Jesus Wept

Jesus Wept

Presbyterian poet Ann Weems paints a beautiful picture of redemption with her poetry. She writes out of an experience of significant loss in her own life, and her work touches the deep places of heartache, faith, and hope. She draws heavily on the scriptures. I share with you now a few verses from her book, the Psalms of Lament.

“In the quiet times this image comes to me: Jesus weeping.

Jesus wept, and in his weeping he joined himself forever to those who mourn.

‘Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.’

Someday. Someday God will wipe the tears from Rachael’s eyes.

In the godforsaken, obscene quicksand of life,

there is a deafening alleluia rising from the souls of those who weep,

and of those who weep with those who weep.

If you watch, you will see the hand of God putting the stars back in their skies one by one.”

Let us pray:  Sometimes it feels as though life is falling apart, O God. We don’t always understand why things happen the way they do. But we have to trust that you are good. We have to trust that you are present in our pain and suffering. And we have to trust that you are already at work to heal and make whole again.

We pray today especially for those who have recently lost a loved one, and for all those who mourn a loss in life. May your peace which passes all understanding rest gently on each of them, and on each of us today. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

I Will Make a Way…

I Will Make a Way…

In the book of Isaiah, chapter 43, verse 15, there is this beautiful line where God says, “I am the Lord, your Holy One, the Creator of Israel, your Sovereign…

Take a minute and let that sink in… Do we trust that Holy One we worship is Sovereign?

2020 has been a year of incredible loss. For some of you, it may have been six months or longer since you’ve hugged a child or a grandchild. 6 months or longer since you’ve sat at a dinner table with close friends.  Many of you have experienced intense loneliness. There have been birthdays and graduations and senior proms and weddings and funerals canceled, postponed, or changed dramatically. Even more significantly, over the last six months, some of you have lost loved ones to this terrible virus.

There has been incredible loss. I’m not sure we’ve fully grieved yet. Our whole way of life has been altered. And we have no idea for how long.

Now, in that part of the book, Isaiah was writing to a community in exile. Israel had experienced one of the most devastating and defining events in their history. Babylon – the major superpower of that day – had swept in and laid siege to Jerusalem. They destroyed the city, burned the temple, and carted off many of the citizens to live in Babylon.  To say that it was a dark time for Israel would be a huge understatement.

But here in verse 19, into the despair, God speaks further, “I will make a way in the wilderness…”

Notice what God does not say. God does not say, I will take away the wilderness. God does not say, “I am going to remove the challenges and the trials and the heartache of life.” No. But God does say, “I will make a way…”

I will make a way in the wilderness.

I pray that even during these uncertain and difficult times, you would trust that the Holy One we worship is sovereign.  And may you come to see that God will indeed make a way forward.

Let us pray: You are the God of new beginnings, new life, new possibilities. You are also the God who makes all things new – even us. We trust you with our situations, with our deepest concerns and anxieties. Meet each of us where we are this day. Lead us and guide us even through the wilderness; in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Gratitude and Grace

Gratitude and Grace

The Apostle Paul once wrote, “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

Henri Nouwen claims that gratitude is in many ways a discipline.  It involves a conscious choice. He wrote, “I can choose to be grateful even when my emotions and feelings are still steeped in hurt and resentment. It is amazing how many occasions present themselves in which I can choose gratitude instead of complaint… I can choose to speak about goodness and beauty, even when my inner eye still looks for someone to accuse or something to call ugly. I can choose to listen to the voices that forgive and to look at the faces that smile, even while I still hear words of revenge and see grimaces of hatred… There is always the choice between resentment and gratitude…”

Nouwen goes on to say, “The choice for gratitude rarely comes without some real effort. But each time I make it, the next choice is a little easier, a little freer, a little less self-conscious. Because every gift I acknowledge reveals another and another until, finally, even the most normal, obvious, and seemingly mundane event or encounter proves to be filled with grace.”

As you go through the day today, and then throughout the week, try to be aware of all the occasions in which you can choose gratitude. Especially be mindful during those difficult, stressful moments. And as you do, may notice grace abounding.

