A Sermon to Live By

A Sermon to Live By

I know I’ve shared this with you all in the past, but it near to my heart. I still have my grandfather’s Bible. At least I have the one he had on the day he passed away back in early March 1996. That morning it lay open to the book of Micah, chapter 6 and verses 6-8 were underlined:

He has told you, O mortal, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and walk humbly with your God?

Next to his underline, he penned the words, “Live by this…”

My Grandfather served as a minister his entire adult life, even well on into retirement. Though my grandmother, would be the first to tell you he was far from perfect, his life really did reflect the imperative of this verse.

His deep compassion for others, and humility before God, often led him to take actions that would leave the world around him a little better than he found it.

At first, I thought the note in his Bible was simply a reminder to himself; but I know now it was a final sermon to his family. And today it is a sermon for you.

Three simple – but profound imperatives: Do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with the Lord your God.

Let us pray: Loving God, we want to live in a world that is kind and not arrogant; where compassion and love flow freely; and where all your children across the globe are able to live a dignified life. Grant us your grace that we might work with you in this endeavor.

We lift up to you today, those who are carrying heavy, heavy burdens; those who have lost loved ones, those who lonely, and those who are searching for answers. Rest your loving Spirit upon them, and upon us, even now. Amen.

Seek First…

Seek First…

I recently heard that six weeks before he died, a reporter asked Elvis Presley, “Elvis, when you first started playing music, you said you wanted to be rich, famous, and happy. Are you happy?” “I’m lonely as hell” he replied.

Fame and fortune do not automatically make a person happy, do they?

Several years ago, I read an article about happiness in an airline magazine on the way to Texas. The article was all about a class at Harvard on this very topic. Turned out to be one of the most popular classes on campus! Apparently, studies have shown that while fame and fortune do not necessarily make a person happy, volunteering in your community does. Having time to spend with family and friends do. Generous giving does.

I believe this is at least in part what Jesus was talking about when he said, “Seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness…” At this part in Matthew’s Gospel, he had just been warning his followers about the dangers of anxious accumulation. Put first things first and a deeper joy will follow.

Our prayer today is attributed to St. Augustine from the early fifth century. Let us pray:

God of life, there are days when the burdens we carry are heavy on our shoulders and weigh us down, when the road seems dreary and endless, the skies gray and threatening, when our lives have no music in them, and our hearts are lonely, and our souls have lost their courage. Flood the path with light, turn our eyes to where the skies are full of promise; tune our hearts to brave music; give us the sense of comradeship with heroes and saints of every age; and so quicken our spirits that we may be able to encourage the souls of all who journey with us on the road of life, to your honor and glory. Amen.

Finding Hope

Finding Hope

I have a friend who had a really rough childhood. His dad left when he was a child. His mom drank too much and had a series of boyfriends one of whom was seriously abusive. He said used to hide under his bed and pray – just pray.

What’s amazing to me is that my buddy seems to have come out of this relatively unscathed. Today he has a beautiful healthy family. He even has a relationship with his mother who has turned out to be a good grandmother.

I’m not sure I would have done so well. I’ve known plenty of other people who had it much better, and who still use their childhood as an excuse for destructive living.

What I notice is that when my friend talks about his past, he doesn’t romanticize it. He doesn’t gloss over the difficult parts. But he will say: I am not ungrateful… I am not ungrateful, because the experience I had, the childhood I had, shaped me into the person I am today. It not only made me stronger, it gave me a heart for those who suffer. And it gave me a heart for the underdog. He went on to say, “Early on, a wise counselor gave me this piece of advice, ‘Stop thinking about what’s been done to you, and start focusing on what’s been done for you.’”

