Arm in Arm (He Cares for You)

Arm in Arm (He Cares for You)

Today’s message was written by Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Friend of Dial Hope, do you sometimes feel like your problems are so overwhelming that you can barely keep your head above water? In the Bible, God tells you to cast “all your care upon him,” knowing he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:7) 

One of the most dramatic examples in the Bible of casting yourself upon God is Peter’s attempt to walk on water. It was liquid pavement beneath his feet. When Jesus bid Peter to come to him, Peter quickly stepped out of the boat, and, with his eyes on the Lord, he began to walk. But then he looked around at the heavy seas. Terrified, he began to sink. “Save me, Lord!” he shouted. Immediately, Jesus was beside Peter. And, arm in arm, they walked on the water to the boat. Like Peter, if you get your eyes off your source and onto your impossible situation, you’re sunk. But, if you keep your eyes on Jesus and walk arm in arm with him, you’ll be safe…because Jesus specializes in meeting human needs. Whatever is over your head in the way of problems is already under his feet. It’s in his control! Remember: “Cast all your anxiety, your care on him, because he cares for you.” (l Peter 5:7) 

Let us pray: God of love, who came into the world clothed in our garment of flesh and who willingly gave yourself to the cross, clothe us in your Spirit that persons will recognize you in us and receive your great gift of unconditional love and amazing grace. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Wells of Guidance, Healing, Refreshment

Wells of Guidance, Healing, Refreshment

There’s an old apocryphal story about a photographer assigned by a national magazine to take pictures of a forest fire. The assignment editor told him a small plane would be waiting at the airport to fly him over the fire. The photographer arrived at the airstrip just an hour before sundown. Sure enough, a small Cessna airplane stood waiting. He jumped in with his equipment and shouted, “Let’s go!” The pilot, a tense-looking man, turned the plane into the wind, and soon they were in the air but flying quite erratically.

Not paying too much attention to how the pilot was flying, the photographer directed him. “Fly over the north side of the fire, and make several low-level passes.” Looking at the smoke and blazing fire, the nervous pilot exclaimed, “Are you sure? Why would you want me to do that?” “Because I’m going to take pictures!” yelled the photographer. “I’m a photographer, and photographers take pictures.” With an even more worried look on his face, the pilot replied, “You mean you’re not the flight instructor?”

The story is funny, and sure enough, there are times in life when we make mistakes. Sometimes grave mistakes. It is in moments like these when the foundation of our faith makes all the difference when what we believe comes to bear. Without faith, we feel lost, without mooring, without guidance.

The poet and philosopher John O’Donahue once said, “…for parenting, for relationships, and for all the domains of our endeavor and work, to have access to a religious tradition is a huge, strengthening, critical resource, which keeps you wide awake and makes you ask yourself the hard questions.”

It can keep you from becoming in-grown and bitter… or cynical and hardened. It can keep you open and generous. And it can keep you from losing your bearings. 

O’Donohue went on to say, “…it is not that our tradition doesn’t have dark passages in it. But, there are also zones of great light and immense wells of refreshment and healing. And it’s a critical question, always, for somebody who wants to have a mature adult faith, to conduct the most vigorous and relentless conversation that you can with your own tradition, to mine and excavate it for the huge reserve of resources of spirit and guidance…”

I pray today that you and I would draw deeply from the immense wells of refreshment, guidance, and healing within our own traditions. And as we do, whether we are facing moments of crisis, danger, loneliness, or despair, or whether we are celebrating or even just muddling through the middles, may we find that our lives are rooted and grounded in the heart and presence of Christ who loves us.

Let us pray: Loving God, create in us the desire to know you more deeply and love you more fully. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen. 

Do Not Fear

Do Not Fear

One summer evening during a violent thunderstorm, a mother was tucking her small boy into bed. She was about to turn off the light when he asked with a tremor in his voice, “Mommy, will you sleep with me tonight?’ The mother smiled and gave him a reassuring hug. “I can’t dear,” she said, “I have to sleep in bed with your daddy.” A long silence was broken at last by a shaky little voice saying, “Oh. That big baby!”

