Assurance of Help

“Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.” -Joe

Psalm 121 is one of my favorites. “l will lift up mine eyes unto the hills from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord who made heaven and earth.” In THE MESSAGE, Eugene Peterson translates Psalm 121 this way: “l look up to the mountains. Does my strength come from the mountains? No, my strength comes from God, who made heaven and earth, and mountains.”

The young boy sat in the waiting lounge of the airport. When the flight was called the boy was ushered on first. When I boarded the plane I was pleased to discover that he had the seat next to mine. He was polite in his greeting, and then went on coloring one of those coloring books airlines provide for child passengers. Humming happily, he didn’t seem to have a care in the world. During the flight, we ran into some turbulence that bounced the jetliner around like a kite in the wind. A woman seated across the aisle from the young man became very frightened. When she spoke to the boy, her voice was agitated. “Little boy, aren’t you scared?” “No, Ma’am,” he replied, briefly looking up from his coloring book. “My dad’s the pilot.” I leaned back in my seat and thought about this little boy who trusted his dad. Did I trust God that way to get me through the storms of life? Yes, and I silently thanked him. He’ll get you through today and onto his plan for you. Trust him. Trust his plan for your life. E. Stanley Jones reminds us, “l don’t know what the future holds, but I know who holds the future.” Friend of Dial Hope, that is the good news for today. TA-DA!

Let us pray: God of love, help us to say with the Psalmist, “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” In times of need, you are always there. Thank you. We love you. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Gift of Hospitality

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Henri Nouwen, once told about a time when he visited a monastery on retreat. The monks at that monastery observed vows of silence and the retreat was to be meditative and prayerful. Nouwen was delayed and had to arrive late on a rainy night well after bedtime. He was met at the door by one of the brothers who greeted him warmly, took his wet coat, and brought him to the kitchen for cup of tea.

They talked late into the night, and Nouwen began to relax and feel ready for the retreat. However, it dawned on him that this monk was supposed to observe silence, and so he asked, “Brother, why are you willing to sit and talk with me?” The monk replied “Of all the duties of the Christian faith and the rules of my order, none is higher than hospitality.”

Did you know that in its original form, “hospitality” combines two separate words, one meaning friend and the other meaning stranger. So from very early on, hospitality has carried with it the idea of making friends out of strangers.

I wonder how that would look for you and me.

Some people I know show hospitality to folks who are in need in their communities by volunteering in food pantries or homeless shelters. Others make a point to bring a cup of cold water to maintenance or lawn care workers. In this time of continued social distancing – even a smile or a kind word can go a long way. The challenge is to remember that of all the duties of the Christian faith, hospitality is near the top!

Let us pray: We thank you O God, for people who have shown hospitality to us, even when we were strangers to them. Give us eyes to see your image in each and every person we meet, and grant us the grace to welcome them as you would welcome them, and as you have welcomed us. Amen.

What’s the Goal?

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The goal of Christian practice (and Buddhist practice) is authentic personal transformation: what Thomas Merton calls the recovery of the lost or true self. It is process, not destination. It is the journey toward God. It is ongoing. It is frustratingly slow. It never ends. How do we do it? We do it by praying. We do it by changing those actions that separate us from God’s will. And we do it by listening – listening in silence. Silence says a lot. We need to be silent to hear the questions we do not have thoughts or words for asking. And what I expect or hope to hear is probably not what God will have to say. Indeed, all I may receive for a while is what theologian Karl Rahner calls “the grace to continue waiting in prayer.” The answers come in God’s time, not mine. When I am truly ready to hear them, not before. So, I follow and trust. And then, when the answer comes, just say “yes.” I may not always be certain what I am specifically saying yes to, but it is enough to just say yes. More will be revealed!

Let us pray: Dear God, help us to sit in silence, and be still, aware. For there, in our own hearts, your Spirit is at prayer, Help us to listen and learn, open and find the heart wisdom that only you can give. Amen.

Amazing Grace

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The “new creation” that we become in baptism is not a static form of salvation. It is a manifestation of God’s grace – a living, evolving thing – that should be reflected in our lives as our thank you to God for blessing us with it. Salvation calls us to constant growth as Christians by living out the Gospel message, that we may help bring about God’s kingdom here on earth, which is our charge.

