reminds us that, “Wisdom is not primarily knowing the truth, although it certainly includes that; it is skill in living.” Skill in living! 

I don’t know about you, but I definitely can use more skill in living. I want to live deeply. I want to make the most of the time I have here on earth. I want to fully experience God’s blessing and to be a blessing to others. So today, l give thanks that we have guides like the Apostle James to show us the way.  

At the end of his commentary, thinking about “Old Camel Knees,” Peterson goes on to make the point that, “Prayer is foundational to the wisdom. Prayer is always foundational to wisdom.” 

Let us pray: Loving and Gracious God, we come before you this day, on the knees of our hearts. We thank you for those who have come before us in the faith, women, and men who have steeped themselves in prayer and who hand down to us a way of living that is compelling and beautiful. Today, grant that our hearts would be open enough to receive and trust your guidance. Teach us your ways, and lead us on your path to abundant and eternal life. Amen.