Happiness 101

Happiness 101

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Tasha Blackburn.

So many of us would like to be happier that happiness itself has become an industry. Lots of people would be thrilled to make money in their effort to make you happier. Before we give out our credit card number, let’s consider what scripture has to say about happiness. The book of Psalms is 150 songs of faith and the opening number is all about how to be happy. 

The first lines are not a surprise. They are three things not to do: don’t follow the advice of wicked people, don’t head down a path of sinning, and don’t sit around and scoff at everybody. Just by not doing those three things, you will be happier. Then we are given one positive thing that will make us happier too, one thing to do. Happy people meditate on God’s word day and night. They “meditate” on it. 

It is interesting to find out that the word “meditate” here means more like “worry” it or “chew” on it. In fact, it is the same word that is used when a dog chews on a bone. The dog pulls at it, gnaws on it, won’t stop working it over until he’s gotten it all.

That is how we are supposed to consume God’s word. We are supposed to be like a dog with a bone. Pulling and pushing on it, having it pull and push on us until we’ve got all it has to offer. This kind of effort, of course, will take way more than day and night. It will take a lifetime. And in that lifetime, we will be happier. You will be happier.

Meditate on God’s Word. Do things like you are doing right now: listen to devotionals, worship in a congregation, read your Bible, pray throughout the day. Be like a dog with a bone! Don’t give up, just keep gnawing away. It is a sure path to happiness.

Let’s pray: Gracious God, you long for us to know joy and purpose in our lives. We pray that you can renew in us this day a desire for you, a desire for your Word. Give us hearts open to receive the scriptures and an appetite that will not stop until we know you better. In your name, we pray. Amen.

Turning Points

Turning Points

Today reflect for a moment on the turning points, or stepping stones, in your Christian life that has brought you from birth to this moment. These may be fairly few in number, five to eight, probably not more than twelve. Examples maybe – I was born, I faced an illness, a friend nurtured me, etc. List your turning points with a sentence or phrase saying what each turning point represents to you.

The exciting thing is, you do not have to wait for a turning point! We should not sit around hoping for a change, a break, a winning lottery ticket, for something to happen. We really have it in our power to turn that corner, to make the change, to start things going in a different direction. We should never think we are too old to make a change that it is too late to begin again. We do not have to go along with unhappy conditions nor accept ill-health as our lot. The turning point comes first of all, “in us” not in some outer circumstances. Base this Christ confidence on Philippians 4:13, “l can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

Winston Churchill went back to his old public school when he was old and famous, to give the graduation address. All the names were called. Elgar’s “Pomp and Circumstance” was no doubt murdered by the high school band. Sir Winston rose to give his speech about what he had learned in eighty years of public service. He cleared his throat and gave the shortest commencement address on record. He said, “Never give up! Never give up! I say, Never give up!” 

Let us pray: God of love, we thank you for turning points that enable us to move ahead and become more like Jesus. Fill us with hope and joy that we may never give up. Bless us so we may be a blessing to others. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

But Wait!

But Wait!

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Eric Wogen.

We’ve all heard those words flow ever so smoothly from the enthusiastic, silver-tongued TV front-man seeking to sell his viewers some miracle product. Whether it be a leak-stopping compound in a handy spray can, a sure-fire cleaning product that quickly removes every stain known to humankind, or a car cleaner that makes our ten-year-old jalopy look like new again, the item being promoted is a must buy. And, to make the deal even sweeter, after announcing the bargain price, the rapid-talking pitchman makes the deal all but irresistible by saying, ” BUT WAIT! Order right now, and we will send you two of whatever for just $9.95, plus shipping and handling.

” BUT WAIT! ” Isn’t that precisely the message God announced to all through the gift of his saving love in Christ? 

To a creation eager to hear some good news, to a people yearning for a word of encouragement and hope, he declared, ” BUT WAIT! Have I got a deal for you.” His offer involves no gimmicks, no tricks, no fast-talking salesmen. It simply proclaims what we all so desperately need to hear – ” I love you. You are mine. I will be with you always.”

Now that’s a deal, friends of Dial Hope. That’s a deal we can’t pass up.

Let us pray: Loving God, you sent your son so we might know that your love is the real deal. Energize us to make that love come alive for those around us through what we do and say each and every day. In the name of God’s best deal ever, his son, Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Let it Go!

Let it Go!

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Eric Wogen.

  Nelson Mandela once spoke these memorable words:

    Holding on to anger is like taking poison and expecting another to die.

How true. Unless we live alone in a cave somewhere, there will be times when we find ourselves harboring negative thoughts about someone we feel is ever so deserving of our anger and wrath. Anger quickly flows when we determine we have been treated poorly, dealt with unfairly, cheated out of what is rightfully ours, snubbed, embarrassed, belittled, slighted or subjected to a host of other irritating injustices. To be sure, anger is an emotion common to us all.