Over the years, I also have known plenty of other people who have faced serious setbacks, who have somehow managed to live well in spite of it. They have not let the disease, the diagnosis, the failure, or the betrayal to have the last word… They’ve not allowed it to shatter their hope or eat away at their peace, or silence their courage…

I am often reminded that as human beings, we have this remarkable ability to retell or recast our stories, to somehow find meaning and hope in them, and even redemption. I am also more and more aware that the stories we tell about our past, the stories we tell about what we’re currently dealing with, shape not only how we view the world, but how we live. These stories we tell, open or close doors for the future.

I wonder what you see when looking at the events of your own life… What stories do you tell about yourself… your church… your family?

I pray today that you would take a second look at the story of your life, and see it through the lens of faith. I pray that even in the most difficult moments you would notice the gracious hand of God at work.

Let us pray: Open our eyes, Loving God, to catch even a glimpse of your Spirit moving all throughout the journey that is our life. As we see, help us to trust. In Christ’s name. Amen.

The Legendary Town of Paradise

The Legendary Town of Paradise

Once, in a classic Jewish tale, a restless, unhappy man from Warsaw wakes up one morning determined to find the legendary town of Paradise. He travels deep into the night until he finds himself on the side of a mountain. There he decides to get some rest. To be sure that he remembers which way he is traveling before he lay down for the night, he pointed his boots in the direction of Paradise. However, in the middle of the night, a good (or maybe evil) spirit turns his shoes around.

When the man wakes up, he resumes his journey headed in the direction of his shoes. He ends up in a city that looks very much like Warsaw. He even finds a house that looks just like his, and a woman who looks just like his wife. Convinced he’s now living in Paradise, he moves in, and somehow his life seems so much better.

Sometimes we think, “My life would be so much better if…”

If I could only land that job…
If I could just get that next promotion…
If my son would finish college…
If my health would improve…

And maybe it would. But then again, maybe it wouldn’t it. Sometimes we get so caught up in living in the “what if,” and we miss much of the good of life right here, right now. Even now, in this moment, in your life, there is much good and beauty. There are people and things for which you can give thanks. Most importantly, the deepest joy and peace are found not by running for “Paradise,” but by trusting God with the present.

Our prayer today was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope. Let us pray: O God of sunrise and sunset, let this day be a day of sunrise in our hearts, when all things are made bright and new. We thank you that you have chosen to make your home in our hearts. Help us now to make this day a masterpiece. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Trust the Lord with all your Heart

Trust the Lord with all your Heart

Today, I am deeply grateful for those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. So many people benefit from your giving!

There’s an old story, no doubt apocryphal, about a tightrope walker who stretched his line across the span of an enormous waterfall. After making an initial walk safely across, the stuntman asked a spectator, “Do you believe I can push this wheelbarrow across this same thin rope?” The spectator thought for a moment and said, “Yeah, sure.” “Great,” said the acrobat. “Jump in the wheelbarrow.”

While I might believe he could perform the feat, I know I wouldn’t trust the acrobat with my life. I hope you wouldn’t either. But I do hope that you trust God.

Sometimes God invites us to take steps that are scary: God may very well call you into the mission field, or to help feed the homeless at a downtown shelter. God may call you to give away more of your money or time than you are comfortable with. Or, God may call you make amends with someone who has wronged you. It may be hard to take that kind of leap of faith. It may very well feel like you are jumping in the wheelbarrow.

I remember a number of years ago now when my friend Charlie Landreth talked about his grandmother Celia. He said he could remember sitting on her lap in her rocking chair – her arms would be extended around him. She would read to him sometimes from the Bible and sometimes from a book. “Trust the Lord with all your heart”, she would say.

Charley said, “It’s been almost a whole lifetime since that early instruction and I am still learning to trust the Lord. You see, I’m a slow learner.

Aren’t we all, Charlie? Aren’t we all?

Let us pray: God of Grace, we know that you love us just as we are – but that you constantly invite us to grow. We also know that as we listen to your voice and respond to your call, our lives are filled with meaning and depth. O Lord we believe. Help our unbelief! Grant us ears to hear you even today. Grant us hearts to trust you, and the courage to respond. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Open Our Hearts

Open Our Hearts

I recently heard an interview with the Rabbi, Arial Burger. He shared a story about his son who was on a semester-long program in Israel and then Poland. While abroad, his son made a new friend named Mason. And when they got to Poland, Mason disappeared for a day with one of the counselors on the program.

