Open to Surprises

Open to Surprises

It was Betty Tallmadge who said, “Life is what happens to you when you’re making other plans.” Serendipitous things happen if we are willing to let them. Our plans must be adjustable to allow life to do what it will with us. We collect seashells with our children but fall in love with the hobby ourselves. We search for a particular painting but come upon a gorgeous piece of furniture instead. We take an elective course as a filler and end up pursuing the field professionally. After the death of a Rabbi, one of his disciples was asked, “What was most important for your teacher?” The disciple thought for a moment and replied, “Whatever he happened to be doing at the moment.” 

Friend of Dial Hope, no matter where you are – driving in a car, the sanctity of your home, vacationing, a hospital bed, at your place of work – live fully this day, which is an unrepeatable miracle. Be open to surprises. Be playful. Focus on the constant sacrament of the little moments. 

Let us pray: O God of all precious things, including animals and the majesty of your creation, who hears our pain even when fears block our words, create in us a heart of laughter and hope. May your spirit of comfort still the anxiety of those who live with enormous pressure and stress; may it fill the emptiness of lost and lonely lives. Weave your love, joy, and gratitude into the tapestry of our moments this day. Thank you, God. Amen.

What’s In a Name?

What’s In a Name?

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Rev. Andy Odom. 

Scripture: You were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God. (1 Corinthians 6:11)

I recently read a story about a teacher in an impoverished area in Colorado who goes through the same experience every year when she learns the names of her new class. Every time she does it, she inevitably comes across a name that has more than one pronunciation. When the student is asked for the correct pronunciation, the typical response is, “Whatever is fine.” It is then that this teacher stops and, with clarity in her voice, replies, “No, it is not. It’s your name. Tell me how to say it.” Her hope in doing so is to help students understand the importance of their names. For some, she says, it is all they have.

Life is uncertain and comes with no guarantees. It holds no promise that tomorrow will be better than today. But when we are baptized, Jesus calls us by name and then gives us his name. Amidst the uncertainty of life, the name that is above all names is generously and abundantly given to us, imprinted upon our very souls. God claims us in baptism, promising us a life filled with the sound of his voice and the confidence of his presence, the one who keeps calling us by name. After all, nothing is quite as personal as a name. In the end, it is all we really have, and it is enough.

Prayer: Gracious God, you have created each one of us. You have given special attention to who we are and who we can be. We are your children, and you call us by name. Give us ears to hear your voice, hearts to know you are near, and hands to reach out to others, in the name of Christ we pray. Amen. 

I recently read a story about a teacher in an impoverished area in Colorado who goes through the same experience every year when she learns the names of her new class. Every time she does it, she inevitably comes across a name that has more than one pronunciation. When the student is asked for the correct pronunciation, the typical response is, “Whatever is fine.” It is then that this teacher stops and, with clarity in her voice, replies, “No, it is not. It’s your name. Tell me how to say it.” Her hope in doing so is to help students understand the importance of their names. For some, she says, it is all they have.

Life is uncertain and comes with no guarantees. It holds no promise that tomorrow will be better than today. But when we are baptized, Jesus calls us by name and then gives us his name. Amidst the uncertainty of life, the name that is above all names is generously and abundantly given to us, imprinted upon our very souls. God claims us in baptism, promising us a life filled with the sound of his voice and the confidence of his presence, the one who keeps calling us by name. After all, nothing is quite as personal as a name. In the end, it is all we really have, and it is enough.

Prayer: Gracious God, you have created each one of us. You have given special attention to who we are and who we can be. We are your children, and you call us by name. Give us ears to hear your voice, hearts to know you are near, and hands to reach out to others, in the name of Christ we pray. Amen. 

Let God and Let God

Let God and Let God

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Rev. Andy Odom. 

If I can’t be trusted to figure out what is best for myself and then do it, it becomes obvious that God’s command is necessary. (Romans 7:16, MSG)

What does it mean to welcome Jesus into your life? Well, it’s like what happens when you begin a new relationship with another person. When you begin a relationship with someone, it is going to change you, whether you like it or not. After all, they will want to do some things differently. They won’t see things the same way you do. They will want to suggest other ways of thinking about something. Things will be different. So, if we are to welcome Jesus into our lives, we need to be able to let go of some of the ways we do things.