To feel anger is normal.

To retain it can be unhealthy and even self-destructive.

Nelson Mandela was right ——- to hold on to anger is, indeed, like taking poison and expecting another to die.

We would all do well to remember this remarkable man’s words of wisdom. Doing so will serve us well and will benefit others, too. If shedding anger comes naturally for you, keep it up. If holding on to anger is more your style, why not try a new approach. Follow the simple advice nestled in the theme song of the once-popular musical , Frozen. LET IT GO ! LET IT GO !

You’ll be glad you did and so will those around you.

Let us pray : Gracious God, you have taught us to love you and one another. Truly loving someone involves being able to let go of our anger and the other bad feelings that sometimes get stuck within us. Remind us this day that sharing your love is what brings us joy and makes this world a brighter place. In the name of our living Lord, we pray. Amen.

The Ideal Complaint Box

The Ideal Complaint Box

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Eric Wogen.

For many years, my mother had a poster on her refrigerator door that never failed to catch my eye. Its message was simple and never grew old. That message retained its relevance regardless of changing circumstances. It caused you to stop and reflect upon how you related to and treated others. On that provocative poster were the following words :

                                Write all complaints in the box below.

The “ complaint “ box, located at the bottom border of the poster was, at best, no more than half an inch square. 

Get the picture. The space for writing your complaints was extremely limited. In fact, it was nearly non-existent. Complaining and griping may come far too easily for many of us. We can be quick to spot what’s wrong with others but slow to see our own issues. Jesus talked about the dangers of judging others. He advised that we should be more concerned about the log in our eye than the speck in someone else’s. Excellent counsel.

How different this world would be if our complaints were replaced with expressions of affirmation and support. Building up rather than tearing down is what God would have us be about. 

You may recall the old Army ad that suggested “Be all you can be .” To each of us, I offer this amended version of that admonition: “ Be all God created you to be – his ambassadors of love, care, and concern.”

Let us pray: Loving God, with thankful hearts we face each new day knowing we are yours. What a privilege it is to be claimed by you, called to serve you and those around us. Remind us always that we have been blessed to be a blessing. Help us to be all we can be as we reach out to your world with expressions of support and kindness that lighten the load others carry and enable them to be all they can be. In the name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

A Precious Gift

A Precious Gift

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Eric Wogen.

Thanks for calling Dial Hope on this day the Lord has made, Thursday, November 16, 2017. This is Eric Wogen, a retired pastor in Sarasota, Florida.

Well, the unbelievable happened just a few months ago, our first-born grandson headed off to his freshman year of college. How can that be? It seems like just yesterday that my wife and I were taking his Dad to college. And, my first year of higher education, while now certainly rather distant in the rearview mirror, remains a most vivid memory.

Mile-marker moments like these and many others remind us that the clock continues to tick in a never-ending way, whether we choose to acknowledge that reality or ignore it. Time is, indeed, ” an ever-rolling stream”. Todays quickly become yesterdays and, before you know it, next year somehow becomes last year.

The Psalmist helps us focus on the importance of each and every new twenty-four hours with his penetrating and provocative words,
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       ” This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it.”

To be sure, each new day is a gift from above, a gift to be unwrapped, opened, and certainly used as fully and faithfully as possible.

Friends of Dial Hope, embrace today, appreciate today, enjoy today, make the most of today.

And, do the same with tomorrow and each tomorrow thereafter God graciously grants us.

Let us pray: Gracious God, may we never take your gift of time for granted. Each new day is precious. May we live this day and every day in ways that declare our gratitude and make your love real to others. Amen.

Challenges to Changes

Challenges to Changes

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Eric Wogen.

Life is packed full of challenges. They come in many sizes and shapes. Some relate to our personal life. Some involve family and friends. Some connect to the workplace. Some may even stem from our faith. You know yours. I know mine.

There are times when we may feel swamped by the knotty challenges that come our way, all but immobilized to deal with them. When such unwelcome moments come my way, I am reminded of something I observed years ago but have never forgotten, a life lesson that has stuck with me.

It happened while I was working in our vegetable garden back in Pennsylvania. I noticed a small bit of debris moving ever so slowly but steadily across the newly turned earth as if it was motorized somehow. I wondered what energy source was responsible for enabling that movement. A closer inspection brought a smile to my confused face. I quickly discovered that a tiny ant was bearing the burden of transporting a rather heavy load totally disproportionate to its size. Determination, perseverance and divinely given strength made the apparently impossible a reality.

God has packed the potential into each one of us, into you, and into me, to do amazing things, things we may feel are impossible. He equips us and empowers us not only to cope with the myriad of challenges we experience but to overcome them. If that ant could accomplish its amazing feat, just imagine what God can enable us to accomplish. 

