SLOW DOWN!

SLOW DOWN!

The speed limit sign was unique. Never have I seen its twin.  Amused at first by the unrealistic suggestion it posed, further reflection brought me to appreciate the wonderful wisdom it proclaimed.

That sign was located along the driveway to a local nursing home.  While it looked like any other speed limit sign, the recommended speed is what distinguished it from all the rest.  Drivers were cautioned to proceed at 2 miles per hour.  That’s right- 2 miles per hour. Obviously, the implication of that unusual warning was –  SLOW DOWN!

In a world where speed reigns, being busy is applauded, instant communication is a must and a hectic pace seems to be the norm, could it be that the unique speed sign at a senior care facility offers a meaningful message for all?  SLOW DOWN!

When we do slow down and take our time, it’s amazing what we just might see.  Much of what is always around us may come into sharper focus.

My prayer is that all of us would SLOW DOWN and take the time to experience and soak up:

–  the beauty of God’s remarkable creation
–  the privilege of waking up to a new day
–  the joys of meaningful relationships with family and friends
–  the blessing of rest and relaxation
–  the innocence of children
–  the wisdom of seniors
–  the wonder of forgiveness
–  the thrill of serving
–  the satisfaction of being present to someone in need
–  the power of God’s love
–  the possibilities in a pandemic

SLOW DOWN, friends of Dial Hope, and enjoy each new day.

Let us pray:  Sometimes life seems like a race, Lord, a rat race.  Like it or not, we may feel as if we are stuck in the fast lane, doing our best to keep up with the demands, the expectations, the challenges that never seem to end.  Help us to slow down so we might see the wonders that surround us and grant us that peace that only you can give.  In the name of Jesus, we pray.  Amen.

LESSONS FOR LIVING

LESSONS FOR LIVING

When asked on her 74th birthday what she thought of growing older, the talented poet, Dr. Maya Angelou, responded with these words:

I’ve learned that no matter what happens or how bad today seems, life goes on, and it will be better tomorrow.

I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he or she handles three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.

I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone.

I’ve learned that making a living is not the same as making a life.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.

I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t need to be one.

I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug or just a friendly pat on the back.

I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said and forget what you did, but they will never forget how you made them feel.

Dr. Angelou’s words of wisdom offer these valuable lessons on living for all of us to consider:

– look forward to each new day
– don’t get carried away with yourself
– appreciate life’s blessings
– be there for others

God gave us life for a purpose, my friends.  Fulfilling that purpose can be exhilarating.

Let us pray:  Teach us how to squeeze meaning and purpose from each and every day, Lord.  Remind us that we don’t need to have all the answers to experience life’s joys.  Encourage us always to share the gift of unending joy that you have first shared with us through your Son, Jesus Christ.  In his name, we pray.  Amen.

To Forgive As We Have Been Forgiven

To Forgive As We Have Been Forgiven

The Templeton Foundation recently funded a major nationwide study on people’s attitudes toward forgiveness. It was co‑sponsored by the University of Michigan and the National Institute for Mental Health. The study was fascinating! It found that 75% of Americans are “very confident” that they have been forgiven by God for their past offenses. 75%!

However, only about half of the people surveyed claimed that they had forgiven or would forgive others who had hurt them. It is interesting that while we are sure that God has been entirely gracious to us, we have a hard time being gracious and merciful to others.

No doubt it is hard to forgive people who have hurt us. And yet, it is so important.

In that same study researchers also found that there is a significant link between forgiveness and better health. The more prone a person is to grant forgiveness, the less likely he or she will suffer from any stress‑related illnesses. In addition to our physical health, forgiveness is directly tied to our spiritual health.

In his letter to the Colossians, the Apostle Paul admonished: Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

Let us pray: Merciful God, We have heard the Good News that in Jesus Christ we are forgiven. While sometimes we accept this forgiveness, other times we do not. Sometimes we can forgive others, but sometimes we hold fast to old grudges, hurts, and fears. Sometimes we feel unable to forgive – even ourselves.

Have mercy on us, O God. Help us today to let go… Help us to accept that we are accepted, and to forgive as we are forgiven; that new beginnings may be ours through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

God Looks on the Heart

God Looks on the Heart

A little girl was sitting on her grandfather’s lap as he read her a bedtime story.  From time to time, she would take her eyes off the book and reach up to touch his wrinkled cheek.  She was alternately stroking her own cheek and then his again.  Finally, she spoke up, “Grandpa, did God make you?”  “Yes sweetheart,” he answered, ‘God made me a long time ago. God made you just a little while ago.”  Feeling their respective face again, she said, “God’s getting better at it, isn’t he?”

The joke is funny – but it’s not true.   It’s funny because it fits our culture. Yes, God did make the little girl.  And God did make the grandpa too.  But it’s not true because younger is not better.  God created us to look one way as a little girl or a little boy, but we were not created to look that way forever.

