Listening

Listening

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

Like most kids, I wanted to do just as I pleased. “ Yeah, Mom” or “okay, Dad” was my usual response to whatever they asked me or told me to do, and then I’d go on with whatever it was I wanted to do. So when they really wanted to get my attention, they would get in my face and announce firmly, “Bob – now listen to me!!!” And I grudgingly stopped, listened, and obeyed (well, most of the time). 

But God doesn’t work that way. God doesn’t get in our face and yell at us to pay attention. Indeed, God gave us free will to listen and obey – or not. Perhaps that’s why we (including me) don’t always pay attention to what God’s telling me. And that’s why I end my morning devotions with one of my favorite lines from the Bible (Psalm 95): “Oh, that today we would hearken to His voice!” To which I add “Oh, that today would hearken to His voice.” Because hearken means “to listen carefully to,” and I don’t do that every waking moment. Think of what a difference it would make in the world if all of us hearkened to God’s voice. For God’s pretty clear about what’s expected. The prophet Micah put it this way: “To do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God.” And Paul wrote to the Christians in Galatia (part of modern-day Turkey): “the harvest of God is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, fidelity, gentleness, and self-control.” Couldn’t be clearer! So let’s listen – and do our darnedest to obey. 

Let us pray: Loving God, you are always more ready to give than we to receive, and your never-failing love embraces us all. Help us to unstop the ear of our hearts as you lovingly call us into your wonderful light. Give us grace as we go out this day to do your will and show forth your love to all we encounter. Amen. 

Praying for All People

Praying for All People

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

Have you ever prayed something like this? “Answer me when I call to you, my righteous God. Give me relief from my distress; have mercy on me and hear my prayer (Psalm 4).” I have many times. And it’s a great comfort to me to know that it’s not just me asking God to help and support me; I’m grateful to the people who tell me that they pray for me – as I tell the people I minister to that I pray for them. I also pray for many I’m asked to pray for but who I haven’t met and who probably don’t know that I’m praying for them. Although it’s the praying that counts, let’s admit it: the knowledge that we’re being prayed for is a comforting bonus. 

Perhaps some of you listening to, or reading, this message today aren’t sure that anyone’s holding you in prayer – asking God to help and support you today. So whether you’re in a desert in the Middle East or in a spiritual desert; whether you’re having a good day or a rough day, please feel that comforting bonus right now, for I and others indeed are praying for you. Ephesians 6:18 reminds us to always intercede for all God’s people. Please join me and others who pray for those who have no one to pray for them. 

This prayer was written by my dear friend, Brother Frederick Bond, STG: 

Let us pray: “Accept, dear God, our prayers for those who have no one to love them enough to pray for them. Wherever and whoever they are, give them a share of our blessings and, in your love, let them know they are not forgotten.” Amen. 

When I Called, You Did Not Answer

When I Called, You Did Not Answer

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

“When I Called, You Did Not Answer,” so God reminds us in Isaiah. It’s challenging to hear and heed God’s call in today’s world – not just the big stuff, such as career or marriage, but the little stuff: our behavior with others, discerning sacredness in the ordinary (and there’s a lot of it), seeing Christ in those we dislike, and in general acting in accordance with God’s will. It’s a tall order! So, how do we do it? In a world distracted by 24-hour electronic connectedness and our non-stop reacting to it, how does God (or God’s messengers) have a chance to get through? The answer is to take responsibility for our end of God’s never-failing covenant and be proactive about our spiritual practice. 

Begin by knowing that God is always with us. That even when the light’s not on, the plug is always in the wall. That we’re the ones who need to turn off the distractions and turn on the God switch. Carve out some time for prayer, and follow it with a time of quiet. Because God rarely shouts: God’s “still, small voice” whispers, softly, in our hearts. 

Saint Benedict understood that when he wrote “listen, my little brothers, with the ear of the heart.” How about ten minutes a day? It’s a start – and it just might change your life. 

Let us pray: Patient and loving God, your goodness never fails. Give us, we pray, the willingness to put You before our earthly distractions and concerns. Help us to know in our hearts the things you want us to do and grant us the grace and power faithfully to accomplish them. Amen. 

Doing My Part

Doing My Part

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

A common refrain among people I’ve ministered to is “why didn’t God do ___?” Or “prevent ____?.” Or “answer my prayer?” The unspoken completion of these questions is “the way I want God to.” Some of these questions are to be expected when someone has been diagnosed with a terminal illness, or when a loved one dies unexpectedly – things beyond our control. But most are related to things that the questioner has some control over. So here are two related answers to questions like that. The first, I heard just recently from a friend: “God’s going to steer my boat, but I darn well better be rowing!” The second, more theological, is from an Episcopal priest who responded to a question like that from me 40 years ago, and it has stayed with me: “God’s love is not coercive.” In other words, God is not going to force anyone to do what they need to do. 