That is not easy for us. Many of us spend our whole lives living our lives a certain way, so we’re not going to let go of it easily. Quite often we don’t even realize how habitual life has become for us.

Richard Rohr says it this way. He says, “We are all addicted to our own habitual way of doing anything, our own defenses, and, most especially, our patterned way of thinking, or how we process reality. The very fact that we have to say this shows how little we see it.”

To welcome Jesus into our life means we need to practice what people in addiction recovery have to learn to do. We have to learn to let go and let God. To let go of the outcome of our day, our week, our month. To let go of the result of a business meeting or a family get-together. We need to learn to let go and let God. Fortunately for us, we believe in a God who can receive the very things we let go of, a God who can walk with us through it and comfort us in it.

Prayer: Dear Jesus, we want to welcome you into our lives, so help us to do that. Help us treat our relationship with you like with would with any other person, by letting go of some of the ways we think and do things and becoming open to how you think and do things. Help us let go and let You, O God. Amen.

What Hope Really Is

What Hope Really Is

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Rev. Andy Odom. 

I am about to do a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? (Isaiah 43:19)

Today I want to talk to you about what hope means. This ministry is called Dial Hope, but what does hope mean really? To be honest, I think we often think of hoping for something in the same way that we think about wishing for something. After all, we wish for things all the time. “I sure wish people would stop being so petty,” we say. “I sure wish drivers would stop cutting me off.” Many of us have a long list of things we wish the world would be or how other people would treat one another. And it is all right to have those wishes, but that is not the same thing as hope. Hope has more to do with what God wants rather than what we want.

Eugene Peterson writes about that, saying, “wishing grows out of our egos; hope grows out of our faith. Hope is oriented toward what God is doing to me; wishing is oriented toward what we are doing. Wishing has to do with what I want in things or people or God; hope has to do with what God wants in me and the world and people beyond me.

If you’re going to incorporate more hope in your life, then you need to practice wishing less. If you want to live in anticipation of what God is doing in the world and to be surprised by what God is doing in the world, then you have to actively suppress the things you are wishing for all the time. The more you focus on your own wishes, the less open you will be to what God might be actually doing. It is fun to fantasize about what we want, but if that is all we do, it leaves little room in us for being open to what God wants.

Prayer: Dear God, help us to wish a little less so that we might hope a little more. Give us eyes and ears to see and hear what you are doing in the world and what you want from us. Help us to do more than just dial hope. Help us to live it, in Christ we pray. Amen.

A Less Good Idea

A Less Good Idea

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Rev. Andy Odom. 

Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my thoughts. (Psalm 139:23)

How many times have you come up with what you think is the greatest idea ever, and then it never goes anywhere? Or, how often have you been given what someone else thinks is the perfect thing for you to do, but you never did much with it at all?

So often we find ourselves looking for that great idea or what is often referred to as “the magic bullet,” something that, if every single person would simply do it, we would all be much better off. The thing is, that’s really not how life works. We each have different interests and passions, and we each have different things we are willing to put our energy into.

Perhaps in searching for that one great idea, we are going about it the wrong way. Perhaps we simply need to focus more on what we are able to do right here, right now.

A friend of mine recently had a post on her blog called, “The Less Good Idea.” Here are a couple of lines from it:

  • A Less Good Idea someone comes up with for their own life is better than your great idea for them that doesn’t require thinking and self-responsibility on their part.
  • A Less Good Idea you can carry out all year is better than a great idea (resolution) that fizzles out by the end of January.
  • A Less Good Idea that you have energy for, is better than a great idea that feels like an obligation. The emotional drag you will feel will turn a great idea into a far less good idea.

I think there’s good wisdom here. Rather than put all of your efforts into some great idea that is likely to never go far, give serious thought to “the less good idea” that actually has some potential.