Let us pray: We acknowledge, O God, that amid the busyness of everyday life, it is easy to lose sight of your hand at work in our lives and the world. Especially in the tense, angst-filled moments, help us to choose to look for the gifts and to give thanks. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Enjoy Spreading Joy

Enjoy Spreading Joy

In David Dunn’s book entitled “Giving Yourself Away,” he writes about a lesson he once learned from a bus driver.

One day while riding a bus, Dunn noticed that the driver seemed to be exceptionally cheerful in every imaginable circumstance. There was a kind and happy word from him for everyone who stepped on the bus, and again for everyone who left.

As he was about to get off, Dunn was curious. He approached the driver and told him that he was the happiest bus driver he had ever seen. Then he asked, “Why are you so cheerful?”  “Well,” the driver said, “to be honest, I read in the paper a few months ago about a man who died and left a lot of money to a bus driver who was nice to him. So, I thought maybe I would try it myself. But I’ve enjoyed myself so much being nice to people, I don’t care whether anybody ever leaves me any money anyway.’

I love that story. It just reminds me that the one thing we have control over in our life is our attitude. We are constantly choosing how we will act or react to people and events all throughout our day. I am sure that you have noticed, a negative attitude only fosters more negativity, while a cheerful friendly spirit can be contagious.

The apostle Paul put it this way: we reap what we sow.

In the book of Proverbs we read, A cheerful heart has a continual feast!

May you and I be the kind of people who sow seeds of compassion, hope, and kindness.

Let us pray: Loving God, we thank you for people who brighten our day. Continue to adjust our attitudes and tune our spirits so that we too would be beacons of light for a world that is desperately in need. Amen.

The Best Promises of God

The Best Promises of God

Today I am deeply grateful for the Dial Hope Board of Directors and for all who give so generously of their time behind the scenes to make Dial Hope a reality.

In one of his commentaries on the story of Jacob’s ladder, Old Testament scholar Walter Brueggeman – compares the promises Jacob received to the 23rd Psalm. In that story, God makes some promises to Jacob in a dream: “Know that I am with you and will keep you wherever you go and will bring you back to this land; for I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised.”

When Jacob wakes up, he restates God’s promises:

God is with me.
God will keep me.
God will give me bread to eat.
I will come again to my father’s house in peace.

Brueggeman writes, “The promises here given and received are echoed in Psalm 23…” These are promises that people of faith have claimed for hundreds and hundreds of years. He goes on to assert, “The psalm is not a cliche, but a studied summary of the best promises of God and the deepest yearnings of Israel.”

Let us pray today claiming these promises, using this psalm. Please pray with me:

The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.

He makes me lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside still waters;

He restores my soul.
He leads me in right paths
for his name’s sake.

Even though I walk through the darkest valley,
I fear no evil;
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff—
they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
all the days of my life,
and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord
my whole life long.

Holy Ground – Beethoven’s Piano

Holy Ground – Beethoven’s Piano

Today’s message was written by Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A young woman stood before Beethoven’s piano in a Vienna museum. Presently she struck a few discordant notes. “I suppose,” she said to an attendant, “that many noted musicians have inspected this instrument.”  “Oh, yes,” replied the man. “Recently Paderewski was here.” “Paderewski!” exclaimed the visitor. “Certainly, he must have played something wonderful.” “On the contrary, he did not feel worthy to touch it.”

Friend of Dial Hope, wherever you are, this very moment – in a hospital bed, driving to work, your home, your place of business, a payphone, a helicopter over Iraq – you are on holy ground. It is holy because God is with you! Whether your heart is smiling or sad, whether you are lonely or afraid, whether you are hurting, whether you are celebrating – God is as close to you as breathing, nearer than hands or feet. Remember, God loves you just the way you are, but God refuses to leave you there. God wants you to have a heart like his. God wants you to be just like Jesus. Let today be a day filled with joy, hope and contagious enthusiasm.

Let us pray: God of love, we await the miracle of your grace in this time of prayer. Change the chemistry of our doubts and discouragements into a willingness to live the venture of faith. Give us the spontaneous emotion of a child of faith. In the name of the risen Christ. Amen.

