Religious (in a good way)

Religious (in a good way)

Something I hear often from my friends outside the church is: I’m spiritual but not religious. I’m sure you’ve heard this too. I even said it myself. And usually, it is said meaning: I’m not into all the rules of religion. I’m not into the institution. But what’s missing is that word religion actually has a powerful origin. It comes from the Latin re-ligio – to re-ligament – to reconnect – to reconnect with God. In many major world religions, especially Judaism and Christianity, there is a strong emphasis on reconnecting with other human beings as a way of reconnecting with God.

In that sense, I want to be religious. I want to play a role in reconnecting people with each other and with God. The truth is we need more people like that. With all the hatred and divisiveness in the world around us, we need more people who are willing to take risks and work outside the cultural scripts that encourage polarization. We need more people who see the value and the potential in every human life. We need more people to build bridges. May God give us such compassion, creativity, and courage.

Let us pray: God of Grace, may your Spirit wash over us anew this day. Heal us and renew us that we might be people of healing and grace. Give us eyes to your image in each and every person we meet. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

For What May I Hope?

For What May I Hope?

Today I would like to say a special word of thanks to those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. Your gifts make this ministry possible!

German philosopher Immanuel Kant, tells us that there are three questions that humanity has always been asking: “What can I know? What shall I do? And for what may I hope?” It is this third question that hits right at the heart of our faith. For what may I hope? 

Maybe you’ve wondered about hope watching the news this week. Maybe you’ve wondered about hope if you’re struggling in a relationship, or if you are worried about your job or your finances. Maybe you’ve wondered: for what may I hope?

In the book of Jeremiah, God asks the question: Is anything too hard for me?

Biblical scholar, Walter Brueggemann, makes the claim that this really is the fundamental question. And every one of us must answer it, not lightly or easily. Because how we answer determines everything else.

I pray for you the faith of our scriptures – that you would come to see that nothing is impossible for the Lord. Not that God is going to give you everything you desire. No. But, that God has the power to bring about a surprising future – a radical reversal of the present reality; and that no matter what your situation, God is with you. That is our hope. 

Let us pray: Merciful God, it is often only looking back that we see how you bring beauty and strength and new life even out of the darkest situations. In this moment, grant us faith to claim your promise that all things are possible with you. May this hope be ours. And in light of this hope, may we have the courage and the power to live differently. Amen.

Forgiveness

Forgiveness

In one of his sermons, Pastor Scott Hoezee told about an interesting study on forgiveness conducted by the Templeton Foundation in cooperation with the University of Michigan and the National Institute for Mental Health. According to this study, 75% of Americans are “very confident” that they have been forgiven by God for their past offenses. Surprisingly this is true even of those who don’t have much to do with God otherwise.

“The picture was less bright, however, when it came to interpersonal relations,” claimed Hoezee. Only about half of the people surveyed said that they had completely forgiven others.  

Most interesting to me is something else the study found. Where forgiveness does take place, there is a link between forgiveness and better health. “The more prone a person is to grant forgiveness, the less likely he or she will suffer from any stress‑related illnesses.” 

I am grateful that most people sense God’s grace. The scriptures teach us that God is a God of forgiveness and mercy, abounding in steadfast love. But they also teach us that in some ways, our ability to accept God’s forgiveness is tied to our own capacity to forgive. 

Jesus once said, “If you forgive other people when they sin against you, your Heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” (Matthew 6:14-15)

My prayer for you today is that you would let go of any grudges, bitterness, or resentment you may be carrying. Remember life is short, and we only hurt ourselves by nursing our anger. Forgive others and allow God’s grace to wash over you – even now.

Let us pray: Have mercy on us, Loving God. Help us to let go of any burdens that we carry or any past mistakes or failures that we can’t seem to let go of. May your forgiveness and grace wash over us. And then, Gracious God, help us to forgive with the forgiveness we ourselves have received, that new beginnings may be ours through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Callings that Speak to the Presence of God

Callings that Speak to the Presence of God

In an interview shortly before his death, John O’Donahue said, “It’s beautiful when you find someone at work who’s doing exactly what they dreamed they should be doing and whose work is an expression of their inner gift. And in witnessing to that gift and bringing it out, they actually provide an incredible service to us all. And I think you see that the gifts that are given to us as individuals are not for us alone, or for our own self-improvement, but they’re actually for the community and to be offered to others.”

