May They See Jesus in You

May They See Jesus in You

Our church has a partnership with a church across town. We have been working with them over the last few years to help restore a blighted neighborhood in West St. Augustine. 

One of the first times I went to help out, it was not on one of the scheduled work days, but I went with one of our elders, Cliff Calvert, to do some preliminary carpentry. By that point, Cliff had been down there so often that everyone knew him.  He had already made such a reputation in the community, that cars would honk and people wave enthusiastically, as they drove by his work site… “Mr. Cliff!”  And when we went to eat lunch at the BBQ place across the road, they wouldn’t let us pay.

The need in that neighborhood is tremendous. And the actual work we do down there does make a difference. But it’s the restoration work is not the most important thing. The relationships we’re building with our neighbors speak to the larger reality of God’s Kingdom.

Over the past few days, we reflected on John 12:21, where some outsiders find the disciple Phillip and say, “Sir, we wish to see Jesus.”  

There is tremendous need in the world around us right now. Even right here in our own communities, many are lonely. There are parents struggling to raise their children in an age of social media and rapidly changing norms.  Others are genuinely hurting and in need. 

I can’t think of a time when the world has needed Jesus more than right now… I can’t think of a time when the world has needed us more than right now.

“They would see Jesus.”

May they see him in you, and in me.

Let us pray: God of Hope, meet us today at the deepest point of our need. Heal us where we need healing. Comfort us where we need comfort. Challenge us where we need to be challenged. And then use us as instruments of your love and grace, that the world might see Jesus, through us. Amen. 

Longing to See Jesus

Longing to See Jesus

Back in August, I was doing some continuing education in North Carolina. One of the books I read in preparation for the class was called, The Great DeChurching. It was based on current social and demographic research. Apparently, right now we are in the middle of the largest and fastest religious shift in the history of our country. Over the last 25 years, roughly the time I’ve been in ministry, somewhere around 40 million people have stopped attending church. That’s about 15% of our population.  Approximately 86 churches are closing every week.

This is a huge shift!  

What the research also shows is that at the same time, we are experiencing an epidemic of loneliness in our country. There is more division and isolation. And people are longing to connect with others… in a real way. They are longing to fit in somewhere, to belong. And, they are longing for meaning and hope in this world that is so fractured right now. 

It’s interesting. On a hopeful note, the research also shows that many who stopped going would be open to coming back if someone invited them, if they thought they could build new friendships, or if they found the right church. But the questions people are asking are no longer – Is Jesus real? Or is the story of Jesus true? No. The question people are asking is: Is Jesus good?  

Over the past couple of days, we reflected on John 12:21, where some outsiders find the disciple Phillip and say, “Sir, we wish to see Jesus.”  Jesus answers, They will see me. They will see me in self-sacrifice. They will see me in humility. They will see me in generosity. They will see me in self-giving love. 

I have to believe people are still longing to see Jesus. They are not longing to know what we think about politics. They are not longing to hear sermons. They are not longing to know every detail of our doctrines… But they do want to see Jesus. 

They would see Jesus. 

May they see him in you, and in me.

Let us pray: God of Hope, meet us today at the deepest point of our need. Heal us where we need healing. Comfort us where we need comfort. Challenge us where we need to be challenged. And then use us as instruments of your love and grace, that the world might see Jesus, through us. Amen. 

In a Life Freely Given

In a Life Freely Given

Yesterday we reflected on John 12:21, where some Greeks find the disciple Phillip and say, “Sir, we wish to see Jesus.”

By identifying them as Greeks, John is telling us that they are not Jewish. They are not religious insiders. But they have somehow found themselves at a religious festival. They must have heard about Jesus because they found one of his disciples, a man named Philip, and they asked to see him. They want to know more. 

It’s interesting.  Jesus doesn’t say, tell the Greeks I’ll meet them in Church. He doesn’t say: tell them they must first believe this, this, and this – then they will see me.  No. He says my hour has come.