Like the boy, so often we find ourselves afraid of the unknown. What will the diagnosis be? What will happen to this relationship? Will I still have a job? Will my loved one be alright?

Do you know what the most frequent command is in the Bible? You would think it would be: love God or love your neighbor. According to Jesus, those are the greatest commandments, but, they are not the most frequent. The most frequent command is, “Fear not!” Far more than any other command, over and over we read the words, “Fear not.” Fear not.

Psalm 46 reminds us: God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.

Therefore, we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea.

Let us pray: Loving God, we admit that when we face difficult, confusing, scary circumstances in life. It is often hard to trust you. Fear rises up in us, and our minds are drawn to the worst possible outcome. Reassure us this day with your presence. Help us to trust that in life and in death, we belong to you. We remember that you are Love, and so we claim the promise of 1John 4:18, that perfect love casts out fear. In the midst of whatever we face in life, cast out our fear and help us to trust, through Jesus Christ. Amen.  

Being Prayed For

Being Prayed For

About a month ago, a young woman came by our church to ask for help. We sat down to talk and she shared with me that she and her boyfriend had been living in his car for the last several nights. They had lost their apartment and were trying to scrape up enough money to get back into some sort of rental. They were still trying to keep their jobs but had nowhere to take showers. She also said she was scared of sleeping in the car. 

Over the years of ministry, I’ve heard a lot of stories. Some of them I’m sure were true, and some of them were cons. I am always aware of that possibility, but I always try to help if I can. You just never know.

In this case, we did not have the resources to help much. But I was able to give her some gift cards to a local grocery store. As she was getting up to leave, she said, “Please pray for us.” I asked if she wanted me to pray for her right then, and she said, “Yes.” And so I prayed.

After the prayer, she looked up and said, “So, that’s what it feels like to be prayed for.” And she smiled.

The problems that young woman faced were deep. And I know that one prayer may not change the struggles she faces. But her response did remind me about the power of prayer, and the power of praying for someone else.  

I wonder who you know who could use a prayer. I wonder who you could be praying for today.

Let us pray: Keep us open, O God, to those most in need. May we ever be looking for ways to help them with our resources. And, may we never fail to lift them up to you in prayer. We trust you again with our own lives. And we ask you to continue to work healing and grace in us so that we might be agents of that same blessing to others. We pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Longing to Be Free

Longing to Be Free

Poet and educator Archibald Rutledge once told a story about the time he caught a baby mockingbird and tried to keep it for a pet. He put it in a small cage outside. On the second day in the cage, the young mockingbird’s mother flew to her baby with food in her bill. 

Rutledge said he was so pleased. He thought surely the mama would know how to feed her baby better than he did. But the following morning, he found the baby bird was dead. 

When he later shared this experience with a friend who was a well-known ornithologist, the ornithologist explained: A mother mockingbird, finding her young in a cage, will sometimes take it poison berries. She thinks it better for one she loves to die rather than to live in captivity.  

While the story is sad, it also speaks to a deeper truth: every creature longs to be free. It is part of how God created us. As a pastor, I meet too many people who carry guilt and shame around with them like a ton of bricks. They cling to the past and can’t let go.

In the New Testament, in the first letter of John, we read, “If we say that we are without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.” But John doesn’t leave it there. He adds, “But if we confess our sin, God who is faithful and just will forgive us our sin and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Today, may you bring your past, your burdens, your confession to God. If you need to make amends, do so. But then, may you let go and trust that you are indeed forgiven.

Let us pray: God of grace, we bring to you even now the burdens of our hearts… Help us to trust you – for we know that you are a God of mercy and compassion and steadfast love. May your healing grace wash over us anew. We pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Power in Weakness

Power in Weakness

In his second letter to the Corinthians, the Apostle Paul writes about experiencing what he called “a thorn in the flesh.” We don’t know exactly what that was, but most scholars believe that Paul was most likely dealing with some physical ailment. The word Paul uses for torment, means excruciating pain.