Prayer: Generous and loving Lord. You are the great giver. You give us energy for the day and for everything we do. Help us invest our energy in what we are able to do right here, right now. Remind us that even the smallest things we do in this world can make a difference, in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen. 

Before Doing Anything Else

Before Doing Anything Else

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Rev. Andy Odom. 

My question for you today is: What do you do first when you get up each day? When you first wake up, what do you do? I guess my real question is: How long is it before you begin checking the news or jumping on social media? And then, how much time do you spend there? And then I want to ask: How stressed are you?

One of my mentors in ministry, Margaret Marcuson, recently posted a word about the news. She wrote about how there is so much in the news these days that we can hardly seem to turn away for even a second. We don’t want to miss anything, after all. And then she wrote about how she has been trying to limit her online news consumption to 5-minutes a day. She quotes an article she read stating that “Being up-to-date on the news is a trap and a scam. Five minutes a day is all you need.”

She goes on to share that on the days she is successful at limiting her exposure to the onslaught of “breaking news” reports and urgent updates, she does better. “On those days, I am calmer, more able to focus on my own goals, and more productive,” she says.

Here are some questions you can ask yourself about how you take in the news:

  1. Where do you typically get the news?
  2. Do you time yourself on how long you spend “getting updated”?
  3. Have you turned off alerts and, instead, checked the headlines at certain times?

The point is, if you are not deliberate in how you take in what is going on in the world, you are going to be overwhelmed all the time. I recently ran across this suggestion:

“When you wake in the morning, don’t open your internet, or read the papers, until you have first said good morning to God. Have a prayer or a psalm that you say first thing, to greet God, to reaffirm who you are, and why you are. Rediscover joy first thing in the morning: think on what is true, and lovely, and honorable and pure, before you face the world – and Facebook.”

Prayer: Good morning Lord. Thank you for being who you are and for making us who we are. Be with us today in all that we do. Help us remember that we are always yours, and you are always with us. Amen. 

Practicing Gratitude

Practicing Gratitude

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Rev. Andy Odom. 

I give thanks to God always for you because of the grace of God that has been given you in Christ Jesus. (1 Corinthians 1:4)

Today I want to talk about gratitude. We really don’t see a lot of gratitude going on these days. I mean, how often does someone surprise you by saying to you, “I just want you to know that I am grateful that I know you.” How often do you say that? I’m going to guess that we don’t say it often enough.

At the beginning of his letters to churches, Paul would always lead off with a word of gratitude. He would say things like, “I thank God for you, simply because of who you are.”

One thing that I try to do daily, although I will admit that I often forget to do it, is to look back on the day and highlight the things that I am grateful for. When I do that, the list is often longer than the negatives I’ve experienced in the day. If we really think about it, I think most of us have more to be grateful for than we do to be upset about.

What are you grateful for today? How long could you make that list? If you start practicing gratitude each day, you might just find yourself hoping more and complaining less, loving more, and despising less.

Prayer: Dear God, we are grateful for all you have given us and all you have promised us. The list is a long one, much longer than our list of complaints. Thank you for being exactly who you are, through Jesus Christ we pray. Amen.

With Strength

With Strength

How does faith mend a broken heart? Sooner or later, heartache comes to all of us. Sadness, sorrow, disappointment, grief, rejection, hurt – whatever you wish to call it – rears its head and covers us like a heavy blanket. Let me suggest some resources of the Christian faith that can help us walk through the dark valley of sorrow. First, claim the fellowship of the church. Let the church family’s arms of love surround you and support you. Never forget that you are not alone. God is with you. Nothing, not even death, can separate you from the love of God. No matter how hurt you may feel, let the church be an integral part of the healing process.  

Second, and this may surprise you, claim the power of helping others, which comes only from having gone through the grief pilgrimage. Those who have gone through sorrow of any kind have a new empathy, a new sensitivity, a new compassion, a new power to help others. Jesus said, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted!” The word comforted comes from Latin words – cum, which means “with” and fortis, which means “strength.” So the word comforted means literally “with strength”! Thus, Jesus was saying “Blessed are those who have gone through sorrow, for they are with strength.” Someone once put it like this; “Whoever among us has, through personal experience learned what pain and anxiety are…. belongs no more to themselves alone; they are the sister, the brother of all who suffer.” 

