Freedom

Freedom

Today is Independence Day. And many of you will celebrate with pool parties and cookouts and fireworks. I hope you will pause to give thanks to God that we live in a country where we have all kinds of freedom. We are free to worship God – or not; free to choose where we live, choose our jobs, who we marry. What a gift!

Freedom is one of the central themes of the gospel. The Apostle Paul wrote to the church in Galatia, “For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for self-indulgence, but through love become slaves to one another. For the whole law is summed up in a single commandment, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

In Christ, we are free from the bondage of guilt, free from our past mistakes, free from our failures, free from legalism, free from having to earn God’s love. But Paul tells us, most importantly, we are free to love and to serve other people. A natural expression of our freedom should be love.

Let us pray: You have blessed us so richly, Lord. We live in a time and place of great abundance, and great freedom. Yet we still see need. Remind us that we are blessed to be a blessing. Show us everyday, ways in which we can use our freedom and our resources to bless others.

We pray today with much gratitude for those who serve us by serving this country. We lift up the men and women of the military and their families, public servants, and civic volunteers of all types. We are inspired by their sacrifice and ask your blessing and guidance upon them. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

New Life

New Life

The other day, I was listening to an interview with, a Benedictine monk, David Steindle Rast. He was talking about anxiety – which so many of us have been feeling these days.

He said, “We have to acknowledge our anxiety, but we must not fear. (And) There is a great difference. See, anxiety… or being anxious — this word comes from a root that means ‘narrowness’ and ‘choking.’ The original anxiety is our birth anxiety. We all come into this world through this very uncomfortable process of being born… It’s really a life-and-death struggle for both the mother and the child…”

He went on to say that if we let go of the fear, “…the worst anxieties and the worst tight spots in our life, often, years later, when you look back at them, reveal themselves as the beginning of something completely new, a completely new life.”

I was listening to this and it made me think about some of my friends who lost their family business during the last big recession in 2008. It had been in their family for years. They had two kids still in high school at that time, and the loss was just devastating. They were worried about losing their house – how they were going to make ends meet. Talk about anxiety!

But God did move in their lives during that time. God did bring about something new. My buddy tells me that this whole experience brought them together as a family – bonded in ways they never could have imagined. They began to experience a whole new level of gratitude for the gifts they did have. It wasn’t too long after that, that my friend enrolled in seminary. I went to his ordination service two years ago, and today he’s a serving a Presbyterian church in Jacksonville.

If we think about it, we’ve all seen times when pain and suffering, confusion, and anxiety give way to new life.

All of this makes me wonder about all that we are going through right now…in our world, in our church… Are these birth pangs?… I don’t believe that God brought this on, but could it be that through this, God is at work even now to bring about something new?

Let us pray: Gracious God, today I pray that you would help us to let go of fear and instead to look for the potential. May we trust that you are at work – even now – even through all of this, to make all things new. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Generosity Part II

Generosity Part II

Yesterday I spoke about the connection many have found between being generous and deeper happiness. Indeed there are so many ways we can learn to be generous… with our time, our energy, our creativity, our hospitality, and our money.

But in light of all that is happening in the world around us, today, I want to focus a little more on another type of generosity – and that is being generous with our listening and understanding.

In our country right now, there is a real dearth of willingness to even try and understand where others are coming from. I think about the events of this past month. And I have to ask, what if, what if those of us who are trying to follow Jesus were to simply start by working on being generous with our listening – with our understanding… especially with those who look different from us or who may see the world differently? What if we were to work on being a student first and a critic second?

I know that even on a small scale, in my family, when politics come up, tempers so easily flare, things are said that hurt. In wanting to be right (or, in knowing we’re right) we damage our relationships. And not only that, we add anger to the world; we add fuel to the flames. And we do nothing to help our own sense of equanimity and peace.

Now, that’s not to say we shouldn’t have deep convictions. We should. It just seems we have lost the ability to have a real conversation, real dialog around certain topics. Things disintegrate so easily.

Of course, there will be times when we disagree and even argue our point with others. But, if we try and dominate every conversation, or beat people up with our point, or we shut them out, then we only isolate ourselves. Even worse, if we begin to demonize or hate people who see the world from a different perspective, that hate, that disgust begins to corrode the soul. It hurts our families. It hurts our communities. It hurts our country, and it hurts our world.

On the other side of this, may you and I, who are so blessed, who have received mercy and grace upon grace, may we find ways to cultivate a spirit of generosity with our listening ears and our understanding hearts.