Three times, Paul pleaded with the Lord to remove it. But the Lord said, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” (2Corinthians 12:7)

Power out of weakness? Have you ever experienced that?

I think about how in moments of weakness – there is less pride in us, less willfulness, less self to get in the way, and therefore, more room for God’s Spirit to do a new thing. I think about how in moments of weakness, and vulnerability, we develop a deeper sense of compassion for others. We begin to know personally what it’s like…

I think about the way in which God can and does use the broken, the hurting, the heartbroken places of the world to be seedbeds of new life. I think about the people I know who have used their own personal experiences to overcome struggles and who then reach out to help the next person through.

I think about the cross.

Paul’s rivals believed that God’s power was best seen in the claiming of status, accomplishments, and might. But Paul saw it differently. In this same letter, he writes to the Corinthians that he did not come with lofty words of wisdom. He admits that he often found himself in humbling – if not humiliating circumstances. He said he made no credible defense when he was among them. He acknowledges that he took on demeaning work. His opponents labeled him weak in bodily presence. 

And yet, Paul says, it is precisely in this weakness that you can see God’s power. Just look at what God has done through this one broken man. Just look at what God has done through one broken man the cross.

I don’t know where you may be experiencing weakness in your own life. I don’t know what you may be struggling with in your faith, in your ministries, or in your relationships.

But as you continue on this great pilgrimage of faith, may you hear again the Lord’s words to Paul, “My grace is sufficient for you…(whatever the outcome,) for my power is made perfect in weakness.”

Let us pray: God of Grace, take our weakness, our hurts, our burdens, and heal what you will. Grant us courage and strength. And give us a heart to trust that you are at work even in our brokenness, even now, to make all things new. Amen.

You Were with Me Even When…

You Were with Me Even When…

Several years ago, I invited a congregation I was serving to complete the following statement in writing:

God, you were with me even when…

Many were willing to write their responses and have them read in worship. I’d like to share some of these with you now:

God you were with me even when: I lay having radiation treatment in a room where no other human being could be, I felt you with me.

God, you were with me even when: As a new pilot in World War II, the engine on my training plane quit on a night flight. Suddenly, a light showed me the way to the airbase, and I landed with no power.

God, you were with me even when: My marriage seemed hopeless. You restored and healed us and gave us hope to continue to try.

God, you were with me even when: My son Ian died at age 25.

God, you were with me even when My husband of almost 30 years left me for a much younger woman… and I didn’t want to go on living. You stood by me through my pain and didn’t let me die.

God, you were with me even when: We lost our business and went through financial hardship. You helped us see all the important things in our life such as our family… You taught us to be less judgmental of others. Through this time you also strengthened our marriage and our faith in you.

God, you were with me even when: No one else was.

Let us pray: Loving God, You have promised never to leave us or forsake us. Even when things are at their worst, you are there. We thank you for the witness of others who have been through the darkest of nights and who found you faithful. Open our hearts to your presence with us even now. Amen.

Holy Ground – Beethoven’s Piano

Holy Ground – Beethoven’s Piano

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A young woman stood before Beethoven’s piano in a Vienna museum. Presently she struck a few discordant notes. “I suppose,” she said to an attendant, “that many noted musicians have inspected this instrument.” “Oh, yes,” replied the man. “Recently Paderewski was here.” “Paderewski!” exclaimed the visitor. “Certainly, he must have played something wonderful.” “On the contrary, he did not feel worthy to touch it.” 

Friend of Dial Hope, wherever you are, this very moment – in a hospital bed, driving to work, your home, your place of business, a payphone, a helicopter over Iraq – you are on holy ground. It is holy because God is with you! Whether your heart is smiling or sad, whether you are lonely or afraid, whether you are hurting, whether you are celebrating – God is as close to you as breathing, nearer than hands or feet. Remember, God loves you just the way you are, but God refuses to leave you there. God wants you to have a heart like his. God wants you to be just like Jesus. Let today be a day filled with joy, hope, and contagious enthusiasm. 

