Unconditional Love

In one of his sermons, Rev. King Duncan tells the story of a child psychologist and a boy who was brought in to see him. The boy had been labeled “incorrigible.” He was moody, and at first, wouldn’t even talk to the psychologist. His own father said, “This is the only child I’ve ever seen who doesn’t have a single likable trait, not a single one.” 

Being wise, the psychologist realized this was his starting point. He started looking for some one thing he could approve and found several. The boy liked to carve and he did it well. At home, he had carved up the furniture and been punished for it. The psychologist bought him a carving set, a set of carving knives, and some soft wood. He also didn’t hold back his approval. “You know, Jimmy,” he said, “you can carve out things better than anybody I ever knew.” 

The psychologist soon found other things he could approve of, and one day Jimmy surprised everyone by cleaning up his own room without being asked. When the psychologist asked him why he did it, Jimmy answered, “I thought you would like that.” 

Duncan made the astute point that: “Acceptance changes lives. You and I have seen it happen in other situations with adults as well as young people. This is the strength of groups like Alcoholics Anonymous and other support groups. When people feel accepted, they find the power to change”.

This was a huge piece of Jesus’ ministry. He accepted people just as they were and he changed their lives. He still accepts and loves people just as they are – people like you and people like me. And, he calls us to love and accept others. By doing so, we too change lives.

Let us pray: Gracious God, thank you for your unconditional love and grace. We pray today for those who are feeling down or discouraged, tired or depressed, marginalized or labeled. We lift up our sisters and brothers who struggle with self-image or self-confidence. We pray for all those who serve you but who are wondering whether they can summon any more strength or energy to get through this next day. Remind each of us again today that we are your children – accepted, forgiven, and loved; through Jesus Christ. Amen.