I think about a man I knew from another church who was a retired CPA. And he was passionate about helping young couples find a way to live debt-free – helping them with plans to get out of debt and stay that way. With his help, I saw so many couples strengthened in their marriage, able to become more generous, and actually pass on a new way of being to their children.

I think about a woman named Jacki whom I met at a Continuing Ed. Conference years ago. She was a former Miss Florida Contestant, who worked in the beauty industry – and she felt God calling her to begin a ministry to offer facials, manicures, makeup, and even clothes to women who had been physically or emotionally abused.

I think about Barbara Enos and Bonnie McCarty from my church who make “Prayer Quilts,” for veterans, women in shelters, and for folks in need. I think about so many others of you…who have sensed a calling one way or another and who have responded.  

Whether you experience a calling like this as a tug on your hearts or a stirring in your souls – or whether you clearly hear God’s voice, or are moved by the cries of human need, or whether you just sense in your heart: this is one thing I can do right now (however small it might be), these callings speak to the presence of caring God, a loving God, a God who Spirit is deep at work within us – moving us, compelling us to reach out to the places where grace is most needed.

May you and I, ever be open to these callings. May we use the time and the experience and the gifts we have to bless a world desperately in need. 

Let us pray: We thank you O God, for glimpses of your Spirit at work in and through others. Be at work in us too. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Asking Good Questions

Asking Good Questions

A friend once asked Isidor Rabi, a Nobel prize winner in science, how he became a scientist. Rabi replied that every day after school his mother would talk to him about his school day. She wasn’t so much interested in what he had learned that day, but she always inquired, “Did you ask a good question today?” Without a doubt, asking good questions, helped Rabi succeed.

Questions are essential to science. They are also essential to life and to faith. 

In one of his books, pastor Rob Bell writes, “Some communities don’t permit open, honest inquiry about the things that matter most. Lots of people have voiced a concern, expressed a doubt, or raised a question, only to be told by their family, church, friends, or tribe: We don’t discuss those things here.”

“I believe the discussion itself is divine. Abraham does his best to bargain with God, most of the book of Job consists of arguments by Job and his friends about the deepest questions of human suffering, God is practically on trial in the book of Lamentations, and Jesus responds to almost every question he’s asked with…a question.”

My prayer today is this: May your family, church, friends, or tribe be a community open to honest discussion. May you ask good questions, and trust that God’s Spirit is at work within them.

Let us pray: Eternal God, You are holy, and You are a mystery. And yet, You are loving and as near as our next breath. We can’t always understand why things happen the way they do. And we don’t always have all the answers. Being human, we do ask for insight. But above all, we ask for your grace and peace. Give us the faith and the courage we need to face the hour – trusting that you are with us even now. Amen

God’s Management

God’s Management

Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

We often see a sign over stores reading “under new management.” Friend of Dial Hope, when God takes over the management of our lives we may still blunder, and we may still present the same old face to the world, but there is hope of a new beat, a new spirit, a new honesty, a new reality. Wherever we are on our spiritual journey, may we put our lives “under new management – God’s management.” And remember, God has blessed us so we may be a blessing to others. Now make this day a masterpiece… With God’s help. 

Let us pray: “Take my life and let it be consecrated Lord to thee. Take my moments and my days; let them flow in ceaseless praise. Let them flow in ceaseless praise. Take my will and make it Thine; It shall be no longer mine. Take my heart, it is Thine own; It shall be Thy royal throne.” Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Altar

The Altar

One of my favorite poets is George Herbert who wrote in the early 1600s. He received an elite education at Cambridge and could have taken a powerful government position in England. Instead, he took a minor office in the church serving as a local country pastor. He cared deeply for those most in need and was much beloved by his parishioners. He was also a master poet.

His poem The Altar, draws heavily on scripture, including God’s command to Moses to build an alter using uncut stones. For Herbert, this altar becomes the human heart as in Psalm 51. I share this beautiful poem with you today:

A broken ALTAR, Lord, thy servant rears,
Made of a heart, and cemented with tears.
Whose parts are as thy hand did frame;
No workman’s tool hath touched the same.

A heart alone
Is such a stone,
As nothing but
Thy power doth cut.
Wherefore each part
Of my hard heart
Meets in this frame,
To praise thy name:

That, if I chance to hold my peace,
These stones to praise thee may not cease.
Oh let thy blessed SACRIFICE be mind,
And sanctify this ALTAR to be thine.