Let us pray: Loving God, help us to find ways in this divided world, to be ambassadors of your love, mercy, and peace. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Happiness Course

The Happiness Course

I noticed recently that Yale University is offering a 10-week online class called “The Science of Well-Being.” Just this semester alone, 2.5 million people have enrolled, making it the most popular course in the university’s history. On campus, the course is titled “Psychology and the Good Life,” also known as “The Happiness Course.”

The topic fascinated me, and I spent some time perusing the Yale syllabus and related scientific studies. I was amazed at how much of it lines up with ancient biblical wisdom.

Now, no doubt that a significant factor of a person’s happiness is genetic and in part circumstantial. However, it is also clear from a scientific and biblical standpoint, there are habits of body and mind that can be cultivated for increased well-being.

One of the things that comes up time and time again is generosity.

Often, we think about generosity as related to money – which is a significant part of it. It’s very concrete. You can measure it. You can increase little by little. But in addition to money, we can also learn to be generous with our time, our energy, our creativity, our hospitality… and on and on.

I know that many of you have had the experience of finding a way to give to others, to serve others even while going through your own crisis. In the first year after a divorce and being alone without his children at Thanksgiving, I had a friend who volunteered at a homeless shelter. He said it was the best thing he ever could have done. It got him outside his own head. Completely lifted his spirits.

Just in general, generosity is a way of getting in on a larger good. We sense: I’m contributing – I’m a part of this – I’m making a difference. And man, that just feels good!

Let us pray: We recognize, O God, that whenever we use what we have in a way that blesses others; it opens our hearts. You give and you give and you give to us. Teach us to be generous, as you are generous. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Priceless

Priceless

There is a story about an old-time revival preacher who began his message by holding up a $20 bill. He turned to the crowd and asked, “Who would like this $20 bill?” Hands started going up. He started to crumple up the $20 bill and then asked again, “Who still wants it?” All of the hands went back up in the air. “Well,” he replied, “What if I do this?” And he dropped it on the ground and proceeded to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty. “Who wants it now?” Still the hands went into the air.

The preacher went on to say,” Friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value in God’s eyes. To God, you are always priceless.”

In chapter 43 of the prophet Isaiah, God speaks to a people who have fallen short time and again:

But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: Do not fear, for I have redeemed you. I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you… For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior… you are precious in my sight, and honored, and I love you…

Let us pray: We thank you, O Holy God, for your mercy, for your grace, and for your unconditional love. Help us to accept that love, mercy, and grace that it would be ours to share – this day and every day. Amen.

Look Deeper

Look Deeper

There is a line in Paul’s second letter to the Church in Corinth (chapter 5, verse 16) that continues to challenge me. He wrote, “From now on, therefore, we regard no one from a human point of view…” In the previous verse, Paul tells us that Christ died for everyone. Not just people who think like us, or vote like us, or who raise their children like us. Not just people of our generation or social status. Paul says Christ died for all – therefore we regard no one – no one – from a human point of view.

That means that we don’t just see them as they appear on the surface. We have to look deeper. We don’t just see their faults. We don’t just see their issues. We don’t just see them according to what they can do for us. We look at other people as sacred beings that Christ died for.

A friend shared with me once that one of her spiritual disciplines is to try and see the image of God in every single person she meets. Think about how that might change your interaction with people around you. What if you remembered that rude person behind the counter waiting on you as someone who Jesus loves; or that person who cut you off in traffic; or, the mean neighbor, or the homeless guy on the corner, or the mother-in-law who constantly tells you how to raise your children? What if we tried to remember that they are people who are struggling just like us, and Christ died for them – just like Christ died for you?

I have to believe that when we look for that image of God in others, that image shines brighter in us.

Our prayer today was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope Ministries. Let us pray: Loving God, who changes rivers in their course and alters the paths of the stars, infuse us and flood us today with joy and hope. Let the radiant power of your Holy Spirit destroy any negativity or cynicism in us and fill us with positive feelings of love and affirmation. Help us to say yes to the things that are good, and no to the things that devalue life. Mold us more in the image of Christ that we may hear you say, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Special in Olympics

The Special in Olympics

“Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.” -Joe

A few years ago, the Special Olympics were held in Seattle, and a beautiful thing happened. Nine contestants, all with physical or mental disabilities, stood at the starting line for the 100-yard dash. As the gun sounded, they all started out, not exactly in a dash, but with a relish to run the race to the finish and win. But as they ran, one boy slipped and fell. He tumbled over a couple of times and began to cry. The other eight runners heard the boy crying. They all stopped, turned around and went back, every one of them. One girl with Down’s syndrome bent down and kissed him on top of his head, and said, “This will make it all better.” The other runners helped the fallen boy up, and all nine of them linked arms and walked together, side by side, to the finish line. They all won! They all came in first! Everyone in the stadium stood, cheering went on for ten minutes. People who were there are still telling the story. People who weren’t even there, say they were.

