Even in the Darkest Times

Even in the Darkest Times

One of the darkest times for Israel was a period of exile in Babylon. Their homeland had been conquered and burned, the temple destroyed. Most of those who survived were carted off to enemy territory where they would be forced to start life anew.

And yet, it was in the midst of this time of travail that some of Israel’s most sweeping, extravagant claims for the goodness of God were spoken and written as scripture.

In Jeremiah 31 we read, “Hear the word of the Lord, O nations… For the Lord has ransomed Jacob… They shall come and sing aloud on the height of Zion and they shall be radiant over the goodness of the Lord, over the grain, the wine, and the oil, and over the young of the flock and the herd; their life shall become like a watered garden… Then shall the young women rejoice in the dance and the young men and the old shall be merry. I will turn their mourning into joy, I will comfort them, and give them gladness for sorrow.”

When Jeremiah first spoke these words, this was not a present reality, but rather a future hope. What an awesome testament of faith!

My prayer for you is that when things seem to be at their worst, God would grant you the courage to hold out for hope. May you remember how God has carried you in the past. And may you notice God’s healing, guiding hand already at work here and now.

Let us pray: God of Grace, we thank you for the witness of scripture – that beyond the despair, beyond the grief, beyond the problems we face, there is hope for a better tomorrow. We trust that you are good and that for you nothing is impossible. Fill us again this day with courage and strength; through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Loving Compassion

Loving Compassion

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A great British preacher of a generation ago told the story of a young servant girl who had no formal education yet was deeply spiritual. She had a strong sense of compassion, a concern for people. When this minister visited her one day and asked how she spent her days, she said, “My work is very demanding, and I don’t get much time off, so I can’t serve the church as much as I would like. But I have come up with a plan that lets me do what I can,” “What is that?” asked the minister. She replied, “Well, I always take the daily paper to bed with me at night.” He was puzzled. “Tell me about that. I don’t understand.” “Well,” she said, “l read the page with the birth notices, and I pray for the babies that have been born; then I read the marriages, and I pray that they may be happy and true, and next I read the deaths, and I pray that God’s comfort may come to those sorrowing homes.”

That young girl was not far from the Kingdom. Why? Because she had discovered the spirit of loving compassion. Loving compassion, Jesus called it the most significant sign of discipleship. In John’s Gospel, he said it like this: “l give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples” (John 13:34-35). As deftly as a magnetic needle points to the north, so the heart of Jesus immediately zeroed in on the neediest person in the crowd.

The poet put it this way:
Love in your heart isn’t put there to stay;
Love isn’t love till you give it away.

Let us pray: God of love, you who have the whole world in your hands, we claim to be one nation, under you, and that you are the One in whom we trust. We are aware that you have called us to love you and one another, and we pray that you will remind us anew that love, to be love, must be expressed in action. Give us hearts of loving compassion. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Success

Success

Many years ago now, I friend sent me an email titled, “God won’t ask…” It read:

God won’t ask what kind of car you drove, but he’ll ask how many people you drove who didn’t have transportation.

God won’t ask about the clothes you had in your closet, but he’ll ask how many you helped to clothe.

God won’t ask how many material possessions you had, but he’ll ask if they dictated your life.

God won’t ask what your highest salary was, but he’ll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.

God won’t ask what you did to protect your rights, but he’ll ask what you did to protect the rights of others.

God won’t ask about the color of your skin, but he’ll ask about the content of your character.

The list goes on, but you get the idea. Martin Luther King Jr. once said, “We are prone to judge success by the index of our salaries or the size of our automobile rather than by the quality of our service and relationship to mankind.”

As we reflect on our own lives, may we continue to reflect on how we judge success.

Let us pray: Loving God, we are told so often, in so many different ways, that we will find joy and happiness by having more. We have been disappointed time and again. Today, we remember that true joy and meaning are discovered mostly in relationships, generosity, and service to others and in a life given to you. Meet us this day wherever we are on the journey. We ask in Christ’s name. Amen.

What We Give…

What We Give…

In a writing titled The Echo of Hate, there’s a story about a little boy who was touring the Rocky Mountains with his mother. The boy has been behaving badly and his mother laid down the law and punished him. In response, he ran to the edge of a cliff and shouted, “I hate you! I hate you! I hate you!” Back came an echo, “Hate you! Hate you! Hate you!”

Caught off guard, this scared the little boy. He ran back to his mother and sobbed, “There is a man over there who hates me.” The mother took her son by the hand and led him back to the edge of the cliff. “Now,” she said, “this time call out, I love you! I love you! I love you!” As the boy obeyed his mother, the sweet and clear words came back, “Love you! Love you! Love you!” “What we give,” said the wise mother, “is exactly what we receive.”