And God is not going to do the work! God helps, supports, strengthens, and guides. I cannot remember the number of times I prayed for an outcome for myself and then did nothing to help make it happen. Ditto with the others I pray for to stop using drugs, lose weight, visit their Mom in the nursing home, pay down their debts, or anything else. 

When I pray for God’s help for me or others, God opens a door – but I (and they) have to walk, climb, or hoist ourselves through it. The answer is there, always, on the other side of that door. Not the answer think should be there, and certainly not in the time frame I desire, but rather the answer that’s right for me, delivered when God knows I’m ready for it and not before. And then I darn well better start rowing. 

Let us pray. Lord of infinite patience, grant us the wisdom to seek your will for us and the power and desire to carry it out. Give us the willingness to open our hearts and our minds to you, trusting that you will show us the way to things that are better for us than anything we can desire or hope for. Then give us the strength, we pray, to do our part. Amen 

More, Better, Different

More, Better, Different

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

 Before I began to discern God’s call to chaplaincy in 1985, I spent my life chasing happiness. I would be happy if only I had more money, a better house, a bigger title, a different spouse (who really understood me), the recognition of my community, and so on. So I worked harder, earned more money, got a nicer house, a bigger title, (but stayed with the spouse who really does understand me), and pretty much all the rest. Yet that hole inside me never got filled, regardless of all, I did, achieved, or acquired. I had yet to learn that happiness cannot be bought or caught. I had yet to learn that it can only come as a byproduct of how I live my life. I had not yet read Psalm 12, which tells us “that which is worthless is highly prized by everyone.” Or poet William Wordsworth, who wrote “The world is too much with us. Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers.” 

So God finally hit me up the side of the head with a two-by-four and I stopped chasing my idea of more, better, and different and began to listen. And discern. And seek guidance. And learn patience. And pray – a lot. And I slowly came to understand that God’s intent for me is and always has been ….. more, better, and different – just not what I thought it should be. So now, I sit with a dying patient and we talk and we pray and I feel the presence of God as she begins to find peace. And I am grateful. I meet and talk with the policeman who was a first responder to the Pulse nightclub massacre in Orlando and I hear his story of how God helped him transcend the post-trauma nightmares of that event so that he is once more present to his wife and family – and that he will soon be entering seminary. And I cry, and I am grateful. And I watch the infectious joy of the little kids playing in my nursing home’s child-care center. And I am joyfully infected, and I am grateful. And I thank God every night for the blessings and rewards and gifts of my life. I am deeply and profoundly grateful and … happy. 

Every one of you reading or listening to this message is a minister. Yes, you are! You don’t have to go to seminary or get a theology degree. There is a place for you to bring hope, joy, comfort, and love to another of God’s children. Just give God a little time and maneuvering room in your life and career. Then listen with the ear of your heart. It will be made known to you. The rest will be up to you. And the happiness will come. 

Let us pray: God of hope and love, lift us, we pray, to your presence, where we may be still and know that you are God. Bless us with the patience to let you work in our hearts so that in your time, we may discern what you would have us do. Then help us to do it with a grateful heart, that we may receive the true happiness that only you can give. Amen. 

Preach the Gospel at all Times; Use Words if Necessary

Preach the Gospel at all Times; Use Words if Necessary

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

I love this saying, attributed to Saint Francis because the challenge of my life lies not what I profess as a Christian, but in what I practice. They’re usually pretty much in sync in ministry, but not so much in the little stuff of everyday life. So if you want to see how I practice what I profess, take a ride with me in my car, live with me in my house, and go with me to a condo board meeting. That’s where the “love thy neighbor” commandment rubber hits the real-world road. That’s where I encounter the petty stuff that irks me. ME! That’s my ego, the thing that always gets in the way of God. There’s a saying that “ego” stands for “ease God out.” 

A wise man once told me, “Bob, I don’t have to like everyone but I do have to love them.” Indeed! We are all children of God and loved by God. So do I love or help someone by reacting negatively to them? By giving in to the temptation of self-righteous anger? By insisting on having the last word? Or can I try to be an example for them? 

Can I model God through a thoughtful response rather than a knee-jerk reaction? And how would I want to be treated if the situation were reversed? Jesus tells us, “You will know them by their fruits.” 

Is my tree displaying the fruits of God or the fruits of Bob? I still work at this. And I expect I’ll be working at it for the rest of my life. 

Let us pray: Merciful God, You love me beyond my comprehension – the same way You love all those who cross my path. Help me to show forth Your love not only with my lips, but in my life: in thought, word, and deed. Thank You for your patience with my human failings and Your forgiveness of them. Help me to do the same for others, that I may pay forward all the love, forgiveness, grace, and mercy You have blessed me with. Amen. 