You see, as a Christian, you don’t have to win. Maybe you need to slow yourself down and change your course to help someone, to partner with someone, to reconcile with someone, to encourage someone. When you do that you will have peace within and peace with God.

Let us pray: God of love, we thank you for this day. Forgive us when we lash out at others and at you. Forgive us and make us whole, with the capacity to sense your presence, your strength, your grace, and your love. By sensing your unconditional love, make us able to uphold others in their grief and pain and loneliness. We ask these things in the name of your son, our redeemer, Jesus Christ. Amen.

Let it Begin with Me

Let it Begin with Me

Today, I am deeply grateful for those of you who have supported the Dial Hope Foundation with a financial donation. Hope reaches others because of you. Thank you!

A rabbi and soap maker once went for a walk through their local town. The soap maker was really feeling negative about religion, and he asked the Rabbi, “What good is religion? Just look around you. What do you see? Trouble, misery, wars – even after all these years and years of preaching and teaching about goodness, truth, peace. What good is religion with all its prayers and sermons if all this evil still exists?”

The rabbi kept quiet as they continued their walk. Then they noticed a child playing in the street who was just covered with dirt and mud. The rabbi said to the soap maker, “Look at this child! Now you say that soap makes people clean, but what good is it? With all the soap in the world, this child is still dirty. What good is soap after all?”

The soap maker immediately answered him: “But rabbi, soap can’t do its job if it isn’t used!” And the rabbi said, “Exactly!”

My friends at First Christian Church in Neptune Beach end each Sunday’s worship service by singing the song, “Let There Be Peace on Earth, and Let it Begin with Me.” What a beautiful way to end worship and to be sent back out into everyday life!

It is true. As the story of the Soapmaker and Rabbi reminds us, our faith makes a difference only when it is put into practice.

Let us pray: Holy God, let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me. And may my life be joined with the rising movement of others who are doing likewise. Help us to live in such a way that our lives indeed shine light into the darkness and show forth peace. Amen.

Wilderness Camping

Wilderness Camping

Our family loves to go camping. We especially love to camp in the North Carolina mountains. Every summer we try to choose a location near a good stream to play in, or a good trail to hike on. We try to choose a place that is off the beaten path to avoid the crowds and potential road noise. Location is everything!

In the book of Numbers in the Bible, we find the Israelites camping in the wilderness. God gives them very careful instructions about where to set up their tents and how to organize their camp. They are each given a specific site surrounding the tabernacle which is the place God has promised to dwell. It is clear that God wants to be near his people.

In a commentary on Numbers, Joshua Kang writes, “Just as God dwelt among the Israelites to reassure them in the wilderness, God wants us to experience his presence now. In the spiritual life, we are called to ‘camp’ in God’s presence – to go deeper into our own hearts, where Christ dwells, as we learn to be loved by him and to worship him.”

Today may you find a location where you can sit still and attend to God’s presence, listen for God’s voice, and allow God’s healing grace to rest on you.

Let us pray: God of Hope, often we find ourselves in the wilderness of life, sometimes lost, lonely or confused, other times overwhelmed with awe at the beauty that surrounds us. Often we forget that you are as near to us as our next breath. Today, we ask you to help us find moments to camp in your presence, to receive your Spirit, and to tap once again into the very source of life. Thank you for drawing close to us. We draw near to you – even now. Amen.

God Proves His Love for Us

God Proves His Love for Us

Pastor and author Tony Campolo once wrote about a time when he was a teenager and he heard a visiting pastor speak about Judgement Day. This pastor terrified him with the claim that one day God would show us a movie of every single sinful thought, word, or action we ever committed. He ended this lurid description with the declaration, “And your mother will be there!”

On the contrary, Campolo maintains that Judgement Day will be more in line with what happened during the Watergate scandal trial. At that time the prosecutor procured a tape of what was thought to be an incriminating conversation between Nixon and his aides. However, just at the most crucial part of the tape, the section that would have revealed their crimes, there was an eighteen-minute gap of silence. Apparently Nixon’s secretary, Rosemary Wood, had erased any and all incriminating evidence! Campolo claims that in the same way, Jesus will erase any and all incriminating evidence against us!

Friend of Dial Hope, the scriptures teach us that we worship a God of love, mercy, and forgiveness. In the book of Romans we read, “But God proves his love for us in that while we still were sinners Christ died for us.”

Let us pray: We thank you for your love, O God. Wash over us again this day with your grace. Heal us and renew us that we might live as your forgiven and forgiving people. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.