Now, in the Gospel of John, the word “hour” is heavy. Jesus uses it to refer to the cross and the resurrection. So he is saying here – if these folks want to see me – they will see me in the clearest sense through the events that are about to unfold. They will see my teaching – lived out. They will see my life poured out. And they will see life being brought out of death.

Jesus goes on to say, “Very truly, I tell you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains just a single grain, but if it dies it bears much fruit.  Whoever serves me must follow me, and where I am, there will my servant be also.

Jesus is talking about his own life and death. But he is also talking about ours. When we love, when we sacrifice for the good of others, when we die to ourselves, to our egos, to our pride, to our own agendas, we are showing people his love… 

There is no doubt, people are still longing to see Jesus. 

May they see him in you, and in me.

Let us pray: God of Hope, meet us today at the deepest point of our need. Heal us where we need healing. Comfort us where we need comfort. Challenge us where we need to be challenged. And then use us as instruments of your love and grace, that the world might see Jesus, through us. Amen. 

They Would See Jesus

They Would See Jesus

At Columbia Seminary, where I went to school, and where John worked as the Dean of Students, in their chapel, they have a big wooden pulpit. And, I can tell you it is nerve-wracking and a little scary to stand up there and look out at all the professors and theology students. On the back of the pulpit – where only the preacher can see it, there is a little plaque that says, “They would see Jesus.” 

This saying is the King James version of John 12:21, where some Greeks find the disciple Phillip and say, “Sir, we wish to see Jesus.”

The point of the plaque in that pulpit is to voice the hope that somehow the preacher’s words would point to Jesus, and that through the message somehow people would be drawn closer to him. To me, it was always a little reminder that people are longing to see Jesus – even theologians and professors.

They would see Jesus.

I’ve often thought it would be an appropriate scripture to tape on your computer screen at work, on the bathroom mirror, or on the dashboard of your car. It could serve as a short prayer – may the people I meet today – may they see Jesus in me.

Let us pray: God of Hope, meet us today at the deepest point of our need. Heal us where we need healing. Comfort us where we need comfort. Challenge us where we need to be challenged. And then use us as instruments of your love and grace, that the world might see Jesus, through us. Amen. 

The Ripple Effect

The Ripple Effect

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A small dog had been struck by a car and was lying wounded by the side of the road. A doctor driving by noticed that the dog was still alive, stopped his car, picked up the dog, and took him home. There he discovered that the dog had been stunned, and had suffered minor cuts and abrasions, but was otherwise alright. He revived the dog, cleaned up the wounds, and was carrying the animal from the house to the garage when it suddenly jumped from his arms and scampered off. “What an ungrateful little dog,” the doctor thought to himself. He thought no more about the incident until the next evening when he heard a scratching at his door. When he opened it, there was the little dog he treated, with another hurt dog. 

That is the story of the “ripple effect.” Throw a stone into a lake and the water ripples out, and the circle widens. One of the great characteristics of the first Christians was their ripple effect. Something had happened to them that filled them with so much joy they just could not contain it. It was contagious. It spread out among the people in a ripple effect. And the circle of love grew wider and wider. 

Let us pray: Lord, help us to spread your love by being the gospel, the good news to others. Give healing to those who are ill or anxious today and remind us of the power of your spirit to transform every earthly situation. Give strength to the weak and hope to the depressed. Keep in safety all who travel. Watch over the poor and the homeless. Now let the ripple effect of your love and joy help us to make this day a masterpiece. Through Christ our Lord, Amen. 

Scapegoats

Scapegoats

Yesterday we talked about scapegoats – in the cultural sense of the word – someone to blame when things go wrong. The Bible talks about scapegoats too – only in a little different sense. The book of Leviticus (16:20-22) tells us that God provided a means to alleviate guilt and shame, by giving the Israelites a ritual. Every year, the priests were to take a goat, lay hands on it, and confess over it all the sins of the community. The goat was then set free into the wild. The community was free from the burden of carrying around past wrongs, regret, and shame.