Our Creator calls us to see what can be, to move beyond what is, to be freed from what seeks to stymie us. New beginnings flow from current challenges. Use his gifts to make a meaningful, difference. Surprise someone. Surprise yourself. Do it today, and tomorrow, as well.

Let us pray. Giving God, you have gifted us in countless ways. You have gifted us with what we need most to serve you and others. You have blessed us so we might be a blessing. Use us to move a few mountains, or perhaps a few molehills, so others may know the wonder, awe, and power of your amazing grace. In the name of Christ, we pray. Amen. 

One Tick at a time

One Tick at a time

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Eric Wogen.

A story is told about a clock that grew tired of ticking.

The clock complained, “ I have to tick each and every second of the day. That amounts to 60 ticks per minute, 3600 ticks per hour, 86,400 ticks per day, and 31,536,000 ticks each year. I think I’ll just sit down and quit.”

Someone carried the clock to a doctor. The clock explained its problem. The doctor asked, “ How many ticks do you have to tick at one time?” The clock answered, “Just one.”

The doctor continued, “ How were you doing, ticking one tick at a time ?” The clock replied that he was doing all right as long as he was ticking just one tick at a time. The doctor then inquired, ‘“Do you feel you can continue to tick one tick at a time ?” The click responded that he could.

The problem was solved.

When we consider what lies ahead and think about all that needs to be done, it may seem there is more to do than we feel we can possibly accomplish. The list is too long. The demands are too great. We can quickly feel overwhelmed by all the circumstances, situations, dilemmas that confront us. We may wonder how we can cope with it all.

Our gracious God has assured us that, with him, all things are possible. To be sure, we may not be able to do all that needs to be done all at once. But, by taking one challenge at a time, with God’s help, what we can do may amaze us.

Give it a try.

Let us pray. Sometimes we may feel like Lone Rangers, Lord as if we are totally on our own when it comes to dealing with the endless expectations that confront us. Remind us that with your help, all things are possible, no load is too heavy, no task too challenging. Reassure us that we never walk alone, that your caring, supportive, renewing love sustains us each and every moment of each and every day. In Jesus’s name, we pray. Amen.

The Special in Olympics

The Special in Olympics

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A few years ago, the Special Olympics were held in Seattle, and a beautiful thing happened. Nine contestants, all with physical or mental disabilities, stood at the starting line for the 100-yard dash. As the gun sounded, they all started out, not exactly in a dash, but with a relish to run the race to the finish and win. But as they ran, one boy slipped and fell. He tumbled over a couple of times and began to cry. The other eight runners heard the boy crying. They all stopped, turned around, and went back, every one of them. One girl with Down’s syndrome bent down and kissed him on top of his head, and said, “This will make it all better.” The other runners helped the fallen boy up, and all nine of them linked arms and walked together, side by side, to the finish line. They all won! They all came in first! Everyone in the stadium stood, cheering went on for ten minutes. People who were there are still telling the story. People who weren’t even there, say they were. 

You see, as a Christian, you don’t have to win. Maybe you need to slow yourself down and change your course to help someone, to partner with someone, to reconcile with someone, to encourage someone. When you do that you will have peace within and peace with God. 

Let us pray: God of love, we thank you for this day. Forgive us when we lash out at others and at you. Forgive us and make us whole, with the capacity to sense your presence, your strength, your grace, and your love. By sensing your unconditional love, make us able to uphold others in their grief and pain and loneliness. We ask these things in the name of your son, our redeemer, Jesus Christ. Amen.

Getting Over the Hump

Getting Over the Hump

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Eric Wogen.

No matter how hard she tried, the elderly, wheel-chair-bound nursing home resident could just not get over the slight threshold at the entrance to the room she wished to enter. Seeing her dilemma, I quickly went to be of assistance. A gentle nudge was all it took for her to get over the hump. 

Obstacles, large or small, physical or otherwise, will come to us all. No one, not one of us is immune to life’s challenging humps. What may seem inconsequential to one will be all but impossible to another. Be assured, there will be times when all of us will need a gentle nudge to help us overcome whatever is blocking our way forward.

That needed nudge may come to us as a helping hand, a word of encouragement, a thoughtful remembrance, an uplifting smile, an appreciated note or call, a necessary challenge, an expression of sympathy.

God calls us all to be present to each other, to be there when needed. The joy of helping another get over the hump confronting them can be as nourishing as the most delicious meal. So, open your eyes, your ears, your hands, your heart to someone who needs you to help them get over the hump this very day. You’ll be glad you did, and, so will they.

Let us pray: The needy are all around us, Lord. They are in nursing homes, in hospital rooms, and in church pews. They are on street corners, in shopping malls, and in workplaces. They may live next door to us or in our own homes. Use us as channels of your caring love to make a difference, to be there when needed, to help another over the hump. In the name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.