Birthday Blessings

Birthday Blessings

Dial Hope has a birthday coming up. This September 10th, we turn 20 years old! For almost 20 years we’ve been sharing daily messages and sending out ripples of hope!

As we prepare for this celebration, we’d like to ask something of you – a birthday gift if you will. We’d love to know and / or see where it is that you have seen hope. In light of all that is going on in the world around us; the uncertainty, the worry, the fear, the divisiveness, we all need reminders of God’s hand at work in the world. We all need glimpses of grace and sparks of hope.

To that end, we are launching a Facebook campaign tilted, “Why I Have Hope.” To join in, please email us a picture – possibly with a short caption depicting your glimpse of hope. We will in turn post these pictures on our website and Facebook. It is our hope, that as a whole this collection will lift spirits and inspire. They will be our gift to each other and to the world around us. Email us at: info@dialhope.org

The Apostle Peter once wrote, “Always be ready to make your defense to anyone who demands from you an accounting of the hope that is within you; yet do it with gentleness and reverence.”

I wonder what hope you have within you… I wonder when and how God has touched your life… I wonder what you’ve seen or experienced… I can’t wait to find out!

Let us pray: Gracious God, I thank you for 20 years of Dial Hope, for your servant Roger Kunkel who had the vision, and for the opportunity to share in this ministry. We know this world is desperate for good news and signs of hope. May each of us, in our own lives, find ways to share what we have seen, heard, and experienced of you. In Christ name. Amen.

To Care or Not to Care

“Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.” -Joe

There is only one thing more costly than caring and that is not caring. It must break God’s heart when we are calloused, unfeeling, selfish, and uncaring. How do you treat other people? In the parable of the Good Samaritan, found in the 10th chapter in the gospel of Luke, the Samaritan is called good because he cared enough to do something good for someone in need. I have a physician friend who advises his patients to treat every person they meet each day, as if he or she were the most important person in the world. I like that! But, friend of Dial Hope, the Christian faith takes it a step further, a giant step further. We are urged to relate to every single person we meet as if that person were Christ in disguise. Wow! Try that for one day; it will change your life forever.

Let us pray: The world must have begun in silence, so God then moved to a crescendo of joyful music with a heavenly symphony crashing in rhythmic applause. Let there be light where there is shadow and joy where there is pain or depression. The blooming flowers, the gentle breezes remind us of hope for the renewing of our lives. Help us to think kindly of one another, to speak gently, to be creative listeners, and to behave with compassion. Transform our hum-drum lives into TA-DA! moments fueled by perpetual gratitude. Keep us laughing and caring because they are neglected on our agenda. Through the amazing grace of Jesus. Amen.

Where Do We Turn?

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Journalist Bob Garfield has often reported on the eccentric and unique features of human nature. In 1992, Garfield spent some time in Santa Fe, New Mexico where he met people from all walks of life who were trying to find healing or wholeness through things such as aura-balancing, drum-beating ceremonies, ancient mystical therapies, crystals, astrology, spiritual channeling, and so on. Even in a Santa Fe health food store, Garfield found some unusual approaches to medicine. Rather than containing the average mix of vitamins and herbs, this store offered vitamin and herb mixes called, “Luminous Spirit, Positive Attitude, Emotional Rescue, Clearing Hate, Clearing Greed, Humiliation, (and) Children of Divorce.”

Picking up on Garfield’s unusual find, the Rev. King Duncan wrote, “If only we could find emotional rescue or spiritual growth in a pill! But it’s not that easy.”

Duncan then raised the question, “Where do we turn for help?”

There is no doubt there is a deep hunger in our society for healing, wholeness, and meaning. In Psalm 121 we read this promise…

I lift up my eyes to the hills—
from where will my help come?

My help comes from the Lord,
who made heaven and earth.

The spiritual well-being that we desire may not come easily or over night. But it has been the experience of people of faith, through the millennia, that when we turn to God, that when we trust in God, God is faithful.

Our prayer today is another one that has been handed down by people of faith across generations. It comes from Psalm 25. Let us pray:

In you, Lord my God,I put my trust.

Show me your ways, teach me your paths. Guide me in your truth and lead me,
for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.

Remember, Lord, your great mercy and love,
for they are from of old.

Turn to me and be gracious to me,
for I am lonely and afflicted.

Relieve the troubles of my heart
and free me from my anguish.

Look on my affliction and my distress
and take away all my sins.

Guard my life and rescue me;
for I take refuge in you.

My hope, O Lord, is in you. Deliver us, from all our troubles! Amen.

You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

In the book of 1st Kings, chapter 19, there is a story about the prophet Elijah. Elijah is running for his life. He lies down under a broom tree and he prays, “It is enough now, O Lord, I don’t want to live…” When God responds, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” Elijah answers, “… the Israelites have forsaken your covenant, thrown down your altars, and killed your prophets with the sword. I alone am left…”

Elijah feels like he is alone in his ministry. Elijah feels alone in his life. He feels so alone that he doesn’t want to go on living.