In the words of theologian Marcus Borg, “the Christian life is about a relationship with God that transforms us into more compassionate beings. The God of love and justice is the God of relationship and transformation.” For if we believe that the gift of grace is only about going to heaven, Jesus died for nothing. The gift of grace is about our relationship with God in this life and manifesting in this life all that God stands for in the example of his son. The gift of grace is that of always having access to God even when we fall short of the mark through error and sin, and of being forgiven. As that glorious, timeless hymn puts it:

“Through many dangers, toils and snares I have already come. ‘Tis grace has brought me safe thus far – And grace will lead me home.”

Let us pray: Lord, by whom we are guided in judgement, grant us in all our doubts, uncertainties, and imperfections the grace to ask what you would have us do and the grace to carry it out, so that all we do may begin, continue, and end in you. Then, when our work for you on earth is done, grant us a holy rest and peace at last. Amen.

A Virtual Monastery

A Virtual Monastery

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How often have we heard “God helps those who help themselves?” Well, I recently had a lesson in that for these challenging days of pandemic, political and social schism, and the 24/7 drama of television and social media.

For a while, I didn’t understand why it was upsetting me so much until I realized that it was resonating with my baser nature – self-righteous, “justified” anger, among other things – at the expense of what God asks of me. So I knew I had to do something about it. I prayed, talked with a few wise friends, and was blessed with an “aha!” moment: I needed to take some action! And that, in these days of Zoom meetings and other “virtual” experiences, was to construct a “virtual monastery” for myself to keep the noise out. I began by cutting out all social media and television news and spending more time in prayer and contemplation. (The news comes to me via two daily newspapers.) I didn’t turn my cell phone on until 8 a.m., after breakfast and morning prayer. And in that place of peace and quiet, I discovered that God was no longer drowned out. God could speak clearly to my mind and heart once more.

Micah’s voice: “This is what the Lord asks of you: to act justly, to love tenderly, and to walk humbly with your God.” John’s voice in his first Epistle: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God.” And Jesus himself: “ I give you a new commandment – that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. ” So let’s join together, my sisters and brothers, and make room for God to get back in, and then – refreshed and at peace – go out into the world and do our best to model God’s message in all we do.

Let us pray this prayer from the Episcopal Book of Common Prayer:
O God, you have bound us together in a common life. Help us, in the midst of our struggles for justice and truth, to confront one another without hatred or bitterness, and to work together with mutual forbearance and respect. Amen

The Message of Grace

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In his book Proof Timothy Paul Jones writes about his middle daughter who is adopted. She had been adopted before, but that family put her back in the foster care system. For some reason, they had not treated this little girl like she was truly their child. Whenever they had special outings, they took all their biological children with them, but left their adopted daughter behind. Of course, this child got the message that she wasn’t wanted, wasn’t good enough, wasn’t a full member of the family.

So when Timothy Jones’ and his family adopted this little girl, she acted out – a lot. They decided that the best way to welcome her to their family was to plan a trip to Disney. But when they told their new daughter about the trip, her behavior problems only got worse. She lied, she stole food, she was mean to her new siblings. It seemed that this little girl was so afraid of not getting to Disney that she was trying to guarantee her new parents would have a reason to leave her behind.

The day finally came for their trip, and the family went all out. It was a full day of fun!

As they collapsed in their hotel room that night, Timothy asked his new daughter what she thought of the experience. She smiled and said, “Daddy, I finally got to go to Disney World. But it wasn’t because I was good; it’s because I’m yours.”

And then he writes, “That’s the message of outrageous grace. Outrageous grace isn’t a favor you can achieve by being good; it’s the gift you receive by being God’s.”

When the message of grace sinks deep into our hearts; we can let of thinking that God’s love is something we need to earn. We can let go of our past mistakes and failures – knowing that God has let them go… We can let go of our shortcomings. And we can let go of the shortcomings of others… And we are set free from having to be the judge of the world… And that just feels good!

Let us pray: We thank you, O God, for your unconditional love, mercy and grace. Help us accept these gifts, and to share them with a world desperately in need. In Christ’s name. Amen.

How You Play the Game

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Dick Howser was a much loved manager of the Kansas City Royals baseball team in the 1980’s. When he resigned due to brain cancer, his wife Nancy said, “As a child I was brought up to believe that it is not whether or not you won or lost, but how you played the game that mattered. Then in the real world, I learned you had to win to get anywhere and it didn’t matter how you did it. But now after what has happened to Dick, I realize the old way is the right way. It really and truly is how you play the game.”

