Just a Beginning

Just a Beginning

There’s the story told among the German Baptist Brethren, about a man who resisted the call of God for decades before finally giving his life to Christ. As was the custom, he was baptized on Christmas Day. The minister broke the ice on the surface of the pond, then dunked the man in the frigid water three times, in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. As he came up spluttering and gasping he shouted in triumph, “At last! It’s over.”

The minister smiled and said, “No, brother. It’s just beginning.”

Whatever else the baptism is, it is not an ending, but a beginning. I’ll never forget when my daughter Marley was baptized as a baby, our pastor said to her, “You have the rest of your life to live out the meaning of this day.

That is true because the life of faith is an on-going journey. For most of the world’s religions – including Christianity – faith is not just about what happens to us when we die. It is all about our life today – right now! How we live.

Today, whatever your faith or background, may you make the most of each and every moment. Infuse this day with the grace that God has given you. Love deeply, give generously and hold on to hope no matter what.

When we put our faith into practice, it adds meaning and depth to our lives.

Let us pray: Loving God, sometimes in life our faith gets pushed to the side. We hold it in reserve until we think we need it. But we know that you want so much more for us.  Help us to live what we believe. In doing so, may we experience the fullness of your joy. Amen.

The Still Small Voice

The Still Small Voice

Philip Yancey tells the story of a friend of his who went swimming in a large lake at dusk: “As he was paddling at a leisurely pace about a hundred yards offshore, a freak evening fog rolled in across the water. Suddenly he could see nothing: no horizon, no landmarks, no objects or lights on the shore. Because the fog diffused all light, he could not even make out the direction of the setting sun.”

Yancey writes that his friend splashed about in absolute panic. “He would start off in one direction, lose confidence, and turn 90 degrees to the right. Or left – it made no difference which way he turned. He could feel his heart racing uncontrollably. He would stop and float, trying to conserve energy and force himself to breathe slower. Then he would blindly strike out again. At last, he heard a faint voice calling from shore. He pointed his body to the sounds and followed them to safety.”

Reflecting on Yancey’s story, my prayer for you is this: When the storms of life set in, when you feel lost or afraid, when all directions seem hopeless, may you hear the still small voice of God calling your name.

In Psalm 46 we read:

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, though the mountains shake in the heart of the sea.

And then, in verse 10:

Be still and know that I am God.

Let us pray: We love you, Lord, and we trust that you hold us close. Even through the darkest night and the deepest valley, you are there. We ask you to give us courage to face the moment. Form in us an inner strength and a faith strong enough to see us through any circumstance.  Keep us ever mindful of your blessings which surround us on every side – even today. Amen.

Community as a Quality of Heart

Community as a Quality of Heart

I was listening to an interview with Augustine Fuentes – who is a biologist and also a cultural anthropologist. Really fascinating. He was talking about how the very functioning of our neurobiological systems, our digestive system, the hormones, and enzymes – circulating throughout our bodies are deeply affected by our social interactions with others.

In other words, we have this built-in biological need to touch and be touched, to talk and debate and laugh together, to smile, and to interact in groups. From a biological standpoint – these things are central to our health.

He claimed that this “…just underscores why this pandemic, is so completely stressful to us on every single level, and at a physiological level, as well…This lack of connections, these distancing’s, even though they’re so important for overall health and for societal and economic health, we need to be aware that we have to find some way to keep social…”

We have to find some way to keep social – and yet still distance.

It’s been a really difficult year.  But there is a light at the end of the tunnel – thanks be to God. This time of physical distancing may go on for a while. But it will end.  There will come a time when we can be reconnected with extended family and friends.  There will come a time when we will reconnect in person with our church families.

In the meantime, there is a deeper tie that binds us together as a church family.

Spiritual giant and pastor Henri Nouwen once wrote: “We have to keep in mind that community, like solitude, is primarily a quality of the heart. While it remains true that we will never know what community is if we never come together in one place, community does not necessarily mean being physically together. We can well live in community while being physically alone…”

When it is the Spirit of God that unites us in community – when we bear another’s burdens, when we share in each other’s joys and sorrows, no distance of time or place can separate us.

Let us pray: Loving God, we pray today especially for those who feel alone.  May they feel our prayers and our love even now. And may they know your deep and abiding presence. We long for an end to this pandemic. And we trust our very lives again to your care. In Christ’s name we pray. Amen.

Simple Reminders

Simple Reminders

Throughout his garden and around his yard, my friend Hunter has painted pieces of driftwood. On top of the paint are written words such as Gratitude. Hope. Peace. These are simple reminders of where he wants his heart and mind to be at any given moment. It is amazing how well this works.

