Rest, Risk, and Leave Behind

Rest, Risk, and Leave Behind

Today’s message was written by Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A group of sociologists once conducted a survey among 50 elderly people in a retirement community. Each was asked to complete an open-ended sentence. “If I had to do it over again, I would ___________.” Three main answers emerged. One, I would reflect more. Two, I would risk more. Three, I would do more things that would live on after I am dead.  That’s something to think about. How reflective are you? Do you move through life at such a hectic pace that you never stop to ask what does all this mean? Is God trying to say something to me in these circumstances? Am I open to being surprised by God’s grace in unexpected places?

What about risk-taking? Are you willing to risk your faith? And the clincher question: What are you doing that will be remembered after you are dead? Will the memories bring joy or sadness? Appreciation or concern? How many folks will be able to say, “I’m so glad my path crossed hers or his”?

Friend of Dial Hope, wherever you are on your spiritual journey know this… God loves you. You are a treasure to God and to others. Never ever forget that you are blessed, blessed to be a blessing to others.

Let us pray: Loving, living God, who has called us to be your servants in the service of others and who has given us talents enabling us to serve; forgive us for those times when we have buried our gifts and thus failed to be there for others and to do what we could have done to make ours a better world in which to live. As we seek to make this day a masterpiece, inspire us to say, “Here am I, God,’ and then go forth to live in the manner of Christ, whose name we profess. Amen.

Possibilities Ever Before Us

Possibilities Ever Before Us

In the novel Great Expectations, Charles Dickens wrote one ending, then another alternative ending. After reading the novel, you can choose which you like better. An author can do this. Whatever the course of his or her story has been, they can play around with alternative endings. In real life, however, you and I can’t do this. The way we end it is the way we end it, and when it is done it is done. We cannot go back to a certain point in time and rewrite the story.

But here is the truth, and here is our hope: Anywhere along the way, we can change course. Anytime, and from wherever we are on our journey of life, we can begin to do things differently.

In a sermon on Time, my friend Herb Meza wrote:  “…time is sacred. Time is a gift from God and… every precious second comes to us laden with possibilities – for helping or hurting, loving or loathing, doing or undoing.”

In the midst of all of life’s struggles and worries, and I think particularly about where we are right now at this crucial time in history, I pray that you would begin to see the gift of time that you have left on earth as an opportunity: an opportunity to love more fiercely, to give more generously, to open our hearts more widely; to build bridges and to spread hope.

Let us pray: We thank you Gracious God, for the gift of life, the gift of time, and the gift of possibilities. Empower us to live fully, loving with all our hearts. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Gratitude Contentment Connection

The Gratitude Contentment Connection

I invite you to close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths. Now, try and call to mind the most beautiful thing you saw last week? Now, imagine the most important person – or people in your life. Take just a minute and say thank you to God.

Consider for just a minute what gratitude does to the heart.

In the letter to the Philippians, the apostle Paul wrote, “Do not worry about anything, but everything by prayer and supplication -with thanksgiving – make your requests known to God. And the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Paul seems to be making a connection between prayer that includes thanksgiving – and God’s peace. He’s making a connection between gratitude and contentment.

What if we made a habit of listing 5 things we are thankful for every morning? Can you imagine a better way to start the day?

Let us pray: God of Grace, thank you so much for children, laughter, smiles, hugs, flowers, and butterflies, for family and friends, for life and health, for sunny days, and rain. Thank you for our families of faith, for grandmas and grandchildren, for Love, for goldfish, and for the ability to think and imagine.

And God we could go on and on. Help us never take these gifts for granted. You have given us so much. We receive and we receive and we receive.  Help us to appreciate, but not to stop there. Help us to allow our gratitude to be reflected in the way we live. As we have received, may we, in turn, give; for we pray in the name of the One who gave even his very life. Amen.