Presbyterian Pastor Gilbert Bowen once said, “I think we need a new way of seeing. We need to learn to see one another and ourselves with the eyes of God. We need to learn to listen and sense the soul beneath the skin, the beauty and strength within. We need to look at one another with eyes that are patient and perceptive enough to pick up the décor of the soul.”

1 Samuel 16:7 reads, “The Lord does not see as mortals see. They look at outward appearances, but the Lord looks on the heart.”

May you learn to see yourself and others with the eyes of God.

Let us pray:  We thank you, O God, that your love for us is more than skin deep.  We thank you that you created each of us in your own image – and that you love your creation. I pray for all those today who are struggling with aging or with their self-image. Remind us, Lord, that what we see on the surface is not complete. Wash over us with your grace and give us eyes to see the soul beneath the skin and the beauty and strength within. Amen.

Crown of God’s Creation

Crown of God’s Creation

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

One of the greatest truths of the Bible is … We – you and I – are made in the image of God. Talk about a miracle! God made cats and dogs, hummingbirds, red cardinals, squirrels, elephants, giraffes, pelicans, dolphins, and the duck-billed platypus. God made the trees, the flowers, and skies. God made all of it and said, “That’s good!  Now, that’s good!” And to cap it all off, God said, “Now, for the masterpiece: I am going to create something like myself!” And God made you! You see, it is a sin for us to say, “Well, I’m only human.” If you want to see one of God’s miracles, don’t gather pine cones, don’t look at the Milky Way, don’t capture a squirrel, and don’t find a picture of a trout stream, just look at the person next to you. There is God’s miracle! There is the crown of God’s creation!

Let us pray: Creator God, we marvel at your small wonders and your overarching grandeur. We crouch down to examine a centipede and we stand on a mountaintop to try to take in the Milky Way. We listen to the tiny cry of a newborn kitten and we cringe in the face of the roar of the thunderstorm. We are small indeed in the scheme of the universe, but we are grateful that you have made us in your image. When we are weary, give us energy. When we are sad, give us comfort. For all those who are suffering loss, who wonder what will happen next, we pray that you will walk before them and enable us to be companions along the way. Now “raise us up on eagle’s wings, bear us on the breath of dawn, make us to shine like the sun, and hold us in the palm of your hand.” (On Eagles Wings, based on Psalm 91). We ask this in Jesus’ name, the friend of all. Amen.

Entertaining Angels

Entertaining Angels

In a sermon, Pastor John Ortberg once told about an 8-year-old boy who was kind of a nerdy, clumsy, chubby kid. One time a group of bullies was chasing him calling him, “Fat Freddy.” He ran toward the home of an elderly widow in the neighborhood. He prayed she would be home to let him in. Turns out, she was. The fact that she was home, the boy later said, greatly increased his faith in God!

Freddy’s full name was Fred Rogers, as in Mr. RogersNeighborhood. One of the main reasons why being part of a neighborhood was so important to Fred Rogers was the hospitality he received from this elderly widow who took him in and kept him safe from bullies.

This story makes me wonder: What are some ways you and I can show hospitality to others? This may be particularly challenging in these times, but I hope we’ll continue to ask how can we be good neighbors?

In the book of Hebrews we read these words of encouragement:

“Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels without knowing it.”

Let us pray: God of Love, today I pray especially for those who need love or friendship and for people who are feeling lonely and low. I ask you to bring the right people into their lives. Surround them with your grace and lift them with your Spirit. Help each of us today to reach out to those in need and as we do, may we recognize your angels. We pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.

In the Very Pouring Out

In the Very Pouring Out

One of my pastor friends has a pretty powerful call story. There was a time late in his college life when he struggled profoundly with the meaninglessness of life. It got to the point that he began to despair life itself. He was not a Christian at this time.

Then one Sunday morning, somehow, someway, God led him to get out of bed and drag himself into a church. But what is significant, is that when God touched his heart again, it was not at a point in the service where he felt like he was being fed – but where he felt like he was being challenged. It happened during the singing of an old African American Spiritual – the choir and the congregation were all singing – I’m gonna live so God can use me – anywhere Lord, anytime… I’m gonna live so God can use me…

It was not that God was just saying, Ok son, I’m going to heal you. I’m going to make you whole. I’m going to provide for you or protect you. No. No. There was far more. God spoke to his heart and said,  I’m calling you to give your life away – to pour out your life for others… And in that very act of pouring out, you are going to find deep meaning and hope.

It’s a little bit counter-intuitive, isn’t it? But my friend will tell you that he has found, as many others have, that it is true. In giving we receive.