As a pastor, it is a real privilege to get to be invited into people’s lives. Often I get to hear some awesome stories – beautiful celebrations. But I also get to hear about great tragedy. When people who have been going through hell, come into talk with me, often I’ll ask, who do you have supporting you? Who else can you talk to about this? Too many times they say no one…

God goes on to tell the prophet Elijah that actually, there are 7,000 others – who have not bowed the knee to Baal. God is telling him; you are not alone – you are not alone… There are others who are in this with you.

Some of the most powerful words we can hear are… I’m with you. You are not alone. I am here for you. However, some of the toughest words for us to say are “I need you,” or “I need help.” We don’t like the idea of dependence. But God created us to need him, and God created us to need each other. It is difficult to walk the journey alone.

I know it is not easy to risk giving of ourselves – allowing ourselves to be vulnerable. I know relationships can be messy. We fall short, and sometimes we hurt each other. Relationships take forgiveness. They take patience and prayer. And they take love.

But what a blessing to know that we don’t have to go it alone. And what a blessing to discover that when it comes to forgiveness, patience, prayer, and love – it is in giving that we most fully receive.

Let us pray: Loving God, grant us your grace and courage, that we might discover or strengthen the relationships that are already in our midst. Help us to give fully of ourselves that we would be a catalysis of your love. Amen.

The Image of the Father

The Image of the Father

There’s a story about some older men who gathered to celebrate the 50th anniversary of their college graduation. Naturally, all of them had changed in appearance over the years – they were grayer, balder, more wrinkled, and so on. But instead of providing name tags, the master of ceremonies decided that it would be more fun to have each man stand up in turn and have the others try to identify him using as a guide the picture from their college yearbook.

As they proceeded, they were able to identify all but one man. Nothing in his present appearance gave him away. Finally, the man said, “All right! I can see that you all don’t recognize me. Wait just a minute and I’ll give you a clue.” With that, he stepped out of the room and then came back with a good-looking young man by his side. “This,” he said, “is my son. Now, do you know who I am?” Almost immediately several men called out his name. The appearance of the son, who resembled his father, allowed the other men to identity him.

In the Christian faith, we believe that Jesus gives us the clearest picture of what God looks like. When we read about Jesus in the gospels, we see his compassion and forgiveness, we hear his challenge to live differently, and we feel his sacrificial love.

In his Gospel, John tells us, “No one has ever seen God, only the Son, who is close to the Father’s heart, who has made him known.”

Let us pray: We praise you, O God, for you are a compassionate, forgiving, and loving God. We thank you for your Son Jesus who shows us your heart. Today, I pray for those who need to know your loving presence. Be near to them. Surround them with your grace – even now. Amen.

Love that Will Not Let Us Go

Love that Will Not Let Us Go

“Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, the founder of Dial Hope.” -Joe

Some years ago, a young man named George Matheson entered Glasgow University. He had a keen mind. His hopes were high. Soon he and his finance would be married. He dreamed of a bright future. But then the bottom dropped out. He lost his eyesight. Because of his misfortune, Matheson was rejected by his fiancee, who said she couldn’t marry a man who was blind, and she left him. His world crumbled at his feet. Devastated, afraid, worried, he turned to God as never before, and God was there!

Struck blind, hurt, rejected, George Matheson reached out in the darkness and found that God’s unconditional love was there. And he wrote what has become one of our most beloved hymns, a hymn sung by Christians everywhere that says it all, a hymn of praise to God:

“O Love that wilt not let me go,
I rest my weary soul in thee;
I give thee back the life I owe,
That in thine ocean depths its flow, May richer, fuller be.” (1882)

Let us pray: Loving God, who loves each of us as a parent loves a child, we pause to remember your amazing grace. You are our refuge and strength and are present with us, both in good and in difficult times. Because you love us and always are with us, in gratitude we rededicate ourselves to following Jesus’ commandment to love you with heart, soul, mind and strength, and our neighbors as ourselves. Through the grace of Jesus. Amen.

When Hope becomes Strength

When Hope becomes Strength

I once heard about a school system in a large city that had a program to help children keep up with their work during stays in the hospital. One day a teacher helping with the program received a call asking her to visit a young boy. She went to see the boy that afternoon, but no one had mentioned to her that he had been badly burned and was in great pain. Upset at the sight of the boy, she stammered as she told him, “I’ve been sent to help you with nouns and adverbs.” She left feeling as though she hadn’t helped at all.