Later, Mason told the Rabbi’s son that his grandparents were survivors. They were married three weeks before the deportation to Auschwitz. In Auschwitz, of course, they were separated, and his grandmother was transferred to a rabbit farm on the outskirts of the camp. The Nazis were doing experiments on rabbits that had to do with finding a cure for typhus. And the rabbit farm was run by a Polish man who noticed, pretty early on, that the rabbits were getting better quality food and attention and care than the Jewish slave laborers. So he started to sneak in food for the Jewish slave laborers and the inmates.

At some point, Mason’s grandmother cut her arm on a piece of barbed wire, and the cut became infected. It wasn’t a serious infection if you had antibiotics. But of course, if you were a Jew in that place, there was no way you were going to get antibiotics. In what was an amazing and selfless act, this Polish man cut his own arm open, and he placed his wound on her wound so that he would get the infection that she had, and he became infected. He then went to the Nazis, and he said, “I’m one of your most productive managers. I need medicine.” When they gave him medicine, he shared it with her. And he saved her life.

So Mason told the Rabbi’s son, “When I left the other day, I went to see that Polish man. He’s still alive and living on the outskirts of Warsaw, and I went to say, thank you for my life. Thank you for my life.”

Ariel Burger brought up the point, “This story raises a lot of questions about, what does it take to be the kind of person who will share someone else’s wound, in spite of all the pressure to see them as less valuable than a rabbit? What does it take to see another person as a person, when everything around you is telling you not to?” He went on to say, “That question is — really, for me, that’s the motivating question right now… not in those extreme situations alone, but in everyday life…”

Today, in a society that is so deeply divided, in a time when polarization has led to demonization and even hatred, it’s worth asking the question, what does it take to see another person as a person… as a human being, and to even share in their wounds – even when they stand on the other side of the cultural and political divide?

Let us pray: We remember today O God, that Jesus taught us to love our neighbor as ourselves. Open our hearts to our neighbors near and far, and in that opening may we also open ourselves to your healing and peace, through Christ our Lord. Amen.

With Strength

With Strength

How does faith mend a broken heart? Sooner or later, heartache comes to all of us. Sadness, sorrow, disappointment, grief, rejection, hurt – whatever you wish to call it – rears its head and covers us like a heavy blanket. Let me suggest some resources of the Christian faith that can help us walk through the dark valley of sorrow. First, claim the fellowship of the church. Let the church family’s arms of love surround you and support you. Never forget that you are not alone. God is with you. Nothing, not even death, can separate you from the love of God. No matter how hurt you may feel, let the church be an integral part of the healing process.

Second, and this may surprise you, claim the power of helping others, which comes only from having gone through the grief pilgrimage. Those who have gone through sorrow of any kind have a new empathy, a new sensitivity, a new compassion, a new power to help others. Jesus said, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted!” The word comforted comes from Latin words – cum, which means “with” and fortis, which means “strength.” So the word comforted means literally “with strength”! Thus, Jesus was saying “Blessed are those who have gone through sorrow, for they are with strength.” Someone once put it like this; “Whoever among us has, through personal experience learned what pain and anxiety are…. belongs no more to themselves alone; they are the sister, the brother of all who suffer.”

Friend of Dial Hope, claim that strength to help others which comes only on the other side of trouble, only from walking through the valley of grief. God needs you to share yourself with others. Memorize this verse: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13). Trust God…trust God….trust God.

Let us pray: God of love, some days there is so much pain, so much emptiness. And yet, you know what we are feeling. As we count our blessings, keep us from wallowing in self-pity so that we may encourage and comfort others. Turn our sadness to laughter, remembering that “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a downcast spirit dries up the bones.’ (Proverbs 1 7:22) Through the grace of Jesus Christ. Amen.