Some people carry their past, their guilt, and their shame around with them like a ton of bricks. It gets heavy and it weighs down their lives. This is sad. Today, we don’t need a scapegoat. We are free to confess our failures directly to God, and God has promised us forgiveness and new life.

In the first letter of John, he reminds us, “If we say we are without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. But, if we confess our sins, God who is merciful and just will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Friends, I invite you to hear and believe the good news.

Let us pray: The words of Psalm 139 come to mind again, “Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and then, lead me in the way everlasting.

We confess our sins before you, this day, O God. Trusting that you are good, that you are gracious, merciful, and forgiving.  Take away the shame. Take away the guilt. Help us to accept that we are forgiven – and lead us to new life; through the power of the Risen Christ who died and was raised for us. Amen.

The Blame Game

The Blame Game

I came across an old comic strip the other day “Frank and Ernest.” It was simply a drawing of Noah’s ark with the animals lined up getting on board two by two. Noah says to Ms. Noah, “Two each of everything, except we’ll take as many scapegoats as we can get!”

In life, we like scapegoats, don’t we? When things go wrong, we like to have something or someone else to blame. “It’s not my fault!,” we like to say. 

All the way back to Adam and Eve, when God asked Adam why he ate the forbidden fruit, what did he do? He blamed it on Eve, of course. Eve, in turn, blamed it on the serpent!

We are human. We’re flesh and blood. From time to time we all make mistakes. We all fall short. But don’t we grow more as human beings when we face up to our mistakes and failures and when we accept the consequences and learn from them?

Let us pray: Loving God, we thank you that you know us, inside and out. You know our challenges, our shortcomings, our failures, and yet, you love us still. Help us to look at our own lives with gentle honesty – and yet much love. Where we fall short, give us grace, give us compassion for ourselves, remind us of the need for forgiveness, but then O God, give us the courage and strength we need to seek solutions – not blame. We ask in the name of the One whose love for us never dies. Amen.

Praise and Gratitude

Praise and Gratitude

There is an old story about a Tailor who visits his Rabbi. The Tailor says “I have a problem with my prayers. If someone comes to me and says, ‘Mendel, you’re a wonderful tailor,’ that makes me feel good. I feel appreciated. I can go on feeling good for a whole week, even longer on the strength of one compliment like that. But if people came to me every day, one after another, hour after hour, and kept saying to me ‘Mendel, you’re a wonderful tailor,’ over and over again it would drive me crazy. It would soon get to the point where I wouldn’t want to listen to them anymore. I would tell them to go away and let me do my work in peace. This is what bothers me about prayer. It seems to me that if we told God how wonderful He is once a week, even once every few weeks, and just one or two of us at a time, that’s all God would need. Is God so insecure that He needs us to praise him every day? Three times a day, morning, noon, and night? It seems to me it would drive God crazy.”

The Rabbi smiled and said, “Mendel, you’re absolutely right. You have no idea how hard it is for God to listen to all of our praises, hour after hour, day after day.  But God knows how important it is for us to utter that praise, so in his great love for us, God is willing to tolerate it.”

There is something indeed about speaking praise and naming that for which we are thankful that changes our perspective. Gratitude always gives us a glimpse of the bigger picture. And, our prayers open our hearts to God and to others.

Let us pray: We do praise you, O God, for your creative power, mercy, and undying love. Thank you for the many blessings that flow into our lives every day. May we never fail to notice and may we never forget to give thanks. Amen.

He Wants to Love and Care for You

He Wants to Love and Care for You

Over the past couple of days, we’ve reflected on a passage in the Gospel of John (12:1-8) where Mary anoints Jesus’ feet with oil.