The next day, a nurse approached the teacher and asked, “What did you say to that boy?” The teacher thought she must have done something wrong and began to apologize. “Oh no,” said the nurse, “That’s not what I mean. We’ve been so worried about him. But ever since your visit yesterday, his whole attitude has changed. He’s fighting and responding to treatment. It’s as though he’s decided to live.”

Later, after the boy recovered, he explained that he had completely given up hope until the teacher showed up. He said, “They wouldn’t send a teacher to work on nouns and adverbs with a dying boy, would they?”

G.K. Chesterton once wrote, “Hope means hoping when things are hopeless, or it is no virtue at all… As long as matters are really hopeful, hope is mere flattery or platitude; it is only when everything is hopeless that hope begins to be a strength.”

Let us pray: In the darkest moments of the night, it is hard to believe there is a way forward. When we can’t see a path, when we can’t see a future, when we can’t see your gifts along the way, that is when we need you most. I pray today for those who feel they are in that place, O God. I ask for them an overwhelming measure of hope, a desire to overcome, a willingness to ask for help, and strength and courage that is beyond them. I entrust them to your care. Rest your Spirit on them and on each of us. Fill us with your peace. Amen.

Therefore We Will Not Fear…

Therefore We Will Not Fear…

There is an old story about two young boys whose mother asked them to chase a chicken snake out of the henhouse. They looked everywhere for that snake, but couldn’t find it. The more they looked, the more afraid they got. Until finally, when they did find it, they nearly killed each other running out of the chicken house.

“Don’t you know a chicken snake won’t hurt you?” their mother asked. “Yes, ma’am,” one of the boys answered, “but there are some things that will scare you so bad you’ll hurt yourself.”

Most of us have been there at some time in our lives.

When we act out of fear, we are much more likely to make hasty or even bad decisions. Or at other times, fear can be crippling. It can lead to intense worry, anxiety, and even inaction.

Maybe that is why the most frequent command in the Bible is, “Fear not.” Fear Not!

Psalm 46 is one of my favorites:

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble, Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, though the mountains shake in the heart of the sea…

Let us pray: Dear God, when change threatens to overwhelm us when our world feels as though it is coming apart when anxiety begins to rise within us and we find ourselves worried about our families, our communities, or our health help us not to fear, but to trust. Remind us that ultimately we rest in your hands. Today we claim the promise of the scriptures, that you are gracious and merciful and abounding in steadfast love. Amen.

Open to Surprises

Open to Surprises

“Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.” -Joe

It was Betty Talmadge who said, “Life is what happens to you when you’re making other plans.” Serendipitous things happen if we are willing to let them. Our plans must be adjustable to allow life to do what it will with us. We collect seashells with our children but fall in love with the hobby ourselves. We search for a particular painting but come upon a gorgeous piece of furniture instead. We take an elective course as a filler and end up pursuing the field professionally. After the death of a Rabbi, one of his disciples was asked, “What was most important for your teacher?” The disciple thought for a moment and replied, “Whatever he happened to be doing at the moment.”

Friend of Dial Hope, no matter where you are – driving in a car, the sanctity of your home, vacationing, a hospital bed, at your place of work – live fully this day, which is an unrepeatable miracle. Be open to surprises. Be playful. Focus on the constant sacrament of the little moments.

Let us pray: O God of all precious things, including animals and the majesty of your creation, who hears our pain even when fears block our words, create in us a heart of laughter and hope. May your spirit of comfort still the anxiety of those who live with enormous pressure and stress; may it fill the emptiness of lost and lonely lives. Weave your love, joy, and gratitude into the tapestry of our moments this day. Thank you, God. Amen.

In Giving, We Receive

In Giving, We Receive

My friend Rev. Ray Woody, who was a retired pastor, once told me that during his ministry, on Sundays, he used to visit all the visitors to his church. One particular Sunday he had an unusual experience. The first family he visited said they found the church to be warm and friendly. They were excited to go back. However, at the second home he visited, a man answered the door said, “Pastor, I’ve got to tell you, that was the coldest church I’ve ever been in. No one welcomed me, no one talked to me.”

Same church, same Sunday.

When he told me this, Ray said, “Joe you know what I’ve found? In life, most people will meet me halfway. If I smile, they’ll smile back. If I put out my hand, they’ll put out theirs. If I initiate conversation, others will talk. If I want to get involved, I can.”

Have you noticed that when we care enough about something or someone to put our heart and your soul into it, it is rich and rewarding? Think about a job or a relationship. If we give only half our heart – we never really get to experience the fullness of what it could be.

This is true also with our faith, isn’t it? When we make time for prayer and worship, when we give and when we serve, our faith is most often alive and it is a resource we can draw on.

I pray today that the fullness of God’s peace would rest upon you. May you would know God’s love, forgiveness, and hope in the very deepest part of your being. And, may you respond with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind.

Let us pray: You have blessed us so richly, O God. May we, in turn, be a blessing to others and to you. Amen.