Let us pray: Take my life, and let it be consecrated, Lord to thee. Loving God, we give you our hearts, we give you our hands, we give you our very lives again this day. Through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Making All Things New

Making All Things New

Several years ago now, I was jogging with a friend. He and his wife had recently lost a baby during their pregnancy. I can only imagine all the emotions he must have been experiencing. But as we were running, he said, “I’ve always struggled with the Christian theme of redemption – understanding what it means. But recently I think I got a glimpse. On the one hand, this has been the hardest thing that my wife and I have ever gone through. On the other hand, because we are going through this together, we have experienced a level of closeness and intimacy that I didn’t know was possible. I think we realized more than ever how fragile life is and how much we really need each other.”

His comments made me reflect on redemption and the way that life is layered. There is so much that is good and true and beautiful. And that often sits right alongside the heartache and violence and brokenness. But sometimes we do get a glimpse of the way in which God can bring good out of bad, beauty out of ugly, light out of the dark.

Psalm 30 makes the powerful claim that “With God, there is great power to redeem.” This is not a promise that life will be smooth or without suffering. But it is a promise that things will not always be as they are today. There is hope. God will have the last word. 

Let us pray: Today, loving God, I lift up to you those who are carrying heavy burdens. For those who feel as though they are in the midst of the darkest night. Meet them at this moment that they would sense your loving presence. Grant each of us today eyes to see your hand at work in our lives – even now; for you are the God who has promised to make all things new. Amen.

For God so Loved the World

For God so Loved the World

A few years ago, at our annual Dial Hope “Friendraiser,” we had astronaut and artist Nicole Stott come to speak. She was super inspiring! In addition to flying on the Space Shuttle, Nicole spent 3 months onboard the International Space Station. She told us that looking back at the view of our planet from outer space was breathtaking. This view also made it clear that in so many ways, our life as human beings is shared… We are tied together in more ways than we can ever begin to imagine. And before we are any other label, truly we are all earthlings.  

I love that!

All of this reminds me of that beloved passage of scripture from John 3:16, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son…” Notice John did not write, “For God so loved the Presbyterians…” Nor did he write, “For God so loved the liberals.” Or, for God so loved the conservatives.” No. John writes, for God so loved… the world…. 

As those who follow Jesus, may we find ways to love the world as he loved it.  

Let us pray: We thank you, Loving God, for creating this beautiful planet on which we live and make our way through life together. We thank you for science and the ability to glimpse our world from your perspective. Above all, we thank you for your love for each and every one of us. Help us to accept that love and share it. We pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.

In the Wilderness

In the Wilderness

Harry Emerson Fosdick was a great preacher. Later in his career, he was called to pastor Riverside Church in New York City. The stress of pastoring this large church which was backed by the Rockefeller family and fortune, eventually caused Fosdick to have a nervous breakdown.

Fosdick once wrote, ”It was the most terrifying wilderness I ever traveled through. I dreadfully wanted to commit suicide but instead made some of the most vital discoveries of my life. My little book, The Meaning of Prayer, would never have been written without that breakdown. I found God in a desert.” 

Fosdick’s witness doesn’t surprise me. I have heard story after story from people who grew deeply during wilderness times in their lives. 

In his book, Deep Rooted in Christ, pastor and scholar Joshua Kang reminds us, “The wilderness is a place where God blesses and trains his people… In the desert, those who have trusted only in themselves and others learn to put their trust in God… (In life) we all face suffering, confusion, shattering, failure and self-abandonment. But that’s where servants of God are made. They all go through transformation, and on the other side find themselves persons of prayer, the Word, and the Holy Spirit. 

When you find yourself in the wilderness of life, may you hold onto hope. Don’t give in to bitterness or despair. But instead, notice God’s Spirit breathing into you courage and strength and new life – even now.

Our prayer today was written by the late Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of the Dial Hope Foundation. Let us pray: Loving God, who watches over us in the restlessness of the night and whose arms are around us when we feel alone, unworthy, and unlucky, teach us how to live with the special feeling of grace abounding. Open our hearts to know your transforming and redemptive love. Mold us now in the image of your Son Jesus, in whose name we pray. Amen.