It is true, isn’t it? Newton’s third law of physics states, “For every action, there will be an equal and opposite reaction.”

The apostle Paul put it this way, “…you reap whatever you sow.”

There is no doubt when we sow seeds of kindness, generosity, and love. They grow. They multiply. And in due time, we receive them back in kind.

Let us pray: Loving God, we ask you today to remove from us any seeds of bitterness, anger, or hate. Replace them with your mercy and love. And then, as we are so filled, help us to share that same grace in word and deed with each person we encounter today. And may we find that it is in giving, that we receive. Amen.

In Trying Times

In Trying Times

In the seventh chapter of his book, the prophet Micah describes the sad state of affairs of the world around him: the faithful are nowhere to be found; injustice and corruption reign, families are falling apart at the seams.

Despite all this, in verse 7 he says, “As for me, I will look to the Lord, I will wait for the God of my salvation; my God will hear me.”

So often we find ourselves amidst the darkness. We see hungry children in our communities, we hear about violence or injustice. We receive a bad diagnosis, or we worry about our jobs or our parents, or our friends. During these moments, it can be easy to slip into bitterness or cynicism, or despair.

The prophet Micah encourages us. He doesn’t ignore the issues or pretend they aren’t real. No. He names them. He laments. But then he shows us the way forward, the way of hope.

In a recent Wednesday night study, our small group was encouraged to share with God in prayer, exactly what was on our hearts. Sometimes we think, “God already knows what I‘m facing. God already knows what I’m going through.” Which is true enough. However, something powerful happens to us when we are able to speak our lament, to name our prayer, to open our hearts.

In the trying moments of life, Micah’s words invite us to turn to the One who has promised to hear us, to share what is on our hearts, and then to wait in trust.

In the New Testament, James reminds us, “Draw near to the Lord and he will draw near to you.”

Let us pray: God of Grace, we all know the feelings of anxiety and stress. Often we feel the pain of the world around us. It is part of our shared humanity. I pray today especially for those who need you near. Give each of us the courage to face, and even to name our fears. In spite of the darkness, help us to trust you. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Stop and Take a Bearing

Stop and Take a Bearing

I remember reading about the English explorer William Perry and his crew who were exploring the Arctic Ocean. At one point they felt that their investigation would be best served by heading further north, so they charted the stars and made a treacherous journey northward. Marching across ice flows, they crept along for hours and hours, and finally, nearly totally fatigued, they stopped. They quickly took another bearing on the stars only to find out that they were further south! How could it be? It didn’t take long to figure it out. They had been walking on an ice flow that was traveling south faster than they were walking north.

Sometimes life today can feel just like that. It can feel as though we are being pulled away from an awareness of God faster than we can move toward God. Busy schedules, entertainment options, demands of work, and family can all pull us in different directions. If we are not careful, we can end up feeling as though God is just a distant concept or idea, instead of a Spirit that is alive and present.

My prayer for you today is that you would make time to stop and take your bearings. Even in the midst of demanding schedules, pause, take a deep breath, re-connect to the Source of life. And as you do, may you find renewed energy, courage, and strength.

Let us pray: Eternal God, we thank you for your faithfulness to us. We thank you that no matter how far we feel we’ve drifted from you, you are still with us. Open our eyes and hearts to notice your presence – even here – even now. Amen.

That They May Be One

That They May Be One

In his first letter to the Corinthians (12:12-13), the Apostle Paul wrote:

For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. For in the one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and we were all made to drink of one Spirit.

In other words, God has called all types of people together, from all types of backgrounds. And there are all types of labels we can use. In those days the labels were Jew and Greek, slave and free. Today we have other labels. We might say, black and white, rich and poor, republican and democrat, American, South African, Philippino, Mexican, physically challenged, mentally challenged, young, old. All labels. But underneath the labels are human beings – people that God created, that God loves.

And what Paul is telling them is that you all have this in common – Christ died for each one of you. And through your baptism, Christ has called each and every one of you into his one body – the church.

In these precarious times, our nation continues to be extremely divided. We are polarized on any number of issues, and there is a tremendous amount of anger and even hatred among us. As a result, the wounds are deep. Our common life is fragile and less rich.

It is precisely into our context, that Paul’s words speak to us as followers of Christ. His words echo one of Jesus’s most fervent prayers, that we would be one as he and the Father are one (John 17:21).

Today, I pray that we would each do our part to take the first steps toward healing. May we be quick to listen, slow to speak (James 1:19). May we look to the interests of others before looking to our own interests (Philippians 2:4). And, as we reclaim the unity we have in Christ, may we experience the fullness of his peace.