The Lamplighter

The Lamplighter

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

It is an old story, but it is true and it is good. The famous British author John Ruskin, one night in his later years, sat watching a lamplighter who, with a torch in his hand, was lighting the lamps on a distant hill. The man himself could not be seen, but the lights would gleam as each one was lit. Ruskin said to a friend, “That is what I mean by a real Christian. You can trace their course by the lights they leave burning.”

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said, “You are the light of the world… let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in Heaven.” (Matthew 5:14-16). Friend of Dial Hope, make today a masterpiece with your contagious enthusiasm, the light of your joy, and hope.

Let us pray: O God of china blue skies and dazzling sunrises, with each new day your promise of hope is restored. Each day is like the Day of Resurrection filled with new life and hope. Grant us the boldness to move out of comfortable security to the risk of faith, the joy of service, the laughter of love. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Salvaged

Salvaged

Today I would like to say a special word of thanks to those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. Your gifts make this ministry possible! If you also would like to donate to Dial Hope, please visit our website at www.dialhope.org.

It’s been said that in the 1400s a sculptor ruined a huge piece of beautiful Carrara marble. It was left in the courtyard of the cathedral in Florence, Italy, for almost a hundred years. Artisans thought it was beyond repair. But in 1505, a young sculptor by the name of Michelangelo was asked if he thought anything could be done with “The Giant.” He measured the block and carefully noted the imperfections caused by the bungling workman of an earlier day. To his mind came the image of the young shepherd boy David. So for 3 years he worked steadily, his chisel skillfully shaping the marble. You and I know the results. Beautiful!

When I was in seminary, an older retired pastor came to speak to our class about the ups and downs of ministry. At the end of his lecture, he said, “If you remember nothing else, never forget the power of Jesus Christ to change lives – even yours.” I’ve never forgotten it. And, in the twenty years that have followed, I have seen it time and time again. Therefore, no matter how bad the situation; no matter how awful the person seems to be; no matter what, I always hold out for hope. Things can and do change. If Michelangelo can bring beauty out of ruin, how much more so can our loving Creator!

Let us pray: Loving God, we remember today that you are the One who calls into existence things that were not, and who even brings life out of death. We trust you with our confusing, messed up situations. We trust you with our burdens and anxiety. We ask you to infuse us with your grace and hope and show us a better way. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Can’t Unwind the Milage

Can’t Unwind the Milage

I once heard a story about how police stopped a teen-age girl in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho, after complaints that a car had been seen going around her neighborhood in reverse for some time. The girl told police that her parents had let her use the car, but she had put too much mileage on it. “I was just trying to unwind some of it,” she said.

That’s so funny, isn’t it? In theory, it is a great idea! I wonder how many of us would like to put life in reverse and undo something we said or did? How many of us would be glad to “unwind” some past mistake or failure? I have met far too many people over the years who carry around their past like a ton of bricks – people who ordinarily have no trouble forgiving others but who cannot forgive themselves.

The truth is, we can’t put life in reverse. We can’t unwind the milage, or the words, or the pain or hurt. But we can trust God to forgive, to bind up old wounds, and to heal. Even out of an ugly mess, God can work redemption. If we pay attention, we see this all the time.

If you are carrying around the past on your shoulders, I pray that today you would make amends where needed; but then let go. Allow God’s forgiveness and love to sink in deep. When you do, you will be set free to live differently.

Let us pray: Sometimes, O God, the hardest people to forgive are ourselves. We want to live healthy, whole lives and yet, we haven’t always lived up to our deepest convictions or even to our best intentions. And we find that in hurting others, we hurt ourselves too. Today, help us to make a new start. We give you our past, our burdens, our sins, our failures. Pour out your Spirit upon us. Bind up old wounds and set us free. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Come Back to Touch

Come Back to Touch

Yesterday I shared a story told to me by Peggy Donaldson. She also told me a story from a sermon she once heard. The pastor told about being on vacation with his wife and son. They were walking along a shopping district, looking in windows and enjoying the day. Their son, who was about 9, would run ahead for a bit, and then come back and walk with them. He would grab their hand for a minute, and then run ahead again.