All of Creation

All of Creation

There is an old BC comic strip that shows the sun rising over a rock. Next to the rock is a little flower just waking up. The flower says, “Ahh! Sweet Breath of morning… How I love to greet thee each day… And spread my petals soft neath your rays… And lift my fronds to you… In loving adoration…. The flower then glances over at the rock and says, “Whatta ya think, Rock?” The rock answers, “You need a critique from a guy that was “thrown up” out of a volcano?

I love the image of the flower giving praise. The Bible tells us that all of creation was created to give God praise. In fact, Psalm 148 reads in part:

Praise God, sun and moon; praise him, all you shining stars! Praise him, you highest heavens…Praise the Lord from the earth, you sea monsters and all deeps… Mountains and all hills, fruit trees and all cedars! Wild animals and all cattle, creeping things and flying birds!

But it is not just things and animals that are created to give praise. The Psalm continues:

Kings of the earth and all people, princes and all rulers of the earth! Young men and women alike, old and young together! Let them praise the name of the Lord.

Today, like the morning flower in the comic, may you find a moment to take in the beauty of the day. Remember that God is faithful, God is with you. You have been richly blessed! And, may you offer your thanks and praise!

Let us pray: O God of all creation, we praise you with all of our heart. In this moment we let go of our worries, our fears, and our burdens. We trust you with them – for you are good. We draw near to you now. O God of all creation, we trust you, and we praise you with all of our heart. Amen.

He Doesn’t Remember

He Doesn’t Remember

There is a story about an old man who everyone thought was a little crazy. He had this habit of talking to himself in public and it was widely known that he believed that he could talk to Jesus and that Jesus would talk back to him.

A new pastor came to town and hearing about the crazy man, he thought he might be able to make him face reality. One day, as he saw this guy rambling down the street, he spoke to him and said, “I hear you talk to Jesus. Would you do me a favor?” The minister continued, “Could you ask him something for me?” “Why of course,” replied the old man. “Would you ask Jesus what the last sin was that I confessed to him?” “I certainly will,” he replied.

The next day the pastor saw the crazy old man just down the street and so he approached him and asked, “Well, did you talk to Jesus last night?” “Why, I sure did,” said the man. “What did he say was the last sin that I confessed to him?” The old man looked slowly up at him and answered, “Why, Jesus said he didn’t remember.”

Hmm. He didn’t remember… That is the good news of the gospel, isn’t it? In Jesus Christ our sins are forgiven. We are set free to begin again.

John writes in his first letter, “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. But, if we confess our sins, God who is faithful and just will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Let us pray: Loving God, we have all done things we wish we could take back, said things that have hurt others. We’ve all missed opportunities to do the right thing and we’ve all needed a second chance. So we thank you for your forgiveness, for your mercy and love. Wash over us again this day with your grace. Cleanse us and renew us to live as free and forgiving people. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Love One Another

Love One Another

In the Bible, John’s letters remind his congregation – over and over again – that they are to love one another. He repeats himself to emphasize the point – mainly because he knew that it would not be easy! People may disappoint us. They may let us down. They may not share our opinions or worldview. They may break our hearts.

C.S. Lewis once wrote: To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one… Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket–safe, dark, motionless, airless–it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable…The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers…of love is Hell.
(C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves)

It is true. Love is risky. It can be tempting to fortify the walls of our hearts and not let others in. But, on the other side of this: when we open our hearts and give of ourselves to others, we share in something of God’s nature. And, we are reminded of how, in spite of our flaws, God risks loving us.

In 1 John we read: “God is love. Those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them.

Let us pray: Loving God, you are patient. You are kind. You are not irritable or resentful. You do not rejoice in wrongdoing but rejoice in the truth. You always protect, always trust, always hope, always persevere. You never fail. Thank you, Lord. Teach us to love as you love – through Jesus Christ. Amen.