Friend of Dial Hope, claim that strength to help others which comes only on the other side of trouble, only from walking through the valley of grief. God needs you to share yourself with others. Memorize this verse: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13). Trust God…trust God….trust God. 

Let us pray: God of love, some days there is so much pain, so much emptiness. And yet, you know what we are feeling. As we count our blessings, keep us from wallowing in self-pity so that we may encourage and comfort others. Turn our sadness to laughter, remembering that “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a downcast spirit dries up the bones.’ (Proverbs 1 7:22) Through the grace of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Praying As We Were Taught

Praying As We Were Taught

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Tasha Blackburn.

Several years ago, when my nephew was trying to learn the Lord’s Prayer, the family would say it together each night before dinner. For a time he would pray, Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. My kingdom come, my will be done, on earth as it is in heaven…”

I understand how he could make the mistake! I know I have often prayed that God’s will would be done but, in my heart, I want my own will to hold sway. That was on my mind just about the time when I heard the announcement of one of that year’s Nobel Peace Prize winners. 

With the Lord’s Prayer on my mind, what grabbed my heart was an interview with the young girl. Her name was Malala Yousafzai and you will remember her. She was the girl who was shot in the head because she was attempting to go to school in Pakistan. She now lives in England and has used her voice to empower all of those voiceless children in her country. In the interview, she talked about when she was even young and small for her age. She said this, “Once I had asked God for one or two extra inches in height, but instead he made me as tall as the sky, so high that I could not measure myself.” 

 Wow.

 We need to stop praying for our will to be done and start meaning it when we pray for God’s will to be done! If we followed our own will we might pray to grow an inch or two but God’s will would have us reach the skies. It never would have been Malala’s will because she could not have fathomed it. And the same is true for you and for me. We pray, “Thy will be done” because our own will does not have enough imagination to dream what God can do with us and through us. Today, pray that God’s amazing will might be done in your life. Only God knows where it will lead.

 Prayer: God of heaven and earth, of all things that have been and that will ever be, today I pray that Your will would be done in my life. I pray that Your will would be done in the lives of those I love and pray for. I pray that Your will would be done in this world. Not my will, God, but yours. Amen. 

Knowing the Shepherd

Knowing the Shepherd

Today’s message was written by guest pastor, Rev. Tasha Blackburn.

I love Psalm 23. I find myself surrounded by lots of friends when I say that because so many of us love this psalm which begins with those amazing words: “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” Because of its importance in my life, I was glad to learn of a true story about the psalm told by the author Madeline L’Engle (as found in her book Glimpses of Grace). Today, I want to share it with you. 

She writes:  “There’s a true story I love about a house party in one of the big English country houses. Often after dinner at these parties, people give recitations, sing, and use whatever talent they have to entertain the company. One year a famous actor was among the guests. When it came his turn to perform, he recited the Twenty-third Psalm, perhaps the most beloved psalm in the Psalter. His rendition was magnificent, and there was much applause.” 

 “At the end of the evening, someone noticed a little old great aunt dozing in the corner. 

She was deaf as a post and had missed most of what was going on, but she was urged to get up and recite something. In those days people used to memorize a lot of poetry! 

So she stood up, and in her quavery old voice she started, The Lord is my shepherd, and went on to the end of the psalm. When she had finished there were tears in many eyes. Later one of the guests approached the famous actor. ‘You recited that psalm absolutely superbly. It was incomparable. So why were we so moved by that funny, little old lady?’ He replied, ‘I know the psalm. She knows the shepherd.’”

What a testimony this is to the power of knowing Jesus. Today, carry in your heart that he truly is your shepherd who will carry you through anything, even the darkest of valleys. Know that he is always with you to guide and protect you.

Prayer: Lord, shepherd me this day. Guide me down your paths of righteousness. Without you, I will be a lost sheep with no way home. When the way is dark and difficult, stay with me. Help me feel the presence of your protection. In your name, I pray. Amen.