The pastor made the point that this is what we do when we come to worship. We come back to touch, then we go off into the world on our own.

It is a good analogy. When we worship, we come back to give thanks and praise. But we also come back to remember whose we are, and who we are. We re-set our inner compass and are strengthened to go back into the world to love and to serve.

Whether it is a church, a temple, a synagogue, or a prayer group, and whether that is online or in person, I hope you have a place where you regularly come back to touch.

Let us pray:  God of hope, in this maze of life, it is easy to lose our way. It is easy to get off track and find ourselves far from home. We thank you for the blessing of faith and for people with whom we can share the journey. Help us to make the time and space in our lives to come back into your welcoming presence, to give thanks, and to receive your guidance, grace, and strength. We ask in Christ’s name. Amen.

Don’t Play Small

Don’t Play Small

Many years ago, my friend Peggy Donaldson sent me some stories from her life that informed her theology. As I look back over them, indeed I find that they are treasures! I’d like to share one with you today.

Once when she and her husband Bob were on vacation in Jamaica, they were looking for a taxi to share with four other friends. The biggest car they could find was an old Buick Skylark. They questioned the driver about whether they could all fit, and he responded, “Oh sure, Mon. Just small yourself!”

Peggy used that one time in a minute for mission in church saying, “It is easy to ‘small ourselves’ when we don’t want to reach out to the world.”

Nelson Mandela would agree. In his inauguration speech as president of South Africa he said to the country (and to the world):

“You are a child of God. You’re playing small does not serve the world… We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone.  And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.”

There may be times when you need to ‘small yourself’ to make room for others. But whatever you do, when it comes to reaching out to make a difference, please do not play small.

Let us pray: Light of the Word, thank you for filling us with your blessing, your grace, your love. We know there is a tremendous need in the world around us. Give us the courage and the strength we need to allow your light to shine through us. As we have been blessed, so may we be a blessing. Through Jesus Christ. Amen.

God’s Place for You

God’s Place for You

Sometime back as a part of my morning devotional time, I was reading Eugene Peterson’s Message version of the Bible. One morning I was struck by the following: In his introduction to the book of Joshua, he wrote, “God’s great love and purposes for us are worked out in the messes, storms and sins, blue skies, daily work, and dreams of our common lives, working with us as we are, and not as we should be.”

Then, later I was in 1 Corinthians 7. Peterson translates the verse this way: “And, don’t be wishing you were someplace else…Where you are right now is God’s place for you. Live and obey and love and believe right there.”

I thought about the context of my life right now, and I reflected on where I spend the vast majority of my time. Ever since that morning, sometimes when I pray the Lord’s prayer I add a few words, “Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done – in my life, in my relationship with my family, in my daily work, in the church, on Earth… as it is in heaven.

Let us pray: God of grace, thank you for working with us as we are – not as we should be. Thank you for your presence in our families, in our jobs, in our recreation, and in our relationships. Give us eyes to notice and hearts to respond. Wherever we find ourselves this day, may we be instruments of your grace. Amen.

But the Greatest of These Is Love

But the Greatest of These Is Love

In his first letter to the Corinthians, the Apostle Paul writes this: “If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.”

He ends this famous chapter with these words, “And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.”

In a sermon on this passage, a pastor named King Duncan puts it this way: You can be more Christian than Christ himself, but if you are not committed to living a life of love, you’ve missed the whole message of the gospel.

A member of my congregation was recently telling me about her youth group growing up. She said her pastor would talk a lot about love. And as teenagers – of course, they were thinking about romantic love – but he clarified: Not romantic love – but a love that will sacrifice for another person… The students responded: Well, we all love each other – we do things for each other. And the pastor said, “That’s easy. You all are lovable! The challenge of the gospel is to love the unlovable!”

Let us pray: Teach us, Lord Jesus, to love even the unlovable. In laying down your life for us, you showed us what it means to love. Empower us to lay aside our pride, and to give and to serve even those we feel we cannot love. We ask in your name. Amen.