Dealing with Worry

Dealing with Worry

Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Friend of Dial Hope, how are you dealing with worry? Worry is a major contributor to physical illness. But we must not confuse worry with concern. We should be concerned about the conditions of the world, the plight of the poor, the diseased, the abuse of children. We should be concerned about our health. Sometimes worry is destructive. God’s resources are at our own disposal, and God is anxious to help, for worry cannot live in an atmosphere saturated with God’s unconditional love. Remember these words of scripture, the Bible, which I call the Manufacturer’s Handbook: 

Do not worry about anything, but in everything, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your own requests be made to God (Philippians 4:6). 
I will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:15). 
Cast all your anxiety on God … because God cares for you (l Peter 5:7). 
My grace is sufficient for you (Il Corinthians 12:9). 
We know that all things work together for good for those who love God (Romans 8:28). 
The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid (Hebrews 13:6). 

Friend of Dial Hope, when you and God are working together, you can live without worry! 

Let us pray: God of gentle dreams and awesome space, cultivate in our hearts a faith that is tall and sure. Create in us a spirit that overcomes hopelessness. No mind is without doubt or worry and we would not ask for that. May we believe enough in your Spirit of Grace to risk the hurt of love in order to find the joy of love. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

The Face of Christ

The Face of Christ

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

Years ago, when I was based in New York City, I was walking along East 22nd Street one night when I noticed a homeless man standing outside a diner. His legs gave out from under him and down he went. Another man got to him first, and between the two of us, we got him up on his feet again. He was drunk. And I looked into his eyes which were filled with tears, and he said “thank you.” Just, “thank you.” Yet I will never forget that moment and I will never forget that face because it was the face of Christ. It wasn’t until bedtime that something clicked and I remembered: “Inasmuch as you have done it to one the least of these, my brothers, you have done it to me.” 

How easy it is for me to judge based on appearances. I’ve worked with the addicted and with the homeless and with the mentally ill but despite their appearance and behavior, they are all children of God and respond to kindness and caring. Think of the people Jesus helped: prostitutes, crazy folks, lepers, the man with a withered hand – certainly considered “the least of these” in his time. We don’t need to be saints, but it’s okay to try a bit. I don’t grow much as a Christian (or a person) by just hanging out in my comfort zone. 

Let us pray: Beloved, help us to do our best to treat others as you have taught us to. To ask for your help to move outside our comfort zone and to be an example of the Kingdom of God to those for whom it seems lost. Help us to realize that it’s not what we pray, but what we are that allows you to live in the world. Amen.

The Blessin’ Business

The Blessin’ Business

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

I never know when and how God is going to bless me. Forget the big stuff (blinding lights, thunderclaps, etc.) because, like Elijah experienced, God most often comes as a “still, small voice” – and that voice often is another of God’s children (that would be any one of you). 

A few years ago, one of the women I was ministering to was 95 and slowly failing. She was the granddaughter of slaves, one of 19 children, and mother to 14 of her own! Her deteriorating vision prevented her from reading, so I read scripture to her, and we talked, and then we prayed. At one point, she told me at length about the many reasons she feels blessed by God, despite an often challenging life. When she finished, I took her hands and we prayed a prayer of thanksgiving. When I finished, she held onto my hands and began to sing … “May the good Lord bless and keep you,” in her still-firm alto voice, and sang it through to the end. I could feel the presence of God as strongly as I ever have, and, with tears in my eyes, I thanked her. And she said, “Well, I guess God’s still in the blessin’ business.” 

My friends, how might you and I reach out today and bless someone with a kind word or deed, a smile, a silent prayer for them, or just by being there for them? 

Let us pray: God of our earthly pilgrimage, we thank you for all your goodness and loving-kindness. Help us to overcome our problems and trials so that we can show forth our gratitude and praise not only with our lips but in our lives, by sharing with others your love, grace, and blessing. Help us this day to honor you by speaking lovingly and acting kindly, through Him who blessed us beyond comprehension. Amen. 

Hope That Overflows

Hope That Overflows

Today’s message was written by Guest Pastor, Chaplin Bob Griffiths.

Poet Emily Dickinson wrote that “Hope is the thing with feathers/That perches in the soul,” where it sings without pause. She tells us that it sounds sweetest “in the gale” and that she’s heard it “in the chillest land and on the strangest sea.” How beautifully she describes the nature of hope, which often seems a fragile thing, but which endures through any storm we may be buffeted by as promised repeatedly in scripture. In the darkest times of my life, I’ve sometimes been unable to hear that inextinguishable song, until I again unstop the ears of my heart through prayer, faith, and trust. 

Paul writes frequently about hope in his letters; it is central to his understanding of faith. My favorite passage about hope is found in Romans 15:13, and in my favorite translation, it reads “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace through your faith in Him until, by the power of the Holy Spirit, you overflow with hope!” I pray that prayer every evening, so that when the dark times do come, it is lodged firmly in my heart, and helps me to know that the love of God and the hope He promises are inextinguishable. 

Let us pray: God of hope, fill our hearts today with the sure knowledge of your love for us so that in the dark times of our life, we will know to the depths of our being that we are not alone and that you are always with us. May we give you thanks always for this extraordinary gift. Amen.