Maybe that’s what Jesus meant when he said, “For those who want to save their life, will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake, will find it..” (Matthew 16:25)

Let us pray: God of Hope, meet us again this day at the deepest point of our need. Fill us with your Spirit and empower us to pour our lives out for others in need. And as we do, may we find your healing grace. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Blessings We Must Pass On

Blessings We Must Pass On

I recently read a magazine article entitled, “Drifting Toward Hope” by a man named Vinh Chung. As a small child, Chung was a refugee from Vietnam – who set out with his family on a small boat. Somehow they were rescued at sea, and his family was taken in by a Lutheran church in Arkansas.  Life was extremely hard growing up but he worked hard, went to Medical school, and became a doctor.

In 2002, he returned to Vietnam and was appalled at how his relatives lived in dire poverty. He wrote, “Visiting them was like walking into a parallel universe – the life that would have been mine – had the wind blown our boat in a different direction.

Chung went on to write, “In the Gospel of Luke, Jesus said, ‘When someone has been given much, much will be required…”  I used to wonder who Jesus meant because I sure didn’t think it was my family. The way I saw it, we had been given nothing; entrusted with nothing. I hoped that rich and powerful people would read Jesus’s words and take them to heart.

“But when I went to Vietnam, I finally understood: He meant me. I was the one plucked from the South China Sea. I was the one granted asylum in a nation where education is available to everyone, and prosperity is attainable for anyone. I worked hard to get where I am today, but the humbling truth is that my hard work was possible because of a blessing I did nothing to deserve. And that blessing is something I must pass on, in any way I can.”

When I read this article, I found Chung’s story compelling. Indeed in the words of Genesis, we have been blessed to be a blessing to others. And it has been the witness of countless generations that our lives take on great meaning and hope when we find ways to give back.

Let us pray: Generous God, you have blessed us in ways great and small. Open our eyes to see the many ways in which we might share from our abundance; through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Share These Gifts!

Share These Gifts!

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

The musical “Godspell” has many wonderful scenes. One of my favorites is a scene toward the end when Jesus is with his disciples in the Upper Room. He takes a bucket of water, a rag, and a mirror, and he goes to his disciples, each in turn, and washes away their painted clown faces. Then he holds the mirror up in front of them, so they can see themselves as they really are. And then, he hugs them!

The point is clear and powerful: We don’t have to wear false faces, we don’t have to pretend. God loves and accepts us, just as we are!

Friend of Dial Hope, this is the Christian faith in three words: WE ARE ACCEPTED. God loves us. God loves us and accepts us. Now, here’s the other side of that coin: God wants us to accept that love and pass it on to other people. He wants us to live in that same kind of grace-filled loving spirit. He wants us to imitate his generosity in our dealings with others. He wants us to extend to other people the same kind of “amazing grace” that he has extended to us. That’s the measuring stick of Christian love – to be as generous and kind and forgiving toward others. In this eighth month of the year, don’t stop… don’t stagnate. There is more to life than you have found thus far. It is so important to stay alive as long as you live. With God’s help, you can do it!

Let us pray: Loving God, thank you for this wonderful journey we call life. Help us remember that you are with us every step of the journey. We thank you for ages past and ages still to come, for the wisdom of scripture, the means of grace, the bonds of faith, the hope that springs from the eternal and fills our hearts. We pray in faith and with thanksgiving, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Unfinished Business

Unfinished Business

The Reverend King Duncan once told about a letter that appeared in The Catholic Digest. A mother wrote that she was just finishing up a load of laundry, heading back upstairs when her kindergarten-aged daughter presented her deepest theological question. “Mommy,” she asked, “if it were the end of the world, and everyone was getting ready to die…” The mother stopped, shifted the basket, and said a quick prayer for wisdom to answer this question. “Yes?” The mother encouraged her daughter. The little girl continued: “Mommy if the end of the world came, would you have to take your library books back?”

Duncan reflected, “Obviously, that young lady did not want any unfinished business in her life.

“How about you? Is there some unfinished business in your life that needs to be taken care of? Is there someone you need to forgive? Are there amends to be made? A letter written? A phone call placed? A visit you need to make or a word or two that you need to speak?

The late humorist and author Lewis Grizzard once told about a time when he was being visited by his minister in the hospital. Grizzard was scheduled to have open-heart surgery the next morning, and he confessed to his pastor that he had not exactly led a virtuous life. He asked if there were still time to repent. The minister looked at his watch and replied, “Yes, but I’d hurry if I were you.”

Let us pray: Loving God, thank you for loving us exactly as we are – right now at this moment. But we also thank you that you love us so much that you invite us to change and grow. We want to live healthy, whole, meaningful lives, and to that end, we ask for insight, courage, and strength.  Be especially close to those who feel the weight of the world on their shoulders; and with those who are in pain and suffering today. May your Spirit rest on each one of us bringing us your peace. Amen.