Let us pray: God of love, we await the miracle of your grace in this time of prayer. Change the chemistry of our doubts and discouragements into a willingness to live the venture of faith. Give us the spontaneous emotion of a child of faith. In the name of the risen Christ. Amen. 

Fearfully and Wonderfully Made

Fearfully and Wonderfully Made

There is a story about a young girl who was sitting on her grandfather’s lap as he read her a bedtime story. From time to time, she would take her eyes off the book and reach up to touch his wrinkled cheek. She was alternately stroking her own cheek and then his again. 

Finally, she spoke up, “Grandpa, did God make you?” “Yes, sweetheart,” he answered, “God made me a long time ago.” “Oh,” she paused. “Grandpa, did God make me too?” “Yes, indeed, honey,” he said, “God made you just a little while ago.” Feeling their respective faces again, she said, God’s getting better at this, isn’t he?

The story is funny. But it’s not true. It is not true because younger is not better. God created us. God created us to look one way as a little girl or boy, but we were not created to look that way forever. 

I think about the message that we get from our culture, television, the internet, magazines, billboards, and radio. Every day we are bombarded with the notion that we must look a certain way in order to be happy, to be accepted, to be loved. The advertisements declare that we must have bright white teeth, a full head of hair (no grey), a slim waist, perfect legs and feet that don’t stink… if we are to be loved.

But it is just not true. The Bible tells us that we are made in God’s own image. God’s love is unconditional – not based on merit, age, weight, skin color, or looks. 

Today, let us reclaim the Psalmist prayer from Psalm 139, “It was you who formed me, Lord… I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”  

Let us pray: Loving God, we pray today, especially for those who are struggling with self-image. We recognize that it is hard to love our neighbors when we can scarcely love ourselves. Wash over each of us with your grace. Remind us that it was you who formed us, and that we are fearfully and wonderfully made – in your own image. Amen.

Finding and Losing

Finding and Losing

There is an old story about two friends who loved baseball so much that they were not sure at all they wanted to spend eternity in heaven unless they could play baseball.

They had an agreement that the first one who died would find a way to get a message back to earth, letting the other know whether baseball was in heaven or not. Sure enough one day John died, and of course, Jim grieved. He grieved for days. He was deeply saddened over his friend’s death. About two weeks went by, and then it happened. Jim was awakened in the middle of the night by the calling of his name, “Jim, Jim, Jim, wake up! This is John.” “John, where are you?”

“I’m in heaven – and I have some good news and bad news. It’s exciting, Jim. We do have baseball in heaven. It’s great. We play every day and there are marvelous teams, and tough, exciting competition.” “That’s great,” said Jim. “But what’s the bad news?”

“Well,” said John, “The bad news is, you are scheduled to pitch next Tuesday.”

It is beautiful to me that there are aspects of life that are so wonderful, so compelling that we don’t ever want them to end. It is beautiful when we find something that gives our life enjoyment.

One of the things I enjoy most in life is surfing – being out on the water in God’s creation gives me a sense of renewal and joy. And, I certainly hope there is good surfing in heaven! But I have also found that surfing alone is not enough to give life meaning or purpose or depth. Even secular philosophers like Will Durant claim that in order for life to take on meaning, it has to find a purpose larger than itself.

Jesus once told his disciples, that those who try to save their lives will lose them, but those who lose their lives for his sake would find them. That is a paradox and hard to get my mind around. However, I do find it to be true that there is something about sacrificing for others and giving of ourselves that is healing and redemptive. 

May you and I ever be looking for opportunities, small and large, to serve others. And in doing so, may we find that we are taking hold of the life that is truly life.

Let us pray: Dear God, give us eyes to see the world as you see it. Give us a heart to break at the things that break your heart. And then, O God, help us not to duck – but to act! Amen.