It is indeed the vulnerable moments of life that cause us to rethink what is really important.

We have only one shot at this life, and we will not always get it right. But lets not make the mistake of waiting until the end to be in touch with deeper meaning and purpose. Today, may you reflect on the people and values you deeply cherish. Take the time to make a list. And then, may you think again about their place and priority in your life.

Let us pray: Gracious God, we thank you for the gift of this day and indeed for the gift of life itself. Some of us today may feel as though our lives have lost meaning and hope. Others of us may feel lonely and others still may feel very far from you. Meet us this day right where we are. Remind us of our dreams. Reconnect us to what is truly important, truly good, truly life-giving. Empower us again to order our lives in such a way that we both find hope and give hope to others. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Majestic

“Today’s message was written by my friend, Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.” -Joe

In Psalm 8:1 we read: “O, Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!”

The sun was taking its last breath of day and the moon began to shine in its place of honor. Only a small sliver of moon was scheduled to show, but it arrogantly glinted on the opposite edge, attempting to reflect the glorious sun as it made its exit. My eye could fill in the complete circle of light, delighting in the stubborn nature of the moon in the sky of the gentle south. I made my way across the shifting sand, sinking in with each step. As I crested the small mound of sand I could see the Gulf, the setting sun, the rising moon. It was almost too much for my senses to accept. Each and every sense was stimulated. My eyes have never seen such color before. Only God could mix the hues before me. Only my creator could fade one color so perfectly into the next. The setting sun was brilliant. I could feel God. God was there enjoying the intensity of the experience with me. I felt cradled in his loving grace and oh, so grateful to be alive on this planet. I was blessed to stand in that one place, in that one moment of time.

Let us pray: Thank you, Lord, for showing me a glimpse of heaven. Thank you for giving me senses to experience you fully. Allow me to hold this memory forever and to remember this passage from Psalm 8:1: “O, Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!” Loving God, we thank you for the majesty of each day and mystery of each velvet night. Our lives are wonderfully made, fragile as lace, strong as spider webs. We pray for those all over your world whose days are gray instead of the ever-changing kaleidoscope of color that paints our lives. O, Lord, be thou our vision. Help us make this day a masterpiece. Through the amazing grace of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Prayers Made of Action

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I heard recently about a group of women from a small suburban church who would meet every Tuesday to pray. Because their faithfulness in prayer was so well known in their area, they would get prayer requests from far and wide.

For several years they prayed specifically for a baby – one long hoped for by friends who wanted to adopt a little girl born in China. During those years, the friends were waiting for papers to be processed, for government officials to sign documents, and for bureaucrats to act. However, when the couple received news that the baby was waiting for them, they had to leave immediately, leaving behind all of the unfinished preparations for the baby’s homecoming.

“Don’t worry,” the women of the prayer group said to the parents. “While you are away picking up the baby, we’ll take care of everything back here. We will be an ‘Emergency Baby Committee,’ painting the nursery, putting the bed together, stacking the diapers, getting the clothes ready.”

I love this story about these faithful women because it reminds me that the way we pray can have an impact on the way we live. Prayers formed by words can become prayers made of action. It is so true that prayer changes things. It is also true that prayer changes us!

Let us pray: God of grace, let our concern for others reflect Christ’s self-giving love, not only in our prayers, but also in our practice. Meet us today in our daily life and move us to respond to your grace, through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Love and you are a Success!

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John 3:16 reminds us, “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son…”

One of the great Christian thinkers, William Sloane Coffin, reminded us that while Abraham lived to be a ripe old age, Jesus died young. “But didn’t both show us that it is by its content rather than by its duration that a lifetime is measured? Love and you are a success, whether or not the world thinks so. The highest purpose of Christianity… is to love.”

Love and you are a success! Today, I invite you to reflect on this world that God so loves. Are there places or people in the world around you who might need a little extra measure of that love right now? How might you show that love in those places or to those people most in need?

Let us pray: God of Hope, we praise you for your unconditional love, mercy and grace. You give and you give and you give. We want to be the kind of people who give with you. We want to be the kind of people who make a positive difference in the lives others. So, we ask you to heal us where we need healing, challenge us where we need to be challenged. Open our eyes to the need around us, and show us how we might reflect your love. Amen.