I remember a couple of years ago, near the very end of the day, I was just about to head out to go home, and a woman walked in the church. She looks down and out… And as she peeks her head in, she asks if she can sit in the sanctuary and pray.  It was the end of the day, and I was feeling kind of anxious and ready to go, but I said, “Sure go ahead.” And I thought: Well I’ll knock out a few more things.  So I went back in the study.  

But she’s in there a long time, and I’m starting to wonder, should I go in there and check on her? Should I see if she needs any help? Should I just let her be? 

I was feeling kind of anxious because that morning, on my way into church, I got a phone call from one of my daughters. I don’t even remember what it was now, but there was clearly distress on the other end.  You probably know that kind of phone call… when there is not much you can do but listen… And worry! 

So, it’s kind of a bad day. And now I’m feeling anxious, ready to go.

But just a few moments later, she comes out, and I ask if I can help her with anything. She said, “Yeah. Can you help me with some groceries or some food?” I handed her a grocery gift gift card, and I asked if I could pray for her.  

When I finished the prayer, she looked at me and said, “Thank you, Pastor. Can I pray for you?” I was a little caught off guard, but I said sure.  She put her hand on my shoulder, and it was the most beautiful heartfelt prayer…I could feel this sense of peace coming over me as she prayed. Then she said, “Pastor, you look tired. Get some rest.” And then she left…

Do you know that feeling when someone has seen you – and cared?  It feels pretty good. Even still, I don’t know about you, but I find it much easier to be the one who takes care of others. For some of us – it’s easier to be on the giving side than the receiving side. Sometimes it’s hard to allow other people to care for us, or – even harder to ask for help when we need it. 

I think again about this passage. Jesus, the One who saves us, Jesus, the One who heals us, Jesus, the One who goes to the cross for us – allows his friend to love and care for him.  I’m reminded: He wants to love and care for us. And sometimes he is going to use other people to do it.  We just have to be willing to let him.

Let us pray: Gracious God, give us eyes to see the need of the person right in front of us. But also help us to be the kind of people who are not too proud to ask for help… and who allow others to care for us. And as we do, may we experience your deeper love – the love of Christ himself.  Amen.

One at a Time

One at a Time

Yesterday we reflected on a passage in the Gospel of John (12:1-8) where Mary anoints Jesus’ feet with oil.

Several years ago an elder in our church, Sharon Hartsell was in a High School auditorium for an end-of-year banquet. A student she was mentoring had won a Character Counts award. But what was unique about the situation was that this young woman was practically homeless. And you know, in that situation, it is a minor miracle that she would earn an award like this. It was a big deal. 

When they called each student on stage to receive their award, they were allowed to have a parent or grandparent up with them, someone who had inspired them.  When this young woman was called to come up, she stood at the podium and said, I didn’t have a parent to bring with me, so I invited my mentor Miss Sharon. She’s made all the difference. 

As they were walking off the stage together, the Superintendent of Schools, touched Sharon on the arm and leaned over and whispered, “We save one at a time…” We save one at a time.

Writing about this passage, author and scholar Ronald Rolheiser says: “Any one of us who visits a sick or (hurting) person, regardless of how inadequate and stuttering our actual words might be, anoints that person, just as a priest does in the sacrament of the sick. To touch a sick person’s hand or to speak words of affection or consolation to a (person in need), in its own way, does what Mary did for Jesus.

Who’s standing in front of you in this given moment? The aging parent with increasing needs… a troubled teenager… the struggling coworker… the grieving neighbor, the woman in the grocery store line speaking a language you don’t understand…

Sometimes it can be as simple as eye contact and a smile. Sometimes it’s simply anointing someone with your presence, and your attention. Sometimes a few simple words are all that’s needed: How are you, really? Tell me more. How can I be praying for you? 

It is true, what the superintendent said: We save one a time.  

Let us pray: Gracious God, give us eyes to see the need of the person right in front of us – perhaps even as close as our own kitchen table. May we care as you care; in Jesus’ name. Amen.