Let us pray: We pray today, O God, for healing. Use us, even us, as instruments of your grace, mercy, and peace, through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Perspective

Perspective

I heard a pastor speak recently about a Dear Abby column he saw many years ago. The letter and response he shared followed like this:

Dear Abby, Happiness is knowing that your parents won’t almost kill you if you come home a little late. Happiness is having your own bedroom. Happiness is having parents that trust you. Happiness is getting the telephone call you’ve been praying for. Happiness is getting good grades and having parents who don’t fight. Happiness is knowing that you’re as well dressed as anybody. Happiness is something I don’t have. Signed, 15 and Unhappy.

A few days later, the column carried this response:

Dear Abby, Happiness is being able to walk. Happiness is being able to talk. Happiness is being able to see. Happiness is being able to hear. Unhappiness is reading a letter from a 15-year-old girl who can do all these things and still says she isn’t happy. I can talk. I can see. I can hear. But I can’t walk. Signed, Thirteen and Happy.

So often it is a matter of perspective, isn’t it? The truth is, we all have struggles. We all face challenges, experience failures, and wrestle with weaknesses. But at the same time, none of us have to look far to see that we are blessed beyond belief.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer once wrote, “In ordinary life, we hardly realize that we receive a great deal more than we give and that it is only with gratitude that life becomes rich.”

Let us pray: God of Amazing Grace, open our hearts again to see the rich flow of blessings streaming into our lives. May we notice and appreciate even the simple gifts – food and sunshine; flowers and rain; the ability to give and to love. Move deep inside us until a well-spring of gratitude bubbles up and overflows into joy. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Steady Supply of Laughter

Steady Supply of Laughter

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

In the novel about life in a mental hospital, entitled One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest, these words were uttered by Randall Patrick McMurphy: “That’s the first thing that got me thinking about this place, there wasn’t anybody laughing. I haven’t heard a real laugh since I came through that door……When you lose your laugh, you lose your footing. “

Because of the level of depression and pain in such institutions, a heavy dose of laughter is sorely needed. Through laughter, inner torments work themselves out. It is the medicine needed to revive a wracked heart or withering spirit. We need sure footing along life’s rugged paths. A steady supply of laughter gives us footing. For when I complain, scowl, or retaliate, I am caught in the clutches of cursedness. I am miles from blessing anything. When I laugh, life giggles and shakes in delight.

We are reminded that the Gospel is not boring, it is not ho-hum, it is good news. Ta-Da! In Proverbs, we read, “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a downcast spirit dries up the bones.” (Proverbs 17:22)

Let us pray: God of all precious things, who hears our pain even when tears block our words, create in us a heart of laughter and hope. May your Spirit still the anxiety of those who live with enormous pressure and stress. So bring us comfort where we need comfort, but where we need justice, let there be love. Lord, you have become an undeniable presence, a reliable friend, the one who walks in when the rest of the world walks away. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

A Life in Which Troubles Are Faced…

A Life in Which Troubles Are Faced…

Patsy Clairmont, the author of the book God Uses Cracked Pots, tells a story about her youngest son Jason. One bright fall day the boy was sent out to catch the bus. However, just a few moments later there was a knock on the door. When Patsy opened the door, sure enough there stood Jason, looking up at her with his backpack and lunch box dragging the ground.

Pasty demanded, “What are you doing back here?” The boy bravely responded, “I’ve quit school.” “Quit school?” she asked.

As she stared at her child in disbelief, she tried hard to recall some motherly wisdom. But all that came to mind at the time was “A stitch in time saves nine,” and “Starve a cold and feed a fever.” They didn’t seem to fit the occasion so she asked, “Why have you quit school?” Without hesitation, Jason said, “It’s too long, it’s too hard, and it’s too boring.” This time she was equal to the task. She shot back, “You have just described life. Get on the bus!”

Indeed sometimes life is hard. Sometimes it feels boring or long. And sometimes we do need to just tough it out. As Christians, we are not promised that God will take away the hardship and suffering of life. However, neither are we left alone. Nor are we without resources. God has promised to be with us and to strengthen us. And God calls us into a community of faith where others surround us with their love and care.

Scholar and minister William Barclay once wrote,

“Christianity was never meant to withdraw a man from life; it was meant to equip him better for life… Christianity does not offer us a life in which troubles are escaped and evaded; it offers us a life in which troubles are faced…”

No matter how challenging life seems to get, may you always know that you do not have to walk alone.

Let us pray: Loving God, we thank you for your abiding presence with us – even through the darkest valleys of life. Help us to connect deeply with other people of faith – people who will love us, challenge us, and walk with us. Grant us your strength and courage; we ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.