People Need People

Some years ago in the devotional Bits and Pieces, William Schultz wrote about a time when his daughter Laurie was about three.  One night she called to him, “Daddy, can you help me get on my pajamas?” He was downstairs and she was upstairs. “Laurie, you know how to dress yourself,” he reminded her. “Yes,” she explained, “but sometimes people need people anyway, even if they do know how to do things by themselves.”

Oh, the insight of a three year old! Yes, it is good to be able to take care of ourselves. It is important to enjoy our own company and be able to do things alone. However, in life we do need other people. Even when we can do it on our own, sometimes it is important to reach out to ask for help, or to invite others along, simply for the companionship.

I pray today that you would ask for help or companionship when you need it. In these pandemic times, that may look different than it has in the past. But remember, most people like to be needed.

Let us pray: Loving God, we remember that you created us to be in relationship with others, and that it is not good for us to be alone all the time. I pray today for those who feel lonely. Give them the grace and courage they need to reach out to others. And, may they know your presence and love even now.

I pray also for those who may need some time apart. Grant them the grace and courage they need to carve out time spent alone with you. Fill each of us with your Spirit that we would be instruments of your love. Amen.