In his book, “Social Animal,” David Brooks bears out the science behind the power of suggestion. He asserts that behavioral economists have learned, “If you tell somebody stories about high achievement just before they perform some test or exercise, they will perform better than if you had not told them those stories. If you merely use the words “succeed, “master” and “achieve” in a sentence, they will (also) do better… On the other hand, if you play into negative stereotypes, they will do worse.”

Isn’t that interesting? The messages we surround ourselves with make a difference. The little things we hear from ourselves and others make a difference in how we live.

I wonder what messages you need to hear at this stage in your life.  What simple reminders could you place around your home, office, or garden to remember them?

Let us pray: Loving God, we remember that you have created us as complex and deep individuals and that we are capable of way more than we can ever begin to imagine. We do need your guidance. We need signposts and other people along the journey. We ask this not only for ourselves but for others – especially those who feel lost or far from you. Today, fill each of us with your grace that we may know your love for us at the very deepest part of our being. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

God’s Creative Activity

God’s Creative Activity

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

One of my favorite baseball stories is about three umpires who were discussing how they did their jobs, especially when they were working behind the plate, calling balls and strikes. The first umpire said, “Some of ’em are balls; some of ’em are strikes. But I calls ’em as I sees ’em.” The second one said, “Some of ’em are balls; some of ’em are strikes. But I calls ’em as they are.” The third one said, “Some of ’em are balls; some of ’em are strikes. But they ain’t nothin’ until I calls ’em.”

A sermon is in that story because it’s a parable about life. Each of those umpires tells us something about our relationship to the truth. (Read Matthew 16:13-16, 21-25; John 8:32). The third umpire is my favorite. Here is a man who creates truth by his word. When we create truth or meaning or relationships, we are sharing in God’s creative activity. Made in God’s image and likeness, we are all artists and creators. The Bible uses the metaphor or speech to describe God’s creation: “God said, ‘Let there be light;’ and there was light.” (Genesis 1:3) The parable of the umpires teaches us to never be afraid to call life as we see it, to express our love for God and our fellow human beings.

Let us pray: How great thou art, O God, without whose spirit nothing grows, without
whose love, we wither and fall away. We thank you for Jesus of Nazareth who leads us
in this way…

where to be great, one has to be humble,
where to be exalted, one has to serve,
and where to find life, one has to lose it.

Teach us that great truths are great simplicities. Awaken us today that we hear the
singing of trees and watch morning and night changing guard. Through the grace of
Jesus. Amen.

We Are in Charge of Our Attitudes

We Are in Charge of Our Attitudes

My friend Milton Fulton was the business administrator for a church I served in Jacksonville, Florida. His salary was a whopping one dollar a year! After a very successful career in the business world, he decided to use his retirement to serve the Lord by serving his church. So our family of faith benefited tremendously from his gifts and love of the Lord.

In Milton’s office on the bulletin board there was a single sheet of paper with the following paragraph centered on it:

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearances, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company… a church… a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude… I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you…

Let us pray: Gracious God, we thank you for people like Milton who give so generously of themselves. We thank you for their example of service. Remind us each day of your grace, fill us with your spirit, and empower us to choose to live fully – even in the face of great struggles. We know that with you we can face this world and its challenges with joy and hope. Use us again as instruments of your love, through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Let it Go

Let it Go

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev Amy Camp.

At a women’s’ retreat sometime back, a friend described an old army duffle bag that belonged to her father. The bag had been around the world several times, had seen many battles, been in many closets and attics through the years, and thus was well worn…It was stained, patched, and carried the unmistakable smell of mildew.

My friend said that she couldn’t remember when she started carrying this bag around with her; she just knew that she had been carrying it a very long time. Occasionally, she set it down, only to notice that after a while she had picked it up again. Even though it was smelly and gross, it was familiar. She had grown up with it. Some days it was so heavy that she could barely stand up much less move around with it. Other days it felt pretty light, and she only recognized its presence by its smell.

The longer she spoke of the duffle bag, the more I began to see it and smell it too.

Jesus offers us opportunities to give him our smelly duffle bags…“Come to me all who are carrying heavy baggage and I will give you rest.” (Matt 11:28)

Please pray with me: God of New Beginnings, we confess that we don’t know why we keep lugging around our baggage from the past. Perhaps because it’s so familiar, or because it’s too scary to think of life without it or maybe it’s because we need to blame someone or something for the problems we are having today. Help us to be free of everything that weighs us down. Help us to rest and find peace in you. Amen.