Pausing to Look Up

Pausing to Look Up

There is a story about a new Sunday School teacher who couldn’t open the combination lock on the supply cabinet. So she went to the pastor for help. The pastor started turning the dial of the combination lock, stopped after the first two numbers, looked up serenely toward heaven, began moving his lips silently, turned to the final number, and opened the lock.

The teacher gasped, “I’m in awe of your faith, pastor.”

“Really,” he said, “It’s nothing. The number is on a piece of tape on the ceiling.”

Don’t you wish the answers to all of life’s problems were on a piece of tape on the ceiling? Then, when we passed through a challenging time in our life, all we would have to do is look up!

The truth is that there are no easy answers to many of life’s problems. It is not all cut and dry, black and white. However, when we find ourselves in the midst of great stress, dilemma, or conflict, it is not a bad idea to pause and look up.

We turn to God in prayer, not because we believe that God is going to solve all of our problems like magic – but because we trust that God’s walks with us. And we trust that God will give us the courage and strength to face the hour.

Let us pray: Loving and gracious God, thank you for walking with us. Thank you for meeting us amid life’s greatest sorrows and challenges as well as in life’s greatest joys. Amen.

For All that Has Been…

For All that Has Been…

Former head of the United Nations, Dag Hammarskjold wrote about his journey. He suffered three years of intense darkness in his life – a time of anguish and inner turmoil. And somehow, in some way, God met him in the darkness of night. He wrote, “At some moment I did answer Yes to Someone – or Something – and from that hour I was certain that existence is meaningful and that, therefore, my life, in self-surrender, had a goal.” As light began to break in, he wrote in response, “For all that has been – Thanks! And for all that shall be – Yes!”

Many people look back with regret on dark moments in their life, but Hammarskjold understood that God used that time to break into his life with new meaning and hope and redemption.

Our prayer today is one that he wrote. Let us pray: Great and good God, give us pure hearts that we may see you, humble hearts that we may hear you, hearts of love that we may serve you, hearts of faith that we may live in you, reverent hearts that we may worship you,  here and in the world out there, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Silent Prayer

Silent Prayer

There’s a story about a father and son who went to lunch one day together. When the waiter brought the food, the father said, “Son, we’ll just have a silent prayer.”  Dad got through praying first and waited for the boy to finish his prayer, but he just sat with his head bowed for an unusually long time.  When he finally looked up, his father asked him, “What I the world were you praying about all that time?”  With the innocence and honesty of a child, he replied, “How do I know? It was a silent prayer.”

The truth is, sometimes, silent prayers are the best ones. They allow us room to listen for the still small voice of God. Today, I pray that you would find some time to sit in the presence of God and allow the Spirit to stir in your soul.

Let us pray: Guide us to those quiet moments, O God, that times of refreshing may come upon us. Open our ears and our hearts to the movement of your Spirit.

Today, we pray especially for people who work hard and who have little time to rest. We lift up our military personnel, firefighters, police officers, peacekeepers, and aid workers. Draw them close to you. Grant them your guidance, your peace, and your love; through Jesus Christ. Amen.

Learning from Others

Learning from Others

Today’s message was written by my friend, Rev. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A famous writer once said, “I owe much to my friends, but all things considered, it strikes me that I owe even more to my enemies.”

Critics are thorns in our sides. In fact, most of the time they are a real pain. They prick and puncture. They bruise us. They hurt us. Yet, as we heal from the wounds, we grow to appreciate their barbs. We learn quickly that we are only humans, imperfect, and flawed. The trouble with friends is that they let us get away with too much. Instead of a shove, they may pass us syrup. Foes do not need to tell us anything but the truth. The question is – are we listening?

Let us pray: Faithful and forgiving God, who loves us as we are as well as for whom we can become, who sees through our imperfection, our problems, and envisions our potential; thank you for enabling us both to be and to become. For our past and present sins of commission and omission, we ask your pardon. Enabled by your amazing grace, may we become more the person you want us to be. Let this day be filled with joy and hope and laughter. Though Jesus Christ. Amen.