Both of Us Are Halloween

Both of Us Are Halloween

Today, I am deeply grateful to those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. Hope reaches others because of you. Thank you!

Two little neighbor girls about the same age, one Christian and one Jewish were constant companions. After one Easter holiday, the grandfather of the Christian girl asked her what her friend had received for Easter.—–The girl looked at her grandfather in surprise, and said, “But Grandpa, you should know that Becky is Jewish and she wouldn’t get anything for Easter.”—–Then she went on to explain patiently, “You see, I’m Easter and she’s Passover. I’m Christmas and she’s Hanukkah.” Then with a big smile, she added, “but I’m really glad that both of us are Halloween.”

In life, we do have differences with others; differences of opinion, differences of theology, differences in holidays, and even differences in deeply held beliefs. But, isn’t it beautiful that despite our differences, we can always find similarities – and sometimes even develop friendships. After all, we are all human, people God made, people God loves.

Let us pray: Creative God, we remember today that you invented all the colors of the rainbow – in their infinite shades and hues; you have called into being more than a million species of animals; and you made us in a variety of shapes, colors, and sizes. We praise you for the beautifully diverse world in which we live and find our place.   Today, we pray for those who are different from us. Help us to love them as you love them.  Fill us with your grace and peace, that it would be ours to share. Amen.

Bridge Builders

Bridge Builders

Today’s message was written by the late Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

In the New Testament, Jesus comforts the disturbed but he also disturbs the comfortable. Though he heals broken hearts, he also disturbs complacent minds and exposes narrowness, hypocrisy, prejudice, selfishness, and superficiality. He turns our world upside down. He startles and confounds and shakes us out of our prisons and knocks down the walls to divide us.

It’s surprising that even after 9/11/2001 people are still building walls – walls constructed of fear and pride and anxiety and prejudice – walls that separate people – walls that shut some in and shut others out. But Jesus Christ wants us to tear down our walls: he wants us to be bridge builders! St. Francis of Assisi sums it all up for us in his magnificent prayer:

Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled, as to console; to be understood, as to understand; to be loved, as to love. For it is in giving that we receive. And it is in dying, that we are born to eternal life.

Let us pray, With contagious enthusiasm, we await your surprises of grace. Be Thou our vision as we seek to make this day a masterpiece. Wrap your arms around your world with a mother’s fierce and tender care, and hold us close for a long long time. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

With Gratitude for the Time

With Gratitude for the Time

I was listening to a TED radio podcast not long ago, and I was struck by a New Orleans artist named Candy Chang who has a beautiful TED talk.  One day, not far from her home, she noticed an old abandoned building and thought about how she could take that building and make that a nicer space for her neighborhood.  She went on to say this, “…I also thought about something that changed my life forever. In 2009, I lost someone I loved very much… Her death was sudden and unexpected. And I thought about death a lot, and this made me feel deep gratitude for the time I’ve had and brought clarity to the things that are meaningful to my life now. But I struggle to maintain this perspective in my daily life. I feel like it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day and forget what really matters to you.”

After getting permission from the owners and the town, Chang covered one side of the abandoned building with chalkboard paint, creating a work of art out of an eyesore. Then she stenciled the words, “Before I die I want to_____(blank)___. She repeated this 80 times!

Then, she placed a bucket of chalk near the wall. Before she even finished the project, people were stopping by asking if they could contribute. One of the first people to do so was a man dressed as a pirate. He finished the sentence, “Before I die, I want to be tried for piracy.”

Others wrote:  Before I die, I want to straddle the International Date Line… Before I die, I want to sing for millions… Before I die, I want to plant a tree… Before I die, I want to hold her one more time… Before I die, I want to be completely myself…

It is beautiful to me that the wall actually didn’t make people think about death so much as it made them think about life…. It caused many people to focus on the things in life that really matter.

Earlier in the month, I quoted Psalm 90 which prays: “Teach me to count my days that I may gain a wise heart.” With gratitude for the gift of life and the time I’ve been given, I close with that same prayer.

Let us pray: Eternal God, before whom generations rise and fall, as we sit on the edge of this new year, I pray with the psalmist that you would teach me to count my days… Teach me to count my days that my perspective might be restored… Teach me to count my days, that I might be reminded again of those things that bring deeper richer meaning to life. Teach me to count my days that I might remember who I am – and who’s I am – in the grand scope of eternity. Teach me to count my days that I might be more truly grateful for the gift of the time I have left.  Teach me – teach us – to count our days that we may gain a wise heart. We ask in Christ’s name. Amen.